ladies hows your libido??
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Age: 29
Kids: None but I really want some so badly!!!
My Activity Level: I exercise 5 days a week 2-3 hours
My Sex Drive: I want it all the time since I have started loosing weight but my problem is is that I can't find no guy around here that wants it. I have no bf :-(0 -
what is your age? 32
do you have kids? 2 kids (13, 9 yo)
your activity level on an average day? SAHM of two self-sufficient kids - so lowish aside from lifting
your sex drive? Insatiable - especially since I got OFF of BC and started lifting. I feel 18 again.
I don't have kids, but otherwise, the story sounds similar to mine. I'm 30 and getting off the pill has done wonders for me. I think that's actually how it works. You don't have kids because you don't want to have sex!
I also find that exercise increases my libido. Now by getting off the pill, starting to work out and turning 30 all around the same time, you can imagine what this did to me! I agree that I feel like I'm 18 again, except an 18 year old female gets hit on all day long and a 30 year old female is more likely to get ignored all day long. It was starting to wear on me, but then this weekend, I heard my hubs and his friends talking about how they can't keep up with their women. Then, I realized it was normal, and I felt better about the situation.
Yes, I want it. And if I'm really nice, I can still get it.
BC pills KILL your libido!!!!! Some are worse than others. But ....what do you ladies do once you get off the pill? ya know for controlling births lol. Just curious...0 -
im curious.. so here is the question.
what is your age?
do you have kids?
your activity level on an average day?
your sex drive? none, moderate, normal, big, insatiable
26
4 sons 2,3,6.9
im active most of the day esp as they haven't been at school 4 months
it varys greatly0 -
What is your age? 47
Do you have kids? Yep...one 27 year old son, living in another state.
Your activity level on an average day? Pretty active...exercise at least 4-5x per week. Zumba, Bicycling, kayaking, walking, etc.
Your sex drive? Been married to the same insanely sexy guy for nearly 28 years and am ready at the drop of a hat. Or the soap, or whatever. He travels a lot so sometimes it's just me but we Skype and Sext and everything else we can do to make up for lost time. Solo or together.
I'm under the impression a LOT of guys are intimidated by having to initiate the act of which we speak (I guess I can say "sex" since that's in the OP question...) My husband loves to have me jump his bones on occasion and I try hard to make sure it's 50/50 initiating the deed(s). I think we're good.
Fluctuating hormones can be a huge factor in the many answers to this question...some are saying "it depends" or "it varies" and that's why. Lots of things factor in...moods, intimacy levels during the day, physical attraction, daily activities and stress are huge...just don't beat yourselves up if you're not into it every minute...he's not either.
^^ this makes me smile. it is so refreshing to see that couples like you and your hubby exist. it gives me hope.
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what is your age? 22
do you have kids? No.
your activity level on an average day? I try to do at least 15 min of some kind of exercise six days a week.
your sex drive? none, moderate, normal, big, insatiable. It used to be fairly high and now it's just gone. It's so gone that i was offered to be massaged (nothing sexual at all) and i had no desire to be touched in any way. I find the guy who offered to be very cute and still nothing. I think there might be a problem with my bc pill or it could have something to do with me and my ex talking about getting back together and it fell through. I feel like i have given up on guys/sex.0 -
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Love this Thread! I really want my wife right now!
Sorry to hear about the ladies with zero drive. I know it's not your fault some women are just built like that sadly. I feel sorry for your guys. :frown:0 -
The ladies here make me feel I am not with the right person or my partner needs to learn from here!
I vote for #1
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what is your age? 39
do you have kids? yes a 17 year old
your activity level on an average day? I have ADHD and can't stop moving so I am over active
your sex drive? insatiable- sometimes I think I was meant to me a man it is all I want all day every day!0 -
I was thinking I was not normal having such a high sex drive but it seem this forum is full of horny women of all ages.
Isnt it great that in today's day and age women can be open and honest in our sexuality.
now excuse me... I think I'll go bug hubby and see if I get lucky 0 -
19.
Not yet.
0. Broke up with my ex in April :grumble:
Freakin' insatiable.
Edit; wait, activity level as in exercise or...?0 -
what is your age? 32
do you have kids? newp
your activity level on an average day? very very active
your sex drive? Im going to get arrested. I have dirty dirty dirty dreams, I wake up horny as hell, go to bed physically needing it, if I go more than a week without it - i start to get over-sensitive emotionally and my coping skills start slightly suffering, by three weeks I cant focus at work, im restless and cant sleep and after a month, im pretty sure I'll rape someone. Some days Its ALL I think about. Im like a 16 year old boy. I have to take care of myself far more often than I can admit on the internet.
i'm 38 now, but went through the exact same thing at around 32! my husband actually suggested i see someone to figure out what was "wrong" with me!!
when I was 25, I asked my ex, after he told someone that he'd never met a girl that actually wanted it twice a day, Baby what are you gonna do when I hit my thirties and my sexual peak?
"Hire someone."
That's too funny! I keep telling my man I am gonna hire someone for him. He is the one who can't get enough...seriously. He gets it twice a day most days but would be happier with more. There is no keeping up with him even if I wanted to. I often wonder if its because I never get the chance to want it. Before I can even begin to think about it, he is attacking me.
I am 27, have one 2 year old boy, have a desk job and am semi active as far as exercise goes, but don't usually sit down once I get home unless I am eating dinner or going to bed. Obviously, my sex drive is low to non-existent at the moment
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This is too funny. It's been a long time since I've seen so many "fibbers" all in one place. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
It's barely one cut above a/s/l.0 -
what is your age? 45
do you have kids? yes 3
your activity level on an average day? usually very active
your sex drive? big for sure.. however.. my husband has absolutely no interest... 0 -
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Love this Thread! I really want my wife right now!
Sorry to hear about the ladies with zero drive. I know it's not your fault some women are just built like that sadly. I feel sorry for your guys. :frown:
yeah.. well, some of us.. would like to but have a so with no drive.. 0 -
im curious.. so here is the question.
what is your age?
do you have kids?
your activity level on an average day?
your sex drive? none, moderate, normal, big, insatiable
Age: 35
I have 4 boys
Very active
Insatiable sex drive (More than my husband's)0 -
I'm 40
kids: 19 month old and 1 20 year old
I work out everyday
My drive is high if I'm alone with batteries and low if I'm offered the same ol thing. :-)0 -
I'm 21
Child-free!
Moderately active at work (doctor's office, no EMR )
Sex drive is usually fair. Increases with exercise and music...it's been pretty insatiable since I saw Magic Mike though!0 -
i cant wait to see that!! omg that will give me the boost i needd!I'm 21
Child-free!
Moderately active at work (doctor's office, no EMR )
Sex drive is usually fair. Increases with exercise and music...it's been pretty insatiable since I saw Magic Mike though!0 -
what is your age? 45
do you have kids? yes 3
your activity level on an average day? usually very active
your sex drive? big for sure.. however.. my husband has absolutely no interest...
Feeling your pain. I have to beg my wife basically, and as I train harder I stay.....harder0 -
I'm glad I'm not the only one in this situation.0
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How you doin'!???? :laugh:Lol!
Im sorry! I can't help myself!
I DON'T HAVE AN OFF SWITCH! Owoooooo!!!0 -
what is your age? 45
do you have kids? yes 3
your activity level on an average day? usually very active
your sex drive? big for sure.. however.. my husband has absolutely no interest...
Feeling your pain. I have to beg my wife basically, and as I train harder I stay.....harder
Yep...same here.
36, 2 kids, moderately active (I have a sit-down job), and I used to be able to go the entire day. Literally. Now I only want it every other day or once a week. My husband, however, hasn't given me any in over 4 1/2 years now. No, there's nothing physically wrong with him. :explode:0 -
So after reading these threads, I cannot help but wonder what the hell is wrong in this country. There are way to many women on this site who are not getting what they need.
A) do the men know how much we want sex
do the women who do not want it, understand that will be a huge problem in time
C) how long are indiviudals suppose to go with little or no sex from their spouse
D) if your spouse or SO doesn't take care of it, I am thinking in time that forces someone else to take care of it.
E) what do you do if your spouse is not capable for whatever reason: then what
I see this topic as a big problem because I have to wonder how we got here. And yes, I understand all the normal things about life but lack of sex interfers with many aspects of a happy home which then effects everyone in your house, including your children.0 -
So after reading these threads, I cannot help but wonder what the hell is wrong in this country. There are way to many women on this site who are not getting what they need.
A) do the men know how much we want sex do the women who do not want it, understand that will be a huge problem in time
C) how long are indiviudals suppose to go with little or no sex from their spouse
D) if your spouse or SO doesn't take care of it, I am thinking in time that forces someone else to take care of it.
E) what do you do if your spouse is not capable for whatever reason: then what
I see this topic as a big problem because I have to wonder how we got here. And yes, I understand all the normal things about life but lack of sex interfers with many aspects of a happy home which then effects everyone in your house, including your children.
My hubby KNOWS how much more I want it compared to him. one time I basically got down and BEGGED him for it and all he said was I need to learn to do it myself!! I was soooo upset.
there is nothing much wrong with him and apart from the sex we have a loving affectionate relationship, He just doesnt need it that much, just a few time a year whereas i want a few times a day..or week i would even put up with0 -
OP, I think at your age (24, right?) you should expect your drive to be uneven. Many women your age have very little drive at all without motivation from an outside source. I wouldn't worry about it. Just let your BF know you have these peaks and valleys and he should be ready to serve you at a moments notice. 0
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Twiz, if you don't mind me asking, is your husband exercising regularly? As we get older, we guys start losing our sex drive while you ladies start ramping up. once you all hit your mid 30s you start acting the way we did when we were 16. And you may not feel that reduce until your 50s (or 60s). Part of a loving relationship is intimacy. Your husband needs to step up to the plate and fill your sexual needs more often. If he is exercising his libido should be increased...0
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1. 53
2. No kids
3. Exercise 5x week
4. Insatiable! Partner is 37 and VERY healthy :-)0 -
Twiz, if you don't mind me asking, is your husband exercising regularly? As we get older, we guys start losing our sex drive while you ladies start ramping up. once you all hit your mid 30s you start acting the way we did when we were 16. And you may not feel that reduce until your 50s (or 60s). Part of a loving relationship is intimacy. Your husband needs to step up to the plate and fill your sexual needs more often. If he is exercising his libido should be increased...
Just after I posted hubby went to the doc's just for a routine visit. Had his blood pressure checked and it was through the roof. The doctor was so concerned, gave him a pill on the spot and said he was a candidate for a heart attack or stroke without warning.
Like me he has a sit down most of the time office job and apart from cutting the grass and odd jobs around the house he does no structured exercise, is overweight and consumes way too much salt.
I have been a bit worried about his eating habits and exercise levels for a while and have tried to encourage him on a better path and more so since i have been cleaning up my own act so this is a big warning to him and I hope he takes to the challenge.
It may very well be why he has been less and less "virile" shall we say over the last few years.0 -
what is your age? 32
do you have kids? yes
your activity level on an average day? desk job and house cleaning, so moderate
your sex drive? none, moderate, normal, big, insatiable - Insatiable!0
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