Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))
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rungirl1973 wrote: »I confess I still don't know how people who don't wash their hair do it... How do you get rid of the sweat?
Most days I just let it dry. When it's hot outside (coming soon!) and I run in the morning; I usually rinse it out and use conditioner on non-wash days. This morning, it was raining, so I had to do that or it would be humongous.
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Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
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gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.0 -
azulvioleta6 wrote: »gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.
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azulvioleta6 wrote: »gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.
Uggg, I hate signs and memes like that. Being messy doesn't prove that you have a life--it just proves that you are a slob.
I don't love my friends who are slobs any less because of it, but if you are an adult and you can't manage to keep your home in some kind of order, you have a problem.1 -
gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
I'm with you on that one. At the very least, if you're going to do a mirror selfie, clear the crap behind you out of the way so it doesn't show in the pic.
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getting a little judgmental in here
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azulvioleta6 wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.
Uggg, I hate signs and memes like that. Being messy doesn't prove that you have a life--it just proves that you are a slob.
I don't love my friends who are slobs any less because of it, but if you are an adult and you can't manage to keep your home in some kind of order, you have a problem.
Well, I just think it means I have different priorities.
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gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
I'm with you on that one. At the very least, if you're going to do a mirror selfie, clear the crap behind you out of the way so it doesn't show in the pic.
I'm not a total slob, but I'm not a neat freak either. If I take pictures, I always look at it before I post it, just in case something is in the background... Like no one needs to see the dozen (or more) liquor bottles that have collected in my kitchen
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Confession: I went clothes shopping today, with no intention of buying anything, just to enjoy trying on smaller sizes. I'm down about 20lbs, but the only new clothes I've bought so far was a new pair of jeans. I can't quite justify anything else yet. I even tried on professional wear, when I've been a stay at home mom for two years.
It was a totally great confidence booster, and I'm planning on doing it again next week. It's so nice to not feel loathing in the dressing room!0 -
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I used to belong to a cake forum (made wedding cakes. Yes, that was when I really piled on the weight) and I was always astonished how people would post pictures of beautiful cakes with dirty dishes and bags of flour behind them.gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
I'm with you on that one. At the very least, if you're going to do a mirror selfie, clear the crap behind you out of the way so it doesn't show in the pic.
I'm not a total slob, but I'm not a neat freak either. If I take pictures, I always look at it before I post it, just in case something is in the background... Like no one needs to see the dozen (or more) liquor bottles that have collected in my kitchen (only one or two are mine, I swear)
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azulvioleta6 wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.
Uggg, I hate signs and memes like that. Being messy doesn't prove that you have a life--it just proves that you are a slob.
I don't love my friends who are slobs any less because of it, but if you are an adult and you can't manage to keep your home in some kind of order, you have a problem.
Hmmmm, well. Yeah, maybe I do have a problem. Like, my parents are borderline hoarders, and no one ever modeled or taught me how to organize or keep a clean house. I had to teach myself, as an adult, to clean up after myself... and sometimes I just feel lazy. Or, sometimes my depression is so strong that I consider it an accomplishment that I wake up with my son every morning and feed him three meals. Or, maybe for me, my house that looks messy to you is actually a victory to me, because it is 20x cleaner than how I grew up. You are right, I have a problem.
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Haha my house is a mess. But you know what... I'm just sick of being the only one who bothers picking up. I have a husband, two kids, a cat and a dog. I just refuse to do it all alone.
So a mess it is. I keep the kitchen clean, but the rest... there's just absolutely no point. As soon as it's cleaned, it's a dumping ground again. F*** it.
So when my husband decides to invite people over, I get him to clean.0 -
I'm the opposite of a hoarder. I toss everything.
My husband does 100% of the cleaning, and I keep the clutter at bay. Before he came along (married 1 year), I paid a cleaning lady.
When my kids were little, my house was always a disaster. My son's bedroom and my daughter's apartment are both nightmares to this day. I just stay out of there, no judgment. I really don't care if anybody else's home is clean or not. They have to live there, I don't.1 -
I'm not sure if I should be offended or not...calling most people pigs is a pretty bold statement. I'm quite certain you just offended/judged more than half the people in this thread. Being a slob and being messy are two different things. My house is messy, but by no means is it dirty. Yeah, there's toys and paperwork and random clutter on the counters, but my floors are vaccumed/swept/mopped. My house is dusted...for the most part...okay not really, I hate dusting. My clothes are folded and clean and put in piles in the lanudry room. They just aren't put away in the drawers. My toilets and showers are scrubbed on a regular basis. The dishes and counter tops are clean. Okay, I'm leaning towards being offended. I'm not a pig and I'm sure many of the people here aren't either...I guess I'm just half lazy.1
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sherbear702 wrote: »I'm not sure if I should be offended or not...calling most people pigs is a pretty bold statement. I'm quite certain you just offended/judged more than half the people in this thread. Being a slob and being messy are two different things. My house is messy, but by no means is it dirty. Yeah, there's toys and paperwork and random clutter on the counters, but my floors are vaccumed/swept/mopped. My house is dusted...for the most part...okay not really, I hate dusting. My clothes are folded and clean and put in piles in the lanudry room. They just aren't put away in the drawers. My toilets and showers are scrubbed on a regular basis. The dishes and counter tops are clean. Okay, I'm leaning towards being offended. I'm not a pig and I'm sure many of the people here aren't either...I guess I'm just half lazy.
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I have 2 little kids and my house is generally a mess. Honestly, I clean about an hour a day, but as a full time grad student with a husband who works full time, I have to choose what to do and when. I don't give a *kitten* if someone thinks I'm a pig. I will choose spending time with my kids + studying + exercise over scrubbing walls. We clean up before people come over, but sometimes *kitten* just doesn't get done.
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I am horrifying at time management and spend waaayyy to much time on here...I'm like sucked into a vortex0
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Today a couple people walked around asking who brought in the mini cakes so they could thank them. But when I brought food in on Friday, not a single person said thank you. I know I shouldn't care, that's not why I brought the doughnuts, but still, not one person out of 16 says thanks or otherwise acknowledges them?
It was just something nice I was doing and I know I shouldn't be annoyed, but I am.0 -
azulvioleta6 wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.
Uggg, I hate signs and memes like that. Being messy doesn't prove that you have a life--it just proves that you are a slob.
I don't love my friends who are slobs any less because of it, but if you are an adult and you can't manage to keep your home in some kind of order, you have a problem.
Wooooooooooow... maybe YOU have a problem. A JUDGY problem. Having a messy house and BEING a messy person are two different things. Having kids definitely doesn't help, neither does having pets to clean up after. 3+ loads of laundry to fold. And don't give me that BS about "little at a time" believe me I do that. You're offensive.1 -
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azulvioleta6 wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.
Uggg, I hate signs and memes like that. Being messy doesn't prove that you have a life--it just proves that you are a slob.
I don't love my friends who are slobs any less because of it, but if you are an adult and you can't manage to keep your home in some kind of order, you have a problem.
Hmmmm, well. Yeah, maybe I do have a problem. Like, my parents are borderline hoarders, and no one ever modeled or taught me how to organize or keep a clean house. I had to teach myself, as an adult, to clean up after myself... and sometimes I just feel lazy. Or, sometimes my depression is so strong that I consider it an accomplishment that I wake up with my son every morning and feed him three meals. Or, maybe for me, my house that looks messy to you is actually a victory to me, because it is 20x cleaner than how I grew up. You are right, I have a problem.
Me too! My mom is mentally handicapped sooo... yeah me and my brother weren't taught the necessary skills to be super clean all the time. To this day my brother struggles to remind himself to brush his teeth (alarms, sticky notes), he was never really told to.
I think people like you and me have come a long way from how we were raised. In fact, it terrifies my husband so much to have another child, because he grew up similarly and finds it REALLY hard to get the drive to keep things decent, though our son has definitely helped us both learn to keep things in order. It's a victory for us to say there are no more clothes to wash or dishes to do, even if it takes me forever to fold our laundry.
The trash goes out, we don't leave food around. We're trying to instill better habits in our son, and it's definitely helping us become better house keepers!0 -
I'm devastated that the "don't be afraid of fast food" thread was closed. I was enjoying it! And it's my spring break!0
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ogmomma2012 wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »azulvioleta6 wrote: »gopgirl425 wrote: »Confession: I love the success stories on here and I am really inspired by the loss but I am shocked at how dirty people's homes are.
Most people are pigs.
Though I should talk--I have lint on the mirror in one of the photos in my profile.
Uggg, I hate signs and memes like that. Being messy doesn't prove that you have a life--it just proves that you are a slob.
I don't love my friends who are slobs any less because of it, but if you are an adult and you can't manage to keep your home in some kind of order, you have a problem.
Hmmmm, well. Yeah, maybe I do have a problem. Like, my parents are borderline hoarders, and no one ever modeled or taught me how to organize or keep a clean house. I had to teach myself, as an adult, to clean up after myself... and sometimes I just feel lazy. Or, sometimes my depression is so strong that I consider it an accomplishment that I wake up with my son every morning and feed him three meals. Or, maybe for me, my house that looks messy to you is actually a victory to me, because it is 20x cleaner than how I grew up. You are right, I have a problem.
Me too! My mom is mentally handicapped sooo... yeah me and my brother weren't taught the necessary skills to be super clean all the time. To this day my brother struggles to remind himself to brush his teeth (alarms, sticky notes), he was never really told to.
I think people like you and me have come a long way from how we were raised. In fact, it terrifies my husband so much to have another child, because he grew up similarly and finds it REALLY hard to get the drive to keep things decent, though our son has definitely helped us both learn to keep things in order. It's a victory for us to say there are no more clothes to wash or dishes to do, even if it takes me forever to fold our laundry.
The trash goes out, we don't leave food around. We're trying to instill better habits in our son, and it's definitely helping us become better house keepers!
I hope you are really proud of yourself, because it's awesome that you've been able to come so far. I definitely don't want my son to feel the same way about our house that I did about mine growing up. I don't keep my house 100% picked up 100% of the time, but sometimes I stop and pat myself on the back for providing a safe, sanitary, comfortable environment for my child.0 -
I'm devastated that the "don't be afraid of fast food" thread was closed. I was enjoying it! And it's my spring break!
Confession: I consider closed threads personal invitations to read them - I know something entertaining must have happened in it! Totally going to check out the fast food one now...0 -
BritDillinger wrote: »MaggieLoo79 wrote: »I wear spanx all the time. I never leave the house without something to keep my tummy held in.
Likewise. It drives my husband nuts because I will not leave the house without one on. So now I have a few that I will alternate between washing, wearing, et cetera.
I'm curious. Are all these the spanx brand, or do you just mean shapewear? Isn't spanx rather expensive? I like underwear with some suck in power, but don't want to shell out for spanx. And, isn't it a bit, ah, tight?
Go to zulily.com and check to see of they have the shapewear on sale. I have bought most of mine there and they are pretty cheap. Yue quality is good.0 -
I get uncomfortable when people say "you should use that website to find out your real bra size then go buy new bras!"
I don't have a lot of spare income. I can't afford to be buying a ton of new nice bras. I'm saving that for GW.0
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