Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))

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  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    amandaiams wrote: »
    Im battling a drinking problem (I really enjoy beer and wine) and am trying to wean off safely. With the holidays coming up, it's gonna suck *kitten*.

    I have decided to give up alcohol again fully. I seem to binge drink these days when I do drink. I no longer just have ever 1 or 2 I have the bottle. So no more for me.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    I wish I could hit a powerlifting comp. If that happens for me, total bonus!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    amandaiams wrote: »
    Im battling a drinking problem (I really enjoy beer and wine) and am trying to wean off safely. With the holidays coming up, it's gonna suck *kitten*.

    I have decided to give up alcohol again fully. I seem to binge drink these days when I do drink. I no longer just have ever 1 or 2 I have the bottle. So no more for me.

    Are we gonna streak? I'm willing to start up again Dec 26.
  • Domomallow
    Domomallow Posts: 87 Member
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    Awesome! Especially the painting! Wish I had any artistic talent, but nope.


    BFP?
  • kelly_c_77
    kelly_c_77 Posts: 5,658 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    Lately I have been hiding from the scale, with the super heavy lifts I've been doing I find that my weight is higher than what I had expected. I have some crazy anxiety over the whole weight gain thing so I stepped away for my own sanity.

    I've been scale-free for quite some time now, and it is wonderful!

    I need the accountability to the scale. Otherwise I convince myself I am not gaining weight. When I am. Even if I miss a few days.

    I've been very good about logging and working out. Totally honest with all of that so I know that I'm doing everything right. Obsessing over the scale was driving me crazy and pretty pointless. I'm much happier now. I get that some people need it though. Whatever works.
  • kelly_c_77
    kelly_c_77 Posts: 5,658 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Our anniversary is in one week! 15 years! <3

    Happy Anniversary to you and Mr. Susie!!

    Thanks Kelly! It's always super great to see you! And happy anniversary to you too!!! <3 Are you planning to go to Silly's to celebrate? :)

    We will go to silly's if they're open. They have stupid winter hours! :(

    Didnt you try last year and it was closed?

    It was closed for renovations on our wedding anniversary in September of this year. It was closed one or two other times when we tried to go..can't remember when though.
  • kelly_c_77
    kelly_c_77 Posts: 5,658 Member
    Good luck with quitting drinking, Patricia!

    Good night, Susie!

  • kelly_c_77
    kelly_c_77 Posts: 5,658 Member
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    That's awesome that you can play the ukulele!
  • Domomallow
    Domomallow Posts: 87 Member
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    Awesome! Especially the painting! Wish I had any artistic talent, but nope.


    BFP?

    Big Fat Positive. It's a term used often in forums for those trying to conceive. :)
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Domomallow wrote: »
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    Awesome! Especially the painting! Wish I had any artistic talent, but nope.


    BFP?

    Big Fat Positive. It's a term used often in forums for those trying to conceive. :)

    :o Then I absolutely hope that one happens!!!
  • Domomallow
    Domomallow Posts: 87 Member
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    That's awesome that you can play the ukulele!

    Haha, it would be awesome... if I could. :)
    I got a ukulele for Christmas last year... I have watched tutorials on youtube and have been trying. I'm not great but I'm learning... slowly but surely- much like losing weight. haha!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    crosbylee wrote: »
    Done with my last patient. Getting ready to book out of here for the evening. I am really glad to see so much activity today. It helps get me stirred up and headed in the right direction as far as getting my stuff together.

    Have a good night, LeeAnn. I'm out in about 45 minutes. Time for gym therapy!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    Lately I have been hiding from the scale, with the super heavy lifts I've been doing I find that my weight is higher than what I had expected. I have some crazy anxiety over the whole weight gain thing so I stepped away for my own sanity.

    I've been scale-free for quite some time now, and it is wonderful!

    I need the accountability to the scale. Otherwise I convince myself I am not gaining weight. When I am. Even if I miss a few days.

    I've been very good about logging and working out. Totally honest with all of that so I know that I'm doing everything right. Obsessing over the scale was driving me crazy and pretty pointless. I'm much happier now. I get that some people need it though. Whatever works.

    Well I've been good with logging but not working out! You have always done great and look fabulous, so no scale is clearly working for you!
  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
    Domomallow wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    That's awesome that you can play the ukulele!

    Haha, it would be awesome... if I could. :)
    I got a ukulele for Christmas last year... I have watched tutorials on youtube and have been trying. I'm not great but I'm learning... slowly but surely- much like losing weight. haha!

    I have an acoustic guitar I bought "for my daughter" but I secretly want to learn to play.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    amandaiams wrote: »
    Im battling a drinking problem (I really enjoy beer and wine) and am trying to wean off safely. With the holidays coming up, it's gonna suck *kitten*.

    I have decided to give up alcohol again fully. I seem to binge drink these days when I do drink. I no longer just have ever 1 or 2 I have the bottle. So no more for me.

    Are we gonna streak? I'm willing to start up again Dec 26.

    I have a headstart but yes! 12/26 it is!
  • Domomallow
    Domomallow Posts: 87 Member
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    Awesome! Especially the painting! Wish I had any artistic talent, but nope.


    BFP?

    I'll bet you could surprise yourself if you sat down and painted something. Abstract isn't right or wrong.. it's just expressing how you feel and moving paint around. :)
  • Domomallow
    Domomallow Posts: 87 Member
    crosbylee wrote: »
    Domomallow wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Domomallow wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    In the interest of page count, what are you considering for goals/resolutions in 2017?

    Here are mine:


    1. A 350 pound deadlift, at least. (Currently one rep max is 315.)
    2. Ten pull-ups in a row! (Can do six.)
    3. I paid off all my credit cards this morning!!! Goal is to keep them that way.
    4. Fit comfortably into my tightest pair of size 10 pants. Don't really care what the scale says.

    Goals
    • One power lifting competition with provincial qualifiers.
    • Learn conversational french (Basics!) - in progress, looking at signing up for a class as well.
    • Go sky diving
    • Do a ceremony (hippy things yall!)
    • Learn and use tarot cards - already in progress
    • Help win Letnick campaign - grow connections
    • Be more involved with community charities
    • Invest money wisely - LOOKING AT BUYING A CONDO!
    • Travel to one international place (US counts)

    New Year Resolutions for 2017

    Lose at least 60lbs and get under the 200lb mark
    Have regular periods
    Get a BFP
    Paint large abstract work for foyer (bought a new house, walls are bare)
    Master 'Island in the Sun' on Ukulele

    That's awesome that you can play the ukulele!

    Haha, it would be awesome... if I could. :)
    I got a ukulele for Christmas last year... I have watched tutorials on youtube and have been trying. I'm not great but I'm learning... slowly but surely- much like losing weight. haha!

    I have an acoustic guitar I bought "for my daughter" but I secretly want to learn to play.

    You totally should! Music is awesome, even when it's the beginning stages where you don't move your fingers quickly enough. :)
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    Can someone please explain to me the obsession with mesh in leggings right now?

    What I want to know is what's with the obsession with LEGGINGS right now? I had to shop for HOURS and in like four different malls just to find ONE pair of pants that weren't leggings in the stores here. :neutral:

    I only have one pair of leggings that are NOT for the gym, and wear them very rarely. All my other leggings are gym wear, and I wear them constantly (going to the gym, not for athleisure).

    Me too. Leggings are not an attractive look on me. But I wear them constantly at home. And yoga pants.
    I live in yoga pants at home if we don't have guests. When I leave the house, I wear jeans..then right back into my yoga pants when I get back home.

    Me too! So comfortable.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    We've added SEVEN pages in two hours. LOL

    That's obviously 'cause we're super great. Someone needs to get Mo back into the forums, she's missing the fun! Anyone know how to hack workplace forum blocks? :p

    Did I miss she got blocked?

    Her IT department blocked the MFP forums as social media. :( grumble, grumble

    I remember that but didn't realize it was permanent.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Domomallow wrote: »
    Confession: I think Christmas would be more enjoyable if nobody expected presents/gave presents.
    I think the whole gifting aspect of Christmas is so stressful that it ruins the holiday.

    I love giving gifts. I love buying things for people. I am sad that I have very few people to buy for any more.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    I confess that I'm really relieved that my call is over so I can finally go eat lunch because I'm starving.

    Your picture looks so much like one of the women who works for me. Dead ringer.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    @MoHousdon

    In case you check in after work...

    WE MISS YOU!!!

    Definitely!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    Can someone please explain to me the obsession with mesh in leggings right now?

    I do have a cute pair of leggings I bought with mesh. :)

    ETA for running. Purely decorative. It's layered on a colored section of cloth.

    I would be ok with that. I don't like actual see-through mesh panels. They don't seem functional for the gym, and I know there would be weird bulging.

    Yeah, I am not a mesh person directly on skin.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    I got a temporary crown on my tooth last Wednesday, and get the permanent one next Wednesday. But right now, my mouth freaking hurts and I just want it to STOP!

    Mine has been killing me for weeks. My last wisdom tooth is growing in and the whole area around it is swollen and inflamed and the gums around the tooth are now the creepiest shiny-white color. It got so bad a few weeks ago that I had to live on just smoothies. :neutral:

    Yuck. I had my wisdom teeth out before they ever came in. They had to cut my jawbone to get one out. That was some serious pain. I should quit crying about this crown, comparatively.

    ewww that sounds awful.
  • ivygirl1937
    ivygirl1937 Posts: 899 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    I confess that I'm really relieved that my call is over so I can finally go eat lunch because I'm starving.

    Your picture looks so much like one of the women who works for me. Dead ringer.

    Really? That's so funny! I'm not in NJ, so I'm fairly certain it's not me. :lol: Is she a nice lady?
  • kelly_c_77
    kelly_c_77 Posts: 5,658 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    Lately I have been hiding from the scale, with the super heavy lifts I've been doing I find that my weight is higher than what I had expected. I have some crazy anxiety over the whole weight gain thing so I stepped away for my own sanity.

    I've been scale-free for quite some time now, and it is wonderful!

    I need the accountability to the scale. Otherwise I convince myself I am not gaining weight. When I am. Even if I miss a few days.

    I've been very good about logging and working out. Totally honest with all of that so I know that I'm doing everything right. Obsessing over the scale was driving me crazy and pretty pointless. I'm much happier now. I get that some people need it though. Whatever works.

    Well I've been good with logging but not working out! You have always done great and look fabulous, so no scale is clearly working for you!

    Thanks, Patricia! That's really sweet of you!
    You're not still running? Or just not as much?
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    kelly_c_77 wrote: »
    MissKalhan wrote: »
    Lately I have been hiding from the scale, with the super heavy lifts I've been doing I find that my weight is higher than what I had expected. I have some crazy anxiety over the whole weight gain thing so I stepped away for my own sanity.

    I've been scale-free for quite some time now, and it is wonderful!

    I need the accountability to the scale. Otherwise I convince myself I am not gaining weight. When I am. Even if I miss a few days.

    I've been very good about logging and working out. Totally honest with all of that so I know that I'm doing everything right. Obsessing over the scale was driving me crazy and pretty pointless. I'm much happier now. I get that some people need it though. Whatever works.

    Well I've been good with logging but not working out! You have always done great and look fabulous, so no scale is clearly working for you!

    Thanks, Patricia! That's really sweet of you!
    You're not still running? Or just not as much?

    Barely. I have been hugely unmotivated. I have not even been riding during the week. My trainer and I have gotten into a bad habit. She texts me 'you coming tonight' and I reply, well if you don't want to wait and both horses are ridden I can skip. Then I go home, have a bath, go to bed. Then get up go to work, skip gym. I am a mess.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    I confess that I'm really relieved that my call is over so I can finally go eat lunch because I'm starving.

    Your picture looks so much like one of the women who works for me. Dead ringer.

    Really? That's so funny! I'm not in NJ, so I'm fairly certain it's not me. :lol: Is she a nice lady?

    Very nice and she is in TX.