Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))

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  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    Confession: I am on the verge of a meltdown. I don't even know what triggered it, but I feel like every word anyone says around me is a needle poking my skin. I am trying really hard to make myself stay at work, but I don't know if I actually can today.

    I've been lethally *kitten*y for about three days now. I don't know why. It's too early for PMS. I'm just in bite-your-head-off-for-anything-and-everything mode. :#

    This is autism. Pure and simple. And why I shouldn't really be anyone's boss. I am seriously considering asking my immediate manager if I can leave at 12 and come back at 5 to finish my day.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    edited May 2018
    Confession: I am on the verge of a meltdown. I don't even know what triggered it, but I feel like every word anyone says around me is a needle poking my skin. I am trying really hard to make myself stay at work, but I don't know if I actually can today.

    I've been lethally *kitten*y for about three days now. I don't know why. It's too early for PMS. I'm just in bite-your-head-off-for-anything-and-everything mode. :#

    This is autism. Pure and simple. And why I shouldn't really be anyone's boss. I am seriously considering asking my immediate manager if I can leave at 12 and come back at 5 to finish my day.

    I assume autism is covered under ADA? They have to make reasonable accommodations. That sounds reasonable to me.
  • fitoverfortymom
    fitoverfortymom Posts: 3,452 Member
    My stealing confession: When I was about 8-9, I stole some cute Garfield paperclips from a Hallmark store.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    @quiksylver296 apparently my manager agreed with you. I am home working through it. Literally. The only thing that helps is physical labor so I am handwashing my dishes and doing laundry. I have already taken a box of clothes to be donated too. I have one more sink of dishes to wash (I swear my offspring units leave them everywhere), but ti am waiting for what I have already washed to dry.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    @quiksylver296 apparently my manager agreed with you. I am home working through it. Literally. The only thing that helps is physical labor so I am handwashing my dishes and doing laundry. I have already taken a box of clothes to be donated too. I have one more sink of dishes to wash (I swear my offspring units leave them everywhere), but ti am waiting for what I have already washed to dry.

    Yay! I'm glad.
  • kellyjellybellyjelly
    kellyjellybellyjelly Posts: 9,480 Member
    Monday, Monday. My next meet is this Saturday! Woo hoo, I'm excited. It's gonna be fun.

    Confession to kick off our Monday: When I was about 8, I stole a Barbie doll dress from daycare. It's the first thing I remember stealing, but not the last. :#:o

    I stole a Snickers (I think it was a Snickers candy bar) when I was four from Giant. My mom found me with it in the car & made me take it back.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    I owe work another hour tomorrow. I remembered that I I had to pick up Isaac's ROTC uniform at the cleaners and they would have been closed if I had stayed until 7.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Confession: I have to travel for work and eat dinner/breakfast/lunch on the road. I'm worried about making weight Saturday. :# I should have packed my food, but I'm traveling with other people and that's super awkward. I hope I make good choices.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    Confession: I have to travel for work and eat dinner/breakfast/lunch on the road. I'm worried about making weight Saturday. :# I should have packed my food, but I'm traveling with other people and that's super awkward. I hope I make good choices.

    Eating while traveling is my worst nightmare. I have been asked to go to a conference in July where all meals will be provided. I emailed the host hotel about the meals, explaining that have both celiac and a deadly shellfish allergy. The food is buffet and gluten free foods are marked. I am not sure I am going to go. I am in trouble if someone puts a contaminated spoon in the GF food. I have a little while to decide. The person who answered my email did say that she would inform the kitchen staff that the menu needs to be shellfish free. That's better than I get a lot of the time.
  • fitoverfortymom
    fitoverfortymom Posts: 3,452 Member
    edited May 2018
    Confession: I have to travel for work and eat dinner/breakfast/lunch on the road. I'm worried about making weight Saturday. :# I should have packed my food, but I'm traveling with other people and that's super awkward. I hope I make good choices.

    Eating while traveling is my worst nightmare. I have been asked to go to a conference in July where all meals will be provided. I emailed the host hotel about the meals, explaining that have both celiac and a deadly shellfish allergy. The food is buffet and gluten free foods are marked. I am not sure I am going to go. I am in trouble if someone puts a contaminated spoon in the GF food. I have a little while to decide. The person who answered my email did say that she would inform the kitchen staff that the menu needs to be shellfish free. That's better than I get a lot of the time.

    My hubby is Celiac and travels for work a lot. In conference situations he will often ask if they will plate his lunch for him and explains how sensitive he is to cross contamination. Sometimes, he does bring his own food (which is hard at events that you have to travel to). He said it was awkward at first, but usually bumps into someone who brought food, too, for whatever reason. Sometimes he will subside on protein bars and fresh fruit and then have a decent dinner that he knows is safe. Stupid cross-contamination ruins everything.
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    We are probably the only couple in the history of weddings to be struggling to make up the numbers :unamused:
    I didn't realise it was so hard to find 60 people you like enough to invite to your wedding.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    We are probably the only couple in the history of weddings to be struggling to make up the numbers :unamused:
    I didn't realise it was so hard to find 60 people you like enough to invite to your wedding.

    That was me at my first wedding.

    Of course, I don't like people... ;)
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    We are probably the only couple in the history of weddings to be struggling to make up the numbers :unamused:
    I didn't realise it was so hard to find 60 people you like enough to invite to your wedding.

    That was me at my first wedding.

    Of course, I don't like people... ;)

    Turns out I'm the same! :lol:
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    Would be easier if you guys were in England. <3
  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
    I would fly in for it if I could!!
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    edited May 2018
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    We are probably the only couple in the history of weddings to be struggling to make up the numbers :unamused:
    I didn't realise it was so hard to find 60 people you like enough to invite to your wedding.

    I eloped. My parents could have found 60 people, but not me.

    ETA Ditto what LeeAnn said. :)
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    Hubby and I got married at a Jimmy Buffett concert. 30 guests--immediate family and friends in town. 19,000 people at our wedding reception/concert. We got tired of everyone having an opinion about our wedding but not ponying up the cash to pay for it, so we took drastic measures.

    Just celebrated our 14th wedding anniversary.

    That is a pretty amazing idea actually!!
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    A story to lead up to my Wednesday question:

    At Christmas I had to take the comfy gaming chair out of my living room to make room for the tree, so my boys got one of the 5 camp chairs that live in our SUV and used it instead. They have kept this chair in my living room ever since, apparently because it has cup holders.

    My husband takes the boys to school and then I drive them hither and yon at night. That's always been our deal. This means he drives the SUV to work and I drive either my truck or the Honda during the day. Last night, he was stuck at work and I had to take the 11 yo to soccer. So, I grabbed the camp chair from its spot in the corner and took it with me because I keep my camp chairs in the SUV.

    I get home and the first question is: "Mom, where did you put the chair?"
    "I left it in my car. You can have the key and go get it yourself."
    "why did you take it? It belongs in here."
    "Umm, it's a Coleman camp chair. I was going to an outdoor activity and needed a seat. One of us is wrong and it is not me."

    So my question for the day is, what normal thing have you done recently that someone (family or otherwise) has thought was wrong or odd?
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    Ooooh that's a tricky one! I'm going to have to think about that one.
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    edited May 2018
    Ok, group poll for wedding cake flavours, because I can't choose


    3 tiers, so pick 3 flavours

    Vanilla sponge
    Chocolate sponge
    Lemon Sponge
    Carrot Cake
    Rich chocolate cake (gooey apparently)
    Red Velvet
    Lavender Cake
    Coconut and Malibu
    Hazelnut Praline
    Peanut Butter
    Cappuccino
    Marble cake
    White Chocolate and Raspberries
    Tiramsu
    Chocolate and Baileys
    Chocolate Orange
    Mint Chocolate
    Salted Caramel and Chocolate
    Chocolate and Guiness


    Who needs that much choice for cake flavours?!
  • fitoverfortymom
    fitoverfortymom Posts: 3,452 Member
    The only correct cake flavor for weddings is chocolate.
  • fitoverfortymom
    fitoverfortymom Posts: 3,452 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    Hubby and I got married at a Jimmy Buffett concert. 30 guests--immediate family and friends in town. 19,000 people at our wedding reception/concert. We got tired of everyone having an opinion about our wedding but not ponying up the cash to pay for it, so we took drastic measures.

    Just celebrated our 14th wedding anniversary.

    That is a pretty amazing idea actually!!

    It was really quite lovely. We had the press box during the concert, so all our guests could attend, too. Menu was cheeseburgers and fries.
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    The only correct cake flavor for weddings is chocolate.

    Ha ha for all three tiers.

    Chocolate sponge
    rich chocolate cake
    chocolate and baileys
  • fitoverfortymom
    fitoverfortymom Posts: 3,452 Member
    edited May 2018
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    The only correct cake flavor for weddings is chocolate.

    Ha ha for all three tiers.

    Chocolate sponge
    rich chocolate cake
    chocolate and baileys

    I'm not a fan of baileys. I'd probably go vanilla, chocolate, marble, but I am SUPER boring when it comes to stuff like that. I like all kinds of cake, but I guess if I'm a wedding guess, I'd expect something...expected.
  • Lois_1989
    Lois_1989 Posts: 6,410 Member
    Hmmmm. I keep thinking lemon, white choc and raspberries and some kind of chocolate flavour. But then what about peanut butter, would enough people want peanut butter. Red velvet? I personally love tiramisu, I could continuously eat tiramisu until I'm sick, but as a wedding cake? :# or mint chocolate? mmmmm mint chocolate.

    It's too difficult.
  • fitoverfortymom
    fitoverfortymom Posts: 3,452 Member
    mint chocolate is good. very good. i like mint chocolate.

    i think you need a large sampler tray of all those cakes to help you decide.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    Ok, group poll for wedding cake flavours, because I can't choose


    3 tiers, so pick 3 flavours

    Vanilla sponge
    Chocolate sponge
    Lemon Sponge
    Carrot Cake
    Rich chocolate cake (gooey apparently)
    Red Velvet
    Lavender Cake
    Coconut and Malibu
    Hazelnut Praline
    Peanut Butter
    Cappuccino
    Marble cake
    White Chocolate and Raspberries
    Tiramsu
    Chocolate and Baileys
    Chocolate Orange
    Mint Chocolate
    Salted Caramel and Chocolate
    Chocolate and Guiness


    Who needs that much choice for cake flavours?!

    Gooey chocolate for the bottom, peanut butter for the middle and chocolate and Guinness for the top. :)
  • clicketykeys
    clicketykeys Posts: 6,577 Member
    So my question for the day is, what normal thing have you done recently that someone (family or otherwise) has thought was wrong or odd?

    Getting up at 5 in the freaking morning to exercise. Even *I* think it's odd and wrong XD but I do it often enough that it's normal. *sigh*
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    So my question for the day is, what normal thing have you done recently that someone (family or otherwise) has thought was wrong or odd?

    Getting up at 5 in the freaking morning to exercise. Even *I* think it's odd and wrong XD but I do it often enough that it's normal. *sigh*

    I get up at 5 to be at work at 7, so yes that's a normal time to rise and shine. :)