What nobody tells you about losing weight
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That sometimes it just doesn't make sense! My partner (also logging here) occasionally likes to wolf down a packet of huge triple chocolate cookies as a treat. At 1200 calories a pack on top of his lunch and dinner it puts him over his maintenance, but WITHOUT FAIL he has always lost weight the next morning! It's got to the point where 'magic cookies' has become a running joke with us. Seriously, he dropped 0.8 lbs this morning (he weighs daily). It's not like he goes over his calories too often so maybe the occasional cookie binge is triggering a whoosh or something - it's so funny (and I am pretty jealous).
Also, nobody told me that doing C25K would turn me into someone who craves a run on rest days. WHO AM I?!
I do the same thing with mudslides... So tasty, and they run ~800-1000 calories.0 -
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Angelfire365 wrote: »
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How when you hit your goal weight you don't magically have a perfect bikini body, WHERE ARE THE UNICORNS I EXPECTED??????16
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How often I look at my knuckles (hahaha)
How tiny I feel next to be 6'2 muscular boyfriend
& same as most , the confidence ❤️❤️❤️0 -
SingRunTing wrote: »Serious for a second:
- Realizing that it wasn't my weight that was making me unhappy. There was something broken in my head. Once I fixed that, I was able to start losing the weight. I had to learn to love myself so that I could lose weight, instead of losing weight so that I could love myself..
This is so important! Valuing myself! Telling myself it's O.K. to put myself first. Reminding me that I am worth the effort! Not giving up or giving in! Once you know this is the path you really want to follow, it's easier to keep taking the steps toward weight loss. Above all else, being honest with yourself. Not blaming others when you eat off plan. Not dwelling so long on one mistake that you never get back on plan! Log it honestly, move on and make up for it tomorrow by sticking to plan. The sense of well-being you get when you really stick with it! That sense of accomplishment when the scale does move down.8 -
How great it feels to buy cloths you actually want to wear.. And have a selection to choose from, rather then what "fits".7
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These posts are awesome! Thank you all sharing! I would really love to be able to use again clothes I have been saving because every time I get them out I say to myself, this is sooo cute, I just need to lose a few pounds and I can fit it again!
I am hoping I can do that this time around and feel like a confident hottie!2 -
lilaclovebird wrote: »I've started going back to school. One class at a time, but this started one pound at a time so here we go!
Way to go! What are you studying?
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dramaqueen45 wrote: »Thrift store 10 is going to be department store 6 or thereabouts- vanity sizing!
Ayup. When I was in high school, at enforced-on-pain-of-maternal-hissy-fits 125 pounds, I wore size 12 pants. Now, at 145, I'm wearing 10s and even 8s. <eyeroll>0 -
I've got a painful blister on my foot from walking / running so much! I think it's time for me to treat myself to some new properly-fitted trainers!
By all means! After managing four times around the block running, I'm thinking that at some point (but probably not soon) I may be running enough to need *running* shoes!0 -
How much easier a towel stays wrapped around your waist when you get out of the shower!4
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That I'd be so tickled at touching my toes in the shower that I'd come out and show The Man In My Life.
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I think I notice the cold more but still worth it. I lost my original engagement ring, always get asked if I'm loosing weight more than anything else(main convo) but there is so many good things like I don't chafe as much anymore. I like the mention of the handicap stall I now feel like I don't need it anymore cause I can fit better through the door now. Nice to see others thinking of that too.1
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When you meet people who never knew the "Fat" version then they assume you don't have to worry about what you eat and that you are blessed with a high metabolism6
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myssjaxson wrote: »How when you hit your goal weight you don't magically have a perfect bikini body, WHERE ARE THE UNICORNS I EXPECTED??????
Very true lol minus the bikini body part. Just gotta keep working on yourself and make it a lifelong journey ya know?2 -
HappyCampr1 wrote: »That discovering you have Raynaud's Phenomenon (Syndrome) is not uncommon in people who've lost a lot of weight. Everybody mentions being cold, but apparently being obese (and warmer) just masks the Raynaud's for many people. Once you lose the weight and Raynaud's becomes apparent (it's really hard to miss when your fingers turn deadly white due to lack of blood flow), it's very disconcerting. It also warrants a trip to the doctor to make sure it's not just a symptom of other issues.
I guess the fact that I never felt overly warm even being second category obese should have given me a clue.
Same here! I have had Raynaud's ever since I lost big. Thought it was just me!
Also, I walked into a store once after losing 80 pounds, and the girl there said "Oh! Our spring collection is really made for people like you." It made me never want to go back to the way I was.
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Hello, I don't quite have the success story yet but I read this post and love the comments. I wish to congradulate all that have found the right path for them. MFP works and I know it, however, I don't stick to it for the time the process needs. Many of you post about it being easier finally and you found determination or similar statements. My question is how/what clicked to change for you guys because that is what I am trying to find at the moment.3
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lemonsurprise wrote: »Wanted to make this thread for motivationial purposes more than anything but they don't all have to be super positive! More of what came as a surprise. I'll start..
- how much confidence it will actually bring, especially when strangers start treating you like royalty all of a sudden!
- Sitting (particularly in baths) and laying (particularly in beds) will become ever increasingly uncomfortable.
- how vain you will become! I can't walk past a mirror without checking how I look nowadays!
Your turn!
Yes yes and yes. And if you cook your own food to be more accurate, I summed it up once as: planning, shopping, chopping, slicing, dicing, cutting, peeling, weighing, cooking
I so agree with how much of the mind cycles and time are consumed in the process and making sure that it continues to work!1 -
trailgirl777 wrote: »Hello, I don't quite have the success story yet but I read this post and love the comments. I wish to congradulate all that have found the right path for them. MFP works and I know it, however, I don't stick to it for the time the process needs. Many of you post about it being easier finally and you found determination or similar statements. My question is how/what clicked to change for you guys because that is what I am trying to find at the moment.
I knew I needed to change my lifestyle permanently when last April, I went on a trip with my mom for my birthday and I was in pain pinched on narrow exit row seats that had a sharp corner digging into my thigh! I like to travel a lot and not fitting in the seat was a shocking wake up call. I had to extend the seatbelt strap all the way too. I just HAD to change permanently! I got a Garmin Vivofit that I started using May 1 and mid May, I discovered MFP, other tools and have been learning and adding more and more as I could handle the changes. It had to be a new lifestyle. I have lost 77 lbs so far, 48 to go! I now live working out and eating healthy!
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trailgirl777 wrote: »Hello, I don't quite have the success story yet but I read this post and love the comments. I wish to congradulate all that have found the right path for them. MFP works and I know it, however, I don't stick to it for the time the process needs. Many of you post about it being easier finally and you found determination or similar statements. My question is how/what clicked to change for you guys because that is what I am trying to find at the moment.
I think you have to hit your "bottom." Ten years ago it was standing on the scale and being 140 pounds. (I'm 5'1" and I was 110 naturally without effort while in living in the Czech Republic.) I set my goal to lose 30 and did. But that was a constant diet in Missouri. So after 10 years, I had gained it back, and more. So that was my next wake-up call this last April. I'm 43 and I weight 147.4. Yikes. Way too close to 150. So this time I set a goal that was more doable: 125. I logged here almost every day. I gave myself 1 day off a month (no worries on going over on that day) and kept my calorie budget as tightly as I could. I got a Fitbit and started really walking. I want to reach my 10K goal on that every day, which is a challenge on a winter weekend in my little house.
So, what is your wake-up call? What it is that says, enough! I didn't like buying size 10 clothes when I knew I was really a size 6. So it was great getting down to where I could wear most of my closet again! Is it the number on the scale, like it was for me? Is it seeing yourself in pictures and thinking "I look wide." I didn't like that.
Or maybe set some sub-goals and stick with it long enough to reach the first. Like one dress-size lost. Then put on those one-size down clothes! When I finally put on my new new formal, I was so happy! I got lots of comments on it at the opera, too. At 126, I couldn't wear it. At 123, I could! I like the way I look now, mostly. I don't look wide in photos. People comment on my skinniness (and I'm not even 110, but more like 118.). Let those feelings help you stay motivated to keep it up! (Wait, didn't I say my goal was 125? It was. To maintain, I kept my 1500 calories per day budget. I can live on it without feeling deprived. This is where it has taken me. Still losing but way, way slower. And I'm good with where I am if I stopped losing altogether at that point. 118-119 is a nice spot!)
Make friends here who can cheer you on and encourage you.4 -
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I can relate to this. People often tell me how I am so lucky. I have a great saying for this " I know it's crazy isn't it? The harder I work the luckier I get" [/quote]
Love this, Definitely going to use it!
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That's funny. I live in AZ and I work inside so I rarely ever wore a jacket. Now I wear one every morning.0 -
I started my own MFP journey almost 90lbs ago & have found this thread to be not only encouraging but on those days I don’t think I can keep going, it’s probably the only reason I do. Please keep your posts coming.
Side effects for me are both positive and, well, unexpected. Collar bones, ribs and a spine? Who would have thought! Extreme cold, a new love of fashion and shopping, and realising reflective surfaces can be very distracting. I love working out & get super cranky if I miss a day, and I have found a new appreciation for just how many calories foods actually contain.
The biggest thing I’ve encountered is the reaction, or non-reaction, of others. Mostly positive, sometimes negative, and often nothing at all. Positive feedback is great because I generally don’t see myself as others see me but I’m pretty sure I look much better now. I’m not keen on the negative stuff – don’t tell me when I should stop losing weight, I don’t seem to recall telling you that you’re obese. And as for those who choose to say nothing, I guess until you’ve walked a mile in my shoes, then you’ll never understand that sometimes that’s the worst one of all.
Every day is a battle which I know each and every MFP user understands. We are all in this together, and it makes me so happy knowing there are others out there who are also striving to make a change for the better. Congratulations to us all for having the will power to start, the strength to continue, and the courage to share with others xx
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I don't know that I've ever posted on here, but I read this thread almost every night - thanks to all of you for helping to keep me motivated!! I love and agree with everything I've read. I've lost 50 pounds total over about 2 years, but got a Fitbit last December and within the last year I have changed my life in so many ways. I'm 54 and have been overweight most of my adult life, so I feel like I'm starting all over, and this time it's much more fun.
I love buying new clothes -and not in the plus section! I bought my first pair of size 10 jeans (I know - vanity sizing, but I WAS in an 18, so I don't care!) and can wear a M/L top, so I can buy just about anything, and I'm loving it! Today I took my daughter to lunch and the booths there are old wooden church pews. For the first time I noticed that my butt has gotten rather bony, and the muscles on the back of my thighs are hard! I bought a rocking chair a couple years ago that I fixed up, then realized that no-one in my family could fit their large rear into it. Guess what? I'm using it now and I fit just fine.
My body has been around a long time and will probably always have lumps and bumps, but I will wear them proudly. At my age, I can only fix so much.....No-one told me I could feel this good and actually enjoy exercise and healthy (mostly) eating! I think I can do this forever .
Thank you all for the motivation you never knew you were giving me - keep it up!15 -
I never imagined that at 47 I would feel better and fitter than when I was 17. Although I was skinny then I wasn't anywhere near as fit as I am now. I couldn't have run 6 miles then but I can now and have done so several times.
It's funny that when I was skinny I never noticed I had a collar bone or hip bones. I never paid attention to them. Now I can't leave them alone.7 -
Dave_GettingFit wrote: »I never imagined that at 47 I would feel better and fitter than when I was 17. Although I was skinny then I wasn't anywhere near as fit as I am now. I couldn't have run 6 miles then but I can now and have done so several times.
It's funny that when I was skinny I never noticed I had a collar bone or hip bones. I never paid attention to them. Now I can't leave them alone.
This! I was just telling my husband that I think I'm fitter now than I was when I was 20. I was always thin, but didn't exercise, didn't like sports, never stepped foot in a gym until this year. Now I love exercising, and get very grouchy when I miss a day. I can't imagine ever going back to what I was before!0
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