True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    Words only have power if you give it to them

    This is true, but how do you control the power those words do or don't have over you?
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    Words only have power if you give it to them

    This is true, but how do you control the power those words do or don't have over you?

    IDK it was something I learned early on in life from my mom. People can say whatever they want to me and it doesn't bother me. I think it was the IDGAF gene I got from her.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    Words only have power if you give it to them

    This is true, but how do you control the power those words do or don't have over you?

    IDK it was something I learned early on in life from my mom. People can say whatever they want to me and it doesn't bother me. I think it was the IDGAF gene I got from her.

    Your mom sounds like a pretty awesome someone to me. I need that gene.
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    Words only have power if you give it to them

    This is true, but how do you control the power those words do or don't have over you?

    IDK it was something I learned early on in life from my mom. People can say whatever they want to me and it doesn't bother me. I think it was the IDGAF gene I got from her.

    Your mom sounds like a pretty awesome someone to me. I need that gene.

    She was the best!
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    IC that I can hold a grudge for a very, very long time. Forgiveness does not come easily to me. For myself, or others.
  • DasItMan91
    DasItMan91 Posts: 5,753 Member
    edited May 2017
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    Words only have power if you give it to them

    This is true, but how do you control the power those words do or don't have over you?

    IDK it was something I learned early on in life from my mom. People can say whatever they want to me and it doesn't bother me. I think it was the IDGAF gene I got from her.

    Your mom sounds like a pretty awesome someone to me. I need that gene.

    She was the best!

    Was? Sucks she's not in your life anymore.
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    Words only have power if you give it to them

    This is true, but how do you control the power those words do or don't have over you?

    IDK it was something I learned early on in life from my mom. People can say whatever they want to me and it doesn't bother me. I think it was the IDGAF gene I got from her.

    Your mom sounds like a pretty awesome someone to me. I need that gene.

    She was the best!

    Was? Sucks she's not in your life anymore.
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    JLAJ81 wrote: »
    Words only have power if you give it to them

    This is true, but how do you control the power those words do or don't have over you?

    IDK it was something I learned early on in life from my mom. People can say whatever they want to me and it doesn't bother me. I think it was the IDGAF gene I got from her.

    Your mom sounds like a pretty awesome someone to me. I need that gene.

    She was the best!

    <3

    Thanks
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I confess, I was waaaay too flirty yesterday around the forums and don't ever wanna be known as one of 'those' MFP guys. Move along...nothing to see.

    You'll never be known as one of "those" guys..all jokes aside you're a class act and really nice guy ..we all know it :)
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I confess, I was waaaay too flirty yesterday around the forums and don't ever wanna be known as one of 'those' MFP guys. Move along...nothing to see.

    You'll never be known as one of "those" guys..all jokes aside you're a class act and really nice guy ..we all know it :)

    Yup, :heart:
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    i am losing my mind. spent some time searching for a couple threads, but i guess they never really existed.

    Which ones?
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I confess. If Photoshop and design skill was like sex skills, I'd be a designer gigolo or porn star.
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I confess. If Photoshop and design skill was like sex skills, I'd be a designer gigolo or porn star.

    IC.. those skills are not what your crushes admire most about you. :smile:
  • novio50
    novio50 Posts: 778 Member
    I confess, I've been craving pancakes all week.... :D
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    novio50 wrote: »
    I confess, I've been craving pancakes all week.... :D

    Where you been? ..nice to see you :)
  • julelise
    julelise Posts: 1 Member
    I confess that I doubt I'll ever be able to give up my late night ice cream cravings. Chocolate peanut butter or party cake, bring it on.
  • JeanieWww
    JeanieWww Posts: 4,037 Member
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

    Wth .. :o ..totally creepy.
    Thats got to be so uncomfortable.. :|
  • NLP6618
    NLP6618 Posts: 6,201 Member
    I'm a big flirt
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
    I'm a big flirt

    You AND half of MFP.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    _dixiana_ wrote: »
    I'm a big flirt

    You AND half of MFP.

    Lol..Im thinking more 89% :D
  • JeanieWww
    JeanieWww Posts: 4,037 Member
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

    Wth .. :o ..totally creepy.
    Thats got to be so uncomfortable.. :|

    Yes, yes it was. It's bad enough he keeps staring at my boobs more and more, but this was just way over the line. At least to me. So inappropriate, in my eyes.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

    Wth .. :o ..totally creepy.
    Thats got to be so uncomfortable.. :|

    Yes, yes it was. It's bad enough he keeps staring at my boobs more and more, but this was just way over the line. At least to me. So inappropriate, in my eyes.

    There is absolutely no doubt that is totally inappropriate and definitely crosses a line.
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

    Wth .. :o ..totally creepy.
    Thats got to be so uncomfortable.. :|

    Yes, yes it was. It's bad enough he keeps staring at my boobs more and more, but this was just way over the line. At least to me. So inappropriate, in my eyes.

    Do you have to be around him even with your mom gone? That is unacceptable
  • JeanieWww
    JeanieWww Posts: 4,037 Member
    _dixiana_ wrote: »
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

    Wth .. :o ..totally creepy.
    Thats got to be so uncomfortable.. :|

    Yes, yes it was. It's bad enough he keeps staring at my boobs more and more, but this was just way over the line. At least to me. So inappropriate, in my eyes.

    Do you have to be around him even with your mom gone? That is unacceptable

    to a degree, yes. I try not to be alone with him, however sometimes it happens. I am planning to move in a year. I just have to hang in there until then.
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    I confess that I'm tempted to make butterscotch pudding right now!
  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    _dixiana_ wrote: »
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

    Wth .. :o ..totally creepy.
    Thats got to be so uncomfortable.. :|

    Yes, yes it was. It's bad enough he keeps staring at my boobs more and more, but this was just way over the line. At least to me. So inappropriate, in my eyes.

    Do you have to be around him even with your mom gone? That is unacceptable

    to a degree, yes. I try not to be alone with him, however sometimes it happens. I am planning to move in a year. I just have to hang in there until then.

    That is so awful and I'm sorry you have to live with it. I have a creepy uncle that does crap like that because "what? We're not related by blood!" It's so uncomfortable a few times a year, I can't imagine how bad it is to deal with it so frequently. I wish you the best dealing with this situation.
  • Dazzler21
    Dazzler21 Posts: 1,249 Member
    I once ate a grape before making it to the checkout and didn't tell them.
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My stepdad has been creeping me out more and more since my Mom died. Today was the worst. He not only commented that if I wasn't his stepdaughter, he'd date me, but then offered to help me find a new bra while we were at the store (3x).

    Tell him he is making you uncomfortable and he continues being a perv kick him in the balls.
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