True Confessions - Don't Judge
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RegaliTea_69 wrote: »
I confess my dad has dementia. It's really heart breaking. It hurts when he can't remember who I am.kitty_meow_meow_ wrote: »I worry about dementia and Alzheimer's. Had to take an additional training course for work about that subject and it is just heartbreaking.
sometimes I just go along with whoever he thinks I am that day because it seems to make him happy.
A spare heart.
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kitty_meow_meow_ wrote: »RegaliTea_69 wrote: »
I confess my dad has dementia. It's really heart breaking. It hurts when he can't remember who I am.kitty_meow_meow_ wrote: »I worry about dementia and Alzheimer's. Had to take an additional training course for work about that subject and it is just heartbreaking.
sometimes I just go along with whoever he thinks I am that day because it seems to make him happy.
Yes keeping things positive and stress free and non argumentative is a good way to approach that type of thing.
Thats very true.
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I confess I don't think I can handle any more emotional pain. I am well past what I thought was my breaking point. I just want to disappear for a while.1
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Hmmm, I consider cute about a 5.5, but to me, handsome is more like 7.5-8.5. Perhaps how a person uses it depends on if someone uses it as a name, just as "baby" or "sweetie", or if someone is genuinely complimenting you.1
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Carillon_Campanello wrote: »I confess I despise being called "handsome".
Like nails up and down a chalk board. I have always considered it a "you're cute" comment. Like "hey you're a 5.5-6.5-ish but there are better options out there."
To further compound my spite for this label the first time I let a woman call me this openly she broke my heart into a million pieces.
So now every time someone calls me that it reminds me of her and reopens a wound.
The end.
Well *kitten*....how's stud muffin work for ya..
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RegaliTea_69 wrote: »
I confess my dad has dementia. It's really heart breaking. It hurts when he can't remember who I am.kitty_meow_meow_ wrote: »I worry about dementia and Alzheimer's. Had to take an additional training course for work about that subject and it is just heartbreaking.
sometimes I just go along with whoever he thinks I am that day because it seems to make him happy.
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AgreeHmmm, I consider cute about a 5.5, but to me, handsome is more like 7.5-8.5. Perhaps how a person uses it depends on if someone uses it as a name, just as "baby" or "sweetie", or if someone is genuinely complimenting you.BowlingForHollars wrote: »Carillon_Campanello wrote: »I confess I despise being called "handsome".
Like nails up and down a chalk board. I have always considered it a "you're cute" comment. Like "hey you're a 5.5-6.5-ish but there are better options out there."
To further compound my spite for this label the first time I let a woman call me this openly she broke my heart into a million pieces.
So now every time someone calls me that it reminds me of her and reopens a wound.
The end.
Yup. Always cute or handsome. Never hot or holy *kitten*. I hear ya loud and clear brother.
I always say good-looking or handsome or "you look great" as a compliment
I would never call anyone hot or hot as fork or sexy unless they were a celebrity or stranger or, or someone I know (but behind their back, lol) or my significant other 'cause I wouldn't want them to feel sexually objectified...I'd wouldn't want offend them or make it awkward1 -
I confess I am hooked on a podcast geared towards men, but it has some fascinating topics and great guests.1
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@Carillon_Campanello wrote: »I confess I despise being called "handsome".
Like nails up and down a chalk board. I have always considered it a "you're cute" comment. Like "hey you're a 5.5-6.5-ish but there are better options out there."
To further compound my spite for this label the first time I let a woman call me this openly she broke my heart into a million pieces.
So now every time someone calls me that it reminds me of her and reopens a wound.
The end.
Oh, sad sad. Telling someone they look handsome is one of my favorite compliments to give men (whom I have the right rapport with). I don't think it's on the same level as "cute". Cute is for boys, handsome is for men.4 -
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@Carillon_Campanello wrote: »I confess I despise being called "handsome".
Like nails up and down a chalk board. I have always considered it a "you're cute" comment. Like "hey you're a 5.5-6.5-ish but there are better options out there."
To further compound my spite for this label the first time I let a woman call me this openly she broke my heart into a million pieces.
So now every time someone calls me that it reminds me of her and reopens a wound.
The end.
Oh, sad sad. Telling someone they look handsome is one of my favorite compliments to give men (whom I have the right rapport with). I don't think it's on the same level as "cute". Cute is for boys, handsome is for men.
Hearing handsome = "You're good looking for a not hot guy."
Ducky was handsome.0 -
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Carillon_Campanello wrote: »
No....do I need to?
And you are quite handsome (sorry-nails on a chalkboard) and have a great smile. Someone who is hot AF is intimidating and seems "out of reach". IMHOCarillon_Campanello wrote: »@Carillon_Campanello wrote: »I confess I despise being called "handsome".
Like nails up and down a chalk board. I have always considered it a "you're cute" comment. Like "hey you're a 5.5-6.5-ish but there are better options out there."
To further compound my spite for this label the first time I let a woman call me this openly she broke my heart into a million pieces.
So now every time someone calls me that it reminds me of her and reopens a wound.
The end.
Oh, sad sad. Telling someone they look handsome is one of my favorite compliments to give men (whom I have the right rapport with). I don't think it's on the same level as "cute". Cute is for boys, handsome is for men.
Hearing handsome = "You're good looking for a not hot guy."
Ducky was handsome.
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I confess I sometimes wonder if by responding to people on a thread called "true confessions don't judge" I am kinda judging, just by posting a reply and giving my opinion about their confession.
This confuses me a bit, lol. I am now looking up the word judge and I can't decide. I think it may be a bit judgey, even tho I don't mean any harm.2
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