Real women have curves.

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  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    Real woman have curves.. it's a dumb saying cuz it's trying to shame people into liking something they may not. It'd be like saying, Real men have hairy butts/ no *kitten* / chicken legs / small feet..

    Oh man, don't me all hot and bothered now.

    Real men smell like B.O / have tiny fingers / pick all their boogers.

    You're gross :/
  • MagnumBurrito
    MagnumBurrito Posts: 1,070 Member
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    I personally love an athletic and fit look with some curves...I like Michelle Jenneke's curves...

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    that said, real women come in all different shapes and sizes...and people have a variety of preferences.

    Just cuz #tbt

    https://youtu.be/Xr5DouXRv0k

    Still works, t can stand for Tuesday

    and the hottest and sexiest thing about her IMO is her confidence...she knows she's going to destroy. Swagger is hot...

    Yes. She owns all that makes me go Mmmmmmm.
  • CJisinShape
    CJisinShape Posts: 1,404 Member
    ald783 wrote: »
    Char231023 wrote: »
    I was answering a question about if my concern was just a bout overweight people or if I would also have to same concerns about a lazy skinny person not working out.

    Right but I'm still just not seeing where your anger is coming from in any of this. Why does a heavy person being heavy interfere with your life?

    OP never answered this question.

  • Char231023
    Char231023 Posts: 700 Member
    Char231023 wrote: »
    Somewhere down the line, someone probably said something that made OP feel not "womanly" enough, and now she's directing her childish anger to a group of people that affect her life in no way whatsoever.

    It's okay, OP. You're real. We see you.

    Um no not really. Childish wow thank you!!!! You have enlightened me. I so appreciate you psychoanalyzing me thorough a post on a message board

    *validates harder*

    I know that post was childish. It was my gut reaction (probably from the fact that most of my arguments come from a 5 year old). You really don't know me at all you know is what I post on here. So thank you for your insight into my life as you know it, but you are wrong. My issue is not with overweight people its with people making excuses not to get healthy.
  • Char231023
    Char231023 Posts: 700 Member
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    ald783 wrote: »
    Char231023 wrote: »
    I was answering a question about if my concern was just a bout overweight people or if I would also have to same concerns about a lazy skinny person not working out.

    Right but I'm still just not seeing where your anger is coming from in any of this. Why does a heavy person being heavy interfere with your life?

    OP never answered this question.

    I just answered it. Like said being heavy isn't my issue its using excuses to not try to get healthy.
  • MondayJune22nd2015
    MondayJune22nd2015 Posts: 876 Member
    edited August 2015
    Not everyone thin or obese, is physically able to exercise. Also many disabled people have what's known as an "invisible disability", meaning that it isn't visually obvious; that they're disabled.

    I don't believe in weight/choosing to be unhealthy acceptance, I believe in situation acceptance. I don't believe that a person should have to work more and/or harder than another, to achieve the same result but since that's the reality of life, I don't judge their size; just whether the unhealthy person's issues/were a cause of their own choices rather than fate.
  • blu_de_ville
    blu_de_ville Posts: 4,296 Member
    Char231023 wrote: »
    I was curious on what everybody's thoughts on this were.

    I personal can't stand this reference. To me it just screams FA which I don't agree with at all. Most overweight women want to lose weight. Why not just because society says you should be a certain size but also because they are uncomfortable being the weight that they are.

    This whole FA thing seems to me to be a cop out. Well I can't lose weight or exercise so I am going to be fat and have health problems, but that's ok because I love my curves and you have to accept me. NO! I say get off your *kitten* and do something that will improve your health and well being. Weather it be walking a little bit more or eating less. People need to start taking responsibility for their weight. You let your self get into an unhealthy state.

    I am sure I am going to get some differing opinions here, but I wanted to share my reasons for rejecting FA and the whole "real women have curves" thing.

    I might even get flagged, but i had to get this off my chest.

    I also understand there are medical reasons for weight gain. This is not what I am addressing.

    Kinda irritating slogan. So what are other women without curves?
    I normally get the "body of prepubescent boy" answer
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    @ald783 You're hot.

    FIFY. Must use the right grammar to lure in the dimes bruh.

    I'll keep bringing the booty because your grammar correcting skills turn me on.
  • katnroyal1987
    katnroyal1987 Posts: 3,449 Member
    Curvy is in the eye of the beholder. Women should worry about maintaining a healthy lifestyle so they can live a long life. Whatever body type/size lets them do that then more power to them. Just be proud and confident in your own body! :)
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  • Char231023
    Char231023 Posts: 700 Member
    Not everyone thin or obese, is physically able to exercise. Also many disabled people have what's known as an "invisible disability", meaning that it isn't visually obvious; that they're disabled.

    I don't believe in weight/choosing to be unhealthy acceptance, I believe in situation acceptance. I don't believe that a person should have to work more and/or harder than another, to achieve the same result but since that's the reality of life, I don't judge their size; just whether the unhealthy person's issues/were a cause of their own choices rather than fate.

    Aging putting words into my mouth. In the original post I mentioned people with medical issues. And that I wasn't talking about them.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Maybe it would be a better post if you could define your perception of healthy? or keep it a cluster f_ck post either way entertaining.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Shape and size doesn't define sex, chromosomes do and even they screw up sometimes :P


    I don't know some like girth and some like length
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    This has been a very long day of real women threads and I'm thinking I need someone to come confirm I'm still a woman.
  • MondayJune22nd2015
    MondayJune22nd2015 Posts: 876 Member
    Char231023 wrote: »
    Not everyone thin or obese, is physically able to exercise. Also many disabled people have what's known as an "invisible disability", meaning that it isn't visually obvious; that they're disabled.

    I don't believe in weight/choosing to be unhealthy acceptance, I believe in situation acceptance. I don't believe that a person should have to work more and/or harder than another, to achieve the same result but since that's the reality of life, I don't judge their size; just whether the unhealthy person's issues/were a cause of their own choices rather than fate.

    Aging putting words into my mouth. In the original post I mentioned people with medical issues. And that I wasn't talking about them.

    So before you judge, you actually know; if a person is disabled or just lazy?
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  • Char231023
    Char231023 Posts: 700 Member
    I am done. Off to the gym to get fit.

    Thanks for the debates made my day so by fast.
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  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    This has been a very long day of real women threads and I'm thinking I need someone to come confirm I'm still a woman.

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    Cant I just post them on this thread? The more confirmation the better. There's a lot of different perspectives here on a what a "real" woman is.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    Not everyone thin or obese, is physically able to exercise. Also many disabled people have what's known as an "invisible disability", meaning that it isn't visually obvious; that they're disabled.

    I don't believe in weight/choosing to be unhealthy acceptance, I believe in situation acceptance. I don't believe that a person should have to work more and/or harder than another, to achieve the same result but since that's the reality of life, I don't judge their size; just whether the unhealthy person's issues/were a cause of their own choices rather than fate.
    Is there a disability that makes it physically impossible for someone to lose weight even if they are burning more calories than they consume?

    I've seen stories under the success forum with people in wheelchairs who can't do physical exercise but were still able to lose weight and become healthier based on diet alone.
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  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    Everyone has a curve somewhere
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    edited August 2015
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    Everyone has a curve somewhere

    Slightly to the right.

    I see.... :sweat_smile:
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    :o
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  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    kkenseth wrote: »
    This has been a very long day of real women threads and I'm thinking I need someone to come confirm I'm still a woman.

    Is that your attempt at picking up a date?
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    crssftlv wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    This has been a very long day of real women threads and I'm thinking I need someone to come confirm I'm still a woman.

    Is that your attempt at picking up a date?

    You caught me. :flushed:
  • GreenGoddess22
    GreenGoddess22 Posts: 3,818 Member
    I'm late to the game on this one and too lazy to read all the responses, lol.

    First, what does FA mean? Fat *kitten*? Food Allergy?

    Second, I consider myself curvy. I am height/weight proportionate, healthy BMI, not skin & bones, but certainly not obese. I have a bigger butt and while not huge, a curvy chest. I like the way I look and wouldn't trade it for anything. I personally don't care what anyone thinks about me because I am happy in my open skin nor do I really care about what other women look like.
  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    kkenseth wrote: »
    crssftlv wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    This has been a very long day of real women threads and I'm thinking I need someone to come confirm I'm still a woman.

    Is that your attempt at picking up a date?

    You caught me. :flushed:

    I knew it! I'm so good at reading people :smiley: lol
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    crssftlv wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    crssftlv wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    This has been a very long day of real women threads and I'm thinking I need someone to come confirm I'm still a woman.

    Is that your attempt at picking up a date?

    You caught me. :flushed:

    I knew it! I'm so good at reading people :smiley: lol

    Did it work?