WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2015

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  • Lilymay2
    Lilymay2 Posts: 2,525 Member
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  • DamitJanit
    DamitJanit Posts: 1,329 Member
    Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .

    Good Evening Ladies,

    Mindy, congrats on your loss!!! Wooo hoooo and keep up the good work.

    Joyce, maybe Charlie needs one of those electric snug sacks to stay toasty in the family room. Your holiday with all the families sounds wonderful. I hope everyone there realizes what a blessing it is to be together.

    Heather, now an official CONGRATS!!!! groupwave.gif groupwave.gif groupwave.gif So happy for you to know it’s over. Now you can enjoy that cruise!!!

    Lillian, have fun at your class.

    Lisa, I like a shower without a door, too, although I’ve never had one. I don’t find the glass doors that hard to care for as long as I don’t let them get away from me. I do have to disagree on the washer and dryer in the closet. smiley-think005.gif Just don’t think I’d like that. I do have mine upstairs where all the dirty clothes are and that works out great, except that we spend most of our time downstairs near the kitchen or family room. Guess there is no perfect solution other than to have someone else do the laundry for ya.

    Terri, I do understand about the averages now. It’s nice of you to consider the kids chances to win when they want your DS on their team.

    Heather, that will be wonderful if you can have all the work done while you area away. But don’t you hate to miss all that mess and inconvenience??? smiley-laughing001.gif That is a bummer that you aren’t controlling your BP with diet and exercise.

    Joyce, I’m with you on buying the Thanksgiving groceries a little at a time. Seems like they cost less that way, doesn’t it?? LOL

    Allison, I hope things work out with the living arrangements for everyone. And I hope you are enjoying your time alone and not having to prepare meals for someone other than yourself.

    Gloria, so happy that things got worked out for the time being. Now we just need for you to find the right place to go.

    Pip , so sorry about the bike. I was hopeful that it was in as good a shape as it first appeared. So glad Kirby is healing nicely.

    Sylvia, that is terrible to have that run down house in the neighborhood. I can’t wait to hear what she gets done to it.

    Pat, your cactus is beautiful. I’m not even sure I’ve ever seen a yellow one.

    I am so sorry for all of you and your loved ones that are suffering from somewhat “blue” to downright depressed. Sending the brightest light and cheeriest wishes for relief.

    m1277.gifto any Newbies that I missed. Come often and join in the chat. This thing works!! Please sign your post with what you want to be called. It makes it easier for us to respond to you. Also a location is great, be it specific or general. We are happy to have you join us.

    The Paris attacks are terrible. It is so sad that everyone can’t just let everyone else alone to live as they want. My prayers go out to all concerned.

    Friday I went to the Christmas Show with a friend. I ended up getting a beautiful ring that I will wear on the cruise as I don’t take my diamond. It has about a 2 carat fake diamond and some little ones on the band. I just need something to have on my ring finger when I leave my wedding band at home. I also got a new necklace and ear rings. I did have a few samples of food but otherwise did pretty good and got in lots of walking.

    Thank you for all the wishes and prayers for Max. And your fur babies sending their get well wishes is so sweet. I know I may have missed something as I’ve been reading in bits and pieces and trying to respond. Max is doing well considering. The next big step will be to find out if it is cancer. He is at least a little more alert tonight but still on pain meds. I’m exhausted so off to bed.

    I hope all of you have a healthy and happy day. rose.gif

    Words I live by:
    Savor. I have to slow down and savor every bite.
    and
    Opportunity. Each day offers new opportunities for good health and happiness if we just look for them and choose them.
    I Love you, smiley-love013.gif
    DJ
    Myrtle Beach, SC
  • 17761776
    17761776 Posts: 1,098 Member
    Betty: Very well said !!! Prayers for all. !!! Gayle Minneapolis
  • jmkmomm
    jmkmomm Posts: 3,247 Member
    Loved your picture Sylvia. I like being at the computer, no one judges me here.

    Can't remember who it was that got some skinny jeans and said they were going to have to suck their belly in. I jsut wish that when I sucked my belly in that it would make my butt fuller.

    DJ, sure am praying for your baby. So sorry they found all those tumors but on the other hand glad that they have found something wrong so they can work up a solution.

    Gloria, congrats on winning your case against the landlord. Now the housing commision knows what kind of land lord he is and either keep watch over him more closely or shut him down completely.

    I listened to our local news tonight to see if they had heard anything from our college students who were in Paris but if they had heard they didn't mention it. I am sure they have kept touch with the college and families through social media. Of all the bad things we can say about social media, it sure can come in handy some times.

    Went to Sams's yesterday to pick up 9 prescriptions I had called in. They said I only had 4. Not just 4 ready but only 4 called in. So I came home and counted again and sure enough I had 5 more that I didn't get yesterday. So I went again today and they had them all ready, the pharmacist even said one of them was ready yesterday when I picked the other 4 up. Oh well. My sister's husband who is a CPA and does quite a few tax returns on the side says that part of medical expenses includes driving to the pharmacy. So I can now count 2 times for just one load.

    I can't remember if anyone here has any experience with C defficile colon infection. I as wondering what the chance of me getting it. He ahs been on the antibiotic now for 8 days. He says he really doesn't see any difference but I think he isn't remembering that he had the diarrhea before he had the infection. His ulcerative colitis is not under any kind of control and he even had to miss his last infusion. I am just worried about me getting it and having to cancel our Thanksgiving here. It would have to be at my sister's house without me, my daughter and grand kids wouldn't be able to stay at our house and it would be come and go back home the same day. I guess I am just a worry wart.

    Joyce, Indiana
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,517 Member
    Did 45 minutes of a DVD called "Sculpt". The plan for tomorrow is to do a DVD called "pilates, yoga, cardio fusion" We shall see what that is like

    Mary - the pie filling with no added sugar, does it contain artificial sugars? Sometimes things that say "no added sugar" will do that. Other times it's just the fruit

    Gloria - I'm so happy for you!!!!

    Heather - I am rooting for you to get things worked out to your satisfaction

    pip - so sorry about the bike. Won't the cost of replacement bike be covered under the insurance?

    DJ - thanks foer the update on Max. Hope things work out well

    Just got back from a Newcomer social. It was a kareoke 50/60's. I had a feeling it would go over since when we had a 50/60's social a few years ago that one went over well. It was nice, but there is one lady who as she was leaving to get to her walker, her knees just buckled and she fell to the floor. I can hardly imagine how embarassed she must have been! She did walk to her car, I followed with a chair in case she needed to stop. Her husband took her to the ER, I didn't know how he'd get her into the apt. I guess we'll give him a call tomorrow to see how she's doing.

    Personally, I can't wait until these skinny jeans go out of style. I know that I look terrible in them and usually can't wear them.

    Joyce - I didn't know that part of the medical expense includes driving to the pharmacy!

    Michele in NC
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    edited November 2015
    I'm thinking about the tragedy in France and the recent tragedy in Roseburg, OR. Random violence against unsuspecting strangers is a terrible thing. :heartbreak: It is not confined to a particular ethnic group but it seems to be more common among young men in their 20s, plus or minus a year or two. :disappointed:
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,692 Member
    Good morning!
    Woke up at 6 am, so decided to catch up with you all.

    Katla - it could be a bit of SAD, but that's more my problem. His is the long and lingering death from cancer of his beloved partner in their own home. They were happily together for twenty three years. She was 47. Of course they had hospice care in their home, but he had a prolonged breakdown after her death, not helped by the fact that his father died four days after her and it was all a blur. Every November, near the anniversary, he gets low and tearful. Sometimes I forget and don't understand. He is getting better at telling me how he feels - he used to keep it all to himself and I was just puzzled, hurt and bewildered.
    With regard to your daughter - I know how much you want to be of help to her, but I know that being "chivvied" to help doesn't feel good.

    Can't decide whether to cancel our anniversary meal. My heart isn't in it and it's a lot of money to "waste", especially with taxis both ways. :ohwell: I will talk about it with him at breakfast. At least he is sleeping these days.

    Tomorrow we are going to London to babysit the grandchildren for the afternoon. DYS will be there briefly to help us pick up DGD from her new childminder and show us the school where we will pick up DGS later. The parents are both off to work. DYS comes back after 6pm and we dash for the train around 6.40, allowing us enough time to buy our "feast" to have on the train. DH will be happy to see them, even if it's only a few hours.
    Yesterday I ordered their presents online, following DDIL's exact instructions. I am also getting them each a t shirt and a book. I quite fancy one called, "Inside the Brain" for DGS. It's a flap book. I am mad about the brain and am reading yet another book about it at the moment. :laugh:

    Got to make the tea. :)

    Heather UK
  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Posts: 610 Member
    Didn't quite catch up. Page 30

    Lisa - Be kind to yourself. It is awesome that you have lost 42 lbs. since April.

    Lenora - It's great to hear that you are feeling so good.
    Cracker knows when she has it good. She's lucky to be in your family.

    DJ - I love my yam/sweet potato for holiday dinners. Baked and buttered. Oh, and don't forget brussels sprouts (my family says I'm a weirdo)

    Sylvia - I wouldn't trust that ex either. Once bitten, twice shy.
    I love the Grandma exercise, practiced yesterday.

    Michelle - The rings are gorgeous. I would take them in an instant if offered to me. Wouldn't you miss them? I'm with everyone else - save them for when they will be appreciated.

    Becca - Those are some handsome sons you have.

    Mindy - Congratulations . 20 lbs since August is a great achievement.

    It seems I've been busy but I wonder at what. Doctor appointment on Friday. The blood work has me trying a statin. New one and very low dose because the others gave me migraines and I couldn't function. We'll see. Last one I tried was 3 years ago. Also, will be doing an at home sleep apnea test.
    We talked about insulin again but I want to see if the Junuvia will take care of things. I need to be more vigilant about my eating and exercise (no surprise there). They are also sending me for more blood tests. Cancer markers were good so that was a great relief.
    Took care of the DGC yesterday. Roads were closed to the West side because of accidents. One was the father of my DD's friend. He unfortunately didn't make it.
    DGC were fun, we played play doh. Super Mario Kart ( I lost). Grandson hummed me the tune of a song he is trying to write. We played catch with a foam football in my living room. DGS explained a video game he is trying to build and I understood it not at all. DS brought pizza with him and DGC were relieved. "Grandma makes us eat too healthy" They all ate a banana though.
    Thinking of France and the people there today. I went to work and it was difficult to see so many using so much emotion up on toys. I just wanted to shake some of them and ask "Do you know what is going on in the world?"
    Prayers for France and the rest of the world
    -Sharon in Lethbridge.
  • samm8911
    samm8911 Posts: 12 Member

    Lisa,

    What if you wrote a paragraph or two about one of your characters ( in the first person) having your experience? Having worked too hard at what ever he or she does, and being knocked out for a day, not feeling motivated to take the action they must take. Take them out of their reality and make them live yours for a day. Maybe they´ll want to go back to their story and do stuff! Good luck, hang in their.

    Soraya, from Tarragona, Spain.
  • samm8911
    samm8911 Posts: 12 Member
    exermom wrote: »
    barbie - I'm so sorry you're still in pain. I hope it gets taken care of real soon

    Mary - when each of the kids were baptized, their godmother made this bonnet out of a handerchief. The plan is when they get married, you take out a few stitches and they carry this handkerchief down the aisle with them. That'll be her "something old" (that is...assuming I can find it. Well, I found Bryan's and just carried it in my pocketbook)

    cheri - this is season 6 (Downton Abbey) which won't be shown in the US until Jan. It's interesting some of the twists and turns that are happening. In a way I like watching it now and then when it's shown in the US because I've found in the past that there were things that I missed the first time around. Wish you lived closer, too

    Did 55 min of a Biggest Loser Calorie knockout DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do a Strength Training with the Band DVD.

    Had a general meeting for the Newcomers today. We had a REALLY good speaker talking about Daniel Boone. He is so dynamic. Tomorrow I'll volunteer at the green room, Vince is getting his hair cut (finally! But not short enough for me), then in the evening we go to the Hickory Community Theater.

    We started putting out the Christmas decorations today. Did the "fence" and changed the lightbulbs in the landscape lights from white to red and green.

    drkatiebug - yes, I wear my rings. My father got them for my mother and when she died, he put them in the safety box and when I got married I used them. I wear them. Denise has always said (and she even said it to Pete) that she wanted them. I have no idea why he didn't ask me for them knowing that she wanted to wear them. He said that he wanted to get her something that shows he loves her. Well, a ring is just a "thing". To me, a better expression of your love for someone is to put your feelings aside and do something that they want you to do. But what's done is done. He could have asked me for my rings and gotten her something else, like a necklace that she can wear. this way Denise and he would get what they wanted. Your bp being high might just have been a fluke. Sometimes that happens to me. My bp is rarely high, but occasionally it is and it usually isn't the next time I have it taken.

    katla - our neighbor at our first house liked my rings so much that she had a jeweler design rings like it for her. Of course, they aren't made this way any more, the setting etc. so that's why she had to have it special made. I'm just sad that Denise is sad and isn't getting what she wanted. At first I couldn't get over that Pete's mother said that Denise could take the diamond out of the ring and put it on a necklace. Even Denise said to her "never". Remember the ring I gave to Dianna (Bryan's wife?). I'm sure she's not wearing it. Now in a way I wish I hadn't given it to her, but what's done is done

    Margaret - I, too, think the mother is somewhat convincing Pete to do what she wants. Remember, she co-signed for an apt for them, they skipped out leaving her owning thousands of dollars and she cosigned for ANOTHER apt? She's the one who bought them a truck. To me, we aren't buying Denise a car, but we did pay for her education. A car is fine today, but what happens when it breaks and she's no longer here or able to buy them another one? To us, at least Denise has an education she can fall back on. I suspect maybe she's (the mother) into having "things". We're thinking about the future, not the immediate present.

    Hi Robin! So glad you came out from behind the drapery.

    Sylvia - good for you resisting those donuts! I bet you did real well talking to those kids

    DJ - Denise just isn't the type of person who will say that she'd rather have my rings. Don't ask me to explain it, she'll tell me, but she'd be afraid of hurting Pete's feelings by telling him. I don't think this is right. She should at least say to him (at least to my way of thinking) "I love that you got me a ring, but I really do wish I had my mother's rings." But I know she won't ever do that. To me, she should only so that something like this doesn't continually happen.

    Lenora - one day Vince was in the office and the doorbell rings. He opens the door and there is a state trooper. He tells us that he got a message that the alarm on our detached building went off. We have a speaker in the house so should it go off, we would know. However, this time it went off but the speaker was bad so we didn't know it. It wasn't broken into or anything, just a malfunction. But we didn't hear a thing. We have a special code word, too. So sorry about your friend

    Am doing a load of darks right now. Bot some of the paint from ceramics on my pants, so I want to wash it out. This paint can be washed out unlike acrylics.

    Soraya - we'd love to have ya. Keep coming back. I have to ask, what took you to Spain?

    Welcome everyone new!

    Michele in NC

    Michele,

    In a word it was love that brought me here to Spain. I spent ten great years with a wonderful catalan man, and tho we aren't a couple any more, we have remained friends. In fact, last week we went into Barcelona to see the latest 007 movie. Good fun.

    Have a wonderful week, everyone.
  • miriamwithcats
    miriamwithcats Posts: 1,120 Member
    Well said Betty ROC! Thank you!

    I think the people who would prefer Putin have NOT read the book about him, Man Without a Face. The man is a total sociopath. No humanity or empathy at all. NONE.

    Sure wish people would read the book I recently read and recommended- Sex and War. It would help everyone make sense out of what is going on in the world, based on SCIENCE and RESEARCH, not just someone's uneducated opinion.
  • GRITSandSLUTSandWINOS
    GRITSandSLUTSandWINOS Posts: 2,573 Member
    I got the skinny jeans and said I needed to hold my tummy in to flatten it; I, too, wish that holding in my tummy would give me a little butt; like I had in HS; but it is flat too. But, I am talking about a part of my body that will lost it as soon as I no longer am changing the size of my torso (breasts?) and legs and arms. That is what is measured along with my weight, BMI, and fat loss. Tuesday will tell me 'if' I am still doing it. Only exercised a few days a week over the past 2 weeks between weight ins; but, MD does not want me on any kind of suppressant because I am doing good at what I am doing.

    I do respect the office of the POTUS; but, I have not respected the person in there. He should not bow to any kings, sheiks, or any sort of leader to another nation ... nodding head to acknowledge them is one thing; to bow lower is showing weakness; he did respect their customs when he did not take Michelle along with them on those trips where he visited Muslim states. Or at least he did not do it once or twice. But, I don't know how many times he has gone either. I don't think that any other rulers of other nations have bowed to him. Not even the Japanese ruler - who normal would bow their heads to acknowledge him/them.

    I just want to be able to see strength in this country that had been prior to his first election; not taking money out of one thing to fund another - such as the military or Social Security (which by the way is never in an amount for any person to live off) - usually, if you are able to work (part-time) they don't penalize you. However that is something you should take to the SSAdmin. I take this opportunity to paint for profits or more so for gifts to my family members. I certainly don't make a killing - but to sell 2 or 3 a year for what I charge and I run it through my husband's business so that I will pay taxes on it makes me more comfortable if I get more commissions.

    I guess at Thanksgiving DH and I will sit down with our sons and tell them how we have written our Wills. DYS does not want to have to battle his DOS, especially since we have left them the land in the manner we have; actually left everything to both to share and share alike, per stirpes. Might need to change that to make it clear if one of them dies before we do, that his share would be divided equally between his children (naming the other to be the Administrator (or our Financial Officer where our money is invested to do it). He has the Wills scanned into our files and the originals are filed with us. But, whether or not they have to deal with this means that both of us have to be gone before they get any of it. DSY doesn't think it would be fair to him for DOS to receive the portion of the land that is unencumbered and it would not be; nor does he think it would be fair for him to move to our house; although he wants it to remain because he plans to come home ... and this is his 'home' insofar as he was still basically living here when it was built, just off at college.

    Had a wonderful phone conversation with DDnL#2 yesterday. DSGD is not going to be able to come for Thanksgiving because it is her Daddy's turn to have her for this Thanksgiving due to their 'shared' custody. If her parents did not work, then they could keep her until his visitation starts. The 'ex' is jerking my DDnL#2 around her neck and making it more expensive to buy a plane ticket (making it more expensive) so that she won't have to drive a round trip by herself. They are planning on spending the night with one of his college buddies and his wife (who took the time to go to Louisiana/Mississippi to attend their wedding). Our 'red-headed' [literally] (step) son (no kin to us) had promised to take another one of his friends to the wedding; but, never showed up. His drinking gets it the way of a lot of things. The other friend was pretty upset mainly because he was supposed to meet him and then he had to call someone to come back to get him. It would have been a good surprise; but, most of his friends have met DDnL#2 the last time they were home. She's bought Carrie Underwood tickets for her daughter's birthday at the end of this month for her tour that come to Louisiana in April. She had bought tickets when she was about 7 to go seen Justin Bieber; but, on the way home they heard on the news that he had been picked up for having drug paraphernalia and all that. DSGD got home and took down all his posters and anything she had had in her room because she said she did not like him anymore because of what he was doing. Her mother was quite proud of her. She's wanting DYS to go with her, even 'if' he does not want to go to the concert. While she has taken her to Disneyland and to the beach by herself - she is feeling 'uneasy' about this concert in Bossier City, LA - says she'd like to have DYS in the motel when she gets home from concert. I guess now that they are married, they are getting use to 'not' being away from one another to do things without both of them there to enjoy it. She is so in love with my DYS that it makes my heart 'sing'. She is going to act like things are all good between herself and DDnL#1. Hopefully, DDnL#1 can also be the same. Her moods are still swinging; I have not seen nor talked to her since last weekend when I hugged and told her that 'we loved her' and she did not hug me back and said, "I'm not our dear DDnL#2. That again, just let me know that she meant what she said in the angry email she had sent to me, after not being able to make trouble for DYS and DDnL#2 when she blaster her for not responding in 'her' timeframe. She told her to 'never' send that type of text or email to ever again. And then DDnL#1told her 'that she had been having a bad day' ... like that is anything unusual. I don't think it is my place to always be the one to try making this girl 'happy' that is a choice she has to make on her own. I did not even tell my son that she had blasted me - he would have taken up for her; but, that is what married people are supposed to do - but it is also necessary to make her 'know' that she is not supposed to send that kind of email to me.

    DOS made the comment that he would be the one taking care of us (or either of us) when it became necessary; but, if we need 'financial' help - that would have to come from DYS (unless I made enough from my investments, if I could live off the interest only. I don't think that DDnL#1 even cares that we are contributing to their household and haven't ever been required to do so for DYS's household (because he makes a 'lot more $$$' than DOS and probably always will. DDnL#1 would not move out of state even for a better job for DOS (unless it was to St. Pete, FL where her brother and SnL live. Lordy, what a self-centered one.

    PIP - how is Kirby doing? How are YOU doing?

    How is Max doing and have you been able to find a hospital for him to stay in if he isn't well enough for you to take care of him?

    Michele - I don't think the outside siren was making any noise; but inside it was so loud I had to let Cracker out because it was hurting her ears. We have the siren facing our son's house so that 'if we are not home' he can hear it and check on the house.

    DH got all my plants put up in the greenhouse and I took the ones hanging or sitting on the deck into the glassed-in porch. But, we'll have to cover the door with plastic to keep out the cold air until we can get a permanent door. He knows a young black man who is great with carpentry and hopefully he will come out and put one up for us. I'd like to ask him if he could build more cabinets for us for the kitchen and make she fit around the window (maybe even put a bench there (or shelves where I can put some flowers there in front of the window. We never use it at this point. Actually I need a little more counter space
  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,010 Member

    Katla It's not an extra episode. BBC always broadcast one of the episodes (usually the finale of the series) on Christmas Day.
    It's good that you got things talked out with your DD. PS: Oops! Spoke too soon? My Fitbit monitors my sleep patterns for me. I average 6.5 hours.

    Pip Whatever next? You don't need that stress! That guy should pay for the repairs.

    Sylvia That looks like a great usable space. You will have a great sized shower/wet room and an extended walk-in closet. The only suggestion I would make is to be sure that the shower control is within reach of the shower head, so that you can adjust temperature etc as you are under it rather than have to keep walking backwards and forwards to adjust it.

    Becca You must be so proud of you 'boys'. I'm not familiar with the insignia. What are the pins on your man's lapels. I love that their bars are in order of seniority. And the son's have wings. Does that mean the fly planes or copters?

    Heather Alright! That brilliant! You must be so pleased. I like the sound of you 'new' colours for the kitchen. I'm partial to blue myself.

    Tallee What a transformation! You look terrific!

    Lisa W TexasI have to say that I am leaning towards wearing fitted clothes more and more as my weight drops. Most of my clothes were bought to hide the inevitable lumps and bumps of corpulence. Now I want to celebrate my new streamlined curves.
    I empathise with the author's doubts. I felt the same about my short stories until people started reading them and seemed very positive. I post my work on Writing.com and have had some good in depth reviews which have helped me improve their quality. Since I run a local Creative Writing Group, I feel that I need to stretch beyond the comfort of my poetry writing.

    Barbie We don't have Thanksgiving on this side of the pond, so Christmas is an important family time. It has become commercialised, but our family resist it that much as possible, by buying inexpensive token gifts, or giving personally handcrafted items. It's the social aspect that we like. I do love all the tinsel and lights, but most of my decorations are reused year after year.

    Only read as far as page 30. I have been so busy and will get caught up later.

    :heart: Healing thoughts and prayers to those who need them! :heart:

    :sunglasses: Welcome to our Newbies. Sit a spell! :sunglasses:

    :star: Each one of us is a vital cog in an infinite universe. :star:
    We may not know our purpose, but each cog needs to be oiled and tended.

    :heart: May peace and joy shine on your day! :heart:

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    Irish Terri
  • Lilymay2
    Lilymay2 Posts: 2,525 Member
    Clear and cold - will have to bundle up a little more when I walk this morning - but at least I can still go in my walking shoes and not my heavy winter boots!!!

    I have a pair of skinny jeans too!! But they don't make my butt any bigger... :( .... maybe I sit on my butt too much and that is why it is sooo flat!!! ha ha ha ha !!! We should lobby the jean makers to put bustles in their jeans for us !!

    My washer and dryer is upstairs near the bedrooms - because that is where the dirty clothes are. I guess if it was in the basement I would get more exercise - or just forget to complete the laundry.... I am a multi-tasking type of person.

    So much stress around holidays ..... This year - our family has agreed not to buy presents for the adults, just the 3 kids. And the 2 DDnL's have requested that we don't buy toys. Instead of all the hoopla - we have rented a cabin and are going ice fishing for three days. So...obviously I am hoping for cold weather and lots of ice on the lakes.
    DS #1 is hoping for lots of snow so he can actually use the new skidoo he bought last winter....

    Take care everyone

    Lillian in West Central Saskatchewan
  • Peach1948
    Peach1948 Posts: 2,473 Member
    Lillian, your holiday plans sound like a lot of fun!

    Went with two friends to Roswell, GA yesterday and walked around all the little tourist like shops after lunch. I completely blew my plan and had a Reuben and french fries. All I could think of while I ate was all the calories in this greasy sandwich. Ugh! Wasn't worth the money/calories but fun to see friends on a beautiful Fall afternoon.

    It sure is difficult for me to get back on track after a day of eating without thought. I have been having high fiber oatmeal (10 grams fiber per pack) but find that it doesn't keep me going until lunch. So, this AM I had a high protein breakfast that was low in calories...scrambled egg substitute and one turkey sausage patty.

    Wishing everyone a wonderful Sunday!

  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
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  • mollywhippet
    mollywhippet Posts: 1,890 Member
    Grits, I wasn't thinking of you when I wrote what I did about people hating Muslims, but now that you mention it, I am offended every time you refer to the president in sarcastic and derogatory ways. Of course, I didn't like the last president and I'm sure I would have sad some things then that might have offended his supporters, so I guess we're even.

    I never made it to the studio last night. So today I have to get into my white tornado mode and get things done quickly. The meeting is at 1:00, so if I don't dawdle I should be ok. It's already almost 8:00!

    Have a great day!

    Sylvia
  • drkatiebug
    drkatiebug Posts: 1,975 Member
    Praying for not only Paris, but our world. There was also a terrorist attack in Beirut on Thursday that killed over 40 people. I don't know why we don't hear as much about that one. Well, I do know why, but I don't want to get into a political debate. Suffice it to say, I totally agree with Betty. Well said!

    I love and support you all, regardless of your political beliefs, though.
  • kimses2
    kimses2 Posts: 218 Member
    Slow going today ....just really dragging. Last weeks trip wiped me out. I think this will be a domestic/craft day for me. Planned and shopped for the week's dinners yesterday. Back to tracking food today (started yesterday but didn't keep it up). Not sure about exercise yet. Maybe a nap .... :p

    All the people in our Paris office are accounted for, so that's good news.

    Kimses in MA

  • klanders30
    klanders30 Posts: 2,569 Member
    Happy to count my blessings today, hoping all with challenges and health issues are finding respite in the small moments of improvement amidst the turbulence of our times.

    Raking and mulching will be my exercise today and planning the t-day logistics will be the main goal heading into a busy week (aren't all weeks busy these days?)

    My blood pressure is stabilizing and i can't tell you how rewarding that feels. Wearing new jeans , yes skinny legs, but a great supportive waist, not the low waisted kind. Visited with a retired friend who noticed the difference--said, "there is a lot less of you to hug!"

    I am heading into the holidays in the "zone" a little scared that i will fall back into stress eating, but will remind myself to take it one bite at a time!

    Karen from ny
  • nccarolb
    nccarolb Posts: 858 Member
    Just a note while I'm catching up with reading...

    Joyce - it was such a relief to me yesterday when a local TV station posted on Facebook that all of the students from our local colleges had been accounted for. I haven't heard anything about the potential students abroad from the nearby large universities.

    I'm being a heathen this morning and skipping church. Although I really like our worship services and typically get a lot out of them, I am increasingly feeling the desire (need?) to have a day of rest--physically and mentally. I feel very conflicted about it, but sometimes I get more inner peace and nourishment/replenishment by simply spending time with a good book and staring out at the trees. If I get in a walk in the sunshine and fresh air, it's even better. On the other hand, I also appreciate the need to be with a group of like-minded people. Bah! It's too late to go today so I will enjoy my book, trees, and quiet time.

    Conflicted Carol in NC
  • terri_mom
    terri_mom Posts: 748 Member
    Just dropping in on Sunday morning before work out and shower. Penny you are correct that each of us is affected regardless of degree so hugs and prayers for all ! Katla we use hotwire.com for everything travel. DH just got 7 nights in Reno for $37 per night at Peppermill. I don't remember the flight price right now but it was cheap too, and we aren't even leaving until March. Hugs and prayers for everyone again!

    Terri in Milwaukee
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,086 Member
    morning ladies~
    was up at 4:45 slept alright,but Chester was chewing and rustling all over the bed and kept waking me up...
    My friends will be here in a couple of hours and I have the house all picked up, washed,and sparkly..
    got most of the food together this morning... just a few things to do when they get here
    will play some lovely music and have wonderful conversation and thoroughly enjoy the afternoon.
    went down to see DFIL this morning, he did finally wake up and ate dinner last night ,and he just had a bowl of cereal and 3 glasses of milk for breakfast, he kept asking if everyone was baptized,and had to save his coffee to baptize people.. gotta love him. brought his clean clothes and he is all set..
  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    <3

    Mary from Minnesota
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    edited November 2015
    Heather: I hope the grandchildren help bring joy back to your DH. :heart:

    Sharon in Lethbridge: DH and I share your love of brussels spouts. I also like broccoli and red/purple cabbage. I'm not a fan of green cabbage. :ohwell:

    Soraya from Spain: I love the advice you gave to Lisa to make one of her fictional characters go through the challenges she faced with the Restaurant Impossible project. It has great potential & might be fun for the reader. :bigsmile:

    Irish Terri: DD and I do seem to have reached a positive balance at the moment. It will shift this away and that, I'm sure. :flowerforyou: Christmas is important family time here, too, but it is permeated with expectations for lavish gifts and ridiculous spending. I like Thanksgiving better because its focus is gratitude for our blessings and the companionship of dear friends and family. :heart:

    Lillian in Saskatchewan: I remember adds for padded girdles in the back pages of movie fan magazines from when I was a teen. I wonder whether they still make them. I never needed padding for my derriere until this round of riding lessons. Women's bike shorts are a blessing, but don't add any curves. :laugh:

    Betty: Your comments on events in France are eloquent and sensible. Thank you. :heart:

    Karen from NY: Congrats on the compliment you received from your retired friend. That is one of the best NSV's ever! :flowerforyou:



    I love this group for its diversity. We have good-hearted women from across the globe including several countries and a variety of religious and political points of view. I love our focus on mutual support, improving our health and friendship. It is my hope that we can avoid political & religious divisiveness among us and stay focused on the things we have in common.

    On a personal level,
    My DGD had her first sleepover last night when a friend came to spend the night. The friend is a neighbor girl and a few years older than DGD. This is a big event in the life of a little girl. I know my DGD will remember it in years to come. My first sleepover was with my favorite cousin.

    Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon

    “Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” Thomas A. Edison

    November Goals :
    1. Log every bite and swallow.
    2. Cardio exercise at least 3 days a week. Work on flexibility and back strength.
    3. Have fun every day.
    4. Drink at least three glasses of water daily, preferably more!
    5. Eliminate alcohol.
    6. Monitor sleep. Try to average 7 or more hours of sleep nightly.

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
    UPDATE: we noticed his feet were swollen when he was taking a shower. Told his charge nurse and they are going to be doing a test (called a Doppler) on him to make sure that he is not getting a blood clot. Basically an ultrasound of the legs to see how the veins are doing. doc came in to explain the process to us. Thankfully the swelling doesn't seem to be progressing up his calves. We should find out later today if the test came back positive or negative. Cross your fingers.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
    This Is y I don't care to discuss politics or religion, don't like the bashing in any form. Whether u r for or against who is in office, not cool in my book.
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    pipcd34 wrote: »
    This Is y I don't care to discuss politics or religion, don't like the bashing in any form. Whether u r for or against who is in office, not cool in my book.

    I agree Pip, we are here to support each other in our healthy life style goals. There are forums dedicated for the other discussions.

    Janetr Okc
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    I saw this on Facebook and then found the link to it from youtube. I thought of Kirby instantly. This could improve bicycle safety everywhere.

    https://youtu.be/CfWzeGlaFvI