Men: Oblivious to Flirting.

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  • TheEffort
    TheEffort Posts: 1,028 Member
    Admit it, you just clicked because of the blanket statement, didn't you?
    ...

    Yes I did.

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  • playgun
    playgun Posts: 163 Member
    I never notice when women flirt with me........Maybe it's because they don't!
    Now I'm really depressed! :frown:
  • jmc0806
    jmc0806 Posts: 1,444 Member
    I'll admit it, I usually suck at realizing it until after
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
    Good lesson then ladies - Go obvious to avoid oblivious.

    Just pull your tits out and shake em around a bit. That'll get 'em.
    It works every single time.

    Nope. I just think they're crazy but still not hitting on me. Seriously, a woman could throw herself at me and I'm just like, "she seems really nice". It's a bit of an issue. Lol
    :flowerforyou:
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    I don't know, though. Because some guys mistake a girl being nice and smiling for flirting when that was not the intention. I get asked out a lot for that reason, I think.

    Yep, I am completely oblivious to if it is being friendly or flirting. If any of it flirting. I'm pretty sure none of it is.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    I don't know, though. Because some guys mistake a girl being nice and smiling for flirting when that was not the intention. I get asked out a lot for that reason, I think.

    Yep, I am completely oblivious to if it is being friendly or flirting. If any of it flirting. I'm pretty sure none of it is.

    How YOU doin'? :smooched:
  • debbash68
    debbash68 Posts: 981 Member
    Good lesson then ladies - Go obvious to avoid oblivious.

    Just pull your tits out and shake em around a bit. That'll get 'em.
    It works every single time.
    Not e every single time, I do it and men still think I'm just being nice, I need a new strategy
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  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    I'll admit it, I usually suck at realizing it until after

    This! Though, as rml said, I was much more likely to have noticed if there was interest on my part.
  • christinabennett756
    christinabennett756 Posts: 1
    LOL@post.

    I'm too shy to notice I'm being hit on.

    Eyes usually cast down

    it's an issue I'm working on!
    see...and look at that.
    My very first post

    *peeks out from the sidelines and waves*
  • dedicationandcommitment
    dedicationandcommitment Posts: 222 Member
    Guys are definitely oblivious to it but so am I....I can never tell most of the time I think they are just being nice to me!!!
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    You look stunning for 83. :wink:

    Vitamins and good sex. :tongue:
  • Caged_Heat
    Caged_Heat Posts: 1,031 Member
    Until they have their hand in your pants, I consider it just being friendly...
  • debbash68
    debbash68 Posts: 981 Member
    Until they have their hand in your pants, I consider it just being friendly...
    Or non flirting pickpockets
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
    Until they have their hand in your pants, I consider it just being friendly...
    Or non flirting pickpockets
    10/10 would flirt
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I wish I were a pickpocket.
  • vtmoon
    vtmoon Posts: 3,436 Member
    Men notice flirting when it's a woman they're interested in.

    This right here.

    But in general guys tend to be zoned out of it if they aren't interested or nervous of the social situation.
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    Sorry OP, lost me at fiance.
  • faceoff4
    faceoff4 Posts: 1,599 Member
    I seriously think all my mfp friends are just being nice and motivating. Maybe a flirt here and there, but for the most part I don't think it get flirted with at all
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    I just make the general assumption that the opposite sex is flirting with me.

    I may come off like a completely self obsessed *kitten* but at least I don't miss out on opportunities.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I just make the general assumption that the opposite sex is flirting with me.

    I may come off like a completely self obsessed *kitten* but at least I don't miss out on opportunities.

    It looks like your belly button is whistling.
  • EricJonrosh
    EricJonrosh Posts: 823 Member
    Because of all the false flagging that goes on, I consider all female flirting unreliable to base assumptions on. I'd rather just ask someone out that I'm attracted to and be wrong.

    As for 40 year-olds standing in their underwear saying "I don't think they're flirting, they're just being motivating!" Haha! Seriously I hope that shtick works. lol
  • Jason3589
    Jason3589 Posts: 734
    i love a bit of flirting, more so when your married, yes l know its wrong, but ever so nice. Accepting flirty friend requests lol :tongue:
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    I just make the general assumption that the opposite sex is flirting with me.

    I may come off like a completely self obsessed *kitten* but at least I don't miss out on opportunities.

    It looks like your belly button is whistling.

    :laugh: I'm sorry that there is funny
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    I did notice several times, but it's likely that I miss it more often than not. If I'm not interested it doesn't matter anyway.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    I am oblivious. It's a combination of many things but the biggest reason (pun intended) is my weight. Being nearly 500 lbs for most of my 20's, if a woman was flirting with me, I'd instantly assume she as just being friendly and never think she was "interested" in a fatty like me. I get told by friends that it happens, especially with the weight I've lost, but I just don't see it. I am one of those guys that needs to be smacked in the head with a huge bright glowing sign "I AM FLIRTING WITH YOU" and even then, it's possible I'd still miss it.
  • nickyfm
    nickyfm Posts: 1,214 Member
    I jut show them my boobs.

    Works for me.
  • magnum26
    magnum26 Posts: 356 Member
    I jut show them my boobs.

    Works for me.

    That would work for me!

    To my knowledge no-one has ever flirted with me.
  • debbash68
    debbash68 Posts: 981 Member
    I just make the general assumption that the opposite sex is flirting with me.

    I may come off like a completely self obsessed *kitten* but at least I don't miss out on opportunities.

    It looks like your belly button is whistling.
    What work out tune would it be whistling?
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    I've been told I'm completely oblivious to women flirting with me

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