Lol, just got defriended!

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  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    Yeah. Are you bored or do you just want a good outlet to b*tch about your feelings getting hurt?

    We all have different views, senses of humor, etc. I generally advocate tolerance but if someone doesn't fit yours they have a right to unfriend you without you getting butthurt and posting about it on the forums.
    Butthurt? I just found it funny.:laugh: Welcome the forums newbie.

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    Not a newbie, but thanks. If you just thought it was funny you may have maybe written a status about it or just chuckled to yourself. By putting it on the forums your looking for people to support you and a way of saying publicly to her "yeah, you're stupid". It screams butthurt. Most of us don't need to make a post on the forums after having a friend deletes us. Especially when they have as many friends as you have.

    I drink it anyway, but fake sweeteners are full of some pretty nasty chemicals. Then again, I smoked for a while too. I give in easily to chemically vices. But there is a point to be made with the nastiness of aspartame, especially with its link to cancer. Perhaps not worth deleting a friend over, but some of us are bigger health nuts than others.

    You know who seems butthurt...hint: Not the OP.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I find the OP mildly amusing but the butt hurt responses have me very entertained.

    Someone defriended him over a diet soda and thought it significant enough to PM him over it. FFS. There are certainly less significant posts in Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games. Now off to read about who is humping, dumping or passing who . . .

    Dude...it's only Tuesday...the humping doesn't go down until Wednesday. C'mon man....
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    It is too early for this nonsense.


    And really, I have to ask, why post your credentials each and every time? That is some serious dedication.

    It's a signature and automatically gets posted along with ur msg.You dont need to add it everytime:huh:

    The ticker you don't have to post every time. But he does post his credentials every time.

    They say he gives himself a mini-self-high-five every time he copies and pastes it. *orgasm noise*
    Oooh, never thought of it this way........................sounds legit.

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  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I find the OP mildly amusing but the butt hurt responses have me very entertained.

    Someone defriended him over a diet soda and thought it significant enough to PM him over it. FFS. There are certainly less significant posts in Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games. Now off to read about who is humping, dumping or passing who . . .

    Dude...it's only Tuesday...the humping doesn't go down until Wednesday. C'mon man....
    But it's a short week.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Just out of curiosity... I drank a couple of full cane sugar Jones Sodas over the weekend. Will all of my friends be gone once they read this?
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    Why don't you take a deep breathe and look at my post again.

    Okay... I'm confused now... it must be lunch time! :embarassed:

    It wasn't directed at you....actually, it was in support of the OP and even your own remarks.

    Sorry you don't like my .gif. I wasn't going for an award or anything.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    ............and regarding this thread lookit.

    I'm not sure what I find more " *sigh* *rollseyes* "

    1) Diet coke is the devil:devil:
    2) The fact that someone PM'd an unfriendation
    3) The fact that said someone equates hired personal trainer with free online opinions for the masses
    4) The airing of dirty laundry in public of said threadbare virtual "friendship" ending
    5) The fact that this facking thread got 8 pages of play so far and all my wonderful threads go crickets


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    ETA: NINE, while I was getting this gif NINE this ridiculous thread went to NINE pages. Unbeleivable.

    ETAA: (edited to add AGAIN): TEN, and now it's become TEN! TEN pages! Can someone please unfriend me off my FL so I can finally make a successful thread about it? Please? And don't forget to PM me otherwise I won't know and won't have anything to write about it past the thread title.
  • bigphatcat
    bigphatcat Posts: 7,843 Member
    I am shocked and chagrinned. Sending an FR so I can defriend you...lol
  • __Di__
    __Di__ Posts: 1,659 Member
    Just out of curiosity... I drank a couple of full cane sugar Jones Sodas over the weekend. Will all of my friends be gone once they read this?

    Dunno, but I am drinking diet lemonade as I type this, if others don't want theirs, all the more for me :laugh:
  • gzus7freek
    gzus7freek Posts: 494 Member
    DIET DR. PEPPER!!!! YYYYAAAYYY!!!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    Yes, yes! I concur! We should post absolutely anything we want on the forum! Moderators? what moderators? Why are those here!? We should have people with serious ED problems posting their tips and tricks to how they don't eat more than 300 calories a day and people should totally be able to make threads devoted to what a skank some girl is! Yes, yes!

    I don't see where the OP insulted the woman that defriended him... anywhere in this thread.

    And if you have such a huge problem with this thread, why haven't you reported it yet?

    Instead, you continue to bicker with people in the thread so that it keeps getting bumped to the top of recent topics where it gets more exposure, and potentially perpetuating the drama.

    And, I'm sure you will relish in throwing it back in my face because I've engaged with you, but the fact of the matter is, if somebody doesn't call you out, you may never realize how ignorant this behavior is.

    I haven't reported it because it isn't in violation of the rules of the forum.

    The OP is just being a d*ck. But I suppose you're right. If someone's a d*ck they usually are unable to realize it and nothing changes even if you point out that they're being rude. It never really does solve much to argue on the forums. It's just a way to pass the time for most people.

    I'm not going to relish anything or throw it back in your face. I really don't quite understand what it is you think I would throw in your face or what is ignorant about what I've said. Ignorant of what? No wait. Don't answer that. I would just be"throwing it in your face" after you engaged with me.

    I fail to see how being silly and entertaining makes it ok to start name calling, nor do I see how he's being a d*ck, as you stated...
  • KatLifter
    KatLifter Posts: 1,314 Member
    Just out of curiosity... I drank a couple of full cane sugar Jones Sodas over the weekend. Will all of my friends be gone once they read this?

    I'm going to Friend Request you, just so I can defriend you and PM you about it.
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    I have been getting defriended a lot recently. Guess I am just not "cool" enough anymore *shrug*
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    I fail to see how being silly and entertaining makes it ok to start name calling, nor do I see how he's being a d*ck, as you stated...

    Because there was really no need to do a whole post on how someone PM'd him and defriended him over a different view on soda.

    This would have been better left on his news feed. People are now bashing a person that they don't know, saying she's got a few screws loose and the like. That's kind of rude, no?
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    i'm not sure what made me laugh more... the food diary police, defriending people for soda sinning, or the thread drama that followed. either way, tyvm for the entertainment!
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Why don't you take a deep breathe and look at my post again.

    Okay... I'm confused now... it must be lunch time! :embarassed:

    It wasn't directed at you....actually, it was in support of the OP and even your own remarks.

    Sorry you don't like my .gif. I wasn't going for an award or anything.

    I sorry.

    I saw a good one yesterday. It had like little cartoon faces and lit up.

    I'm getting sensitive on this whole 'throwing stuff back in my face' thing. Perhaps it is time for a forum-break. :flowerforyou:
  • OMG, I had to re-read this a few times before I realized that ED stood for "eating disorder" and not "erectile dysfunction." That "WTG I'm going to jump in and say it's too low" part really threw me for a loop.
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  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    I fail to see how being silly and entertaining makes it ok to start name calling, nor do I see how he's being a d*ck, as you stated...

    Because there was really no need to do a whole post on how someone PM'd him and defriended him over a different view on soda.

    This would have been better left on his news feed. People are now bashing a person that they don't know, saying she's got a few screws loose and the like. That's kind of rude, no?

    the responses, maybe. OP did not say she had screws loose. He was just playing around.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    Yeah. Are you bored or do you just want a good outlet to b*tch about your feelings getting hurt?

    We all have different views, senses of humor, etc. I generally advocate tolerance but if someone doesn't fit yours they have a right to unfriend you without you getting butthurt and posting about it on the forums.
    Butthurt? I just found it funny.:laugh: Welcome the forums newbie.

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    It must have bothered you if you felt the need to broadcast it.
    Nah, it bothers me when it bothers others more than it bothers me.:laugh: :laugh:

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  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    Why don't you take a deep breathe and look at my post again.

    Okay... I'm confused now... it must be lunch time! :embarassed:

    It wasn't directed at you....actually, it was in support of the OP and even your own remarks.

    Sorry you don't like my .gif. I wasn't going for an award or anything.

    I sorry.

    I saw a good one yesterday. It had like little cartoon faces and lit up.

    I'm getting sensitive on this whole 'throwing stuff back in my face' thing. Perhaps it is time for a forum-break. :flowerforyou:

    No harm no foul!

    :drinker:
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
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  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    I fail to see how being silly and entertaining makes it ok to start name calling, nor do I see how he's being a d*ck, as you stated...

    Because there was really no need to do a whole post on how someone PM'd him and defriended him over a different view on soda.

    This would have been better left on his news feed. People are now bashing a person that they don't know, saying she's got a few screws loose and the like. That's kind of rude, no?

    No one said anything about this person directly... that's the point.

    This was a commentary on a certain type of mentality of MFP community users.

    I'm really confused at why this is so offensive... and why some find it offensive... and why those that find it offensive continue to bring attention to this thread rather than reporting whatever posts they find offensive... oh that's right... because its not offensive. :huh:
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Okay even though I hate to contribute to this miserable thread this is the only place it seems fitting.

    Does anyone else think that maybe when we click "female" on the MFP sign ups we should get an additional graphic under our ticker that indicates our PMS levels as red yellow and green stages. It can ask just like at the Dr's office when we started our last period, and then calculate for us when we might be most likely to experience higher or faster levels of butthurt?
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    How this thread should have gone:

    OP: i was just unfriended because I drink Diet Coke, etc

    First Response: Hahahahaha

    Second Response: That's weird, but maybe they had another reason.

    Third Response: Yeah, second responder. That could be true. Oh well. We'll never know.

    OP: Yeah. I just thought it was kind of funny. Okay, well, have a good day!

    First, Second and Third Responders: You too! Bye!

    The End

    By Contrarian
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    How this thread should have gone:

    OP: i was just unfriended because I drink Diet Coke, etc

    First Response: Hahahahaha

    Second Response: That's weird, but maybe they had another reason.

    Third Response: Yeah, second responder. That could be true. Oh well. We'll never know.

    OP: Yeah. I just thought it was kind of funny. Okay, well, have a good day!

    First, Second and Third Responders: You too! Bye!

    The End

    By Contrarian
    True story.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    Yeah. Are you bored or do you just want a good outlet to b*tch about your feelings getting hurt?

    We all have different views, senses of humor, etc. I generally advocate tolerance but if someone doesn't fit yours they have a right to unfriend you without you getting butthurt and posting about it on the forums.

    LOL...I don't think he's butt hurt...I'm sure ninerbuff could give a rats *kitten*. Some of us are just amused by people notions of "healthy" or "unhealthy" because often they simply don't jive with science and reality.
    Lol, are you kidding? I totally devastated! I think I'm gonna go eat me a McDonald's cheeseburger now..............................wait, I do that every Tuesday.:laugh: :laugh:

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    Ninerbuff, I am more interested in WHY some people are getting so uppity at your qualifications there........

    Keep posting them, if people don't like it, so what LMAO
    Lol, there have been people who have copied it and then put in their own credentials! That I find entertaining!

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  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    for the record, Niner. diet coke is gross and now I may have to delete you for drinking that over regular coke. Are you too good for regular coke?? :laugh:
  • Kimdbro
    Kimdbro Posts: 922 Member
    Suprisingly, no one has defriended me because I am a Hitler teapot.

    When I was a black woman dressed as a dalek for a day someone defriended me though.

    The teapot is creepy as f**k lol. :laugh:
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Okay lemme try since noone has pm'd me signature instructions...

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    ^like that? is that how you do it?
  • __Di__
    __Di__ Posts: 1,659 Member
    Yeah. Are you bored or do you just want a good outlet to b*tch about your feelings getting hurt?

    We all have different views, senses of humor, etc. I generally advocate tolerance but if someone doesn't fit yours they have a right to unfriend you without you getting butthurt and posting about it on the forums.

    LOL...I don't think he's butt hurt...I'm sure ninerbuff could give a rats *kitten*. Some of us are just amused by people notions of "healthy" or "unhealthy" because often they simply don't jive with science and reality.
    Lol, are you kidding? I totally devastated! I think I'm gonna go eat me a McDonald's cheeseburger now..............................wait, I do that every Tuesday.:laugh: :laugh:

    A.C.E. Certified Personal/Group FitnessTrainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    Ninerbuff, I am more interested in WHY some people are getting so uppity at your qualifications there........

    Keep posting them, if people don't like it, so what LMAO
    Lol, there have been people who have copied it and then put in their own credentials! That I find entertaining!

    A.C.E. Certified Personal/Group FitnessTrainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    :noway:
    Kick their butts!!!