Do you really only have one "soulmate"?
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GypsyFire65 wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »Out of topic but where do people get the idea of aliens? Where did the idea of them having a big round head with bulbous eyes and where did we get the idea/imagination of God, people with wings, spaceship etc it has to stem up from somewhere past lives maybe or maybe from the annunakis?
The idea for God makes sense that people attributed things they didn't understand to something magical and powerful that was both destructive and protective. Clouds, rain, lightening, etc. Bad things seen as punishment. Good as being saved. It's normal for children to think that way about parents. God is like an imaginary parent to punish bad things and provide comfort when a person is afraid and suffering. People can hallucinate when they are under extreme distress (like war or torture). Parents tell stories to encourage children to behave. It's comfort for dealing with the fear of death and punishment to try and control behavior or even to label something as bad when it isn't actually bad (like sex).
My point of it was maybe we all have a soulmate maybe we were made in pairs when we die our souls/subconscious gets reincarnated/recycled to a different body with no recollection of the past maybe that's where all these ideas comes from and every now and then we get to cross paths with our other half idk it's just a thought I know it's sounds like a fairytale or silly figured I'll throw it out there
I don't think its silly. Thats why I put the link to this movie "Cloud Atlas" in my earlier post. And quite a few people believe this to be true.
So the part you were asking about aliens.... Don't laugh but. When I was a really little kid about 5 years old. I had a dream one night. It wasn't a scarey dream.
The dream was.... the light bulb people (heads that looked like big light bulbs with funny looking eyes)
They took my brother and I to the beach. Then into the ocean. Then into a underwater cave. Even though we were under water, we had no problem with breathing. We were just fine without air to breathe. Laying on a table under the water in the cave. We weren't really in any fear either. I can't remember the rest. Thats all I can remember of the dream. Why did I have this dream? Why do I still remember it 45 years later? I never heard of aliens at that age. But when I hear of some peoples alien encounters I kinda laugh. And then I see their pictures of what their alien looked like. Then I think, that looks alot like the lightbulb people from my dream when I was a kid.
Some people mistake near death experiences, as being dreams; which is why you might be able to still remember it. People of all ages, do die; in their sleep. I believe that you were able, to breathe underwater because you ceased breathing, while sleeping & thus that would've caused your death, if you didn't exit; the dream.
My Mother has a dream frequently, in which she's climbing the stairs; to heaven but turns around & begins walking down them, then awakens.
I've had dreams, in which I am falling but then awaken before, I crash land.3 -
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I'm pretty sure Natalie Portman has been my soulmate for the last 20 years.6
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I don't believe in "soulmates", in fact I despise that term. I also hate the "you complete me" phrase. UGH...so corny.0
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I don't believe in "soulmates", in fact I despise that term. I also hate the "you complete me" phrase. UGH...so corny.
but @J_Surita3 I think we are wine soulmates and could compete each others' sentences when we've had a few...bottles1 -
I don't believe in "soulmates", in fact I despise that term. I also hate the "you complete me" phrase. UGH...so corny.
but @J_Surita3 I think we are wine soulmates and could compete each others' sentences when we've had a few...bottles
Well there is that. Good point chica.
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I believe so. I have thought i have found mine a few times but it just wasn't to be though. Still searching...2
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I think soul mates are a real thing, and don't have to be your husband or wife. I've had a few in my life. My first was my best friend...we knew within moments that our friendship would last forever, and it did, until she died two years ago, and took a huge piece of me with her. I've never met another friend like her in my 47 years on this planet.
My second one is my honey. We never got married, but we have been living in sin for 23 crazy years. We feel each other's feelings, read each others minds, without even realizing we're doing it. He's got my back, and I've got his, always. In 23 years, it hasn't always been perfect, there have been a few rough patches. But I wouldn't change a thing, and wouldn't have ever wished it to have been with anyone else.
The last one is my 7 year old granddaughter. Without knowing it was going to happen, her heart and mine bonded in such a way that will stay with us forever. I wake up thinking about her, and go to sleep thinking about her. She's my "little love".
Maybe I'll meet another person who becomes another soul mate, but if I don't, these three people are in my head and heart forever, their souls melded to my soul.4 -
GypsyFire65 wrote: »Woah. Thats interesting. Thank you @DeficitDuchess.
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Awww @JustMissTracy that's sweet
I think we often confuse romantic love with this sort of thing. I suppose my brother is my soulmate since we've always been really close.
I've had two husbands and I'd never describe either as a soulmate.2 -
DeficitDuchess wrote: »GypsyFire65 wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »Out of topic but where do people get the idea of aliens? Where did the idea of them having a big round head with bulbous eyes and where did we get the idea/imagination of God, people with wings, spaceship etc it has to stem up from somewhere past lives maybe or maybe from the annunakis?
The idea for God makes sense that people attributed things they didn't understand to something magical and powerful that was both destructive and protective. Clouds, rain, lightening, etc. Bad things seen as punishment. Good as being saved. It's normal for children to think that way about parents. God is like an imaginary parent to punish bad things and provide comfort when a person is afraid and suffering. People can hallucinate when they are under extreme distress (like war or torture). Parents tell stories to encourage children to behave. It's comfort for dealing with the fear of death and punishment to try and control behavior or even to label something as bad when it isn't actually bad (like sex).
My point of it was maybe we all have a soulmate maybe we were made in pairs when we die our souls/subconscious gets reincarnated/recycled to a different body with no recollection of the past maybe that's where all these ideas comes from and every now and then we get to cross paths with our other half idk it's just a thought I know it's sounds like a fairytale or silly figured I'll throw it out there
I don't think its silly. Thats why I put the link to this movie "Cloud Atlas" in my earlier post. And quite a few people believe this to be true.
So the part you were asking about aliens.... Don't laugh but. When I was a really little kid about 5 years old. I had a dream one night. It wasn't a scarey dream.
The dream was.... the light bulb people (heads that looked like big light bulbs with funny looking eyes)
They took my brother and I to the beach. Then into the ocean. Then into a underwater cave. Even though we were under water, we had no problem with breathing. We were just fine without air to breathe. Laying on a table under the water in the cave. We weren't really in any fear either. I can't remember the rest. Thats all I can remember of the dream. Why did I have this dream? Why do I still remember it 45 years later? I never heard of aliens at that age. But when I hear of some peoples alien encounters I kinda laugh. And then I see their pictures of what their alien looked like. Then I think, that looks alot like the lightbulb people from my dream when I was a kid.
Some people mistake near death experiences, as being dreams; which is why you might be able to still remember it. People of all ages, do die; in their sleep. I believe that you were able, to breathe underwater because you ceased breathing, while sleeping & thus that would've caused your death, if you didn't exit; the dream.
My Mother has a dream frequently, in which she's climbing the stairs; to heaven but turns around & begins walking down them, then awakens.
I've had dreams, in which I am falling but then awaken before, I crash land.
There is a term for this. Pressure on certain parts of the brain results in the same dream for everyone and I think it's linked to disturbed REM? . There is a very vivid dream where you are paralysed and assaulted by a demon/alien and scientists have replicated it in sleep subjects by stimulating certain areas of the brain.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_paralysis
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Soulmate? nah. However I have found a certain someone 'perfect for me'. With the exception of location, that is an issue. grumble0
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Two friends of mine, together since high school ('90) 3 kids later and now getting divorced. Many times on FB, they've claimed to be soulmates.
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Anyone have divorce rate statistics for soulmates?1
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WickedPineapple wrote: »I don't believe in soulmates. The older I get, the more I find the idea manipulative. One person trying to get the other not to leave them because "we belong together" rather than "we can work through this". I think it also gives people who believe it unrealistic expectations of how much work they may have to put into their relationship (i.e., soulmates = easy). Personally, I'd rather be chosen than fated.
BTW I'm also happily married.
Same with me, there's no such thing as ''The One''. If it were true then marriage rates around the world would have been 1% and there wouldn't be such a thing as moving on from a failed relationship & meeting someone new. I had few relationships & loved all my exes & my current guy equally.0 -
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Really not a fan of the term: soulmate
There's only been two people in my life where I thought: I could spend the rest of my life with this person.
I'm married to one of them.
The other one... it was just a matter of poor timing.0 -
My outlook on love has changed. I used to believe in soulmates... not anymore.0
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Well I have only have one 'whateva' you want to call it. This soulmate wording thang is just a label to use.0
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I believe that people've unrealistic assertions concerning, the context of; what a soulmate's & thus, either don't find; them and/or don't realize that, they've! For many the word's just a fanciful description of, a compatible relationship that; just blossomed via convenience/happenstance!
For instance when I was attempting to find someone I, began within a radius of; a maximum of 10 miles because that's what was convenient for me, never did I expect to find my soulmate within; 10 miles & thus I wasn't seeking my soulmate, the hottest guy in the world etc. but instead just a nice guy that finishes last!0 -
I believe we become our own soulmates when we learn to love and accept ourselves for who we are. No one can make you feel whole, only you can do that.
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I've used it only once............when I got my Integra GSR back in the '96.I don't believe in "soulmates", in fact I despise that term. I also hate the "you complete me" phrase. UGH...so corny.
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I believe that everyone only has one soulmate but can have several life partners.
I believe a soulmate is the person that you are perfect for and they are perfect for you. However, I don't believe soulmates always find each other or even always like / are interested in each other. I believe soulmate relationships can end up star-crossed or even unrequited (you love the soulmate, but they don't feel the same way about you). They can also end up being perfect love story type relationships. If they actually do get together, I believe real soulmate relationships rarely, if ever, result in divorce.
I believe a life partner is someone that you are very compatible with and love, though they may not be your perfect/ideal soulmate. Life partner relationships can often be very successful and even end up in a lifelong marriage, but are subject to the possibilities of divorce, etc that any relationship can encounter.1 -
This I can possibly go with. With over 7 billion people in the world and the average person only having about 5-8 serious relationships in their lives, one isn't even seeing a fraction of a possible "soulmate".I believe that everyone only has one soulmate but can have several life partners.
I believe a soulmate is the person that you are perfect for and they are perfect for you. However, I don't believe soulmates always find each other or even always like / are interested in each other. I believe soulmate relationships can end up star-crossed or even unrequited (you love the soulmate, but they don't feel the same way about you). They can also end up being perfect love story type relationships. If they actually do get together, I believe real soulmate relationships rarely, if ever, result in divorce.
I believe a life partner is someone that you are very compatible with and love, though they may not be your perfect/ideal soulmate. Life partner relationships can often be very successful and even end up in a lifelong marriage, but are subject to the possibilities of divorce, etc that any relationship can encounter.
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Cutaway_Collar wrote: »Soulmates happen by sheer luck and providence. Many people didn't find theirs because time, fate and destiny didn't put them in the right place. Or they just limited themselves. Oh he is christian, she's liberal, this race, that race.... Educated, uneducated...
And your soulmate could be across party lines where you don't or will never look.
Soulmates are not meant to be perfect. It's that person you are able to spend time with forever and time passes and then you die and the person was by your side. I have heard stories where couples died on the same day just hours in between. Or the living spouse lives in grief. I believe these people are soulmates.
I cannot function without my wife. I don't even know where my SSN card or passport is. She cannot function in my absence she says. Ipso facto, we should be soulmates. Only time will tell and right now it feels like we are soulmates. We have had issues nobody else probably has often. Yet it feels like the other person is a part of you and life can be bleak without them.
Sounds like you two are codependent not soul mates
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I don't believe that each person we marry is considered a soul mate that's the reason for the divorce. I never considered my ex-husband a soulmate to me. We never really clicked in the way that you do with a soulmate. I do believe, however, we can have soulmates all over the world and not just in one place and never know them - if that makes sense. It has always seemed odd to me that my only soulmate would just happen to live in the same town or close by to me.1
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I met my Soulmate when I was 16, we divorced after 35yrs.
He is still my Soulmate and I know he feels the same.
Being with one's Soulmate does not guarantee a life of happiness and bliss.
We're close friends now but could never live together again.
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Nah I don't really believe in soulmates. I have had two very deeps loves in my life and they were SO different. I think people come into your life to teach you and help you grow. Some are romantic some are not.
Having said that... one of the two loves, if I could go back in time I would have walked away the day I met him. It was a lesson I didn't need to know.2 -
WickedPineapple wrote: »I don't believe in soulmates. The older I get, the more I find the idea manipulative. One person trying to get the other not to leave them because "we belong together" rather than "we can work through this". I think it also gives people who believe it unrealistic expectations of how much work they may have to put into their relationship (i.e., soulmates = easy). Personally, I'd rather be chosen than fated.
BTW I'm also happily married.
This. I'm also married, going on 9 years in October.0
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