Feeling unattractive?

StarBonfireBeachSexMeYou

@AashenReykar
As much as we hear or would like to believe that other people's words and actions can't hurt us unless we let them, it's simply not always true. Most of the time it's who we love or who is supposed to love us, that hurt us the most. There is no love without pain. No growth without struggle. But we all make the choice how we treat others, what kind of ripple we help create. Unfortunately, as much as I'd like to believe all of it, sometimes I feel it's okay to let myself give in to the constriction.
"If I can ease one life the aching"
- Emily Dickinson
I guess it'll be a wash...

Grey_1

Feeling unattractive....nah.

I find lots of freedom in acknowledging I'm one step removed from a sasquatch lol. No false expectations

Heartisalonelyhunter

Cutaway_Collar wrote: »

I can't believe so many people can think like this. I have never had this feeling. Even in my fattest days. Do any of you have any ounce of ego?! Damn you!

As to the OP, I am sure others have told you. You look attractive. Your bf cheating on you does not have to do with how you look. There is a ton of factors involved. Don't sweat it. Don't let it define your future years and relatioships.

Example, look at Tiger Woods. Totally gorgeous wife. His mistresses - some of them look so ugly that ....

Turns out Tiger loved deviant sex and is a sex addict. A woman like his wife, she is not going to weird herself down like a prostitute. Some women are not raised/socialized that way.

It also has to do with emotions. Arnold Schwar... had a secret life with his housekeeper for years. His wife is a Kennedy and is probably more arrogant and reserved. And he found comfort and love with his housekeeper though it goes against marriage vows.

I had a coworker. She is blond and looks like Margot Robbie and is a top class dresser. Her husband was banging Asian women in the city. She found out and was crushed. Not her fault at all. Her husband found a new fetish.

Point is - people cheat for the weirdest of reasons. No need to bring your self-esteem down for it.

I find it hilarious that in this entire egotistical monologue you manage to tell women that their husbands don't cheat because of how they look, but it's still their fault because they won't 'weird themselves down like a prositute' or because they're 'probably arrogant and reserved'. It reads like a self-help book penned by a reclusive 14 year old boy.
People cheat primarily because we all fear death.

amethystskycg

I have good days and bad days. I still hate to be in pictures.

tenwolves13

Always felt a little insecure but now even more so since I turned 40 and gained some pounds. Trying to at least shes the pounds.

let_me_clip_dirty_wings

Wait, what?!?! Feeling unattractive is a bad thing?!?! How else are we supposed to develop our minds and personalities?!?!
#ChessIsBetterThanCheckers
#TongueInCheek

Grey_1

let_me_clip_dirty_wings wrote: »

Wait, what?!?! Feeling unattractive is a bad thing?!?! How else are we supposed to develop our minds and personalities?!?!
#ChessIsBetterThanCheckers

I like it

While appearance is important in certain contexts, hopefully there's some depth behind the looks.

fitmomness

Married since 1997 to brianbgboy

tbright1965

Looking back on my High School pictures, I don't understand why I felt unattractive then.

Looking at current pictures compared to some of those same classmates from many decades ago, I feel pretty good

J_NY_Z

Every day that ends in "Y"

s131951

Sure.

Deadman_Diggingup

Yup.

Reckoner68

Yes but I like it

DWBalboa

I do have days like that, but then I look at my co-work and realize, I could have it worse!

777Gemma888

Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »

Cutaway_Collar wrote: »

I can't believe so many people can think like this. I have never had this feeling. Even in my fattest days. Do any of you have any ounce of ego?! Damn you!

As to the OP, I am sure others have told you. You look attractive. Your bf cheating on you does not have to do with how you look. There is a ton of factors involved. Don't sweat it. Don't let it define your future years and relatioships.

Example, look at Tiger Woods. Totally gorgeous wife. His mistresses - some of them look so ugly that ....

Turns out Tiger loved deviant sex and is a sex addict. A woman like his wife, she is not going to weird herself down like a prostitute. Some women are not raised/socialized that way.

It also has to do with emotions. Arnold Schwar... had a secret life with his housekeeper for years. His wife is a Kennedy and is probably more arrogant and reserved. And he found comfort and love with his housekeeper though it goes against marriage vows.

I had a coworker. She is blond and looks like Margot Robbie and is a top class dresser. Her husband was banging Asian women in the city. She found out and was crushed. Not her fault at all. Her husband found a new fetish.

Point is - people cheat for the weirdest of reasons. No need to bring your self-esteem down for it.

I find it hilarious that in this entire egotistical monologue you manage to tell women that their husbands don't cheat because of how they look, but it's still their fault because they won't 'weird themselves down like a prositute' or because they're 'probably arrogant and reserved'. It reads like a self-help book penned by a reclusive 14 year old boy.
People cheat primarily because we all fear death.

Cutaway_ Collar ... His humor quotient was unrivaled in here. Resident 'devil's advocate' . Miss his daily doses of the outrageous and heinous, as ONLY HE would go there. :laugh:

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my gf tells me I'm cute, but I'm on to her lies.

Tinydancer106

DWBalboa wrote: »

I do have days like that, but then I look at my co-work and realize, I could have it worse!

😂😂😂😎🤗...I so dig you DW!😎🤘🤗💜

Tinydancer106

Most days hell ya😣....but I try to blend in the background so no one notices.....🤷😬

_Miss_chievous_

I try to not look in the mirror, especially when I'm not wearing a wig.

GymGoddessGoals

Most days