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caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
I hope you don't mind if I disagree with you, but your premise was an unsolicited d!ck pick. If it's being sent out Willy nilly it's fair game for ridicule.
In a locker room setting my good friend pointed me out loudly and said " check that out, looks like a penis only smaller" . Have to imagine it spoken in a boisterous Boston accent. Mortifying for a moment but still makes me laugh 26 or so years later.
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caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
I hope you don't mind if I disagree with you, but your premise was an unsolicited d!ck pick. If it's being sent out Willy nilly it's fair game for ridicule.
In a locker room setting my good friend pointed me out loudly and said " check that out, looks like a penis only smaller" . Have to imagine it spoken in a boisterous Boston accent. Mortifying for a moment but still makes me laugh 26 or so years later.
Good use of willy nilly
I’m not condoning the d pics, just saying that the size response is disappointingly unimaginative
Edit: your story 😂 Glad it made you laugh. Love how candid guys can be0 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Pandemonium_ wrote: »I wonder if anyone ever went to a concert and the performer did the usual "Are you ready to rock" (ok, usual in the 80s) and there was someone in the crowd who had a rough day, and really only went because the tickets were already purchased and really were not at all ready to rock whatsoever.
eta: oop wrong meme gimme sec
eta2: heres the right one but left wrong one bc it funny too
Haha I like both of those. No one ever asks me anymore what my favorite Platonic solid is 😕 but I so want to use that sometime!
FOR THE RECORD, it's a dodecahedron. Y'all don't care...
I'm going to bed
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
oh even the LSU flasher i told about in other thread like i heard the story and felt bad for him tbh
That was the story that got me thinking about it. And thats another thing women mock.. men who cry
yep, they want a guy to show emotion and be sensitive but if he cries or is low or hurting they make fun of him
most girls want a guy to be a rock is all. sure if he sheds a tear occasionally they might be amazed by it. because rocks don't cry. it'd be amazing and rare to see.
if he's a bucket full of water all the time that's nothing special. some women, not all, might kick that bucket over just to see the water come out.
if you're a guy you just gotta accept that. it's as sure as the sunrise.4 -
caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
I love you for statements like this. You know, in that strictly platonic internet strangers sorta way. :laugh:1 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
oh even the LSU flasher i told about in other thread like i heard the story and felt bad for him tbh
That was the story that got me thinking about it. And thats another thing women mock.. men who cry
yep, they want a guy to show emotion and be sensitive but if he cries or is low or hurting they make fun of him
most girls want a guy to be a rock is all. sure if he sheds a tear occasionally they might be amazed by it. because rocks don't cry. it'd be amazing and rare to see.
if he's a bucket full of water all the time that's nothing special. some women, not all, might kick that bucket over just to see the water come out.
if you're a guy you just gotta accept that. it's as sure as the sunrise.
you’re not wrong2 -
CanesGalactica wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
I love you for statements like this. You know, in that strictly platonic internet strangers sorta way. :laugh:
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Think I’m gonna vomit out more threads in here tomorrow0
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Pandemonium_ wrote: »I wonder if anyone ever went to a concert and the performer did the usual "Are you ready to rock" (ok, usual in the 80s) and there was someone in the crowd who had a rough day, and really only went because the tickets were already purchased and really were not at all ready to rock whatsoever.
eta: oop wrong meme gimme sec
eta2: heres the right one but left wrong one bc it funny too
Haha I like both of those. No one ever asks me anymore what my favorite Platonic solid is 😕 but I so want to use that sometime!
FOR THE RECORD, it's a dodecahedron. Y'all don't care...
I'm going to bed
I was legit gonna ask you tomorrow just because I thought the joke would be better a little bit aged1 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »i really like that white duck
If you give it some bread it will return the favor with supplemental medical insurance.
Bread is bad for birds. It is better to bring a bag of mixed frozen veggies like peas and give them that.
I give my ducks and geese romaine lettuce everyday.....with a little dandelion mixed in.
Nice. Take pics of them please.
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caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
100% it's a low blow. Like if you're not attracted to (any trait) why point it out and trash it, especially publicly? It's a you "thing"...and that's ok...but when spoken in a derogatory or potentially shaming situation...
its mean spirited, and definitely a lack of ingenuity. But (I'm going all literal now) you did say "we" and that isn't you
and most often isn't me, I hope.
...that being said, I hate looking at feet, almost everyones (there is one pair of feet I like!)
(not trying to breeze over your thought @caco_ethes ...just point out my own hypocrisy)
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It just dawned on me that I don't actually talk to anyone at work. Other than this one guy friend. The other one works on day shift. I only talk to one person here on MFP, because he's a great support friend.
I enjoy small circles, less stuff to deal with.3 -
I feel like I am in a different place than my friends...feels a little lonely right now.0
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caco_ethes wrote: »With all the talk about unsolicited d pics and stuff, you often see the response from women (and this is not meant to be vaguely directed at anyone, it’s done pretty universally) that they mock the person who sent the pic. More specifically, they disparage their pointy bits. Size and whatnot.
I find this practice to be extraordinarily off-putting. I can’t pinpoint why but it’s not because i feel sorry for the guys hearing it. More that it reflects kinda poorly on the women saying it. It’s just.. Its like we collectively know as a sex that men have this button and pushing it is the fastest and easiest way to emasculate them. But by pushing the button, we highlight our own weakness or lack of ingenuity in doing so
Does this make sense to anyone?
I completely get your point. No need to body shame anyone.1 -
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Counting down to clock out time.0
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NoHookUpZone wrote: »Counting down to clock out time.
Lol,, Be careful sometimes that makes it go slower0 -
I know!! Aaarg!!NoHookUpZone wrote: »Counting down to clock out time.
Lol,, Be careful sometimes that makes it go slower
Luckily they keep me busy at work so the time flies by.
*knock on wood*
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Just woke up from the worst nightmare I’ve ever had.2
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Five hours of sleep isn’t sufficient.2
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I'm tired
I don't want to be at work
First week back at school is a pain in the *kitten* - SO much domestic crappery, I hate it
I have just signed up to do a French A level, and all I want to do is study that + go out on my bike in the sunshine + sleep.
That is all.1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Think I’m gonna vomit out more threads in here tomorrow
Coming back later for this1 -
Not to get all Oprah on you, but people seem to have an emotional energy and many of them leave me feeling drained and deflated.3
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cynthiabickham wrote: »Just woke up from the worst nightmare I’ve ever had.
Were there snakes? Mine are always about snakes.
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Not to get all Oprah on you, but people seem to have an emotional energy and many of them leave me feeling drained and deflated.
I am not sure about you first phrase but people do have energy and most aren’t aware on how to manage it. When one is down people tend to stay away unless they are popular or something but only for a bit bc it will pull them down too. You can even feel it in post
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