What's on your mind?

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  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    edited October 2019
    dunenoret wrote: »
    I remember the first time I mentioned my husband to my work husband/crush and seeing the disappointed look on his face. I guess he never noticed the ring or that I'm Latina with an Irish last name.

    We're good friends, but I just can't shake that look out of my head.

    I think I understand what you’re saying. But how could he not notice your ring?

    Guys!

    Really dude?

    Why does it have to be that the ring is noticed to signal this? Would be cool if someone's marital status were confirmed prior to the development of a work husband/crush type relationship. Sounds like leading on to me. That burden should be on the one who is kept.


    You're making assumptions. there's nothing wrong with friend husbandry at work, and is no way meant to be taken seriously. It's not like we hang out with each other outside of work, date, or I take off my ring. I never hide the fact that I'm married. I didn't bring my husband in casual conversation if I was trying to hide the fact that I'm married. If I did, then I would call that misleading.

    Why does being friendly have to be anything but that?

    That's the whole, "she deserved it" mentality.
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    I’m really ready for the upcoming NBA season .. amirite?? Lots of story line \ AD to LA.. zions rookie season - dubs minus KD - Luka / Kp start the post dirk era... c’mon ppl are you not excited @LiftingSpirits where you at??
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m really ready for the upcoming NBA season .. amirite?? Lots of story line \ AD to LA.. zions rookie season - dubs minus KD - Luka / Kp start the post dirk era... c’mon ppl are you not excited @LiftingSpirits where you at??

    I am still drunk on football
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
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    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m really ready for the upcoming NBA season .. amirite?? Lots of story line \ AD to LA.. zions rookie season - dubs minus KD - Luka / Kp start the post dirk era... c’mon ppl are you not excited @LiftingSpirits where you at??

    I am still drunk on football

  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    I love a good football game, but if I'm too into it I get stressed out.
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    I love a good football game, but if I'm too into it I get stressed out.

    This is me every Sunday
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    I made no assumptions, I formed an opinion on information given. Had less to do with you than it did the post I actually quoted and the onus being on the single to discern the status of a relationship by investigsting a ring finger and not by the related to pronounce it in a forward manner.


    I'm not sure what she got to tell you if she deserved it or not. It is the mentality of someone who wouldn't hold their relationship status in mystery for the sake of fun and friendship.


    I don't know anyone who announces their relationship status to work friends. Sounds presumptuous to feel the need to.

  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I love a good football game, but if I'm too into it I get stressed out.

    This is me every Sunday

    Me on Sunday!

  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    Then again I work in a government setting, and it would probably be misconstrued as sexual harassment if I did feel the need to announce it to everyone I was friends with at work.
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
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  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    Wait......which thread is this again?!🤷🤔
  • _Miss_chievous_
    _Miss_chievous_ Posts: 2,765 Member
    Then again I work in a government setting, and it would probably be misconstrued as sexual harassment if I did feel the need to announce it to everyone I was friends with at work.

    I don't get it. I'll sleep on it and maybe I'll understand tomorrow.
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    Then again I work in a government setting, and it would probably be misconstrued as sexual harassment if I did feel the need to announce it to everyone I was friends with at work.

    I don't get it. I'll sleep on it and maybe I'll understand tomorrow.

    Really not worth a second thought dear, get some rest :)

  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    This day might require tequila.

    Tequila may not be the answer..... but it’s worth a shot ! Amirite???!
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    This day might require tequila.

    Tequila may not be the answer..... but it’s worth a shot ! Amirite???!

    🤣
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    edited October 2019
    They blocked tenor gifs at work! AWE MAN D:

    I know it was working last week.

    I'm probably why they blocked it :X
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    My wife is having some serious abdominal pains. I’ve prayed for her and would like some prayers for her from my praying folks. I’m hoping it’s just severe gas or constipation. We ate off our diets the other day and ever since it’s been giving her some problems. May not be related at all but I’m hoping it’s just food related. We are living in a remote are where the clinic is also not a place you want to wait in for an extended period. Like most people we will wait until it’s absolutely unbearable before going. I’d rather have something funny or cute to post but alas... Thanks for the opportunity to post my thoughts.

    I hope it turns out to be something simple and passes quickly 🙂
  • Keep_on_cardio
    Keep_on_cardio Posts: 4,166 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    This day might require tequila.

    Tequila may not be the answer..... but it’s worth a shot ! Amirite???!

    Margaritas and yes, was the right answer x2 😜
  • Keep_on_cardio
    Keep_on_cardio Posts: 4,166 Member
    Kid.. I made dinner, a good one (shrimp, sausage and potatoes). No, by all means enjoy that can of ravioli 🤨
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    My wife is having some serious abdominal pains. I’ve prayed for her and would like some prayers for her from my praying folks. I’m hoping it’s just severe gas or constipation. We ate off our diets the other day and ever since it’s been giving her some problems. May not be related at all but I’m hoping it’s just food related. We are living in a remote are where the clinic is also not a place you want to wait in for an extended period. Like most people we will wait until it’s absolutely unbearable before going. I’d rather have something funny or cute to post but alas... Thanks for the opportunity to post my thoughts.

    I hope it turns out to be something simple and passes quickly 🙂

    Adding my sentiments to Jo's.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    This app doesn’t make it easy to stalk people

    You just need to try harder.
  • DiscipleOfChrist29
    DiscipleOfChrist29 Posts: 84 Member
    @slimgirljo15 - Thanks. She is starting to feel a bit better. She is drinking apple cider vinegar (acv) and it is helping whatever the issue is. That acv is a game changer for real. It helps with all sorts of stuff.

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    @slimgirljo15 - Thanks. She is starting to feel a bit better. She is drinking apple cider vinegar (acv) and it is helping whatever the issue is. That acv is a game changer for real. It helps with all sorts of stuff.

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    I'm glad she is getting some relief. Hopefully she'll be back to 100% soon.

    If I have an upset stomach my go to is diet schweppes ginger ale.. Idk why but it settles my stomach.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Living the dream!