What's on your mind?
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Iyour_future_ex_wife wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »CaliValleyGirl wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »I made no assumptions, I formed an opinion on information given. Had less to do with you than it did the post I actually quoted and the onus being on the single to discern the status of a relationship by investigsting a ring finger and not by the related to pronounce it in a forward manner.
I'm not sure what she got to tell you if she deserved it or not. It is the mentality of someone who wouldn't hold their relationship status in mystery for the sake of fun and friendship.
I don't know anyone who announces their relationship status to work friends. Sounds presumptuous to feel the need to.
Lol OK
I get it I think. If I’m talking to a man and randomly blurt out “Hey bucko, I’m married!” it sounds like I believe he has a level of interest that maybe isn’t there and then I look conceited.
Then again in a friendship as close as a “work husband” I’d think that marital status would have come up casually in conversation from time to time.
Since I don’t really know anything about the situation, I’m making up my own entertainment. I’m not making assumptions about real people here, but just stories about the fictional characters who live in my phone.
In my story Bucko knew she was married and didn’t care. Probably thought she didn’t either.
Envisioned the same made up story.
Example: real life me, I go to the gym and talk with all people (men and women). I talk to the same people, in different classes and even without asking, men and women talk about their spouses or boyfriend/girlfriends.
I share, don’t share and over share with certain people at the gym. I’m pretty sure all know I am married. The level of what they know and details of my marriage, another story.2 -
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There is a man on crutches hopping round my garden with the hose. What are you doing hoppy man? Why are you here?2
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Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
I wish James Denton was in my garden 😍2 -
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Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
Sadly the guy in my garden, who I've now deducted is the window cleaner, looks nothing like that 😢3 -
Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
Sadly the guy in my garden, who I've now deducted is the window cleaner, looks nothing like that 😢
A window cleaner on crutches. Hmm. Wonder how that happened. 🤔5 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
Sadly the guy in my garden, who I've now deducted is the window cleaner, looks nothing like that 😢
A window cleaner on crutches. Hmm. Wonder how that happened. 🤔
Makes me think of the high rise window cleaners. Sorry, would NEVER do that 😰0 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
Sadly the guy in my garden, who I've now deducted is the window cleaner, looks nothing like that 😢
A window cleaner on crutches. Hmm. Wonder how that happened. 🤔
He fell off the ladder cleaning the windows of the house over the road which is flippin massive... I'm surprised he is alive let alone back to work!3 -
i take a lot of vitamins and stuff every morning, either when im eating breakfast at my apartment or when im eating at my desk as soon as i get to work. i took them this morning like 20 mins ago and i messed up because one of them was a muscle relaxer and i think another was codeine and i really just need to take a nap now7
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i take a lot of vitamins and stuff every morning, either when im eating breakfast at my apartment or when im eating at my desk as soon as i get to work. i took them this morning like 20 mins ago and i messed up because one of them was a muscle relaxer and i think another was codeine and i really just need to take a nap now
Holy crap man, that's a cocktail for beating insomnia right there. Good luck
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I must be a good girl. They gave me cookies this morning 🤷♀️ closing my eyes pretending they are double stuffed oreos🤣
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i take a lot of vitamins and stuff every morning, either when im eating breakfast at my apartment or when im eating at my desk as soon as i get to work. i took them this morning like 20 mins ago and i messed up because one of them was a muscle relaxer and i think another was codeine and i really just need to take a nap now
Maybe open to the power of suggestion post a selfie?1 -
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I can't think straight. I can't think straight at all... which is why I'm not going anywhere or doing anything for some time. I also may be leaving this community for a bit
Please take care of you. There is no shame in getting away or getting help. But PLEASE get help. If you feel this way then you shouldn't try to push through by yourself. If you need to talk please reach out to me
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LiftingSpirits wrote: »I can't think straight. I can't think straight at all... which is why I'm not going anywhere or doing anything for some time. I also may be leaving this community for a bit
Please take care of you. There is no shame in getting away or getting help. But PLEASE get help. If you feel this way then you shouldn't try to push through by yourself. If you need to talk please reach out to me
Second this. You don't know me but I'm always up for a listen.3 -
I can't think straight. I can't think straight at all... which is why I'm not going anywhere or doing anything for some time. I also may be leaving this community for a bit
If you need someone to talk to and just get out your thoughts, theres some decent people on here that are here. I can understand feeling the need to leave, do so if you believe it will help.
From a personal standpoint, when I have felt like being alone and it stretches longer than a week, I truly need someone. 💜
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Plague_Doktor wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »I can't think straight. I can't think straight at all... which is why I'm not going anywhere or doing anything for some time. I also may be leaving this community for a bit
Please take care of you. There is no shame in getting away or getting help. But PLEASE get help. If you feel this way then you shouldn't try to push through by yourself. If you need to talk please reach out to me
Second this. You don't know me but I'm always up for a listen.
Ditto to this too @1sphere0 -
Proud of my husband.
He got a pedometer, a calorie counter, and went for a short walk when he got home from work. He usually buys the normal Jimmy Dean breakfast bowls, but today he bought delights.
Words cannot express how proud of him I am.
Huge progress!6 -
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Thanks for suggesting support - I didn't expect that, but there's nothing that I have to say..
There's nothing on my mind. I have no stories to tell. I just can't think straight in general.
I was in this boat about a month ago and it was very scary for me. I wish I had the answers or could even just give you a hug. Just know you have people who care0 -
Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.4
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CanesGalactica wrote: »Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.
Sometime's its just so tough to get things moving; I've been thinking about this a lot. Once I get going, I'm usually good at getting things done but getting that start has been killing me lately1 -
CanesGalactica wrote: »Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.
Do you make lists? I have these days too. I do notice that a list helps though. It feels good to cross things off a list. Maybe that is a weird quirk of mine. I will even write things on the list that I did that weren't on the list. So if I need to clean the bathroom, but in the process I organize my drawers or linen closet or something I will write that on the list and cross it off. Seeing all the accomplishments is motivating.3 -
LiftingSpirits wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.
Do you make lists? I have these days too. I do notice that a list helps though. It feels good to cross things off a list. Maybe that is a weird quirk of mine. I will even write things on the list that I did that weren't on the list. So if I need to clean the bathroom, but in the process I organize my drawers or linen closet or something I will write that on the list and cross it off. Seeing all the accomplishments is motivating.
Yep. It's the only way I get anything done because I won't remember it otherwise. Sometimes I just stare at the list and don't do anything, though. Then I move those chores or whatever to the next day.Reckoner68 wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.
Sometime's its just so tough to get things moving; I've been thinking about this a lot. Once I get going, I'm usually good at getting things done but getting that start has been killing me lately
The "starting" bit has always been my problem. I know some of it is anxiety/depression issues, but otherwise.. I dunno. Sometimes it's super easy to motivate myself, but most of the time? I don't want to bother. Aaaaaaaand that's probably why I've been stuck at this weight/size for so long. :laugh:3 -
CanesGalactica wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.
Do you make lists? I have these days too. I do notice that a list helps though. It feels good to cross things off a list. Maybe that is a weird quirk of mine. I will even write things on the list that I did that weren't on the list. So if I need to clean the bathroom, but in the process I organize my drawers or linen closet or something I will write that on the list and cross it off. Seeing all the accomplishments is motivating.
Yep. It's the only way I get anything done because I won't remember it otherwise. Sometimes I just stare at the list and don't do anything, though. Then I move those chores or whatever to the next day.Reckoner68 wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.
Sometime's its just so tough to get things moving; I've been thinking about this a lot. Once I get going, I'm usually good at getting things done but getting that start has been killing me lately
The "starting" bit has always been my problem. I know some of it is anxiety/depression issues, but otherwise.. I dunno. Sometimes it's super easy to motivate myself, but most of the time? I don't want to bother. Aaaaaaaand that's probably why I've been stuck at this weight/size for so long. :laugh:
Yer singin my song, lady. Like I said, I've been really struggling with this for a while now and haven't come up with anything good other than "start with small stuff and build on that momentum"
but now that my brain knows that, when I try to start with small stuff it knows it's a trap1
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