What's on your mind?

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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.

    Do you make lists? I have these days too. I do notice that a list helps though. It feels good to cross things off a list. Maybe that is a weird quirk of mine. I will even write things on the list that I did that weren't on the list. So if I need to clean the bathroom, but in the process I organize my drawers or linen closet or something I will write that on the list and cross it off. Seeing all the accomplishments is motivating.

    Yep. It's the only way I get anything done because I won't remember it otherwise. Sometimes I just stare at the list and don't do anything, though. Then I move those chores or whatever to the next day.
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Why is it so hard some days to get anything done? Nothing is stopping me, I just.. don't want to do it. Even though it needs doing.

    Sometime's its just so tough to get things moving; I've been thinking about this a lot. Once I get going, I'm usually good at getting things done but getting that start has been killing me lately

    The "starting" bit has always been my problem. I know some of it is anxiety/depression issues, but otherwise.. I dunno. Sometimes it's super easy to motivate myself, but most of the time? I don't want to bother. Aaaaaaaand that's probably why I've been stuck at this weight/size for so long. :laugh:

    Yer singin my song, lady. Like I said, I've been really struggling with this for a while now and haven't come up with anything good other than "start with small stuff and build on that momentum"

    but now that my brain knows that, when I try to start with small stuff it knows it's a trap

    Pretty much this. I know a trap when I see it, lol.
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    edited October 2019
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    Walking down the street you'd throw cauliflower at me though?
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    s131951 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    Walking down the street you'd throw cauliflower at me though?

    Only if it were consensual
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    s131951 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    Walking down the street you'd throw cauliflower at me though?

    Only if it were consensual

    You have my consent to throw any brassica at me at any time.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    You live in my phone!!!
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    You live in my phone!!!

    I really do!
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    You live in my phone!!!

    I really do!

    Phew, I was scared I was stuck in a paradox for a second.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    You live in my phone!!!

    I really do!

    Phew, I was scared I was stuck in a paradox for a second.

    Mutual phone living 😊
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  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    You live in my phone!!!
    We all live in YOUR phone. And this is all a dream.

    I used to read Word Up! magazine
    Salt-n-Pepa and Heavy D up in the limousine
    Hangin' pictures on my wall
    Every Saturday Rap Attack, Mr. Magic, Marley Marl
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    I’m having an i hate people moment. It’s been awhile

    It happens. You love all of us though, right? right?

    Yes, the peeps in my phone aight

    You live in my phone!!!
    We all live in YOUR phone. And this is all a dream.

    I used to read Word Up! magazine
    Salt-n-Pepa and Heavy D up in the limousine
    Hangin' pictures on my wall
    Every Saturday Rap Attack, Mr. Magic, Marley Marl

    And if ya don’t know now ya know ... sucka
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    There are a few people around here that I would really like to add to my FL; but then I get all paranoid about adding people to my FL. Also there are a few people around here that I may never be friends with but I always hug dafuq out of their posts.

    Dis me ?
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    There are a few people around here that I would really like to add to my FL; but then I get all paranoid about adding people to my FL. Also there are a few people around here that I may never be friends with but I always hug dafuq out of their posts.

    Dis me ?

    You're definitely on a list.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Hoodie and sweatpants in public indicates that I’ve given up on life, right? Just making sure my outfit is on point
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    i take a lot of vitamins and stuff every morning, either when im eating breakfast at my apartment or when im eating at my desk as soon as i get to work. i took them this morning like 20 mins ago and i messed up because one of them was a muscle relaxer and i think another was codeine and i really just need to take a nap now

    shhhh no tears
    only dreams now <3

    I want him in charge of my medications. Every day an adventure.
  • Dakase83
    Dakase83 Posts: 2,524 Member
    There are a few people around here that I would really like to add to my FL; but then I get all paranoid about adding people to my FL. Also there are a few people around here that I may never be friends with but I always hug dafuq out of their posts.

    I think about this alot too. Fear of rejection so I just hug and keep it moving. Also Im not very good at peopling so there is that.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    There are a few people around here that I would really like to add to my FL; but then I get all paranoid about adding people to my FL. Also there are a few people around here that I may never be friends with but I always hug dafuq out of their posts.

    Same.
  • _Miss_chievous_
    _Miss_chievous_ Posts: 2,765 Member
    There are a few people around here that I would really like to add to my FL; but then I get all paranoid about adding people to my FL. Also there are a few people around here that I may never be friends with but I always hug dafuq out of their posts.

    Same.

    Same..
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Why do I keep drinking coffee? It doesn't do anything for me.
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    Why do I keep drinking coffee? It doesn't do anything for me.

    Does it taste good ??
  • dunenoret
    dunenoret Posts: 77 Member
    dunenoret wrote: »
    I remember the first time I mentioned my husband to my work husband/crush and seeing the disappointed look on his face. I guess he never noticed the ring or that I'm Latina with an Irish last name.

    We're good friends, but I just can't shake that look out of my head.

    I think I understand what you’re saying. But how could he not notice your ring?

    Guys!

    Really dude?

    Why does it have to be that the ring is noticed to signal this? Would be cool if someone's marital status were confirmed prior to the development of a work husband/crush type relationship. Sounds like leading on to me. That burden should be on the one who is kept.
    dunenoret wrote: »
    I remember the first time I mentioned my husband to my work husband/crush and seeing the disappointed look on his face. I guess he never noticed the ring or that I'm Latina with an Irish last name.

    We're good friends, but I just can't shake that look out of my head.

    I think I understand what you’re saying. But how could he not notice your ring?

    Guys!

    Really dude?

    Why does it have to be that the ring is noticed to signal this? Would be cool if someone's marital status were confirmed prior to the development of a work husband/crush type relationship. Sounds like leading on to me. That burden should be on the one who is kept.

    I know some people are slow witted, but to say that the woman here was leading the poor guy on is laughable.

    The woman said that she wore a ‘big’ ring and still the guy crushed on her. This guy should get a life and I hope #me2 prevail!
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    dunenoret wrote: »
    dunenoret wrote: »
    I remember the first time I mentioned my husband to my work husband/crush and seeing the disappointed look on his face. I guess he never noticed the ring or that I'm Latina with an Irish last name.

    We're good friends, but I just can't shake that look out of my head.

    I think I understand what you’re saying. But how could he not notice your ring?

    Guys!

    Really dude?

    Why does it have to be that the ring is noticed to signal this? Would be cool if someone's marital status were confirmed prior to the development of a work husband/crush type relationship. Sounds like leading on to me. That burden should be on the one who is kept.
    dunenoret wrote: »
    I remember the first time I mentioned my husband to my work husband/crush and seeing the disappointed look on his face. I guess he never noticed the ring or that I'm Latina with an Irish last name.

    We're good friends, but I just can't shake that look out of my head.

    I think I understand what you’re saying. But how could he not notice your ring?

    Guys!

    Really dude?

    Why does it have to be that the ring is noticed to signal this? Would be cool if someone's marital status were confirmed prior to the development of a work husband/crush type relationship. Sounds like leading on to me. That burden should be on the one who is kept.

    I know some people are slow witted, but to say that the woman here was leading the poor guy on is laughable.

    The woman said that she wore a ‘big’ ring and still the guy crushed on her. This guy should get a life and I hope #me2 prevail!

    Me too for being infatuated and disappointed? I hope not
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    wtf is ever going on around here

    🤷‍♀️