What's on your mind?

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  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    edited March 2020
    @Tinydancer106 is sending me a package in the mail and I really hope she can fit herself in the box because I could use her positivity in my life 🤗❤

    Going to post office this afternoon.....really limbering up....better have lots of chocolates and a pepper shaker on hand when I get there I may need to be revived 😉😋🤷😜😂😂💗💗💗💗💋👯
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    edited March 2020
    @Tinydancer106 is sending me a package in the mail and I really hope she can fit herself in the box because I could use her positivity in my life 🤗❤

    I tried... But she's much smaller than I so maybe she'll have better luck...

    Couldn't get through customs with the holes and didn't want to show up DOA 😬

    I think we both can fit ....just think of it like twister ...right foot on the return address....left hand on the stamp🤷😉🤗
    cdubks88 wrote: »
    @Tinydancer106 is sending me a package in the mail and I really hope she can fit herself in the box because I could use her positivity in my life 🤗❤

    She's the best.
    Awww that would be you kind sir!🤗🙌
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    @Tinydancer106 is sending me a package in the mail and I really hope she can fit herself in the box because I could use her positivity in my life 🤗❤

    We all could _ she’s what I like to call da beez kneez

    Well I have heard their knees are the best part so ....woo!😍😂🙌🤗....you sir are the cats meow!🐱....the cool cat that is😎🤘
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    I had to make a very hard decision today. I'm heartbroken but it's what's best for my kids and I.

    All the 💗 and 🤗.....so sorry babe!😢
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    I’m beginning to understand why some people go to work high

    Yup ....if I didn't get so damn paranoid .....I mean....I "hear" that's what happens🤷😏
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Guy i used to go to church with passed away early this morning - he was early 30’s - he left behind a wife and 2 daughters 4 and 2 I think - it’s said all the time and may be cliche but tomorrow really is not promised to anyone - I just feel horrible for his wife and children smh

    Oh that sucks so bad! 💔...hugs cowboy!🤗😢
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Guy i used to go to church with passed away early this morning - he was early 30’s - he left behind a wife and 2 daughters 4 and 2 I think - it’s said all the time and may be cliche but tomorrow really is not promised to anyone - I just feel horrible for his wife and children smh

    so young. i get gutted when i read things like this.
    every day is a gift R... like you said about getting the extra *leap* day... <3
  • KickassAmazon76
    KickassAmazon76 Posts: 4,678 Member
    So a cat died in my driveway yesterday (which I've shared here). It had definitely passed and security took the poor creature away to find it's owner and properly dispose of it. I was bummed.

    This morning, while getting in the car to take my son to school, we both saw a cat walking around that looked EXACTLY like the one that passed. I mean, EXACTLY. It kinda has me freaked out.

    hope it's not too soon for this...
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  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
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    If I had inherited a tiny bit of minerals here, I’d now be making
    6 figures a month.
    Just a tiny amount of minerals........
    bummer. 🥺
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Guy i used to go to church with passed away early this morning - he was early 30’s - he left behind a wife and 2 daughters 4 and 2 I think - it’s said all the time and may be cliche but tomorrow really is not promised to anyone - I just feel horrible for his wife and children smh

    So sad for his family.. 😔
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  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,190 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    I find that the only thing that works to cure an unknown sadness is to repeat a mantra in my head, but you have to constantly repeat the mantra.

    Been there yo - just keep grinding man. Chit will get better eventually
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    @1sphere wrote: »
    I find that the only thing that works to cure an unknown sadness is to repeat a mantra in my head, but you have to constantly repeat the mantra.

    Been there yo - just keep grinding man. Chit will get better eventually

    this ^^^ so this^^^....I'm so sorry you're struggling and I think we all do to an extent but some have it worse and it sounds like you're suffering which so sucks! just keep that mantra going if its working and maybe talking to someone could help...I know it helped me tons!

    I really do hope you find your evenness ....I would say happiness but I think when we feel evened out happiness follows...big hugs...and for what its worth...you seem like a super guy! B)🤗
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:

    "I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."

    When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.

    It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?
  • cdubks88
    cdubks88 Posts: 3,573 Member
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    Yep. All the time.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,190 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:

    "I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."

    When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.

    It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?

    Nah. Sometime there are just situations when you can't do anything for the person.

    Musta been a drive by disagree- but i would say your statement is correct
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  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:

    "I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."

    When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.

    It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?

    Nah. Sometime there are just situations when you can't do anything for the person.

    Musta been a drive by disagree- but i would say your statement is correct

    sometimes - all a person can do is listen and* hold space* for that other person.
    so you're right on that R.
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    Depends on the cardio *wink*
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??

    I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.

    Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.

  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??

    I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.

    Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.

    When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??

    I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.

    Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.

    When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?

    Loved it from day one.

    I still like cycling, but its becoming more and more dangerous.

    Running? Ive run a couple of marathons and for me, the training is verrrrry boring.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    I hear you.
    I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.

    My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.

    I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    I hear you.
    I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.

    My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.

    I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    I hear you.
    I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.

    My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.

    I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?

    That’s the discouraging part, you put on all this work, but if you stop all your work disappears, you have to keep going to maintain it.