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this ^^^ so this^^^....I'm so sorry you're struggling and I think we all do to an extent but some have it worse and it sounds like you're suffering which so sucks! just keep that mantra going if its working and maybe talking to someone could help...I know it helped me tons!
I really do hope you find your evenness ....I would say happiness but I think when we feel evened out happiness follows...big hugs...and for what its worth...you seem like a super guy!
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when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.7
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mi_nina_lola wrote: »when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.
it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:
"I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."
When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.
It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?1 -
mi_nina_lola wrote: »when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.
Yep. All the time.0 -
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The_Usual_Suspects wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »mi_nina_lola wrote: »when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.
it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:
"I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."
When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.
It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?
Nah. Sometime there are just situations when you can't do anything for the person.
Musta been a drive by disagree- but i would say your statement is correct3 -
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The_Usual_Suspects wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »mi_nina_lola wrote: »when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.
it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:
"I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."
When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.
It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?
Nah. Sometime there are just situations when you can't do anything for the person.
Musta been a drive by disagree- but i would say your statement is correct
sometimes - all a person can do is listen and* hold space* for that other person.
so you're right on that R.3 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
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Motorsheen wrote: »
Depends on the cardio *wink*3 -
Motorsheen wrote: »
I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
What do you do??0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »
I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
What do you do??
I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.
Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »
I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
What do you do??
I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.
Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.
When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »
I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
What do you do??
I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.
Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.
When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?
Loved it from day one.
I still like cycling, but its becoming more and more dangerous.
Running? Ive run a couple of marathons and for me, the training is verrrrry boring.1 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?1 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
That’s the discouraging part, you put on all this work, but if you stop all your work disappears, you have to keep going to maintain it.
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »
I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
What do you do??
I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.
Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.
When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?
Loved it from day one.
I still like cycling, but its becoming more and more dangerous.
Running? Ive run a couple of marathons and for me, the training is verrrrry boring.
I enjoy it, you just put on your music and go. But training, counting reps 1,2,3 borrring.1 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
That’s the discouraging part, you put on all this work, but if you stop all your work disappears, you have to keep going to maintain it.
Thats life isnt it? In order to succeed in anything its usually from a regular routine or habit no? You can have financial security because you work at a good job.....but if you decide to stop working that security goes away right? Similar to maintaining health and fitness.4 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
you need to weight train for a that BC you like... eternal purgatory etc etc.
maintaining nutrition and mere and proper logging isn't going to do it. take it from me, K.
*sad but true - drrrrrrrrrrr*
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Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
That’s the discouraging part, you put on all this work, but if you stop all your work disappears, you have to keep going to maintain it.
Thats life isnt it? In order to succeed in anything its usually from a regular routine or habit no? You can have financial security because you work at a good job.....but if you decide to stop working that security goes away right? Similar to maintaining health and fitness.
What’s healthier ....cardio or putting on muscle?0 -
Hmm, was gonna counter with "what about dancers, gymnasts, etc..." But I imagine the same is true, if they stop their regular activity.
I wish I could like it, get the same "high" as with running or cycling, like I never want to stop.
...guess I also wish I was a morning person...truth - I'm a zombie 'till noon, and resistance training is a chore to me (I'd rather clean a toilet)2 -
Hmm, was gonna counter with "what about dancers, gymnasts, etc..." But I imagine the same is true, if they stop their regular activity.
I wish I could like it, get the same "high" as with running or cycling, like I never want to stop.
...guess I also wish I was a morning person...truth - I'm a zombie 'till noon, and resistance training is a chore to me (I'd rather clean a toilet)
i was a dancer and a runner and had all the lean muscle. and now - not. so there's that. so if it's not consistent - you have to do weights. cardio isn't going to cut it.
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »
I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
What do you do??
I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.
Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.
When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?
Loved it from day one.
I still like cycling, but its becoming more and more dangerous.
Running? Ive run a couple of marathons and for me, the training is verrrrry boring.
I enjoy it, you just put on your music and go. But training, counting reps 1,2,3 borrring.
it's a lot more than just counting reps
it's setting a personal best
it's pushing thru pain
it's seeing results in the mirror
..... and for me, most of my friends are at the gym
It's where I'm happiest.5 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
Just wanted to say....they definitely do seem to be “hostile meanie” threads. Omg. I’ll stay away from now on. Lesson learned. Loud and clear. 🤪
For real!
like have a Snickers and settle back there little buddy...people can have different opinions and it doesn't require a hostile debate, just state your opinions without debasing someone elses, and try to open your mind to other ideas besides your own, ffs7 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
Just wanted to say....they definitely do seem to be “hostile meanie” threads. Omg. I’ll stay away from now on. Lesson learned. Loud and clear. 🤪
For real!
like have a Snickers and settle back there little buddy...people can have different opinions and it doesn't require a hostile debate, just state your opinions without debasing someone elses, and try to open your mind to other ideas besides your own, ffs
this and extra ffs sauce3 -
Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
Just wanted to say....they definitely do seem to be “hostile meanie” threads. Omg. I’ll stay away from now on. Lesson learned. Loud and clear. 🤪
For real!
like have a Snickers and settle back there little buddy...people can have different opinions and it doesn't require a hostile debate, just state your opinions without debasing someone elses, and try to open your mind to other ideas besides your own, ffs
@MelG7777 don’t let them run you off. If you have a question ask!...just block the annoying ones.2 -
mi_nina_lola wrote: »Cardio, no problem.
Weight training, dreadful.
I hear you.
I wish I could like it too....I do like the soreness.
My thought process is that if you start weight training, you have to do it forever - and that idea is dreadful.
I was wondering (my question from a few weeks ago that I didn't want to go ask in the "hostile, meanie" threads) if you weight train, and get to a body composition you like, can you then maintain it with proper nutrition? Or is weight training just some sort of eternal purgatory you have to endure to maintain it?
Just wanted to say....they definitely do seem to be “hostile meanie” threads. Omg. I’ll stay away from now on. Lesson learned. Loud and clear. 🤪
For real!
like have a Snickers and settle back there little buddy...people can have different opinions and it doesn't require a hostile debate, just state your opinions without debasing someone elses, and try to open your mind to other ideas besides your own, ffs
this and extra ffs sauce
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@Tinydancer106 I’m not suffering, just finding ways to stop my mind thinking too much, because that ends up with negative thoughts. might not be in a super happy place but that’s ok..life is a big training ground and we are always learning from it
Cool ....sorry my bad I totally misunderstood🤗0 -
mi_nina_lola wrote: »Hmm, was gonna counter with "what about dancers, gymnasts, etc..." But I imagine the same is true, if they stop their regular activity.
I wish I could like it, get the same "high" as with running or cycling, like I never want to stop.
...guess I also wish I was a morning person...truth - I'm a zombie 'till noon, and resistance training is a chore to me (I'd rather clean a toilet)
i was a dancer and a runner and had all the lean muscle. and now - not. so there's that. so if it's not consistent - you have to do weights. cardio isn't going to cut it.
Oh yes do I get this and worst of all I'm clueless to strength training ....i have started watching YouTube videos because I dont want to do anything wrong and I'm too intimidated to ask people at the gym .....i wish they had trainers or did classes for the clueless like me 😣1
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