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  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
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    wuel6lqnj8uv.jpeg

    If I had inherited a tiny bit of minerals here, I’d now be making
    6 figures a month.
    Just a tiny amount of minerals........
    bummer. 🥺
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Guy i used to go to church with passed away early this morning - he was early 30’s - he left behind a wife and 2 daughters 4 and 2 I think - it’s said all the time and may be cliche but tomorrow really is not promised to anyone - I just feel horrible for his wife and children smh

    So sad for his family.. 😔
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,043 Member
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    1sphere wrote: »
    I find that the only thing that works to cure an unknown sadness is to repeat a mantra in my head, but you have to constantly repeat the mantra.

    Been there yo - just keep grinding man. Chit will get better eventually
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    edited March 2020
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    @1sphere wrote: »
    I find that the only thing that works to cure an unknown sadness is to repeat a mantra in my head, but you have to constantly repeat the mantra.

    Been there yo - just keep grinding man. Chit will get better eventually

    this ^^^ so this^^^....I'm so sorry you're struggling and I think we all do to an extent but some have it worse and it sounds like you're suffering which so sucks! just keep that mantra going if its working and maybe talking to someone could help...I know it helped me tons!

    I really do hope you find your evenness ....I would say happiness but I think when we feel evened out happiness follows...big hugs...and for what its worth...you seem like a super guy! B)🤗
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:

    "I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."

    When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.

    It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?
  • cdubks88
    cdubks88 Posts: 3,573 Member
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    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    Yep. All the time.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,043 Member
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    The_Usual_Suspects wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:

    "I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."

    When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.

    It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?

    Nah. Sometime there are just situations when you can't do anything for the person.

    Musta been a drive by disagree- but i would say your statement is correct
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    The_Usual_Suspects wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    when you are helpless when someone is suffering, and there's nothing you want more than to take that away from them.

    it's like throwing a life preserver to a drowning person, and they keep pushing it away with the attitude:

    "I'm good, I've got this on my own.... I don't need your help."

    When the actual truth is about 180 degrees from their warped sense of reality.

    It's frustrating beyond words, amiright?

    Nah. Sometime there are just situations when you can't do anything for the person.

    Musta been a drive by disagree- but i would say your statement is correct

    sometimes - all a person can do is listen and* hold space* for that other person.
    so you're right on that R.
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
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    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    Depends on the cardio *wink*
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??

    I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.

    Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.

  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??

    I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.

    Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.

    When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Cardio, no problem.
    Weight training, dreadful.

    Cardio, dreadful.
    Weight training, no problem.

    I need to find a weight training thing I get excited for because *kitten*.
    What do you do??

    I lift heavy most everyday and take maybe 2 rest days a month.

    Still.... hitting the gym is the fun part; restraint in the kitchen is key.

    When you first started, did you like it? Or did it take you some time to start feeling some sort of joy?

    Loved it from day one.

    I still like cycling, but its becoming more and more dangerous.

    Running? Ive run a couple of marathons and for me, the training is verrrrry boring.

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