What's on your mind?

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  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Wow, I missed a lot.

    When I first came to the forums, I had no idea who was ‘cool’. I only knew who made me feel welcome ( @beingmore1 ) and who made me laugh til I cried ( @cee134 @MeeseeksAndDestroy ).

    There are a lot of people I like now that completely ignored me until I started inserting myself in their conversations. :sweat_smile:

    I didn’t notice @hellvee at all. Not even once. Until he had been here a month and started joking around with me.

    I guess I’ve learned that people come and go, they change their pics and screen names, and more often than not I’m looking at what is being said, not who’s saying it, so I don’t notice new people right away.

    I know there are people who have been here this whole time who I have never interacted with, nor them with me. I don’t sweat it. It doesn’t mean I’m mad. It doesn’t mean they’re aloof.

    I hear a lot about cliques here. I kinda get it, I kinda don’t. I felt like an outsider in high school so I know what it’s like to hate the ‘cliques’. But here.. we didn’t all grow up together. Some have been here years, some only a few weeks or months. Inside jokes will come up. Stay long enough and soon you’ll understand some of them. Don’t begrudge the others the things that made them laugh before you came along.

    If I’m in a clique, I’m unaware. I gravitate toward people who are positive, laid back, and thrive on the ridiculous. I will sometimes be serious, usually a dork, and almost never a jerk. You won’t hurt my feelings and if I hurt yours, it was a misunderstanding.

    This is my longest post ever, if you read this far please click insightful. I hardly have any. :wink:

    Oh and @SEAHORSES4EVER I would be crushed if you quit coming around. You don’t even know what a ray of sunshine you are, you and your dark soul. :smirk:

    This is documentation of my failure, unless I'm lumped in with the ignore you people. Then yay. Thanks boo.

    You were one of the ignorererers. :smirk: Don’t worry, I ain’t mad about it.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »

    I'm pretty sure it's for shoulders.

    Like how ‘personal massagers’ are?

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    I just had to check out the reviews

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    Accurate. Specialty store shoulder massagers are so overpriced. You don’t necessarily get more bang for your buck.

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    I always know that if nobody else will, you do.
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  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    Oh damn. Apparently, everyone was already using instagram but me.

    I wasn't!
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    edited October 2017
    Oh damn. Apparently, everyone was already using instagram but me.

    I wasn't!

    I like your style, N. If this technology continues to confuse and scare this old man, we'll both be the last of the Mohicans.
  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    Oh damn. Apparently, everyone was already using instagram but me.

    I wasn't!

    I like your style, N. If this technology continues to confuse and scare this old man, we'll both be the last of the Mohicans.

    I will get my head dress ready
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  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Catching up on this thread. Some of your jokesters are hysterically funny. I hope you never rage quit.
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Rage quit. This is an interesting concept. I keep hanging around 3+ years later, same account, same user name.

    I wonder if deleting and coming back has a different user has a different feel to it? Just a random thought
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    edited October 2017
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Oh damn. Apparently, everyone was already using instagram but me.

    Wait! Are you on there? Do you post shirtless pics?

    LOL. I'm barely on there. Haven't finished setting up my profile. I don't think I'll be posting shirtless pics. I'm adding people from my real life. :D

    My mother always reminds me that I'm never too big for an @$$-whoopin'
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    @caco_ethes I keep getting notifications but I’m not sure if it’s because I made you feel welcome or you want me to buy you a vibrator.

    I am very mean to everyone so it must be the latter.

    Your being mean to me made me feel right at home, like when I grew up with abusive siblings. :kissing_heart:
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  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    This happens to me a lot, then the anxiety. I hate it. ((((hugs))))
  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    I am sorry hon. Keep in mind you are not alone
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  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    This happens to me a lot, then the anxiety. I hate it. ((((hugs))))

    Feelings like this usually come when something mayor happens, nothing has happened which is why I'm confused lol and thanks hun
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    I am sorry hon. Keep in mind you are not alone

    Thanks @CaptainFantastic00
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,274 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    Hope it fades soon. :*
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    This is the part of adulthood that nobody ever talks about. Well.. they didn’t to me. I struggle with raw anxiety and regret and guilt often. I was led to believe that getting married and having kids would make me feel blissful, dammit!
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    This happens to me sometimes too. About every 3 weeks. I shove donuts and cookies down my gullet and that seems to keep it at bay.

    :laugh:
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,274 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    This is the part of adulthood that nobody ever talks about. Well.. they didn’t to me. I struggle with raw anxiety and regret and guilt often. I was led to believe that getting married and having kids would make me feel blissful, dammit!

    I think you need a hug too. Come here lady!
  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    I can't believe yesterdaynwas october fourth and I didn't make any jokes about truckers
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »

    This is the part of adulthood that nobody ever talks about. Well.. they didn’t to me. I struggle with raw anxiety and regret and guilt often. I was led to believe that getting married and having kids would make me feel blissful, dammit!

    Same here. I thought if I fell in love and got married everything would be happily ever after. Life happens, things change, but at least I'm figuring things out now instead of later on down the road.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    That I have this overwhelming sadness coming over me. I'm not sure what is triggering this feeling. It has me feeling confused.

    Remember there just thoughts feelings and emotions that can change, come and go and come again, minute to minute...

    You don't have to to like it, but you don't have to hate it either... Just be with it...

    And I bet it passes a lot sooner :heart:
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    Did everyone change their profile pic at once?
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Did everyone change their profile pic at once?

    No

    Lies! You were wearing a red shirt!
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