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Alinouveau2 wrote: »My lovely cough I've developed. So sexy
You got sexy phlegm? You could sing for us.
Seriously, i’m sorry you’re feeling crappy. Summer colds are jerks0 -
itchmyTwitch wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »My lovely cough I've developed. So sexy
You got sexy phlegm? You could sing for us.
Seriously, i’m sorry you’re feeling crappy. Summer colds are jerks
Haha I had to repeat something I was saying today like five times cause I can't seem to speak loudly. 🤣 This could be a blessing for some1 -
itchmyTwitch wrote: »Don’t eat borax
No matter how delicious it looks this is good advice
Good luck today1 -
Yes, good luckAlinouveau2 wrote: »itchmyTwitch wrote: »Don’t eat borax
No matter how delicious it looks this is good advice
Good luck today1 -
Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.0
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »My lovely cough I've developed. So sexy
Could make for a great singing voice 🤷♂️0 -
kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »My lovely cough I've developed. So sexy
Could make for a great singing voice 🤷♂️
Worked for Phoebe - albeit short lived2 -
kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »My lovely cough I've developed. So sexy
Could make for a great singing voice 🤷♂️
Worked for Phoebe - albeit short lived
Y’all need to stop stealing my ideas1 -
Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂0 -
kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »My lovely cough I've developed. So sexy
Could make for a great singing voice 🤷♂️
Worked for Phoebe - albeit short lived
Literally what I thought of when I said it3 -
Holy moley it's so humid out today I did like 15 minutes of pulling weeds and cleaning up some garden stuff and was drenched in sweat.1
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R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.0 -
And one more....a police dog was shot and killed the other day. His name was Bingo...every time he's mentioned on the news I say in my head....that was his name-o.0
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Sign has been up a while now
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R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
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I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I think we've been using this app long enough to know better now 😂🤣R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
😂
I'm pretty sure they've blamed ancestors as well 🤣itchmyTwitch wrote: »
I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
Most of my efriends on here I've known for years and to this day they still motivate me to keep going but getting close to people, that doesn't interest me anymore.1 -
R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I think we've been using this app long enough to know better now 😂🤣R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
😂
I'm pretty sure they've blamed ancestors as well 🤣itchmyTwitch wrote: »
I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
Most of my efriends on here I've known for years and to this day they still motivate me to keep going but getting close to people, that doesn't interest me anymore.
Yes to the bold!!
I keep this account cause I have a friend here who messages me only here. I have other friends from here but they message elsewhere. I've actually met several in person so it makes sense to not just communicate here. We send Christmas and birthday gifts even! And the forums are just a fun way to kill time when I'm avoiding my laundry fairy duties
I guess since I spent my teenage years being athletic and basically being told what to do now I just find that incredibly unmotivating.
We're all different. But this all was just to basically say, and I suspect it's true for others, if you send a friend request it's not you, it's me and I'll be deleted1 -
R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I think we've been using this app long enough to know better now 😂🤣R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
😂
I'm pretty sure they've blamed ancestors as well 🤣itchmyTwitch wrote: »
I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
Most of my efriends on here I've known for years and to this day they still motivate me to keep going but getting close to people, that doesn't interest me anymore.
efriends 😁 new word added to my vocabulary
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R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I think we've been using this app long enough to know better now 😂🤣R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
😂
I'm pretty sure they've blamed ancestors as well 🤣itchmyTwitch wrote: »
I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
Most of my efriends on here I've known for years and to this day they still motivate me to keep going but getting close to people, that doesn't interest me anymore.
😂😂ancestors💀💀
Edit to add: yes on the no more getting close to people part. I appreciate the closeness I’ve gotten but it’s hard to let people in like that.0 -
Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I think we've been using this app long enough to know better now 😂🤣R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
😂
I'm pretty sure they've blamed ancestors as well 🤣itchmyTwitch wrote: »
I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
Most of my efriends on here I've known for years and to this day they still motivate me to keep going but getting close to people, that doesn't interest me anymore.
Yes to the bold!!
I keep this account cause I have a friend here who messages me only here. I have other friends from here but they message elsewhere. I've actually met several in person so it makes sense to not just communicate here. We send Christmas and birthday gifts even! And the forums are just a fun way to kill time when I'm avoiding my laundry fairy duties
I guess since I spent my teenage years being athletic and basically being told what to do now I just find that incredibly unmotivating.
We're all different. But this all was just to basically say, and I suspect it's true for others, if you send a friend request it's not you, it's me and I'll be deleted
That’s really cool. I love that you’ve made genuine friendships. I have most of the people important to me outside of here now. There are a few holdouts. My FriendRequester is broken and I don’t add people often anyway anymore. Hard to keep up. I wouldn’t say I get motivation from people here. I knew to be serious about any of this I couldn’t let anything outside of myself keep me going. No gym buddies, no nothing else to depend on. Not to say I don’t LOVE the encouragement people have given me. It means the world. I do get inspiration from people. It does make me happy to see people succeed. I would say I’d give up the forums (and I have for times) before I gave up on the wall side. People are really nice to me there. Although interactions all around (including myself) have gone down.
Anyways, you didn’t ask. But it was fun to think about. And I really loved reading other peoples takes on this. Thank you!1 -
Weakness: when he might consider donating his body to BodyWorlds with you and being posed and displayed together “romantically” forever and ever.🥰0
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I’m more of a - “what are your fitness goals” kinda guy - then I move into sharing recipes and what not -
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I’m more of a - “what are your fitness goals” kinda guy - then I move into sharing recipes and what not -
I don’t know if it’s just because I’ve “known” you for so long or what it is, but to me you do not feel superficial. I don’t know how to say this right. But you are good people And you can go ahead and send me some recipes
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About 1/2 or less of the dudes I send a friend request to accept. I’m definitely not for everyone but 🤷0
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Americans needing a visa to travel to Europe1
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I think we've been using this app long enough to know better now 😂🤣R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
😂
I'm pretty sure they've blamed ancestors as well 🤣itchmyTwitch wrote: »
I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
Most of my efriends on here I've known for years and to this day they still motivate me to keep going but getting close to people, that doesn't interest me anymore.
Yes to the bold!!
I keep this account cause I have a friend here who messages me only here. I have other friends from here but they message elsewhere. I've actually met several in person so it makes sense to not just communicate here. We send Christmas and birthday gifts even! And the forums are just a fun way to kill time when I'm avoiding my laundry fairy duties
I guess since I spent my teenage years being athletic and basically being told what to do now I just find that incredibly unmotivating.
We're all different. But this all was just to basically say, and I suspect it's true for others, if you send a friend request it's not you, it's me and I'll be deleted
That’s really cool. I love that you’ve made genuine friendships. I have most of the people important to me outside of here now. There are a few holdouts. My FriendRequester is broken and I don’t add people often anyway anymore. Hard to keep up. I wouldn’t say I get motivation from people here. I knew to be serious about any of this I couldn’t let anything outside of myself keep me going. No gym buddies, no nothing else to depend on. Not to say I don’t LOVE the encouragement people have given me. It means the world. I do get inspiration from people. It does make me happy to see people succeed. I would say I’d give up the forums (and I have for times) before I gave up on the wall side. People are really nice to me there. Although interactions all around (including myself) have gone down.
Anyways, you didn’t ask. But it was fun to think about. And I really loved reading other peoples takes on this. Thank you!
It's neat to hear others' motivations. I often think I'm weird cause I don't like a fun buddy. Well if I were to go to the gym haha too much pressure to do something not on my terms. I'm like that with the rink if I really want to work hard I go when no one else will be there so I can do whatever I want. Maybe I'm just selfish 🤣
Although I do like encouraging people I just don't want it back...I'm weird0 -
Alinouveau2 wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I think we've been using this app long enough to know better now 😂🤣R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
Wait a minute, there’s an algorithm here? Mine just glitches every time I get to the first set of ads and boots me up to the top of the feed again. If this is considered an algorithm I am💀.
😂
I'm pretty sure they've blamed ancestors as well 🤣itchmyTwitch wrote: »
I find that accountability/motivation from other people only works for me if I know, like, and respect the other people. I have to actually have some kind of relationship with them for it to be meaningful at all. Most people on the Internet are just randoms and their opinion doesn’t matter that much to me and therefore their encouragement doesn’t matter that much to me.Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
Last week I did ask a couple of friends to text me in the afternoon to check on my gym plans because their opinions & support actually matter to me. That said, I couldn’t do that very often. It was a stopgap measure to help me when I was feeling low. Mostly, I have to rely on my own internal reasons to keep going
Most of my efriends on here I've known for years and to this day they still motivate me to keep going but getting close to people, that doesn't interest me anymore.
Yes to the bold!!
I keep this account cause I have a friend here who messages me only here. I have other friends from here but they message elsewhere. I've actually met several in person so it makes sense to not just communicate here. We send Christmas and birthday gifts even! And the forums are just a fun way to kill time when I'm avoiding my laundry fairy duties
I guess since I spent my teenage years being athletic and basically being told what to do now I just find that incredibly unmotivating.
We're all different. But this all was just to basically say, and I suspect it's true for others, if you send a friend request it's not you, it's me and I'll be deleted
That’s really cool. I love that you’ve made genuine friendships. I have most of the people important to me outside of here now. There are a few holdouts. My FriendRequester is broken and I don’t add people often anyway anymore. Hard to keep up. I wouldn’t say I get motivation from people here. I knew to be serious about any of this I couldn’t let anything outside of myself keep me going. No gym buddies, no nothing else to depend on. Not to say I don’t LOVE the encouragement people have given me. It means the world. I do get inspiration from people. It does make me happy to see people succeed. I would say I’d give up the forums (and I have for times) before I gave up on the wall side. People are really nice to me there. Although interactions all around (including myself) have gone down.
Anyways, you didn’t ask. But it was fun to think about. And I really loved reading other peoples takes on this. Thank you!
It's neat to hear others' motivations. I often think
I'm weird cause I don't like a fun buddy. Well if I were to go to the gym haha too much pressure to do something not on my terms. I'm like that with the rink if I really want to work hard I go when no one else will be there so I can do whatever I want. Maybe I'm just selfish 🤣
Although I do like encouraging people I just don't want it back...I'm weird
My oldest boy and I are similar in that we both try to go to the gym when there is no one there. I’m not as crazy as he is because he’ll go at two in the morning to avoid people. I sometimes wonder if this is actually detrimental because it has something to do with not being open to accepting
help. I’m probably just over analyzing again0 -
itchmyTwitch wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Friend requests here, I basically delete them all...I have like 5 friends I don't interact with really...I don't need any more friends to ignore 🤣. I'm not going to follow your progress on your wall, I don't need encouragement so I just don't see the point in friends here. I made some before here who are still good friends but that ship has sailed.
Most members ignore updates anyway or they dont interact at all blaming the algorithm of the app so you're not missing out much 😂
I just don't see the point of them adding people if that's the case. 🤷
I also hate the usual first message of rah rah I'm gonna help you get less fat...um no 🤣😂🤣 and all the more power if this is what motivates you....I'm just not that way.
I’m more of a - “what are your fitness goals” kinda guy - then I move into sharing recipes and what not -
I don’t know if it’s just because I’ve “known” you for so long or what it is, but to me you do not feel superficial. I don’t know how to say this right. But you are good people And you can go ahead and send me some recipes
Just sent you my latest instapot banger 😎
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