WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2016
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karen your fond memory of a music teacher impacting your town gave me a lift. I hope every day that that is what I do. Staying positive, (with kids it's easy) but with the admin and toxicicity swirling about, it can be a bit overwhelming, your post reminded me to keep it simple, stay focussed in the positive.
Cheri good luck with closing, may it go smoothly and you put that chapter of your lives behind you.
Looking forward to a super cold and possibly snowy day, but nothing like what the west and Midwest is getting socked with! DH and I have plans to pick out a tree after work and get some takeout tonight. Fun!!
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Kate0 -
Good morning ladies! I am off to a canine agility trial (what you see in my profile picture) that always means LOTS of steps on my fitbit. However, 2 Christmas parties today! Fooooood.4
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OK ladies, I am going to have to put this kipper thing straight! They do not come in cans! (I had pilchards in cans as a child)They are dry cured, split and smoked. The best ones are delicious and considered quite a delicacy. The only problem is they stink your house out after you've heated them up!
The ones I used in the paté had the bones taken out. If you ever come to Scotland you could have porridge, followed by kippers for breakfast! Yum!
In Britain we all pay a licence of £135 per year or thereabouts for the BBC. I get everything else free on Free view and have a stick for Internet connection. I choose to get two foregn language DVDs a month from Amazon for £4 as I hardly have time to watch those! I record films free from the TV on a recorder. Your packages all sound horribly expensive! We have a very cheap phone and modem deal because we complained dirdct to the CEO earlier this year about a recurring fault on the line.
Lots of love, Heather UK xxxxxxx
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Still here. Just holiday busy. Family parties this weekend. Saturday my family, Sunday DH's family. Hope to connect one of those days with you ladies! xoxoxox KJ (Kelly)2
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morning ladies~
it is chilly down here in Florida today.. but from what I hear frigid in Connecticut so I will grin and bare it. I got almost 14,000 steps yesterday. will try and work myself up to even more today..as you can see there is alot more to do down here and better weather to do it in..
Tom working with a neighbor down here to put in an outlet on front of carport so that he can plug in another security camera.. why all of a sudden he is getting so geaked out on camera's down here is beyond me..
I am on my second cup of tea.. and will go out for a walk in a few minutes..3 -
Oh Goodness! I haven't curled for 2 weeks and my body hurts this morning.
Retirement seems to be just a bit too busy. Today we are possibly heading off on a two day road trip to pick up a couple trucks for our son. Then Sunday off to my second cousins 100th birthday party. All I can think about is ...... all the sitting and what are my food choices going to Be?
Here is wave to everyone
Lillian in West Central Saskatchewan1 -
Thanks for setting the record straight, Heather.
In my opinion, kippers are an acquired taste, like Marmite and peanut butter and cod liver oil. I grew up on peanut butter and acquired a taste for Marmite when I lived in London at age 11. Kippers never grew on me, though. My issue with them isn't so much that they stink up the house, as that they keep coming back all day in the form of burps.
Cod liver oil does the same thing, but the brand I buy has a delicate lemony flavor so I don't mind the burps. After moving to Norway, I've even grown to like it. For the first few years after we moved, my husband prevented me from even trying by saying - at random moments on weekend mornings - "When I burp, it tastes like cod liver oil." :noway:
He's supposed to be coming home to Longyearbyen today. His flight was delayed out of Tromsø for a couple hours because of fog in Longyearbyen. The plane has taken off now, but just before departure he texted "They're going to give it a go." Highly encouraging...
/Penny at the North Pole, where the lights of the airport are currently visible2 -
Heather, thanks for the lesson about kippers--I got my info from the internet.
It's -6 C here this morning but the streets are dry so Sasha and I will have a good walk....and if she doesn't want to walk, I'll walk alone.
Barbie3 -
Good morning ladies.
Not writing much. Haven't felt well for a while. But not giving up. Still depressed, in pain, general malaise from UTI, worries, and on it goes.......
Rita from frigid CT2 -
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well my walk netted me 6500 steps for now.. I had a self talk with myself as I walked, and will have talk with Tom later on after he has finished and maybe after dinner..
this is how I plan on approaching it.calmly of course..
Tom I want to speak with you about our relationship.. I deserve to be loved and cherished, I get that from the dogs, my family and friends but not from my husband.. I feel as if all I am is a paycheck, and have been for a long time... things cannot keep going like they are going.. we both have wayyyy to much to lose to do so..
either we get counseling ,both of us.or you see your Dr .. because all I see is misery and pain. there is no joy in your life except for the dogs..
then about finances~ it is all about how you spend OUR money... I know you do a spectacular job on the bills,and I appreciate that.. but I also don't need to go merrily along on 20 bucks a week.. not fair at all..
I would like to sit with you and you can show me how and where you pay bills so that I may help.. and would like to deposit my check into my account, and of course help pay some bills. but be able to have something if I would like..
If this all sounds to much for you to handle ~ then the walls will crumble on down.. and neither of us will have or get what we want.. this is your choice..
well ladies does that sound unreasonable?
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ALLIE ~ Good for you. But, he ain't gonna like that at all.1
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Hi friends. I had a very long day yesterday (11 hours) with the final exam, and today is another long and busy one. So this is just a quick check in. We have graduation later today so lots to get done before then. Take care and stay warm. Meg2
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PS Allie very reasonable but I agree with Peach. I hope you have a plan for self-care after the dust settles because I think you will be very stressed but hang in there. Stick to your guns. We all love and support you. meg2
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Penny: I hope your DH has made it safely home to Longyearbyen by now. :flowerforyou:
Allie: I wonder whether drawing a line in the sand is going to be helpful. Do you have access to any sort of counseling? Perhaps you should go on your own for a while and see whether guidance from a professional can help you come up with a good plan to deal with this. (((HUGS)))
We still have snow on the ground but it seems to be gone from sidewalks. We didn't have trouble running errands here in town yesterday. I hope to go to yoga today and that is achievable. I don't know whether going anywhere near Portland is a good idea, and we go through there to get to Salem where the cemetery is located. We will see.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” Thomas A. Edison
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Allie: I wonder whether drawing a line in the sand is going to be helpful. Do you have access to any sort of counseling? Perhaps you should go on your own for a while and see whether guidance from a professional can help you come up with a good plan to deal with this. (((HUGS)))
KATLA ~ Very wise advice.
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Allie - No, not at all unreasonable! The unreasonable thing is that you only get $20 per week, even though you bring in your own paycheck and do so much housework!
And I agree with Meg and Peach: he won't like it. If you can get him to discuss these issues, it might be a good idea to be clear about which bills you pay or what percentage of the total costs you pay.
Katla's advice is also well worth considering. I can envision a really tricky ride home from Florida.
Cheri - I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you too!
/Penny at the unfoggy North Pole
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Allie - ((((HUGS))))
I've just finished the Eggplant rollatinis from skinnytaste.com. They are in the freezer and looking faaaaabulous! I think DH and DSIL could have a little tiny lamb chop with them. DH cooked the pears in spiced rum and apple juice for the Boxing Day dessert. They are cooling off and looking amaaaaaazing! That is everything ready except easy sauces and the Raspberry and chocolate chip ice cream for New Year. That is supposed to be diabetic friendly. Mainly raspberries and yoghurt.
I had a lot of eggplant left over so that is baked and in the freezer.
Just got my son and stepdaughter to think about now. :sad: The pistachios are sitting on the counter top looking at me.
I've got zucchini noodles all prepped for tonight's sauce of leek and ham. Leeks done.
I did 550 words of my memoir this morning.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx4
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