WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2017

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  • Annr
    Annr Posts: 2,765 Member
    Oh ladies today's lunch was soon yummy! I received some great items from the food bank today. Recd some turkey kelbasa and some microwavable quinoa and wild rice. I also recd a huge 2 lb container of stewed veggies for some roast. I just put the veggies and potatoes in some beef bouillon and baked it for abit. For a serving I get 84 grams of it! My dear husband picked out two plastic containers of chocolate cake. Both servings didn't look that good to me.

    I recd some cut up cucumbers and I portioned them out, added a T. of pickle juice, and a tsp. of olive oil with spices so those I will munch on. For dinner I am having some of the rotated veggies with some broth, and then my cucumbers with 4 oz of canned chicken, and some walnuts in the cucumber chicken salad mixture. Kind of strange but it works!

    To the ladies that are traveling places, a safe journey!
    To the ladies that are struggling with communication with family or friends, I wish for you calmness and perseverance. If leaving the door mentally open all you can do the that's all you can do. Communication is a two way street.

    Becca
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    edited February 2017
    Sarah: I'm up just a bit right now from my lowest. My current weight is in the healthy zone for me. I seldom include my ticker on my post, but this one is likely to show you that I've lost between an Irish Setter and a gold brick. :smiley: I like the tickers and :heart: the weight loss comparison chart..


    Katla in beautiful NW Oregon

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  • miakoda40
    miakoda40 Posts: 467 Member
    Ginger - I love the photo where your mom has 4 different flavors of cake. How to make everyone happy.

    Heather- I was unaware that rice is a notorious breeder of bacteria. From now on all leftover rice get put into portions and straight into the freezer. Thanks for the heads up.

    Mia in MI
  • miakoda40
    miakoda40 Posts: 467 Member
    Rori - That picture of Mar makes me want to rub his belly. Does he like belly rubs or does he turn into a "pill bug" when rubbed?
  • GRITSandSLUTSandWINOS
    GRITSandSLUTSandWINOS Posts: 2,573 Member
    Allie – I agree with Katla; only the ‘person’ who wants change can make changes or be ‘happy’. There are a lot of things that others do that can make you ‘mad’ or ‘any other feelings’; but, you are ‘reacting’ not ‘changing’ him or anyone else. We are all on a ‘journey’ and like most of the ladies on this site we attempt to voice our concerns, encourage others, vent and rant and rave, set goals, find our paths and go down them … but all that is ‘our choices’. Like the old saying goes, ‘you can drag a horse to water; but, you can’t make it drink it’. [Unless he wants to]. Obviously, this is not what Tom wants and he has to ‘fix’ himself; just like you have to ‘fix’ your situation and/or yourself. How many times you fall down is not nearly as important as how many times you get up. When you ‘soar like an eagle’ you will come to ‘high places’ as well as ‘low’ ones. When you are in a valley, you will climb up to see what there is out there past that mountain. When you get up there you will see a more beautiful mountain; but, you still have to go ‘down in the valley’ to get to the ‘higher mountain’. That ‘higher’ mountain is YOU. Get up and start climbing out of that valley you are in, because Tom is ‘not going to help you’ or ‘change how he treats you’. You have to change that for yourself. How many ‘strikes’ are you going to give him; or make yourself before you are called ‘out’ (of here). It’s the game of life, unfortunately; push and shove – like football, sometimes you just have to step back and ‘punt’. Faith = first you jump; then, the net appears. Nothing is ‘impossible’ … because the word itself says “I’m Possible!” Biblical. Why transfer money to ‘joint’ account? You can pay bills that come in, directly from yours. Sorry, that was uncalled for … sorry … should not have voiced my ‘opinion’ about it. You live with him, I don’t.

    Katla – Today I went to “Lowe’s” and saw a man take out his cellphone and tell his daughter 'to move over by the cart’. There were several people standing around; and this woman with a child had a beautiful ‘rooster’ on the cart (it had its wings tied, so it would not fly away). It must have been just purchased and they did not want to leave him in the vehicle. Calmly looking around; he had to have been purchased to be this little girl’s ‘pet’.

    Rori – That trip with your ‘girlfriends only’ sounds like a blast. My girls and I have been talking about a long weekend trip for several years, just hasn’t actually worked out; but, now that we are all no longer in a ‘job’; we have more time. Actually, we’d have fun going as ‘couples’. Only one hasn’t brought her husband to our lunches. Part of it is his Dad now lives with them and pretty much has to have someone around. One hasn’t been because she is a ‘work-a-holic’. When we have something going on in hometown, we stay with her and her husband's house. Most unlikely pair I have ever met; but, they’ve been together now for about 14 years.
    Mars looks like he is sleeping like Cracker does, all stretched out and ‘dead to the world’.

    Michele – I drink anywhere from 12.5 cups to 15.0 (sometimes more a day). My bladder is a little smaller than normal and it is constantly ‘in spasms’ … MD told me to drink (sip) all day long and go to the bathroom every 10 minutes whether I thought I needed to go, or not. Usually, I do. Seems like my kidneys have a tube straight from them to my pee hole. Sometimes it hurts and sometimes I can’t go; usually once I start, I can’t stop it at all. Then I have a problem with getting constipated. HATE it!

    Yeah, they were selling GS cookies outside of “Lowe’s” … Louis would have bought some, too.

    Ginger and Lanette – I had first cousins who were grandmothers themselves; even one was a great-grandmother. They had a 5-generation picture of them made. At one point we had 5 living generations; but, could never seem to get them all together to take a picture … “Little Grannie”, “Granddaddy”, Husband, stepdaughter, and her first child (killed when she was 12). It would have been nice to have had that ‘memory’.

    My DYS and his wife (actually his wife) have laying chickens … no rooster; they gather eggs every day for breakfast and for cooking other things other than eggs at breakfast. He brings home a couple of dozen whenever they come here (or he sends some home) when we go out there. I think when you see these eggs they must use them in commercials for places that serve breakfast because the ones you buy in a grocery store are flat. I know what you are saying.

    Lanette – Our old kitties and doggies are treated with a lot of care and love when they get older. We try to make them as comfortable as possible when it is their time to go to “Pet Heaven”. Neither of us have ever ‘had’ to make a choice of putting one down. My DYS had to have his ‘old lab’ put down; and, he came home, buried him, and cried like a baby. He said the hardest thing was having to tell his daughter (who had been with her biological Daddy when he had to do it). He was not wanting to have to break the news to her, she loved Jake so much.

    Happy Anniversary to you and your husband.

    Louis and I are pretty much in that ‘caretaker’ stage, too. Last night we spend 3 hours talking over our insurance with the Agent … I was so ‘tired’ by the time it was over … I about burst into tears once or twice. I was ‘so happy’ that Louis did make it home for the appointment. I would have been ‘beside myself’ – he understands about insurance and knows the questions to ask. Such a necessary evil.

    Lenora
  • AKcanookie
    AKcanookie Posts: 230 Member
    gotu52 wrote: »
    Marni I made this tomato sauce in my slow cooker today. I like it because it uses things I always have and is very simple. I tripled the recipe and it made 3 jars of approximately 3 cups each. Best of all, it is delicious: http://allrecipes.com/recipe/58854/slow-cooker-tomato-sauce/

    <3 Sarah

    :-) Thanks Sarah - that looks delicious - we will definitely give it a try. I would like to do my hamburger soup recipe in it, maybe for another work pot luck next friday. People keep quitting the clinic where I work so its been perpetual pot-lucks since Christmas!
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Mia: I love the colors in your leggings. :smiley:
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,279 Member
    Went to workout this morning, then to Starbucks then to work for some OT now at the nail place to get my nails done at least! A lot of drama at work, if I have time I will type about it later . Light workout day at the gym
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,532 Member
    Sue in WA State - Happy Anniversary!

    Rori - Mars is the best looking paperweight I've ever seen. So happy you're getting to Italy. We want a blow-by-blow description of everything. You will be having your laptop with you, won't you? And you get to see Heather! Maybe she'll make one of her famous meals for you (hint, Heather)

    Lenora - it seems that my bladder has gotten larger, I can hold more urine. However, when I have to go, I have to go. You name the store, I can tell you where the bathroom is.

    You know something? I was watching "the kitchen" and last year when they had their Valentines special where all the foods were chocolates, I just deleted it. This year I watched it but wasn't interested in the choclate one bit. Interesting.....

    Michele in NC
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,532 Member
    I'm going to try to convince Vince that we can leave for FL on Friday. The lows are above freezing, like the next couple of days. Thurs the low is 30. Wish me luck

    Michele in NC who can't wait to get to FL
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,663 Member
    Sarah, I copied those weight comparisons. Startling in some cases but golly what good reminders. No wonder we get tired packing around extra weight at times!

    Lanette
    SW WA State
  • Peach1948
    Peach1948 Posts: 2,473 Member
    :)
  • Poerava14
    Poerava14 Posts: 1,092 Member
    miakoda40 wrote: »
    Rori - That picture of Mar makes me want to rub his belly. Does he like belly rubs or does he turn into a "pill bug" when rubbed?

    Mia: Cute leggings! Mars hates having his belly rubbed, and I have the scars to prove it. :frowning:
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    Mia in MI thanks for sharing the pic, you look terrific. I love my LuLaRoes, I have five pair now. Wore one today <3


    Janetr okc
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,048 Member
    Hello ladies: Had a very productive day today. Got horses fed and put out in front where there is lots of gravel and very little mud. My horse had a good roll and they all have much cleaner feet. Tomorrow the farrier is coming to trim their hooves. Went to town and picked up some pieces of PVC to build cages for our blueberries so the deer and birds won't be able to eat them. Got one built. Also stopped at the Co-op to buy horse feed and got our feed room cleaned and re-organized. Yeah for DD and me. We also looked at corral panels for temporary fencing so we can move horses around on the property more. Eating has gone well but DH is trying a new dish tonight for dinner. It is cheeseburger tatertot cassarole. Sounds like lots of calories but will try it and see.

    Karen VA - Traveling mercies and I hope things go smoothly while you are there.

    Allie - Sorry things have deteriorated with Tom. We were all hoping for good things for you. Hang in there.

    Lanette - Happy 40th anniversary!!!

    Katla - Yay for more riding time. So glad DH is recovering nicely.

    Lisa - Sending healing angels to your DH. Hope the surgery goes well.

    Everyone take care, Sue in WA
  • pyanko7
    pyanko7 Posts: 153 Member
    Becca - Thanks for the hug

    Karen VA - Praying that all goes well with Olivia and her mom. Safe travels.

    NY Karen - Have fun in Morocco. Lucky girl!

    Re in Tx - I'm coming to your island paradise too

    Allie - Hope things work out for you. Take care of yourself.

    Lenora - Thank you for sharing your story. You are a very brave woman.

    Charleen - Don't own a cat but my dog acts like a paperweight sometimes too.

    Had youngest Grandson stay overnight last night. What a treat.

    Hugs to all. Have a great day.

    Paula Y.
  • jmkmomm
    jmkmomm Posts: 3,247 Member
    Good late evening to my favorite cyber sisters.

    Sounds like most of you are doing well today. Got lots of busy Moms and Grandmas. Good traveling wishes to Karen on being with Olivia. As an former RN one of the hardest things for loved ones was to see all the tubes, IVs, monitors beeping, etc. Just be prepared.

    Allie, all I can say is we all love you here and this is one place where you are safe and you can always get many hugs.

    Hugs, I love them!!!! I was brought up in a family of huggers. Dad being a Baptist preacher gave and received a lot of hugs. He loved to be in churches that were in low income areas and hugs were needed abound. I love them, they are a very important in my life and I get so few of them I crave them. Charlie was not brought up that way at all. I have always thought I could change him. My sister married a non hugger and he is a true Peterson hugger now. But I just can't get them out of Charlie. He will occasionally but it is more of a bear hug or just a light hug with a pat on my back. I don't want a bear hug, I just want a good strong loving hug.

    Not much to say except I hope the back spasms aren't to bad when I wake up. After I get up and moving around it feels OK. It's just that my body tells me to go back to bed when my heart is telling me to get up and go to church. I have one lady that knows how important my hugs are and gives them all the time. We have one of our Sunday sChool class members that her husband has severe kidney disease, is not a candidate for a transplant since he has heart and lung problems also. He has fallen and in bad condition and they have called in hospice. We have lost 3 spouses of our SS class members lately. I am 66 and there is only 1 other lady younger than me and there are 25 members of our class and there is one other senior ladies class. We are just an older church.

    Hope everyone has a good night, Joyce, Indiana
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,279 Member
    stats for the day:
    rowing machine- 20min, 107ahr, 127mhr 60aw 3360meters - 128c
    Apple Watch- 151c
    Smatrix- 7min 137ahr 152mhr 5-5 - 83c
    Apple Watch- 82c
    0 runner- 15min 106acadence 47l 15h 8.43min mi 6-10resist, 1.73mi = 157c
    Apple Watch- 162c

    total cal 368
    light day
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,279 Member
    Grandmallie - out of respect, I'm going to keep my mouth shut
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,206 Member
    1056287i3zmwzup2m.gifStats for today:
    15,000 steps
    170 minutes walking Sasha and Bess
    135 minutes riding the exercise bike
    60 squats

  • tammyclf
    tammyclf Posts: 57 Member
    Michele in NC - I had to get my son to show me lol. And be sure you search popsugar! Not popsecret! If I said popsecret I must have been craving popcorn! Lol
  • GRITSandSLUTSandWINOS
    GRITSandSLUTSandWINOS Posts: 2,573 Member
    Mia – Great leggings to wear to the “Red Hat Society” meetings and for Valentine’s Day. <3

    Michelle – Me, too! And that is my ‘first’ stop – ALWAYS! K-mart in left back; Publix to the right and front of store, the few times I ever go to Wally-World … it is at the front of the store, a LONG way from where just about anything I might go there for is. :#

    Now, as for caramel-chocolate covered apples? I am a ‘sucker’. Will buy one and let it last me 3 days (1/3rd a day). I also like Olive Garden’s mints. One night we went with the family and I asked for a couple of more; and, the waitress went back and brought out a whole cup of them. It lasted a full month, one mint a day.

    Where are y’all going in FL? Stop by and pick me up, please … or I will meet y’all! Just kidding; can’t really get away … especially if an Interstate is involved. B) This week I got a Jury Panel form I had to fill out. I think since I am ‘retired’ on a ‘disability’ from my job with them, I doubt they will call me … it is a year commitment. I dealt with too much ‘court’ in my day … I think I have served enough.

    Lanette – I found I had been toting around a 40lb bag of potting soil (or an ‘elephant heart’). Could not even lift it; no wonder I kept stumbling and falling down and having to be held on to by DH. Now, I can walk without too many problems; but, I do always have a ‘walking stick’. :(

    Rori – Tux, our cat will attack if you rub his belly; but, he asks to be rubbed by getting right under us while we are on the swing on the deck and rolling on his back. Then he and Cracker will get into a tag team activity. My DOS comes down and anybody that comes in or out of the house, will find him up on the deck railing asking to be rubbed (on his sides). DOS just pops him on both sides and he enjoys it. His tail is ‘always’ 90° with a cute little curl at the end. :D

    Beth – That’s hysterical! I will have to remember that since 60lbs total is my goal. I can say that I got rid of the “Elephant D*** that was stuck up my @$$.” Gutter brain; gutter mouth. I agree, ‘who comes up with this things’? :o I will have to tell that one to DH! He’ll get a kick out of that. That can be something to stifle his ‘that’s what the girl at the picnic said’. His way, after the first time, of saying ‘let’s get outta here, I am beginning to find it difficult to be pleasant beyond my stretching point’.

    Paula – Thanks ... I try to be. But, there are days when I want to just ‘stay’ inside in my PJs and veg out.

    Today I walked 40 minutes; first ½ with Cracker. We then ran up on DH and DOS; and, she got into the truck and went back to the house. I don’t want her to ‘think’ it is “OK” for her to go back there and explore (with or without Luna). I like for her to always be within ‘ear shot’. She hasn’t (cross my fingers) gone back down the road to visit with the little dog inside its invisible fence. I think she knew after the 2nd day in a row of me having to go get her, that she was a ‘deep doodie’.

    Karen – That is wonderful news! Have a safe trip; we’ll be thinking about you and holding all of you up in our prayers. <3

    I am either having an allergic reaction to something; an interaction between my meds and something; or worse. I am beginning to think that I have the 'shingles'. Right along my left jaw line. I'm trying to keep my hands off my face and will call my MD first thing Monday AM. I feel like I am 'on fire'. If this is what it feels like to 'burn in Hell', I hope I won't have to. Although I know there are a few who hope I do. LOL!!!! >:)

    Lenora
  • Jaja99
    Jaja99 Posts: 21 Member
    Toni, Carol, and Lanette- Thanks for the encouraging words!

    Rori- Your trip sounds like it will be fun! Mars is one hardworking cat. Cute picture!

    Marnie- Glad you are up and moving. Hope the back continues to cooperate. It was interesting hearing about the Iditarod. I saw the start on TV a few years ago. The moose on the car is one moose picture I don’t like! I hope there wasn’t much damage! We used to sing that song in Girl Scouts. I had forgotten it. Now it will probably replay on and on and on…

    Allie- I’m sorry this is such a difficult time. It is so hard to know the right thing to do.

    Becca- Yummy lunch and dinner!

    Michele- Enjoy Florida. I’m heading there on Wed. for a week. I hope we have great weather!

    Joyce- Hope you make it to church and got your hug! My dad was a preacher too. We lived for a few years in Berne, Indiana.

    Karen VA- thanks for the update. That is encouraging news!

    Sarah- the chart was interesting. I can’t wait until I reach a 60 lb. loss. How will I ever work that little (big) fact into the conversation?

    My grandsons came over for a while today. The met some new kids in the neighborhood and had a blast playing. I did some raking in the back yard (yay, exercise!) so I could keep an ear on them. It was great hearing the 5 boys laughing, and playing. One of the boys they met was just an amazing kid. He was 9 years old and so polite. He left their game to ask if I needed help raking. Later I heard him caution one of the others to watch his language and he took the lead on making sure the younger ones were safe. Well time for bed!
    Jana in VA
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