WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2017
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KimK, I'm going to the Augusta area Saturday to teach a Methodist Polity class. I live a little north of Athens.3
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Happy World Heritage Day!
(Officially known as The International Day for Menuments and Sites)
Heather - When we were kids, we spent all of our vacations camping out. Not until I was an adult did I appreciate the sheer amount of work my parents - especially my mother! - put in to get together a camping trip for a family of five. These days I need a little more comfort, so I hope that someday we'll manage to complete the restoration of our old camper.
Janet - Little Mia looks so cute with her pink headband! And those tiny fingers... they get me every time.
Becca - Everyone needs a little "pity party" now and then. But when you're done, I hope you'll let us celebrate the wonderful person we see in your posts!
Feeeeline - I get whiny about health stuff too. I don't want to accept that my body can't manage the things it could 20 years ago.
Marcelyn - I second the recommendation for LastPass. I've got it on every device. If anyone ever cracks LastPass I'm in a world of trouble.
iaut2laff & twestra62 - Welcome to the group!
patceoh - Dish shopping sounds great! I've been thinking of changing mine out after we paint the kitchen. Love my old Blue Willow, but it won't really be a good fit in the new colors, and it would be fun to look for something a little more in tune with my current tastes.
Lanette - Good for you on solving your noise problem! You'll be a hoot at the nursing home some day!
Sharon - Condolences on the loss of your cousin. He sounds like a lovely person. As for camping, here in Texas you have to get your camping in before summer, because before long it'll be way too hot to step outside into un-airconditioned nature.
Allie - Glad you are standing up for yourself!
Philip and I are getting ready for a big de-cluttering program in May. We're going to try the thing where you get rid of one thing on Day 1, two things on Day 2, and so on. As a warmup, I'm thrilled to say that yesterday I gave away the non-functional riding lawnmower that we were going to try to re-build "some day." And today I'm giving the deep freeze that doesn't fit in our house here to a family a local charity found for me. I feel lighter already.
-Yvonne in TX5 -
Good morning! Slept in a little bit and caught up on that lost sleep! My hubby isn't feeling well so I may have to take him to the doctors office. He's complaining that his stomach is hurting. He never complains if being sick so this is worrisome.
Lisa in TX be safe in your travels! We saved up and planned to move from Austin to Hot Springs to retire. I love it up here even though my heart is s Texan!!
We drove up for vacations for 12 years and always were looking around for retirement homes. It was 6 months before we retired we actually bought a house. We came back up to close on the property and met with flooring contractors to do work. Most if the work done was while we were back in Austin waiting for that retirement date since working for the state you have to declare your retirement date. So we retired at the end of the fiscal year so we had a complete year. I also had a woman clean the whole house for us. It was nice to move into it with nice floors and so clean!
Since the move was 500 miles the movers gave us a local rate, we moved my mother too. I guess I'm rambling but I'm so excited to hear of your plan to move up to Arkansas!
Drkatiebug I always take off my shoes. They add at least 2 lbs!
Have a nice day!
Dana in Arkansas
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Dear Ladies,
Today is a new day! Went to bed at 9:30PM last night, expressed to my DH that I was melancholy for most of the day. We hugged and he told me he will always be there for me. A comfort I will never take for granted! I just need to communicate more to him, when I am blue.
Before, when husband was active duty I just handled my moods by myself. A sailors wife never burdens her husband with more emotional baggage than he already has. Letters to your husband should be filled with encouraging words and support, not willed with sadness or problems your sailor can't fix. These words are why I try to handle stressful feelings by myself. I circle my wagons! I put on my happy face. My sons never even knew that we had marital problems, we handled it with many discussions outside, or in the car etc.
So this morning Mr. Sun greeted me at 7:30AM! Tackling the bathrooms today. Not that they are super dirty, but just need to be wiped down. The master bath, has no toilet paper dispenser, which is strange. We have been using a metal paper towel holder that sits on the counter. Its amazing how much toilet paper dust is on the counter every day!
So I am invading y'all's DREAMS now? KJ Kelly was I a slim thing?? That is too funny!!!!
Lenora. I wanted to put my two cents in about the drivers licenses. I know my two eldest sons didn't get their licenses until they got out of boot camp, and were in the Navy for a bit. Getting their drivers license really wasn't a rite of passage, like it was years ago. I think every state is different, but in California they put a lot of restrictions for new drivers ie: no night driving or passengers the first year etc. Also mandatory driving classes, ( which aren't cheap!). Both my eldest sons just wanted to relax their senior year, before they went into the Navy. They had no desire to even get behind the wheel. I know every child is different, so this was just my experience now.
Well going to the grocery store for a couple of items.. Hugs! Love ya all!
Becca
Back in the groove again in
Oregon
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Hi to all. It’s grey and rainy here; coming to work some of the streets were actually flooded. Today’s a pretty quiet office day then I have my 12-step group. I have been looking forward to it for a couple of days so I guess that means it’s a good fit for me. Still no word from DD#1. I am so tempted to just cut her out of my life. I do not get her at all; I simply don’t understand how she can be so unfeeling and uncaring. Even the BF hasn’t returned any texts or messages.
Michelle: I am surprised to hear you “slide”. You are always so consistent! I’m sure it doesn’t happen very often!
NYKaren: We too have to put a brake on the spending with DH retired from his full-time job. His retirement hasn’t kicked in yet; he just got the payout check Friday so will be going to the financial advisor to put it in a distribution account.
Becca: I think you are asking questions we have all asked. I find myself swallowing the last bite of something I didn’t even really enjoy or want and asking “why did I do that?” Then the pity party leads me to more bad choices. Hang in there! One baby step at a time.
Feeeline: That’s the nice thing about our site; we all understand “bad hair days” when nothing goes right and we need to vent. Sometimes those bad hair days become weeks or months. We have all been there.
Barbie: yes I have been very surprised at how much work Benny Beagle took…meds 7 times a day, nearly 200 pills a week, special food I had to cook, and on and on. We never minded really. But the last several week, his non-stop cough kept us up all night like before he was diagnosed. So it was really our honor to care for him until the end and ensure he was peaceful instead of struggling.
Patceoh: I don’t think it was the cooking because the BF’s mother did it all (they don’t cook). This is the daughter with all the cognitive problems who has always been difficult. She specifically told me there were only having an Easter egg hunt when I thought it was dinner and offered to help. So somewhere along the line she changed her plans and probably thinks she invited us, but who knows?
Joyce: did you just see the big research study on Parkinson’s disease and cycling? Apparently structured cycling really reduces the symptoms.
Rori: yes we have 2 cats still. One “owns” me and sits/lays/sleeps on me constantly. He is getting to be quite the pest! And at 20 pounds, he’s a bruiser!
Dana: I’m so sorry for your loss! But happy you lost in the good way too!
Allie: hugs to you!
Well I must get back to work. I keep trying to post a blog, but nothing will save. I’ve tried from 2 different computers and the help people have stopped responding to me. Any suggestions?
Take care Meg from rainy Omaha
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Oh and welcome to all the newbies!!!0
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Did about 45 minutes of Gin Miller's Sweet and Short interval DVD then a bit of a Leslie Sansone DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do some yoga and then take the deep water class. Actually, since I'm really not crazy at all about the yoga class, I'll stop at the Humane Society first then maybe go to Bi-Lo to get items on sale. If I get to yoga, I get there when I get there, if not, oh well....
Becca - I'm so glad you felt that you could open up to us. Many of us can relate
Denise called yesterday. She gave her wedding dress to Jess to keep for her. Now the day Denise has her first fitting Jess just told her that she (Jess) wouldn't be there. Denise was in a panic!!! Vince just said to her "we'll probably see Jess before August (when the fitting is), she can give the dress to us. Then mom can drive up there with it". Not that I'm crazy about that drive. But I'll do it for my daughter
Lenora - I've tried pressure washing the bricks, the red clay (horrible stuff as you well know) doesn't come off. Perhaps Louis has a more powerful pressure washer than we have.
Have to leave in a bit to count the collection money for the church. Should be a fairly big deposit since it was the holiday. Plus there was a second collection
Welcome everyone new!
patcoh - how right you are, sometimes no matter what we do, our bodies produce more cholesterol. Becca take heart
I'd never heard of Last Pass, either. I'm going to talk to Vince about it and then do some research.
Joyce - Jess was telling one of the guys who was in the test drive how part of what she does is putting fecal into people so they get a healthier gut. Vince couldn't get over that someone would do that. I felt so good that you had told us about how Charlie had it done.
Boring Rori - I just got my butterfly back (that'll go on the pergola). However, there was just an upgrade to my phone and now I have to figure out how to send the picture to my computer
dana - my sympathies for your uncle. Take solice in the fact that he lived a long life. Congrats on the loss. Hope your hubby is OK
Counted the collection at the church. To be honest, I really thought it would be much larger. We used this automatic bill counter that this guy got. Pretty acurate. One of the problems seems to be that if bills are stuck together, it only reads one bill whereas the bill counter at the bank will read the two. But it certainly went a lot lot faster than it would have otherwise
Rummikub tonight
Michele in NC
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Becca - one time my son asked when I was going to stop worrying about him and my answer was "get used to it because when I die I'm coming back from the grave to worry about you. You will find that you will get involuved in lots of other things. Like now we're involved in bowling, the Newcomers, ceramics. I volunteer at the Green Room. Certainly any local theater would love to have your voice. The volunteer opportunities are boundless.
Kim I always liked a low sodium ham, but I can't find one here. I'll certainly look for the Boardhead brand. I know I've seen Smithfield and store brands
feeeline - It sort-of depresses me that my body just can't do some of the stuff it used to do or do it as fast. But that's part of getting older I guess
Yvonn - When we're down in FL during the summer, I always wonder how people managed before the days of a/c
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Hi all....newbie here. I'm 55yrs old and live in Missouri. I love my family, nature and good friends. I have about 70lbs I need to lose and could use support.....6
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Hi, I'm a newbie, just signed up today. getting a Fitbit this week and joining my kids on here to get some motivation and support. Looking forward to getting to know all. Shari from (hoping it's finally spring) Wi.5
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Hi Gals,
Kelly – I walk Levi every morning and alternate arms – right on the way out, left on the way home… I’m way to sore otherwise.
Sharon – Sorry to hear about your cousin… (((( Hugs)))
Heather – I love the imagination entertainment you and DH do with the grands
Yesterday was a trip to San Francisco with the camp staff at the Outdoor Education camp, where I am the gardener. It was to the Academy of Science, which has a ton of displays and great stuff, my favorites are an aquarium area and a 3 story rain forest – the rain forest has free flying birds/bugs and thousands of butterflies… I took a “ton” of pictures and plan on looking them over and picking out the best today, I’ll try to get them in a format to share some with you all.
Smiles
Kim from N. California
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My hubby has the stomach flu, pray he gets better soon. He's worried I can't take care of Dolly our dog.2
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Newbies: Welcome! This group of women is amazing. I'm so glad they've been here to support me though my journey. I hope you will feel supported, too. Stop by often and get to know people. :flowerforyou:2
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Hi all,
Kids in bed. Last stories from DH. Salmon for dinner. It was a bit of a farce putting up the blackout plastic, but we managed it.
Let's hope they drop off quickly. They are usually excellent sleepers. Going to put the salmon in the oven.
Max is reading a hook I bought for him called "See inside your head" . He loves it. We were talking about brain diseases today as the book has quite a few. Do we have a future doctor in the house? His favourite was the man with a pole through his brain!
They are still chattering up there.
I feel very blessed.
Heather UK xxxxxxx3 -
A pic from DDIL of Bea left behind in Hove. Apparently she did not know why there was so much room in the bath! They take her out on a bicycle trailer.
A pic from yesterday of the two older ones cycling along the paths in Brighton.
Heather UK xxxxxxx
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Just popping on for a quick read while the kids nap. Took another walk today, but used the stroller, as I had only six kids and only two "riders". So...while I am still sore from pulling the wagon, pushing the stroller is much easier on my body, so I don't think I have done any more damage to my muscles.
Heather- LOVE love LOVE the pic of dh and the grands. We play with cars that way, here, too! I have a couple of long wallpaper tubes and mailing tubes that the boys set up in the room. Another thing they like to do is this: We tape a segment of a drinking straw to the back of an army guy or one of those mini action figures (the little three or four inch sized ones) and we create "ziplines". We attach the top of the string to the wall or to the curtain rod and then stretch the string taut and secure it to the floor with tape or a shoe. The kids run their "guy" to the top of the zipline and let go! They like to set up two or three lines, side by side and have races. Good stuff for a rainy day! We have also taped the straw segment to the bottom of the army guys feet THEN blown up a balloon and taped it to the bottom of the straw segment. Keep the opening of the balloon pinched with your fingers until you get your guy to the top of the zipline and then let the balloon go! Fun to watch those little army guys go racing!4 -
Accountability Post
Monday's Progress (4/17)
1. Carbs 50-75g (limit 25g/meal)
(B4, L5, D3, MS15, AS 37, BBS 62= 125g)
✔2. Fiber 30g (30g)
✔3. Track/complete entry daily
4. Vegetables - big salad daily
5. Exercise - log 30 Fitbit minutes, 2 miles, 5000 steps. And the elliptical 5 days a week.
6. No eating after 9pm.
7. In bed by midnight.
8. Declutter: Electronics, Craft Supplies, Pantry, ✔Fridge, Cooking and Baking, Dishes and Serving, ✔Linen Closet, Laundry Closet, ✔Medicine Cabinets, ✔Personal Care.
✔9. Digital Detox. Track daily usage.
Carbs. Not a great day. Many more late night carbs from a cookie and chocolate candy fest that didn't get tracked. Binge night. Working on taxes and wishing I'd done it sooner. Need to finish it today. Lots of medical expenses to deduct this year - making it worth the work. Weighed again this morning. Up another 1.6 lbs. Ugh!
Digital Detox. Much better than yesterday.
• iPad usage: 2H 21M, 7 pickups. Longest times: 12:20@46M, 6:25@50M. (Income tax return prep)
• iPhone usage: 4H 11M, 21 pickups. Longest times: 3:06@60M, 5:09@45M.
• Kindle usage: all night. 3am to 10:30am. This morning I found a way to track usage using parental controls. So I'll set those settings today.
I'm not sure where I'm going with the digital detox. I use technology a lot throughout my day. It's useful and necessary for my well-being.
1. Facebook. I use 2 FB group as motivation for cleaning and decluttering. Though I have several more of these groups. 12 art groups. 5 food/diet groups. 5 family/community groups. I count 36 FB groups. I'll be deleting a few.
2. MyFitnessPal - tracking daily and this forum for support and accountability.
3. Fitbit - tracking steps.
4. CareZone app for managing healthcare for our family.
5. Messages. Group chat w/my 3 sisters throughout the day. Support.❤️
6. Notes. Heavy use. Currently storing 45 notes. Need to declutter.
7. Email. Obviously. But - I don't spend lots of time reading email. I make a quick run through each morning and clear it all.
8. Banking apps. As needed on Wednesdays and Fridays... my desk work days.
My goal with this detox is to step away from it and spend more time with my mother - engaging in other activities. I find myself sitting on the sofa - in front of the tv - zoned out. Half listening to tv and sucked into FB. Tearing myself away to spend time with her. I don't like that feeling. So... I think rather than prying myself away from devices - I need to get a project going with Mama. We have our family reunion coming up and we like to make things to sell in the auction. Baskets, jewelry, photo books, mosaics. And... perhaps I'll set aside specific times for device tasks. Hmmm... something to think about. I need to go back to my detox plan. It was a good plan - I'm just not working it. So maybe I've used this time to explore my usage and connected feelings. I may be overthinking this. ;-)
Have a great day!
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