Ladies, would you let your boyfriend or husband go to the stripclub?
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badgyaljilly
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Girls, would you let your boyfriend or husband go to the strip club with his friends?
I feel like my boyfriend went 2 years ago and lied to me about going and I don't know how to feel about this.
I feel like my boyfriend went 2 years ago and lied to me about going and I don't know how to feel about this.
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Yeah, I would let him go. Hell, I have gone to male and female strip clubs without him. As long as he isn't touching or going home with them, then it's just like watching porn.3
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »Yeah, I would let him go. Hell, I have gone to male and female strip clubs without him. As long as he isn't touching or going home with them, then it's just like watching porn.
What if he got a dance?0 -
Ooooh what if he develops a favourite? what about private no-touchy dances?2
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Yep - he's a grown man and I TRUST him 100%1
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abitoftrouble wrote: »My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.
Lol so you don't care if he touches and oogles a stripper?0 -
MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Two years ago? Let it go.
Yeah I feel like I should, but the fact that right after he went there he went home to me and cuddled me after touching strippers. Gross1 -
abitoftrouble wrote: »My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.
this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...
you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!3 -
badgyaljilly wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »Yeah, I would let him go. Hell, I have gone to male and female strip clubs without him. As long as he isn't touching or going home with them, then it's just like watching porn.
What if he got a dance?
That would still be ok with me. I myself have received dances from male and female that were bought for me so if I forbid him then I would be a huge hypocrite. But regardless, I don't have a problem with it.2 -
TavistockToad wrote: »abitoftrouble wrote: »My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.
this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...
you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!
He for sure went, he GPS it in his car, googled reviews on it and then came home super late smelling like alcohol. And when I asked him about it he got defensive.0 -
All guys go to them. Sometimes girlfriends too. It may bring you guys closer together!2
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The real question is, why would he want to go to a strip club? stag scenario etc excluded1
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MrStabbems wrote: »The real question is, why would he want to go to a strip club? stag scenario etc excluded
Idk why do guys go to strip clubs? lol0 -
badgyaljilly wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »abitoftrouble wrote: »My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.
this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...
you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!
He for sure went, he GPS it in his car, googled reviews on it and then came home super late smelling like alcohol. And when I asked him about it he got defensive.
And this was 2 years ago, right? Did you just now find out about it?0 -
I've gone but don't feel the need to lie to my wife about it if I do. I know all couples are different but it sounds like a trust thing that he didn't want to tell you about it. Like you were going to hold it against him for 2 years or something.4
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indigoblue9572 wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »abitoftrouble wrote: »My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.
this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...
you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!
He for sure went, he GPS it in his car, googled reviews on it and then came home super late smelling like alcohol. And when I asked him about it he got defensive.
And this was 2 years ago, right? Did you just now find out about it?
No I asked him 2 years ago when I found out. And till this day it still bothers me. Its obvious he went GPS, REVIEWS, SMELLING LIKE BEER.0 -
Yes, he goes once a year during his annual golf trip with the guys. I think sometimes his buddy even pays for a lap dance. I couldn't care less about it. I trust him 100%. He ain't going anywhere...especially with a stripper.0
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I would let him of course! But if he went and hid it from me and then I found out, I would be VERY frustrated! I hate liars2
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