Ladies, would you let your boyfriend or husband go to the stripclub?
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MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »tmanfromtexas wrote: »I can understand why he denies going. Obviously he knew you would lose your shyte over it and throw it in his face for years to come. Oh snap he must have been right because you come here two years later asking opinions of it. I wonder what else he hasnt fessed up to heheh.
OR, it would have been buried in the mud there and then but because he planted the seed of doubt, it's been convulating in here head and made things worse over the years.
Don't make her out to be some sort of pyscho.
It's not his fault she's dwelling on it. If he lied and she "knows" it she should've done one of two things:
1. Forgive him and move on
2. Decide it isn't ok and leave him
Staying with him two more years while she lets it fester isn't fair to either of them
actually, I agree.
Im just trying to see from her side.0 -
All my business meetings happen at a strip club, maybe he was there on business. Doing businessy things.5
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SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
Sweat inducing activities are gross? Hope you have the CICO figured out then because you can't be on MFP to do any physical activity
I sweat like a maniac at the gym and then I shower.
I don't find your sweat attractive. Sorry
I don't like my partner sweating/smelly and getting into bed without a shower and I dont want to smell you on him. That's all.
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MrStabbems wrote: »All my business meetings happen at a strip club, maybe he was there on business. Doing businessy things.
lol0 -
SpotLighttt wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
Sweat inducing activities are gross? Hope you have the CICO figured out then because you can't be on MFP to do any physical activity
I sweat like a maniac at the gym and then I shower.
I don't find your sweat attractive. Sorry
I don't like my partner sweating/smelly and getting into bed without a shower and I dont want to smell you on him. That's all.
so i guess your physical activity in the bed is relatively calm
so as to not induce sweat 
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badgyaljilly wrote: »Girls, would you let your boyfriend or husband go to the strip club with his friends?
I feel like my boyfriend went 2 years ago and lied to me about going and I don't know how to feel about this.
Yes.
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Hell No!!!
If this right here ain't enough to satisfy him, i wouldn't want him anyway, he can go and stay gone!2 -
chaosbutterfly wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Two years ago? Let it go.
Yeah I feel like I should, but the fact that right after he went there he went home to me and cuddled me after touching strippers. Gross
Strippers are people like you are a person. They are not diseased or dirty, unless you count like...body glitter and maybe some scented lotion as being dirty.
So he touched one (or several) and then touched you. Did you die?
Two years later and you're still here to make this thread, so what is the problem.
Well I don't know. People do tend to sweat when they dance. Him showering before getting into bed might have been a nice touch. But that's assuming he got lap dances and actually had physical contact with the strippers. Which many people don't do, even if they're there.0 -
Tomk652015 wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
Sweat inducing activities are gross? Hope you have the CICO figured out then because you can't be on MFP to do any physical activity
I sweat like a maniac at the gym and then I shower.
I don't find your sweat attractive. Sorry
I don't like my partner sweating/smelly and getting into bed without a shower and I dont want to smell you on him. That's all.
so i guess your physical activity in the bed is relatively calm so as to not induce sweat
OH YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
thats exactly what I implied. A dead sex life.
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SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
I feel down right sexy when I have sweat dripping off of me from working out. I'll be sure to tag you in the selfie thread later of my glistening body 1 -
I don't "let" my fiance do anything. He is an adult who can make his own decisions.3
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badgyaljilly wrote: »indigoblue9572 wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »abitoftrouble wrote: »My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.
this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...
you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!
He for sure went, he GPS it in his car, googled reviews on it and then came home super late smelling like alcohol. And when I asked him about it he got defensive.
And this was 2 years ago, right? Did you just now find out about it?
No I asked him 2 years ago when I found out. And till this day it still bothers me. Its obvious he went GPS, REVIEWS, SMELLING LIKE BEER.
Let me get this straight. You checked the guys GPS, tracked where he went, and googled the location to find out where he went.
And you've been holding this grudge for 2 years.
Well.. Good luck..
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SpotLighttt wrote: »Some of this is highly offensive. It has been awhile, but a couple years back I stripped to pay the bills. I was a single mom and some crazy crap went down and then my company went out of business. I needed money, fast. Stripping makes cash. You don't have to wait 3 weeks for the first check, etc.
One night a guy came in and told me how miserable he was in his relationship and that he was afraid his girlfriend was stalking him, checking his computer, his phone, even looking at the GPS in his car to see where he had gone. He said that the lack of trust made him crazy and that he just needed a night to get away from her. Poor guy
and so you relieved his frustration? Im not being condescending but is that what you did?
do you think you helped the relationship in any way?
I talked to him. He didn't buy a dance. Did you assume he did? Shame on you for making assumptions!!!
I told him that trust and jealousy issues are a huge problem in relationships and that if he didn't address it very quickly that a few years down the road she would still be holding things over his head.
Thanks for assuming that a stripper can only relieve frustration in one way. How very closed minded of you
Questions are assumptions?
I thought questions are about learning and educating.
so you played mentor. Awwwwwwwww how cute.
don't you think you jumped into a whole load of assumptions by assuming what I meant?
Do you think the assumption that strippers are generally not very intelligent is a gross overstatement and unfair?0 -
Oh for heavens sake, take off your panties, throw them on the table and strip for your man or hold a grudge for another two years..
#letthatsh*tgo
And baaaawaaah on the no sweat zone in the bedroom. This stuff is priceless.7 -
Idk when it comes to sexual things it can be a sensitive topic, when I dated a guy he would do everything to hide that he watched porn cause his last gf freaked out. I myself reg watch porn so when he saw my browser history I was pretty open for the fact I watched just like how I didn't mind him going to a strip club because he's not *kitten* them he's not getting there number... to me it's a visual fantasy... but some people are more insecure, or there morals feel strip clubs are wrong. Open communication is key but I understand his fear of not telling you.. fear of a fight or break up over something like this etc3
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LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
I feel down right sexy when I have sweat dripping off of me from working out. I'll be sure to tag you in the selfie thread later of my glistening body
Show me. I like oozing confidence.
Im glad we are behind computers 0 -
OutOfUserName wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
Sweat inducing activities are gross? Hope you have the CICO figured out then because you can't be on MFP to do any physical activity
I sweat like a maniac at the gym and then I shower.
I don't find your sweat attractive. Sorry
I don't like my partner sweating/smelly and getting into bed without a shower and I dont want to smell you on him. That's all.
You dont sweat having sex?
nope0 -
He (and I) can get our appetite anywhere we want to, but we eat at home. :-)4
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Wow I can't say the F word haha kitten that's cute1
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SpotLighttt wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
Sweat inducing activities are gross? Hope you have the CICO figured out then because you can't be on MFP to do any physical activity
I sweat like a maniac at the gym and then I shower.
I don't find your sweat attractive. Sorry
I don't like my partner sweating/smelly and getting into bed without a shower and I dont want to smell you on him. That's all.
How do you know? My sweat smells like cotton candy and sad men
Im not a risk taker.0 -
OutOfUserName wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »OutOfUserName wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »
woah woah woah
At no point did I say they are not people or imply as such or make any derogatory comments about the profession in itself.
You jumped to a whole host of conclusions.
ridiculous. You should be ashamed of yourself for categorizing me or shall I say isolating me for no reason whatsoever.
I have nothing to be ashamed of. You're the one who called another poster unclean.
Nope, I said Im dubious because she insulted me for finding a sweat inducing activity gross.
So yes, you and your bias are also stinky.
Sweat inducing activities are gross? Hope you have the CICO figured out then because you can't be on MFP to do any physical activity
I sweat like a maniac at the gym and then I shower.
I don't find your sweat attractive. Sorry
I don't like my partner sweating/smelly and getting into bed without a shower and I dont want to smell you on him. That's all.
You dont sweat having sex?
nope
Lazy
but Im skinny because I have a high metabolism0 -
My boyfriend went to a strip club a year before we had met and started dating and he didn't enjoy it. So I guess I'm lucky that he has zero interest in ever going back to one. But if he did I don't really think I would mind all that much. Sure I'd worry but it's his choice to go0
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I don't expect my SO to ask permission, so it's not a matter of "let".0
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Oh for heavens sake, take off your panties, throw them on the table and strip for your man or hold a grudge for another two years..
#letthatsh*tgo
And baaaawaaah on the no sweat zone in the bedroom. This stuff is priceless.
I approve lol. I recommend however, part one of the recommendation!1 -
From reading some of the responses, I will say, in my opinion.....most of you are young and evidently have no morals. I mean, I don't see how you can, IF you don't mind your husband/wife going to a strip club. As a Christian, I believe it is a sin. It is sinful for a Christian—or anyone—to attend a strip club and watch strippers. However, the very fact this question is raised deserves some more attention. Going to a strip club feeds the lust of the flesh (1 John 2:16) and is therefore sinful. Sin can be defined as any thought, word, or deed that “falls short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23).
I know none of you will agree with this, and that's ok with me. My husband doesn't need or want to go to a strip club. This has NOTHING to do with insecurity. I have never trusted a man as much as I do my husband.
I do agree with some that said you need to let it go....but you also need to forgive. We are all sinners...NO ONE are perfect. NOW, I know there are some of you that do not believe God, and I can only pray for you. But in my honest and humble opinion, no one needs to be visiting a strip club for entertainment or any other reason.
AND, yes these strippers are people, too. However, they are sinful if this is the only job they are doing for a living.-1 -
Ms_Sicilian wrote: »Wow I can't say the F word haha kitten that's cute
yep *kitten* *kitten* *kitten*1
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