Ladies, would you let your boyfriend or husband go to the stripclub?

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badgyaljilly
badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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Girls, would you let your boyfriend or husband go to the strip club with his friends?

I feel like my boyfriend went 2 years ago and lied to me about going and I don't know how to feel about this.
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  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
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    Yeah, I would let him go. Hell, I have gone to male and female strip clubs without him. As long as he isn't touching or going home with them, then it's just like watching porn.
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    Yeah, I would let him go. Hell, I have gone to male and female strip clubs without him. As long as he isn't touching or going home with them, then it's just like watching porn.

    What if he got a dance?
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
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    Ooooh what if he develops a favourite? what about private no-touchy dances?
  • PrincessMel72
    PrincessMel72 Posts: 1,094 Member
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    Yep - he's a grown man and I TRUST him 100%
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.

    Lol so you don't care if he touches and oogles a stripper?
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »
    Two years ago? Let it go.

    Yeah I feel like I should, but the fact that right after he went there he went home to me and cuddled me after touching strippers. Gross
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.

    this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...

    you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
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    badgyaljilly wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    Yeah, I would let him go. Hell, I have gone to male and female strip clubs without him. As long as he isn't touching or going home with them, then it's just like watching porn.

    What if he got a dance?

    That would still be ok with me. I myself have received dances from male and female that were bought for me so if I forbid him then I would be a huge hypocrite. But regardless, I don't have a problem with it.
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    TavistockToad wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.

    this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...

    you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!

    He for sure went, he GPS it in his car, googled reviews on it and then came home super late smelling like alcohol. And when I asked him about it he got defensive.
  • liftorgohome
    liftorgohome Posts: 25,455 Member
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    All guys go to them. Sometimes girlfriends too. It may bring you guys closer together!
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
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    The real question is, why would he want to go to a strip club? stag scenario etc excluded
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    MrStabbems wrote: »
    The real question is, why would he want to go to a strip club? stag scenario etc excluded

    Idk why do guys go to strip clubs? lol
  • PrincessMel72
    PrincessMel72 Posts: 1,094 Member
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    badgyaljilly wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.

    this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...

    you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!

    He for sure went, he GPS it in his car, googled reviews on it and then came home super late smelling like alcohol. And when I asked him about it he got defensive.

    And this was 2 years ago, right? Did you just now find out about it?
  • Muscle_for_Fitness
    Muscle_for_Fitness Posts: 2,198 Member
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    I've gone but don't feel the need to lie to my wife about it if I do. I know all couples are different but it sounds like a trust thing that he didn't want to tell you about it. Like you were going to hold it against him for 2 years or something.
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    indigoblue9572 wrote: »
    badgyaljilly wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    My husband doesn't need permission to do anything. He's not a child.

    this.... its not a case of 'letting' him do anything...

    you 'feel like' he went...? well either he did or didn't? do you actually know? and it was 2 years ago... that's a looooooooooooooong time to be holding a grudge!

    He for sure went, he GPS it in his car, googled reviews on it and then came home super late smelling like alcohol. And when I asked him about it he got defensive.

    And this was 2 years ago, right? Did you just now find out about it?


    No I asked him 2 years ago when I found out. And till this day it still bothers me. Its obvious he went GPS, REVIEWS, SMELLING LIKE BEER.
  • midlomel1971
    midlomel1971 Posts: 1,283 Member
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    Yes, he goes once a year during his annual golf trip with the guys. I think sometimes his buddy even pays for a lap dance. I couldn't care less about it. I trust him 100%. He ain't going anywhere...especially with a stripper.
  • briohne128
    briohne128 Posts: 176 Member
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    I would let him of course! But if he went and hid it from me and then I found out, I would be VERY frustrated! I hate liars :s
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