Married and flirty....?

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  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    lol he who does not sin cast the first stone?

    I'm not saying I agree with the OP but damn there are so many judgemental people who probably wouldn't enjoy someone critiquing their actions if the role was reversed.

    Anyone is allowed to comment however they want to. If OP does not want a certain kind of response, should not put it out there publically.

    I concur, I just find that it funny that people are so quickly to judge when might not have the morale high ground to do so.

    A bit hypocritical don't ya think?

    We live in a judgey society... but .. you too don't know all these people responding in the way you describe, kinda put the shoe on the other foot sort of speaking..
  • unparalleledAF
    unparalleledAF Posts: 45 Member
    km8907 wrote: »
    Soooo your wife is totally cool with you looking for a mfp wife/multiple girlfriends?

    Alternately, would OP be okay - truly, honestly okay - if his wife was on various sites "checking out the menu"?

    I see from another comment that he seems to be okay with it, but I'm cynical and wonder if this post is a reflection of a bruised ego.
  • Zac1644
    Zac1644 Posts: 1,173 Member
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    lol he who does not sin cast the first stone?

    I'm not saying I agree with the OP but damn there are so many judgemental people who probably wouldn't enjoy someone critiquing their actions if the role was reversed.

    Anyone is allowed to comment however they want to. If OP does not want a certain kind of response, should not put it out there publically.

    I concur, I just find that it funny that people are so quickly to judge when might not have the morale high ground to do so.

    A bit hypocritical don't ya think?

    We live in a judgey society... but .. you too don't know all these people responding in the way you describe, kinda put the shoe on the other foot sort of speaking..

    you're right that's why I said MIGHT and not that all these people do not have the high ground. So there is no shoe to put on the other foot. I'm merely sitting back wondering why people think it's ok to make comments about someone when they don't know his situation and he hasn't stated one way or the other? That's all. Nothing harsh or rude, more curious than anything.

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    lol he who does not sin cast the first stone?

    I'm not saying I agree with the OP but damn there are so many judgemental people who probably wouldn't enjoy someone critiquing their actions if the role was reversed.

    Anyone is allowed to comment however they want to. If OP does not want a certain kind of response, should not put it out there publically.

    I concur, I just find that it funny that people are so quickly to judge when might not have the morale high ground to do so.

    A bit hypocritical don't ya think?

    We live in a judgey society... but .. you too don't know all these people responding in the way you describe, kinda put the shoe on the other foot sort of speaking..

    Post Reported !


    .... for judging judgements and the judges who judge; not that I'm judging.
  • Motorsheen wrote: »
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    lol he who does not sin cast the first stone?

    I'm not saying I agree with the OP but damn there are so many judgemental people who probably wouldn't enjoy someone critiquing their actions if the role was reversed.

    Anyone is allowed to comment however they want to. If OP does not want a certain kind of response, should not put it out there publically.

    I concur, I just find that it funny that people are so quickly to judge when might not have the morale high ground to do so.

    A bit hypocritical don't ya think?

    We live in a judgey society... but .. you too don't know all these people responding in the way you describe, kinda put the shoe on the other foot sort of speaking..

    Post Reported !


    .... for judging judgements and the judges who judge; not that I'm judging.

    Post reported for reporting! LOL
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    xxJAFLxx wrote: »
    Almost everyone here flirts. It's about 99% benign and just people having fun. And as long as everyone realises and accepts that, there's no problem. It's can be a confidence booster and even help you to develop better social interactions. But when someone is in or just getting out of a crappy marriage/relationship and is lonely and craving some attention, things could get out of hand. That's the chance you take. So flirt to your hearts content, just be careful. I guess, I could say guard your heart. And I don't care what this sounds like to you or what you think, I've been there. It's sad and it's lonely and it hurts like hell!

    So you don't love me?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I'm just trying to have a little fun is all but you can interpret that anyway you want I guess...
  • ZodFit
    ZodFit Posts: 394 Member
    Ok I know I'm not the only one here. I'm not here to cheat but just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't still look at the menu! LoL Just check in and see who's looking!

    GIF-Flirt-flirting-wink-Milana-Vayntrub-GIF.gif

    Hahahahahahahaha that gif
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  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.
  • Morgaen73
    Morgaen73 Posts: 2,817 Member
    edited September 2017
    I don't care what anyone else does so long as their SO is aware of it and fine with it. If that's the case, then go right ahead and if other people take issue with it then that's their fault and frankly, it isn't their business anyways.

    This ^^^

    Moral judgement is most effective when the object of the judgement shares the same set of morals, if not it's pretty much just a wasted statement of the judger's own subjective sense of morality.
  • km8907
    km8907 Posts: 3,861 Member
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.

    Or the same 51 people viewed the thread 19 times each?
  • 76Crane76
    76Crane76 Posts: 133 Member
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    That's an interesting argument to make on the Chit-chat forum, where I think the majority of people are looking for a distraction.
    km8907 wrote: »
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.

    Or the same 51 people viewed the thread 19 times each?

    Err... Maybe. That's 51 very neurotic people. lol
  • Morgaen73
    Morgaen73 Posts: 2,817 Member
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    I'm just guessing here but would it not be less distracting if you just didn't read it in the first place?
  • CaloricCountess
    CaloricCountess Posts: 202 Member
    edited September 2017
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    If you're just here to only rid yourself of excess weight/be healthy, then why're reading/commenting within; the Chit Chat forum?
  • km8907
    km8907 Posts: 3,861 Member
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    That's an interesting argument to make on the Chit-chat forum, where I think the majority of people are looking for a distraction.
    km8907 wrote: »
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.

    Or the same 51 people viewed the thread 19 times each?

    Err... Maybe. That's 51 very neurotic people. lol

    That's chit-chat to a T!
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    km8907 wrote: »
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    That's an interesting argument to make on the Chit-chat forum, where I think the majority of people are looking for a distraction.
    km8907 wrote: »
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.

    Or the same 51 people viewed the thread 19 times each?

    Err... Maybe. That's 51 very neurotic people. lol

    That's chit-chat to a T!

    Only 51?

    If you're counting my endless supply of catfish accounts it's way over that.
  • km8907
    km8907 Posts: 3,861 Member
    km8907 wrote: »
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    That's an interesting argument to make on the Chit-chat forum, where I think the majority of people are looking for a distraction.
    km8907 wrote: »
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.

    Or the same 51 people viewed the thread 19 times each?

    Err... Maybe. That's 51 very neurotic people. lol

    That's chit-chat to a T!

    Only 51?

    I'm surprised it's that high tbh
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
    I am starting to think I am the only person on this site who is not married, attached, ball and chain, disco ball... Send me noodZ! *hot people only though.

    Dm sent
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