Married and flirty....?

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  • Posts: 15,486 Member
    Zac1644 wrote: »

    I concur, I just find that it funny that people are so quickly to judge when might not have the morale high ground to do so.

    A bit hypocritical don't ya think?

    We live in a judgey society... but .. you too don't know all these people responding in the way you describe, kinda put the shoe on the other foot sort of speaking..
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    km8907 wrote: »
    Soooo your wife is totally cool with you looking for a mfp wife/multiple girlfriends?

    Alternately, would OP be okay - truly, honestly okay - if his wife was on various sites "checking out the menu"?

    I see from another comment that he seems to be okay with it, but I'm cynical and wonder if this post is a reflection of a bruised ego.
  • Posts: 1,173 Member
    RoxieDawn wrote: »

    We live in a judgey society... but .. you too don't know all these people responding in the way you describe, kinda put the shoe on the other foot sort of speaking..

    you're right that's why I said MIGHT and not that all these people do not have the high ground. So there is no shoe to put on the other foot. I'm merely sitting back wondering why people think it's ok to make comments about someone when they don't know his situation and he hasn't stated one way or the other? That's all. Nothing harsh or rude, more curious than anything.

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  • Posts: 20,506 Member
    RoxieDawn wrote: »

    We live in a judgey society... but .. you too don't know all these people responding in the way you describe, kinda put the shoe on the other foot sort of speaking..

    Post Reported !


    .... for judging judgements and the judges who judge; not that I'm judging.
  • Motorsheen wrote: »

    Post Reported !


    .... for judging judgements and the judges who judge; not that I'm judging.

    Post reported for reporting! LOL
  • Posts: 2,477 Member
    xxJAFLxx wrote: »
    Almost everyone here flirts. It's about 99% benign and just people having fun. And as long as everyone realises and accepts that, there's no problem. It's can be a confidence booster and even help you to develop better social interactions. But when someone is in or just getting out of a crappy marriage/relationship and is lonely and craving some attention, things could get out of hand. That's the chance you take. So flirt to your hearts content, just be careful. I guess, I could say guard your heart. And I don't care what this sounds like to you or what you think, I've been there. It's sad and it's lonely and it hurts like hell!

    So you don't love me?
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    I'm just trying to have a little fun is all but you can interpret that anyway you want I guess...
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    Hahahahahahahaha that gif
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  • Posts: 3,195 Member
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.
  • Posts: 2,817 Member
    edited September 2017
    I don't care what anyone else does so long as their SO is aware of it and fine with it. If that's the case, then go right ahead and if other people take issue with it then that's their fault and frankly, it isn't their business anyways.

    This ^^^

    Moral judgement is most effective when the object of the judgement shares the same set of morals, if not it's pretty much just a wasted statement of the judger's own subjective sense of morality.
  • Posts: 3,861 Member
    I love how on the mobile app I can see that even though there are only 51 comments to this thread, it's been viewed over 1K times. Makes me think the puritan judges aren't the majority, just the ones yelling the loudest.

    Or the same 51 people viewed the thread 19 times each?
  • Posts: 133 Member
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!
  • Posts: 3,195 Member
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    That's an interesting argument to make on the Chit-chat forum, where I think the majority of people are looking for a distraction.
    km8907 wrote: »

    Or the same 51 people viewed the thread 19 times each?

    Err... Maybe. That's 51 very neurotic people. lol
  • Posts: 2,817 Member
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    I'm just guessing here but would it not be less distracting if you just didn't read it in the first place?
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    edited September 2017
    76Crane76 wrote: »
    For those on here to flirt/cheat maybe you could create a group? Otherwise people like me are on this app to lose weight and be healthy! We don't need this distraction *kitten* when we are trying to get it together!!

    If you're just here to only rid yourself of excess weight/be healthy, then why're reading/commenting within; the Chit Chat forum?
  • Posts: 3,861 Member

    That's an interesting argument to make on the Chit-chat forum, where I think the majority of people are looking for a distraction.
    Err... Maybe. That's 51 very neurotic people. lol

    That's chit-chat to a T!
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    Only 51?

    If you're counting my endless supply of catfish accounts it's way over that.
  • Posts: 3,861 Member

    Only 51?

    I'm surprised it's that high tbh
  • Posts: 1,745 Member
    I am starting to think I am the only person on this site who is not married, attached, ball and chain, disco ball... Send me noodZ! *hot people only though.

    Dm sent
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