Married and flirty....?

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  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Will_Run_4_Food no
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Will_Run_4_Food but I am engaged. No idea when the wedding will be.
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    @Will_Run_4_Food no

    Now it makes sense
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    Being married and flirting. Like it's okay if you have admirers or whatever but when you step it up a notch and are flirting knowing your spouse would not be okay with it, if your spouse is okay with it, do your thing. But if she or he doesn't know or you gotta hide it, it's cheating.

    That's why all marriages should be open.
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Ironandwine69 you're saying because I'm not married it makes sense? Lmao I've been engaged to the same dude for 3 years and we've lived together for 4 years. Marriage in my eyes is a very serious thing. You bond your life with another. If you wanna flirt and hide *kitten* or whatever be single.
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    What's *kitten* it just automatically put itself in the paragraph?
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    @Ironandwine69 you're saying because I'm not married it makes sense? Lmao I've been engaged to the same dude for 3 years and we've lived together for 4 years. Marriage in my eyes is a very serious thing. You bond your life with another. If you wanna flirt and hide *kitten* or whatever be single.

    I was kidding.
    I agree with you. But the problem is not flirting, is the trust.
    Do you expect to never ever ever ever find anyone attractive or flirt for the rest of your life?
  • KyleGrace8
    KyleGrace8 Posts: 2,205 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    What's *kitten* it just automatically put itself in the paragraph?

    censoring bad words
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    I didn't put in a bad word? It just automatically popped up
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Ironandwine69 that's not what I'm saying, I'm saying you can be attracted to another human but don't take actions upon it. And honestly I don't even look to find any one else attractive. I don't feel the need too. My fiancé is a great man and he's everything that I need so I don't bother with anything else or anyone else.
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    @Ironandwine69 that's not what I'm saying, I'm saying you can be attracted to another human but don't take actions upon it. And honestly I don't even look to find any one else attractive. I don't feel the need too. My fiancé is a great man and he's everything that I need so I don't bother with anything else or anyone else.

    And that is awesome.
    But we should not judge what others do with their marriages or relationship. How do we even know that the spouse is not okay with it.
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Ironandwine69 that's why I said above if your spouse is okay with it, do your thing. But if they aren't and you're hiding it then it's a problem. But hey to each their own.
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    @Ironandwine69 that's why I said above if your spouse is okay with it, do your thing. But if they aren't and you're hiding it then it's a problem. But hey to each their own.

    How is flirting a problem though? Like, how is it a threat to your relationship?
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Will_Run_4_Food I haven't took my vows yet because my fiancé is active duty military and he's gone most of the time so no time to plan and plus we're saving up money for a big wedding. I'll be preachy on my views because I know the meaning of marriage.
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Will_Run_4_Food there's many things that play into the factor for my marriage. Plus I want to be healthy for my wedding not going through chemotherapy so thank you.
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  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    If it does change in 15 years I'll admit I'm wrong
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    @Will_Run_4_Food if you're being serious, thank you.
  • Wolfger
    Wolfger Posts: 350 Member
    Anybody here ever hear of polyamory? :lol:
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    Huh?
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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    Huh?

    Can I just ask, why would you bother posting in the selfie thread if you weren't looking for some type of attention?

    Not judging, just asking
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    Not looking for any attention or I would of posted with my boobs out and what not mainly just looking for friends to keep up the motivation!
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  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    Hahahahaha! :D
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    Not looking for any attention or I would of posted with my boobs out and what not mainly just looking for friends to keep up the motivation!

    I should post my boobs.
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    Lmao if you got em, flaunt em if ya wanna!
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