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  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
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    JillianRumrill wrote: »
    ok wait a minute, why is it when I post a bikini photo of myself online I get advertisements for amusement parks? You mean that's not supposed to happen?
    And where are those d!ck pics? I would love to compare johnsons some time.

    I get National Geographic ads when I post mine. :p
  • jcstevens86
    jcstevens86 Posts: 3,338 Member
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    As for portraying yourself in a sexual nature or posting nudity i cant say anything about it other than like i did before ask why do it if you know the outcome can be bad....its not a statement its a question....hell im positive there is still stuff of me all over the internet from my choice of life style years ago
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
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    jcstevens86 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    Do you think that my posting bikini photos means that I have no class and I don't respect myself?

    Once again you have failed to read what i have posted several times pertaining to you.....NO I DO NOT FIND YOUR PHOTO DISTASTEFUL NOR DO I FIND IT CLASSLESS....

    You didn't post anything about me several times.

    I was asking a question in response to your statement.

    Actually i did....maybe 1 of the few who decided to read every post can enlighten you

    I did read every post. You said that my bikini photo was fine, which I read and I comprehended.

    But then you said that you're teaching your daughter to have morals and self-respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times. So while yes, I read your previous post, I was legitimately asking you if you think that my posting bikini photos means that you think that I don't respect myself.

    You don't have to insult my intelligence. I wasn't insulting yours.

    Do i think you dont respect yourself...no i dont think that at all idk you to even make that assumption....once again im basing my thoughts are based off the girls i seen posting pix of there booty in a thong on a fitness app lol

    But you do think that girls who show off their *kitten* don't respect themselves. Is that right? Because I've been known to do that as well.

    And that's my point. You can't just throw a line like that out there. You just admitted that you don't know me enough to know how I feel about myself so you can't do that with other people either.

    But i never once said anything about anyone not having respect for themselves all i said is i will teach my daughter self respect...as for showing *kitten* pix all i did is ask a legitimate question as to why knowing the outcome could be bad especially in the world we live in today

    You did, though. You quoted "I'll be teaching my daughters not to be posting slutty pictures online." Then you said your comment.

    Because you quoted that, whether this was your intention or not, you said that women who post slutty photos don't have self-respect.

    ^^This person. She's a class act. Always has been. Always will be.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    JillianRumrill wrote: »
    ok wait a minute, why is it when I post a bikini photo of myself online I get advertisements for amusement parks? You mean that's not supposed to happen?
    And where are those d!ck pics? I would love to compare johnsons some time.

    I get National Geographic ads when I post mine. :p

    National Geographic pics of nude natives.... bad naked.
  • JillianRumrill
    JillianRumrill Posts: 335 Member
    edited October 2017
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    LeGaCyGiAnT91 wrote: »
    JillianRumrill wrote: »
    LeGaCyGiAnT91 wrote: »
    Man, my brain is fried after reading this thread. Anyone want some KFC?

    I'm always down for some fried chicken.

    Rub my belly while feeding me, and we'll call it a date.

    Hell yeah :) I'll bring the lotion and a horror movie.
  • RacerX_14
    RacerX_14 Posts: 578 Member
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    WreckedButWhole wrote: »
    I wear a bikini when I go swimming. Sometimes I get sunburned. I know it’s a possible outcome, but that doesn’t mean I want the sunburn. However, I’m not going to sit in the shade while everyone else goes swimming just because I have skin that burns easily.

    And you better believe I’m going to be b!tching about my sunburn to anyone who will listen.

    Very well said. Sums it all right here I believe!
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    Well, it's like they say, "you cant put bread in the freezer, right?"
  • JillianRumrill
    JillianRumrill Posts: 335 Member
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    WorkerDrone83 wrote: »
    I made a conscious effort not to participate in this thread too heavily because I knew any dude who doesn't just say "yeah, creepers suck" would be assumed to be a creeper. I kind of wish I could stick around to see how Chad digs himself out of this one. B)

    not just dudes my friend ;)

  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    Well, it's like they say, "you cant put bread in the freezer, right?"

    So so true. Preach
  • elizarizo
    elizarizo Posts: 489 Member
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    I wouldn’t know, being ugly helps a lot
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
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    Gah. Took 8 years to get to the last page of this. And all I can remember is 12 year old cherry popping. I think I'm officially done with this one.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    edited October 2017
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    @elizarizo wrote: »
    I wouldn’t know, being ugly helps a lot

    Try being ugly, overweight and unemployed.
  • LeGaCyGiAnT91
    LeGaCyGiAnT91 Posts: 405 Member
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    elizarizo wrote: »
    I wouldn’t know, being ugly helps a lot

    Yeah.

    Have some self confidence. It helps ;)
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