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  • jcstevens86
    jcstevens86 Posts: 3,338 Member
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    beingmore1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    Like I said people perceive things about themselves and others in different ways. Your classy manner may not be what someone considers classy. You can’t lump everyone together into one category.

    Im not tryin to lump anyone into one category lol im also far from classy but i am a work in progress....maybe having a daughter young and being who and what i was is why i am the way i am torwards this subject

    Pull-out game not as strong as advertised?

    Back then no lol its developed over the years......but i have only had 1 kid since cherry popped at 12 so i think my shooting game is ok lol
  • Corprina
    Corprina Posts: 215 Member
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    I had a friend a few years ago who posted a pic of herself here and she was nude except for being covered with red bows in strategic areas, since it was close to Christmas. It was tastefully done. She had worked extremely hard to get the body she always dreamed of. She was proud of her accomplishment and was not in any way posting it for leud comments or to attract creeps. What pic a person chooses to posts is a matter of personality - some may post a thong pic to purposely get creepy reactions, others because they are proud of their fitness accomplishments. I agree with teacupsandtoning! The bottom line is you will be judged no matter what you do or what your reasons are for doing it. People will assume and jump to conclusions and men may send creepy messages but when they do, you set them straight and hold your head high.
  • HealthyAshes88888
    HealthyAshes88888 Posts: 1,248 Member
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    beingmore1 wrote: »
    And there goes the intelligent discussion. I tried! ;)

    I think we've all learned that what you expected and what you want doesnt always go your way :D
  • LeGaCyGiAnT91
    LeGaCyGiAnT91 Posts: 405 Member
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    Man, my brain is fried after reading this thread. Anyone want some KFC?
  • jcstevens86
    jcstevens86 Posts: 3,338 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    Do you think that my posting bikini photos means that I have no class and I don't respect myself?

    Once again you have failed to read what i have posted several times pertaining to you.....NO I DO NOT FIND YOUR PHOTO DISTASTEFUL NOR DO I FIND IT CLASSLESS....

    You didn't post anything about me several times.

    I was asking a question in response to your statement.

    Actually i did....maybe 1 of the few who decided to read every post can enlighten you
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    This is a fitness site ( shocker, I know). yet somehow people think its slutty to post progress pic in your bikini or shorts. Showing your body has nothing to do with self respect, the reason why you show your body is a different story.

  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    beingmore1 wrote: »
    And there goes the intelligent discussion. I tried! ;)

    You always start the best threads!
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    beingmore1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    Like I said people perceive things about themselves and others in different ways. Your classy manner may not be what someone considers classy. You can’t lump everyone together into one category.

    Im not tryin to lump anyone into one category lol im also far from classy but i am a work in progress....maybe having a daughter young and being who and what i was is why i am the way i am torwards this subject

    Pull-out game not as strong as advertised?

    Back then no lol its developed over the years......but i have only had 1 kid since cherry popped at 12 so i think my shooting game is ok lol

    Oh my dear sweet heavens
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    beingmore1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    Like I said people perceive things about themselves and others in different ways. Your classy manner may not be what someone considers classy. You can’t lump everyone together into one category.

    Im not tryin to lump anyone into one category lol im also far from classy but i am a work in progress....maybe having a daughter young and being who and what i was is why i am the way i am torwards this subject

    Pull-out game not as strong as advertised?

    Well damn, that deserves a friend request.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    And there goes the intelligent discussion. I tried! ;)

    Hell, it's up to 12 pages. The topic was covered on page 1. The next 11 pages are wash, rinse, repeat.
  • jcstevens86
    jcstevens86 Posts: 3,338 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    Do you think that my posting bikini photos means that I have no class and I don't respect myself?

    Once again you have failed to read what i have posted several times pertaining to you.....NO I DO NOT FIND YOUR PHOTO DISTASTEFUL NOR DO I FIND IT CLASSLESS....

    You didn't post anything about me several times.

    I was asking a question in response to your statement.

    Actually i did....maybe 1 of the few who decided to read every post can enlighten you

    I did read every post. You said that my bikini photo was fine, which I read and I comprehended.

    But then you said that you're teaching your daughter to have morals and self-respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times. So while yes, I read your previous post, I was legitimately asking you if you think that my posting bikini photos means that you think that I don't respect myself.

    You don't have to insult my intelligence. I wasn't insulting yours.

    Your reading me all wrong im not trting be insulting torwards you at all if thats what you got from me i do apologize
  • LeGaCyGiAnT91
    LeGaCyGiAnT91 Posts: 405 Member
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    beingmore1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    beingmore1 wrote: »
    Yall trippin 4real lol....i get what yall sayin...a broad should be able to be what she wants dress how she wants and act how she wants...i agree 100%....but on a platform such as a social media site why would you portray yourself in a manner that makes it appear that you crave the attention you really don't want....am i wrong for thinking those pix shoulda been kept private for her man and not been put on social media?....

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.

    Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get

    It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.

    Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be

    You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.

    I see his point. He is saying why flaunt it if you don’t want comments. I think it’s fair to say, as I posted previously, yes a woman or man should be able to post pics without being considered “fair game”. However we all know that isn’t how it is on the internet. I believe he is saying since we all know this, why do some women post very provocative pics then act horrified to receive a creepy message? That is his point. I disagree with you telling him that it’s the same as saying it’s a woman’s fault for being dressed provocatively if she’s assaulted.

    They might post them because they're proud of their body and an easy way to show off your body confidence is to post a photo.

    I've posted photos of myself in bikinis and I will admit that I do want people to tell me that I look amazing but what I don't want to receive is messages from guys that tell me what they want to do with their dick.

    Yes I know. In a perfect world you could post your bikini and just get supportive wonderful safe compliments. But we are both aware that it isn’t that way. So if you are going to post pics you are doing it with some risk and knowledge that you may get creepy messages. It’s not right but it’s not a surprise.

    Nobody is saying it’s surprising. That’s the world we live in now. But I wouldn’t mind if instead of raising our daughters to understand this reality, we could also be raising up sons who are taught how to respect boundaries. Of course this won’t be changed overnight, but do we throw up our hands? I sure as hell hope not.

    I'll be teaching my daughter to not post slutty pictures online. But that's just me.

    Me 2...my daughter is taught morals and self respect and to carry herself in a classy manner at all times

    Like I said people perceive things about themselves and others in different ways. Your classy manner may not be what someone considers classy. You can’t lump everyone together into one category.

    Im not tryin to lump anyone into one category lol im also far from classy but i am a work in progress....maybe having a daughter young and being who and what i was is why i am the way i am torwards this subject

    Pull-out game not as strong as advertised?

    Back then no lol its developed over the years......but i have only had 1 kid since cherry popped at 12 so i think my shooting game is ok lol

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    • I have the right to post what I want.
    • I have the right to be offended by comments.
    • I posted this picture for attention and will not be surprised by negative comments, but that does not mean they are welcome.
    • I choose what I think are positive or negative comments based on the person they came from and what I know or think about that person.
    • Nobody has the right to tell me what to do or how to do it.

    This offends me.
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    cee134 wrote: »
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    • I have the right to post what I want.
    • I have the right to be offended by comments.
    • I posted this picture for attention and will not be surprised by negative comments, but that does not mean they are welcome.
    • I choose what I think are positive or negative comments based on the person they came from and what I know or think about that person.
    • Nobody has the right to tell me what to do or how to do it.

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