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Can you both desire to lose weight and be body positive?

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  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    edited November 2017
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    Oh stop kidding yourselves. Swimming cuts your weight significantly so it's literally less taxing on the body.

    Being overweight is not in and of itself unhealthy. It can raise your risk of disease, but regular activity can decrease it.

    No. Having more fat on your body raises your risk of disease, yes, which makes it unhealthy. Regular activity, unless you're burning fat, does not decrease it. Regular activity with no change in how much fat is on your body does not change how much fat is on your body. So it wouldn't change your risk of diseases.

    http://www.cnn.com/2017/08/14/health/fat-but-fit-myth-heart-disease-study/index.html

    https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/may/17/obesity-health-no-such-thing-as-fat-but-fit-major-study

    http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/fat-but-fit-myth-diet-fitness-obesity-complications-inclusive-a7741126.html (this one might give you "fat but fit" but definitely not fat and healthy)

    https://www.nhs.uk/news/lifestyle-and-exercise/fat-but-fit-still-at-higher-risk-of-heart-disease/


    All 3 of those reference the same study... which didn't actually review anything about "fat but fit"

    They literally all reviewed "fat but fit". Why would you need to do more than one study if one study proves "fat but fit" wrong?

    The thing with science is that once it's proved with evidence you don't really need to look at it again.

    Well I guess the sun is the center of the universe, atoms are the smallest thing, and eating dietary fat makes you fat.

    If you thought one study was all you needed, why did you post it three times with different links?

    Oh. My gahd. I already said I misspoke. Right now there is more evidence than none saying you cannot be healthy and overweight. Until that is proven wrong then that's all we have. There is no evidence at all saying you can be healthy and overweight. Being overweight is inherently unhealthy.

    The problem with your statements is that you talk in absolutes when the evidence only supports probability.

    You can be overweight and healthy. You will never disprove that to me since I was overweight and healthy for about 8 years. But the reason I lost the weight is that remaining overweight increased the probability of developing a health problem.

    I am obese and healthy.

    I will still be obese when I hit my goal weight.

    I will not be particularly more healthy.

    By having less fat on your body you will be more healthy then you were. Where are your tens of thousands of examples falsifying this claim?

    NO, I won't. I may have a reduced risk for future health impacts. But I won't be "more healthy".

    If someone is underweight can they be healthy?

    Yes, of course.

    But if they were in a normal weight range would they be more healthy?

    Unknown. Let's turn this around to see if it makes more sense to you. Is everyone in the healthy weight range healthy?

    No not everyone in the healthy weight range is healthy. But if they are unhealthy it has nothing to do with how much they weigh. Same as obese people, they can be unhealthy and it could have nothing to do with their weight. But there are increased health risks that come with just having too much fat on your body. So obesity=unhealthy. And if you smoke cigarettes, you have increased health risks that come with smoking cigarettes. So smoking=unhealthy.

    No, smoking=unhealthy, because it causes immediate, measureable damage to the lungs, heart, etc. Some of that damage is reversible, some is not.

    Carrying extra body fat does not cause immediate, measurable damage to the body. It increases certain risk factors and may lead to damage. but it doesn't cause it.

    I smoke cigarettes and I am metabolically healthy. I have absolutely no health conditions associated with smoking cigarettes. I am also overweight and metabolically healthy.

    Smoking cigarettes increases health risks and so does extra body fat. Both unhealthy.

    Incorrect. A scan of your lungs would show measurable damage.

    That's a health condition. You have a measurably lower VO2Max than you would as a nonsmoker.

    Have you had your whole body scanned? I've had my chest X rayed at least and no problems there.

    That wouldn't show anything about metabolic health. That just means you don't have any unusual masses.

    That was a reply to the man who said a scan of my lungs would should measurable damage. I am metabolically healthy. I have no health problems.

    you are here trying to tell us that you are a smoker and that it's not causing you health issues at this very moment...

    but have a bit of extra fat does....

    wow...just wow.

    No I said just because I'm metabolically healthy doesn't mean I'm healthy LOL. Smoking isn't healthy that's not what I'm saying at all. Just because I smoke that makes me unhealthy. Just because it's not causing me health issues at this very moment doesn't mean it's healthy. You have it so twisted.

    no...I am not mixed up...I think you might be.

    1. In one post you said Xrayed...now it's scanned
    2. You said you have no health conditions associated with smoking...which you do you just don't see them...come run a couple miles with me or Stan and let's see how healthy you are
    3. you say you are healthy metabolically but are still overweight but have said repeatedly you can't be health and overweight...ps 30lbs left to lose usually means you are still overweight unless you are an outlier...which based on your pics you are not.

    1. I said I had an x ray at least. I know he said scan. I haven't had any scans of my body and neither has he so how does he know he has absolutely no health problems associated with being overweight.
    2. I was talking about metabolic health. Which is what you were talking about. Not endurance or lung capacity.
    3. I am metabolically healthy yes. Which means no high blood pressure, and my blood work is perfectly normal. I am still overweight. I said this. I've lost 70lbs. I'm not sure what my pictures have to do with anything? Also, I'm 160lbs, my healthy weight starts at 140. Just because I have 30lbs to goal doesn't mean I have 30lbs to be in a healthy weight. Give me a couple months ;)

    and again you are confused...

    you said healthy...you did not specify which type of healthy until you got backed into a corner.

    Xray vs scan was about smoking not overweight...


    and just so you are clear

    healthy is defined as

    a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.

    so you can't be "healthy"...your numbers are fine but you are not healthy due to your smoking...your weight is irrelevant in the equation for me but you are insisting that overweight people can't be healthy when in fact they can.

    they can have perfect blood work and bp etc. They can have no diseases and no issues at all...ergo overweight people can be healthy...

    smokers cannot be period...at no point is a smoker healthy...

    Whatever you say girl. You're completely missing the point. By your definition of healthy an overweight person can't be healthy either but you do you.

    No I heard your point but it is a fallacy due to the fact you are confusing the present state of being healthy with the potential to not be healthy. Overweight people can be healthy but be at risk. Smokers by default are not healthy as they are in the process of damaging themselves each time they smoke...even each time they take a puff (coming from an ex smoker of 20 years.

    by the definition of healthy overweight can be healthy...if they are in a state of physical and mental and social well being they are defined as healthy.



    How is being overweight being in a state of physical well being? AND mental?

    if the all medical tests come back fine how is it not in a state of physical well being...and mental I had no mental issues when I was overweight...nor do I now.

    You assume that those who are bigger are sad or depressed etc and that's why they are overweight...maybe they just like food....

    What medical tests are we talking? Because my medical tests came back fine too. So am I healthy? No. Just by being a smoker I am unhealthy. Just like just by being overweight I am also not healthy.

    Also, I didn't say anything about bigger people being sad or depressed.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
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    Oh stop kidding yourselves. Swimming cuts your weight significantly so it's literally less taxing on the body.

    Being overweight is not in and of itself unhealthy. It can raise your risk of disease, but regular activity can decrease it.

    No. Having more fat on your body raises your risk of disease, yes, which makes it unhealthy. Regular activity, unless you're burning fat, does not decrease it. Regular activity with no change in how much fat is on your body does not change how much fat is on your body. So it wouldn't change your risk of diseases.

    http://www.cnn.com/2017/08/14/health/fat-but-fit-myth-heart-disease-study/index.html

    https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/may/17/obesity-health-no-such-thing-as-fat-but-fit-major-study

    http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/fat-but-fit-myth-diet-fitness-obesity-complications-inclusive-a7741126.html (this one might give you "fat but fit" but definitely not fat and healthy)

    https://www.nhs.uk/news/lifestyle-and-exercise/fat-but-fit-still-at-higher-risk-of-heart-disease/


    All 3 of those reference the same study... which didn't actually review anything about "fat but fit"

    They literally all reviewed "fat but fit". Why would you need to do more than one study if one study proves "fat but fit" wrong?

    The thing with science is that once it's proved with evidence you don't really need to look at it again.

    Well I guess the sun is the center of the universe, atoms are the smallest thing, and eating dietary fat makes you fat.

    If you thought one study was all you needed, why did you post it three times with different links?

    Oh. My gahd. I already said I misspoke. Right now there is more evidence than none saying you cannot be healthy and overweight. Until that is proven wrong then that's all we have. There is no evidence at all saying you can be healthy and overweight. Being overweight is inherently unhealthy.

    The problem with your statements is that you talk in absolutes when the evidence only supports probability.

    You can be overweight and healthy. You will never disprove that to me since I was overweight and healthy for about 8 years. But the reason I lost the weight is that remaining overweight increased the probability of developing a health problem.

    I am obese and healthy.

    I will still be obese when I hit my goal weight.

    I will not be particularly more healthy.

    By having less fat on your body you will be more healthy then you were. Where are your tens of thousands of examples falsifying this claim?

    NO, I won't. I may have a reduced risk for future health impacts. But I won't be "more healthy".

    If someone is underweight can they be healthy?

    Yes, of course.

    But if they were in a normal weight range would they be more healthy?

    Unknown. Let's turn this around to see if it makes more sense to you. Is everyone in the healthy weight range healthy?

    No not everyone in the healthy weight range is healthy. But if they are unhealthy it has nothing to do with how much they weigh. Same as obese people, they can be unhealthy and it could have nothing to do with their weight. But there are increased health risks that come with just having too much fat on your body. So obesity=unhealthy. And if you smoke cigarettes, you have increased health risks that come with smoking cigarettes. So smoking=unhealthy.

    No, smoking=unhealthy, because it causes immediate, measureable damage to the lungs, heart, etc. Some of that damage is reversible, some is not.

    Carrying extra body fat does not cause immediate, measurable damage to the body. It increases certain risk factors and may lead to damage. but it doesn't cause it.

    I smoke cigarettes and I am metabolically healthy. I have absolutely no health conditions associated with smoking cigarettes. I am also overweight and metabolically healthy.

    Smoking cigarettes increases health risks and so does extra body fat. Both unhealthy.

    Incorrect. A scan of your lungs would show measurable damage.

    That's a health condition. You have a measurably lower VO2Max than you would as a nonsmoker.

    Have you had your whole body scanned? I've had my chest X rayed at least and no problems there.

    That wouldn't show anything about metabolic health. That just means you don't have any unusual masses.

    That was a reply to the man who said a scan of my lungs would should measurable damage. I am metabolically healthy. I have no health problems.

    you are here trying to tell us that you are a smoker and that it's not causing you health issues at this very moment...

    but have a bit of extra fat does....

    wow...just wow.

    No I said just because I'm metabolically healthy doesn't mean I'm healthy LOL. Smoking isn't healthy that's not what I'm saying at all. Just because I smoke that makes me unhealthy. Just because it's not causing me health issues at this very moment doesn't mean it's healthy. You have it so twisted.

    no...I am not mixed up...I think you might be.

    1. In one post you said Xrayed...now it's scanned
    2. You said you have no health conditions associated with smoking...which you do you just don't see them...come run a couple miles with me or Stan and let's see how healthy you are
    3. you say you are healthy metabolically but are still overweight but have said repeatedly you can't be health and overweight...ps 30lbs left to lose usually means you are still overweight unless you are an outlier...which based on your pics you are not.

    1. I said I had an x ray at least. I know he said scan. I haven't had any scans of my body and neither has he so how does he know he has absolutely no health problems associated with being overweight.
    2. I was talking about metabolic health. Which is what you were talking about. Not endurance or lung capacity.
    3. I am metabolically healthy yes. Which means no high blood pressure, and my blood work is perfectly normal. I am still overweight. I said this. I've lost 70lbs. I'm not sure what my pictures have to do with anything? Also, I'm 160lbs, my healthy weight starts at 140. Just because I have 30lbs to goal doesn't mean I have 30lbs to be in a healthy weight. Give me a couple months ;)

    and again you are confused...

    you said healthy...you did not specify which type of healthy until you got backed into a corner.

    Xray vs scan was about smoking not overweight...


    and just so you are clear

    healthy is defined as

    a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.

    so you can't be "healthy"...your numbers are fine but you are not healthy due to your smoking...your weight is irrelevant in the equation for me but you are insisting that overweight people can't be healthy when in fact they can.

    they can have perfect blood work and bp etc. They can have no diseases and no issues at all...ergo overweight people can be healthy...

    smokers cannot be period...at no point is a smoker healthy...

    Whatever you say girl. You're completely missing the point. By your definition of healthy an overweight person can't be healthy either but you do you.

    No I heard your point but it is a fallacy due to the fact you are confusing the present state of being healthy with the potential to not be healthy. Overweight people can be healthy but be at risk. Smokers by default are not healthy as they are in the process of damaging themselves each time they smoke...even each time they take a puff (coming from an ex smoker of 20 years.

    by the definition of healthy overweight can be healthy...if they are in a state of physical and mental and social well being they are defined as healthy.



    How is being overweight being in a state of physical well being? AND mental?

    Are you for real or just being funny? Overweight is not a health diagnosis.

    Riding in a car increases your chance of death. You aren't dead just because you ride in a car.

    not sure about you @Need2Exerc1se but I do believe that I am done here...

    not gonna say we have a *cough troll cough* but after all of this...I am leaning that way and not gonna feed it any longer.
  • lauracups
    lauracups Posts: 533 Member
    There was nothing positive about high blood pressure, joint pain, chaffing, chronic heartburn. All related to the extra weight. I will never be a swimsuit model but I'm positive about my body not killing me now.
  • Jancandoit7
    Jancandoit7 Posts: 356 Member
    lauracups wrote: »
    There was nothing positive about high blood pressure, joint pain, chaffing, chronic heartburn. All related to the extra weight. I will never be a swimsuit model but I'm positive about my body not killing me now.

    I totally agree- being fat is not healthy, and although I don't think one's self-esteem should be completely tied to one's body weight, I also don't think that positively embracing one's fat body is acceptable or healthy either. My goal isn't to be thin, but simply to be healthy- average to a bit chunky is fine with me- but fat? No-not healthy. I feel much better having lost only 15 pounds! (goal is 40 pounds). I'm 60 now, and can honestly say that when I was younger, I was not affected by some excessive weight the way I am now- my joints don't like it one bit.
  • GOT_Obsessed
    GOT_Obsessed Posts: 817 Member
    I am fat.
    I am 85% okay with the way my body looks. I rarely ever think "Yuck, I look ugly."
    I am 0% okay with my pre hypertension blood pressure readings.
    I am 0% okay with the extra pressure on my knee.
  • distinctlybeautiful
    distinctlybeautiful Posts: 1,041 Member
    edited November 2017
    These articles are worth reading in their entirety. I’ve put an excerpt of each below each link.


    https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/body-pos-definition-undebatable/

    Body Positivity Actually Has a Specific Definition

    Once upon a time, the phrase “body positive” had a specific meaning – one that signaled to the reader that the content with which they were about to engage was (at least going to attempt) to not be oppressive, harmful, or triggering.

    The term “body positivity” was borne out of treatment for anorexia recovery in 1996, when a psychotherapist and a woman who had personal experience with an eating disorder founded thebodypositive.org.

    The methodology and messaging behind their lectures, workshops, and other resources all centered on messaging about reducing focus on changing body weight through disordered eating and exercise.

    In fact, the first of the core competencies of body positivity is to learn how to “ncover the messages that have influenced your relationships with your body, food, and exercise [and d]evelop a weight-neutral, health-centered approach to self-care [to b]ecome the authority of your own body by sorting out facts from distorted societal myths about health, weight, and identity.”


    https://daretonotdiet.wordpress.com/2017/01/30/is-weight-loss-body-positive/

    Is actively trying to lose weight a body positive act?

    This is where it gets complicated.

    Diet and weight loss culture is not body positive because it is rooted in the belief that fat bodies, bodies that do not conform to the very narrow beauty standards (thin, white, able-bodied, cis-gendered), are wrong, unattractive and/or unhealthy. Diet and weight loss culture simply does not respect the broad diversity of body weights and sizes that exist.


    http://www.bodyposipanda.com/2016/04/stop-showing-me-your-beforeafter-weight.html?m=1

    So I'm asking people, please, think twice before you bring your weight loss talk or your before/after pictures into the body positive community. Not only for those of us who've come through EDs and can be seriously triggered by diet culture, but for everyone who's finally found a safe place away from all that crap. There are millions of communities, pages, and places online where your weight loss will be celebrated beyond measure, where you'll be hailed as a fitspo queen and dubbed a loyal disciple to the deity of dieting. Let those of us who've been damaged from our belief in that deity have this safe space. Stop watering it down to fit your weight loss agenda. Body positivity was started as an underground punk movement, with fat acceptance and radical self love as its main aim (people actually stormed into diet meetings and demanded the group leaders defend their cult-like techniques in the face of all the research that says dieting doesn't work and is harmful, pretty badass huh?). So please, do whatever you want with your body, but understand the culture that you're buying into, and the people who never want to be a part of it again.


    (I don’t know why some of this came out underlined. None of it was underlined in the articles or in my response before I posted.)
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    distinctlybeautiful wrote: »
    These articles are worth reading in their entirety. I’ve put an excerpt of each below each link.


    https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/body-pos-definition-undebatable/

    Body Positivity Actually Has a Specific Definition

    Once upon a time, the phrase “body positive” had a specific meaning – one that signaled to the reader that the content with which they were about to engage was (at least going to attempt) to not be oppressive, harmful, or triggering.

    The term “body positivity” was borne out of treatment for anorexia recovery in 1996, when a psychotherapist and a woman who had personal experience with an eating disorder founded thebodypositive.org.

    The methodology and messaging behind their lectures, workshops, and other resources all centered on messaging about reducing focus on changing body weight through disordered eating and exercise.

    In fact, the first of the core competencies of body positivity is to learn how to “ncover the messages that have influenced your relationships with your body, food, and exercise [and d]evelop a weight-neutral, health-centered approach to self-care [to b]ecome the authority of your own body by sorting out facts from distorted societal myths about health, weight, and identity.”


    https://daretonotdiet.wordpress.com/2017/01/30/is-weight-loss-body-positive/

    Is actively trying to lose weight a body positive act?

    This is where it gets complicated.

    Diet and weight loss culture is not body positive because it is rooted in the belief that fat bodies, bodies that do not conform to the very narrow beauty standards (thin, white, able-bodied, cis-gendered), are wrong, unattractive and/or unhealthy. Diet and weight loss culture simply does not respect the broad diversity of body weights and sizes that exist.


    http://www.bodyposipanda.com/2016/04/stop-showing-me-your-beforeafter-weight.html?m=1

    So I'm asking people, please, think twice before you bring your weight loss talk or your before/after pictures into the body positive community. Not only for those of us who've come through EDs and can be seriously triggered by diet culture, but for everyone who's finally found a safe place away from all that crap. There are millions of communities, pages, and places online where your weight loss will be celebrated beyond measure, where you'll be hailed as a fitspo queen and dubbed a loyal disciple to the deity of dieting. Let those of us who've been damaged from our belief in that deity have this safe space. Stop watering it down to fit your weight loss agenda. Body positivity was started as an underground punk movement, with fat acceptance and radical self love as its main aim (people actually stormed into diet meetings and demanded the group leaders defend their cult-like techniques in the face of all the research that says dieting doesn't work and is harmful, pretty badass huh?). So please, do whatever you want with your body, but understand the culture that you're buying into, and the people who never want to be a part of it again.


    (I don’t know why some of this came out underlined. None of it was underlined in the articles or in my response before I posted.)

    All of this is dangerous thinking. These people are triggered by anything.
  • distinctlybeautiful
    distinctlybeautiful Posts: 1,041 Member
    @eliciaobrien1 What about it is dangerous?
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    distinctlybeautiful wrote: »
    @eliciaobrien1 What about it is dangerous?

    "Diet and weight loss culture is not body positive because it is rooted in the belief that fat bodies, bodies that do not conform to the very narrow beauty standards (thin, white, able-bodied, cis-gendered), are wrong, unattractive and/or unhealthy. Diet and weight loss culture simply does not respect the broad diversity of body weights and sizes that exist." There isn't a very narrow "beauty standard" Be healthy not overweight. "Obese" is not a body size. It is an illness.

    And the whole last paragraph. It's a set of rules. "all the research that says dieting doesn't work and is harmful, pretty badass huh?" this doesn't even make sense.
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    edited November 2017
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:

    RIGHT?! lol

    I don't know about you but I am not a "victim" of "diet and weight loss culture".
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    "Weight loss for health is wholly unnecessary. "

    :worried:
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:

    RIGHT?! lol

    I don't know about you but I am not a "victim" of "diet and weight loss culture".

    seriously?

    this post was from a site that was created to help people who have eating disorders...who are/were victims of diet and weight loss culture.

    taken out of context sure it's not good but in context it makes total sense and is understandable...

  • misnomer1
    misnomer1 Posts: 646 Member
    if you cant bend down to tie your shoelaces then its time to lose weight. Body positivity is useless if you cant tie own shoelaces.
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:

    RIGHT?! lol

    I don't know about you but I am not a "victim" of "diet and weight loss culture".

    seriously?

    this post was from a site that was created to help people who have eating disorders...who are/were victims of diet and weight loss culture.

    taken out of context sure it's not good but in context it makes total sense and is understandable...

    I don't think that's true because a lot of the page that quote comes from talks about obesity and about the failure of dieting to end obesity in the long term. That would be a really strange and bizarre context for anorexics, don't you agree?
  • stanmann571
    stanmann571 Posts: 5,727 Member
    misnomer1 wrote: »
    if you cant bend down to tie your shoelaces then its time to lose weight. Body positivity is useless if you cant tie own shoelaces.

    That's a question of flexibility/function. I've never had that problem. and I suspect I could have gained another 40 extra pounds beyond my high water mark and still not had that problem.
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Weight loss for health is wholly unnecessary. "

    :worried:

    This is from the same page that's allegedly to help people recovering from eating disorders.
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:

    RIGHT?! lol

    I don't know about you but I am not a "victim" of "diet and weight loss culture".

    seriously?

    this post was from a site that was created to help people who have eating disorders...who are/were victims of diet and weight loss culture.

    taken out of context sure it's not good but in context it makes total sense and is understandable...

    Actually the article doesn't even mention eating disorders and is just about "body positivity".
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    Actually this is all out of context and there's no such thing as obesity, people just don't realize there's a Secret Santa contest going on. I know because I just made it up.
  • distinctlybeautiful
    distinctlybeautiful Posts: 1,041 Member
    Regardless of whether y’all agree with what the movement stands for, the articles provide an answer to this thread’s original question from the standpoint of those within the body positive movement. No, weight loss and body positivity in its original form are not compatible; even more than that, they are mutually exclusive.
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    distinctlybeautiful wrote: »
    Regardless of whether y’all agree with what the movement stands for, the articles provide an answer to this thread’s original question from the standpoint of those within the body positive movement. No, weight loss and body positivity in its original form are not compatible; even more than that, they are mutually exclusive.

    Somebody just made that rule up tho.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:

    RIGHT?! lol

    I don't know about you but I am not a "victim" of "diet and weight loss culture".

    seriously?

    this post was from a site that was created to help people who have eating disorders...who are/were victims of diet and weight loss culture.

    taken out of context sure it's not good but in context it makes total sense and is understandable...

    Actually the article doesn't even mention eating disorders and is just about "body positivity".

    excuse me?

    https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/body-pos-definition-undebatable/ this link specifically talks about ED's and why the term was developed

    The term “body positivity” was borne out of treatment for anorexia recovery in 1996, when a psychotherapist and a woman who had personal experience with an eating disorder founded thebodypositive.org.


    and the other link mentions eating disorders 3x and how diet culture impacts them and how before and after pics can be poison to recovery.
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:

    RIGHT?! lol

    I don't know about you but I am not a "victim" of "diet and weight loss culture".

    seriously?

    this post was from a site that was created to help people who have eating disorders...who are/were victims of diet and weight loss culture.

    taken out of context sure it's not good but in context it makes total sense and is understandable...

    Actually the article doesn't even mention eating disorders and is just about "body positivity".

    excuse me?

    https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/body-pos-definition-undebatable/ this link specifically talks about ED's and why the term was developed

    The term “body positivity” was borne out of treatment for anorexia recovery in 1996, when a psychotherapist and a woman who had personal experience with an eating disorder founded thebodypositive.org.


    and the other link mentions eating disorders 3x and how diet culture impacts them and how before and after pics can be poison to recovery.

    That's not where the quote came from.
  • Duck_Puddle
    Duck_Puddle Posts: 3,237 Member
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    "Please know that I never blame or judge those who participate in diet and weight loss culture. They are victims of a society that profits from their insecurities."

    :worried:

    RIGHT?! lol

    I don't know about you but I am not a "victim" of "diet and weight loss culture".

    seriously?

    this post was from a site that was created to help people who have eating disorders...who are/were victims of diet and weight loss culture.

    taken out of context sure it's not good but in context it makes total sense and is understandable...

    I don't think that's true because a lot of the page that quote comes from talks about obesity and about the failure of dieting to end obesity in the long term. That would be a really strange and bizarre context for anorexics, don't you agree?

    Agreed. I found a lot of that page to be incongruous with the posted definition of body positivity. We did a LOT of work on body positivity in my eating disorder treatment group and it was in line with the posted definition-creating a healthy non-weight/appearance driven relationship with your body. Since people in my group were at all places on the weight spectrum (and actually represented ALL the body types that body positivity is supposed to accept), there was talk about living and making healthy choices. I understand the dangers of “dieting” particularly in the context of eating disordered individuals. However, categorical chastisement of all weight loss (with no mention of weight gain) as being part of “diet culture” vs attempts to live a healthy life making healthy changes? I guess now I see how “body positivity” is interpreted as applying just to large ones.

  • distinctlybeautiful
    distinctlybeautiful Posts: 1,041 Member
    eliciaobrien1 wrote: »
    distinctlybeautiful wrote: »
    Regardless of whether y’all agree with what the movement stands for, the articles provide an answer to this thread’s original question from the standpoint of those within the body positive movement. No, weight loss and body positivity in its original form are not compatible; even more than that, they are mutually exclusive.

    Somebody just made that rule up tho.

    What rule?

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