JUST FOR TODAY ....... One day at a time ..... Daily Commitment Thread for 2018

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  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Such a busy group! I love it! I've been MIA for a few reasons...one is that is just hard to hop on in the morning or at work, and at night I come on and read posts but then feel like it's too late to post. I have been working on getting up earlier...like when the alarm goes off and not 8 Snoozes later!!! If I ever accomplish that goal, I'll post before work! I find if I post the night before, I can't remember what goals I gave myself and when I look back to see, I find that what sounded like a great idea the night before doesn't sound so great that day! :dizzy: Go figure, right?

    I got the results of the MRI's back. I have a torn/detached labrum in my left hip and have to have surgery on 8/23. I'm not happy about this, obviously, but it is what it is. I'm trying not to focus on the pain of hip surgery and focus more on the fact that if all goes well, I might be pain free to actually start taking walks (which was my goal this year!!!). Having surgery that date is really messing me up at work. I want to put it off and have talked to my husband, my boss and my team about it, but they are all urging me to get it done and do it right. If the surgeon wasn't leaving our clinic in October, I would put it off. But I really want him to do the surgery, so I guess the 23rd it is. I don't think I have gone a whole year without at least one surgery in about 7 years now. I should have my own exam room at that clinic! LOL!

    Anyway, to be honest, I have been emotional eating all week. Nothing horrible, but my calories on here say I should stay under 1200 and I've been more like 1500. I'm going to pull myself out of my pity pot today, put on my big girl panties and get back to it.

    Not going to do a whole lot today. Putz around the house and maybe run a few errands. Tomorrow, we are heading to a flea market about an hour from here. I don't know how long I'll make it since my hip is so sore. (Actually, I was told I shouldn't be weight-bearing on it at all right now and should be using a cane...pfft! Like THAT is going to happen! I'm the world's worst patient...just ask my DH)

    I miss you all when I'm not on here! I've never personally met you, but you have become part of my daily world. Hugs to everyone! Welcome to any newcomers! This is such a great group!

    Just For Saturday:
    1. Stay in the green
    2. Spend at least 15 minutes with my own thoughts.
    3. Think before I speak. Try to get my point across with a certain person in a matter-of-fact calm way no matter what kind of drama this person tries to turn it into.
    4. Snack on 1 lb of veggies & 2 svgs fruit
    5. Go to library to check out book one of our clinic docs recommended regarding diet/nutrition/health.
    6. Lymphedema massage x2 on arm / PT exercises for back
    7. Take a bike ride or a spend some time near water.
    8. Podcasts - Half Size Me from Monday and try one new one
    9. Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / Spiritual daily reading
    10. Catch up on my other MFP thread

    Thought of the Day:
    t24p084epmzn.png


    Aww! Love! I want to wrap you up in a big hug! I'm glad that at least you have an answer now! I'm sure that the surgery will got as awesome as planned and that you will be back up in no time. I bet that before the snow starts to fall you'll get a few walks in! I tend to spend a few minutes with my thoughts in the morning. I'll just sit back and let my mind go. Sometimes it goes totally random places but sometimes I get some really good ideas and insights into things going on in my life. I hope that is how it is for you. Feel better and have a great time at the flea market.


    @Snowflake1968 How is the race going? Is your DH having a blast?

    Awe thanks for asking! We are sitting in the car right now with AC on! It is between practice and qualifying so no sense sitting in the hot direct sun right now.

    Race time is 730 MST tonight! Will be a track burger and fries for supper, I’m looking forward to the unhealthy goodness it is!
  • HEGoddard0928
    HEGoddard0928 Posts: 824 Member
    Totally forgot to post goals this morning! Lol.

    :star: Got up at 5:45
    :star: Went to gym
    :star: Worked 8:15-5:15
    :star: Went over D's after work
    :star: Cleaned/visited

    And now I am going to:

    Attempt to log everything I ate
    Finish the few dishes in the sink
    Wash face/brush teeth
    Bed by 11:30

    I had a FABULOUS day! It was psychotically busy, mainly with paperwork though. We had to do 4 foreign wires, which neither of us had done before. The woman who usually verifies and processes wires was out today so someone else was doing it. Problem was, that woman came to our branch for a conference call with the loan department. So as she was leaving she showed us how to do them. They are supposed to be submitted by 2 pm. Well, I got the last one in at 1:45. But there were some crossed wires and I dont think they got processed until close to 4. It was a whole big headache. But that chaos through the rest of the day into chaos. And we had a customer come in with multiple transactions 7 minutes to close because she didnt want to drive to our other branch that was open until 6! But we got out right when we were scheduled to. Most of the time we leave about 5:05 because we get done with everything way before we lock up so we can just hit a couple buttons and lock a couple of things up and head out the door. Today we had to stay until 5:15! Haha! I'm actually kind of surprised that we got out when we did. Lol.

    Anyway, enough ranting and raving(good though!)

    JFT, 7/27/18

    1. Up by 6 :lol: HAHAHAHA More like 7:30!
    3. Gym :lol: See above
    5. Prep lunches :star: I prepped the DH's and he actually remembered to bring it. Lol. I had some things in the fridge at work so that was fine with me
    7. Wake DH by 7:15 :star: He actually got up before me!
    8. Work 8:15-5:15 :star:
    9. Budget meeting :rage: The DH wouldn't sit down and do it with me! It actually made me pretty ticked off
    10. Pay bills :frowning: Couldn't because of not having the budget meeting
    11. Dinner/Dishes :neutral: I got pizza. It was a small one so half of it was only about 2.5 pieces of a large so not too bad.
    12. DH time :star: We watched a baseball game and I dozed for a while
    13. Bed whenever(WEEKEND WOOHOO!) :star: Around 12 I think. The DH came with me which is really rare for him.

    Work yesterday was even busier than Thursday...I gave out well over 10K to people cashing paychecks and things! It was crazy. And from about when I got there at 815 until about 245 I was constantly moving doing paperwork and things. I got about a half an hour where I could breathe. Then 3:20 rolled around it was just a constant stream of people. A few times there was a line of two or more people! I didnt mind. I kept it moving and got a lot done. I got a whole new steno notebook to keep a running to-do list on. It helped immensely. I got everything marked off. And even with how busy we were we still managed to get to our cars a 1/4 mile away by 5:15...How I have no idea. Lol. The whole time I just kept working. I would look down periodically and a few hours had passed. It was great! And Laura(who I can now call Laura because she's the only one!) and I spent the day chattering away. I had such a great day!!!

    Today I found out that our local Aldi's is open again. They were closed since the beginning of May with a remodel. The store is BEAUTIFUL. There were probably 100 people in the store when I was this afternoon but the aisles were so big and it was so well lit that it wasn't terrible. I can't tell you how happy I am that it is open again! Its about a 5 minute drive from my house. I usually go in the early morning or right before they close on the weekends because no one is there. They were out of a lot of stuff because I went at 1:30 this afternoon and a lot of things had been sold out. Although, I think there were only 2 things on my list that they didnt have.

    So today was pretty awesome. I spent 2 hours meal prep when I got home from Aldi's. So I logged that as exercising because it was mostly chopping. Lol. But I got a whole bunch of things prepped to just throw into lunch bags in the morning.

    Okay! Enough chatter! I only have a few things left to do today so here they are,

    1. Put food in the crock
    2. Dinner/tidy/visit with D
    3. Home by 930
    4. Finish the food that's in the crock
    5. Finish dishes
    6. Bed whenever

    I hope everyone is having a great weekend!
  • HEGoddard0928
    HEGoddard0928 Posts: 824 Member
    Such a busy group! I love it! I've been MIA for a few reasons...one is that is just hard to hop on in the morning or at work, and at night I come on and read posts but then feel like it's too late to post. I have been working on getting up earlier...like when the alarm goes off and not 8 Snoozes later!!! If I ever accomplish that goal, I'll post before work! I find if I post the night before, I can't remember what goals I gave myself and when I look back to see, I find that what sounded like a great idea the night before doesn't sound so great that day! :dizzy: Go figure, right?

    I got the results of the MRI's back. I have a torn/detached labrum in my left hip and have to have surgery on 8/23. I'm not happy about this, obviously, but it is what it is. I'm trying not to focus on the pain of hip surgery and focus more on the fact that if all goes well, I might be pain free to actually start taking walks (which was my goal this year!!!). Having surgery that date is really messing me up at work. I want to put it off and have talked to my husband, my boss and my team about it, but they are all urging me to get it done and do it right. If the surgeon wasn't leaving our clinic in October, I would put it off. But I really want him to do the surgery, so I guess the 23rd it is. I don't think I have gone a whole year without at least one surgery in about 7 years now. I should have my own exam room at that clinic! LOL!

    Anyway, to be honest, I have been emotional eating all week. Nothing horrible, but my calories on here say I should stay under 1200 and I've been more like 1500. I'm going to pull myself out of my pity pot today, put on my big girl panties and get back to it.

    Not going to do a whole lot today. Putz around the house and maybe run a few errands. Tomorrow, we are heading to a flea market about an hour from here. I don't know how long I'll make it since my hip is so sore. (Actually, I was told I shouldn't be weight-bearing on it at all right now and should be using a cane...pfft! Like THAT is going to happen! I'm the world's worst patient...just ask my DH)

    I miss you all when I'm not on here! I've never personally met you, but you have become part of my daily world. Hugs to everyone! Welcome to any newcomers! This is such a great group!

    Just For Saturday:
    1. Stay in the green
    2. Spend at least 15 minutes with my own thoughts.
    3. Think before I speak. Try to get my point across with a certain person in a matter-of-fact calm way no matter what kind of drama this person tries to turn it into.
    4. Snack on 1 lb of veggies & 2 svgs fruit
    5. Go to library to check out book one of our clinic docs recommended regarding diet/nutrition/health.
    6. Lymphedema massage x2 on arm / PT exercises for back
    7. Take a bike ride or a spend some time near water.
    8. Podcasts - Half Size Me from Monday and try one new one
    9. Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / Spiritual daily reading
    10. Catch up on my other MFP thread

    Thought of the Day:
    t24p084epmzn.png


    Aww! Love! I want to wrap you up in a big hug! I'm glad that at least you have an answer now! I'm sure that the surgery will got as awesome as planned and that you will be back up in no time. I bet that before the snow starts to fall you'll get a few walks in! I tend to spend a few minutes with my thoughts in the morning. I'll just sit back and let my mind go. Sometimes it goes totally random places but sometimes I get some really good ideas and insights into things going on in my life. I hope that is how it is for you. Feel better and have a great time at the flea market.


    @Snowflake1968 How is the race going? Is your DH having a blast?

    Awe thanks for asking! We are sitting in the car right now with AC on! It is between practice and qualifying so no sense sitting in the hot direct sun right now.

    Race time is 730 MST tonight! Will be a track burger and fries for supper, I’m looking forward to the unhealthy goodness it is!

    Definitely! So it's about 3 pm there? I would look forward to the unhealthy goodness as well! I have no idea what I'm having for dinner! Lol. Is your DH happy to be there?
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Such a busy group! I love it! I've been MIA for a few reasons...one is that is just hard to hop on in the morning or at work, and at night I come on and read posts but then feel like it's too late to post. I have been working on getting up earlier...like when the alarm goes off and not 8 Snoozes later!!! If I ever accomplish that goal, I'll post before work! I find if I post the night before, I can't remember what goals I gave myself and when I look back to see, I find that what sounded like a great idea the night before doesn't sound so great that day! :dizzy: Go figure, right?

    I got the results of the MRI's back. I have a torn/detached labrum in my left hip and have to have surgery on 8/23. I'm not happy about this, obviously, but it is what it is. I'm trying not to focus on the pain of hip surgery and focus more on the fact that if all goes well, I might be pain free to actually start taking walks (which was my goal this year!!!). Having surgery that date is really messing me up at work. I want to put it off and have talked to my husband, my boss and my team about it, but they are all urging me to get it done and do it right. If the surgeon wasn't leaving our clinic in October, I would put it off. But I really want him to do the surgery, so I guess the 23rd it is. I don't think I have gone a whole year without at least one surgery in about 7 years now. I should have my own exam room at that clinic! LOL!

    Anyway, to be honest, I have been emotional eating all week. Nothing horrible, but my calories on here say I should stay under 1200 and I've been more like 1500. I'm going to pull myself out of my pity pot today, put on my big girl panties and get back to it.

    Not going to do a whole lot today. Putz around the house and maybe run a few errands. Tomorrow, we are heading to a flea market about an hour from here. I don't know how long I'll make it since my hip is so sore. (Actually, I was told I shouldn't be weight-bearing on it at all right now and should be using a cane...pfft! Like THAT is going to happen! I'm the world's worst patient...just ask my DH)

    I miss you all when I'm not on here! I've never personally met you, but you have become part of my daily world. Hugs to everyone! Welcome to any newcomers! This is such a great group!

    Just For Saturday:
    1. Stay in the green
    2. Spend at least 15 minutes with my own thoughts.
    3. Think before I speak. Try to get my point across with a certain person in a matter-of-fact calm way no matter what kind of drama this person tries to turn it into.
    4. Snack on 1 lb of veggies & 2 svgs fruit
    5. Go to library to check out book one of our clinic docs recommended regarding diet/nutrition/health.
    6. Lymphedema massage x2 on arm / PT exercises for back
    7. Take a bike ride or a spend some time near water.
    8. Podcasts - Half Size Me from Monday and try one new one
    9. Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / Spiritual daily reading
    10. Catch up on my other MFP thread

    Thought of the Day:
    t24p084epmzn.png


    Aww! Love! I want to wrap you up in a big hug! I'm glad that at least you have an answer now! I'm sure that the surgery will got as awesome as planned and that you will be back up in no time. I bet that before the snow starts to fall you'll get a few walks in! I tend to spend a few minutes with my thoughts in the morning. I'll just sit back and let my mind go. Sometimes it goes totally random places but sometimes I get some really good ideas and insights into things going on in my life. I hope that is how it is for you. Feel better and have a great time at the flea market.


    @Snowflake1968 How is the race going? Is your DH having a blast?

    Awe thanks for asking! We are sitting in the car right now with AC on! It is between practice and qualifying so no sense sitting in the hot direct sun right now.

    Race time is 730 MST tonight! Will be a track burger and fries for supper, I’m looking forward to the unhealthy goodness it is!

    Definitely! So it's about 3 pm there? I would look forward to the unhealthy goodness as well! I have no idea what I'm having for dinner! Lol. Is your DH happy to be there?

    Yes it’s 3 here. Yes he is! He gets to see a race and scantily clad women lol
  • HEGoddard0928
    HEGoddard0928 Posts: 824 Member
    Such a busy group! I love it! I've been MIA for a few reasons...one is that is just hard to hop on in the morning or at work, and at night I come on and read posts but then feel like it's too late to post. I have been working on getting up earlier...like when the alarm goes off and not 8 Snoozes later!!! If I ever accomplish that goal, I'll post before work! I find if I post the night before, I can't remember what goals I gave myself and when I look back to see, I find that what sounded like a great idea the night before doesn't sound so great that day! :dizzy: Go figure, right?

    I got the results of the MRI's back. I have a torn/detached labrum in my left hip and have to have surgery on 8/23. I'm not happy about this, obviously, but it is what it is. I'm trying not to focus on the pain of hip surgery and focus more on the fact that if all goes well, I might be pain free to actually start taking walks (which was my goal this year!!!). Having surgery that date is really messing me up at work. I want to put it off and have talked to my husband, my boss and my team about it, but they are all urging me to get it done and do it right. If the surgeon wasn't leaving our clinic in October, I would put it off. But I really want him to do the surgery, so I guess the 23rd it is. I don't think I have gone a whole year without at least one surgery in about 7 years now. I should have my own exam room at that clinic! LOL!

    Anyway, to be honest, I have been emotional eating all week. Nothing horrible, but my calories on here say I should stay under 1200 and I've been more like 1500. I'm going to pull myself out of my pity pot today, put on my big girl panties and get back to it.

    Not going to do a whole lot today. Putz around the house and maybe run a few errands. Tomorrow, we are heading to a flea market about an hour from here. I don't know how long I'll make it since my hip is so sore. (Actually, I was told I shouldn't be weight-bearing on it at all right now and should be using a cane...pfft! Like THAT is going to happen! I'm the world's worst patient...just ask my DH)

    I miss you all when I'm not on here! I've never personally met you, but you have become part of my daily world. Hugs to everyone! Welcome to any newcomers! This is such a great group!

    Just For Saturday:
    1. Stay in the green
    2. Spend at least 15 minutes with my own thoughts.
    3. Think before I speak. Try to get my point across with a certain person in a matter-of-fact calm way no matter what kind of drama this person tries to turn it into.
    4. Snack on 1 lb of veggies & 2 svgs fruit
    5. Go to library to check out book one of our clinic docs recommended regarding diet/nutrition/health.
    6. Lymphedema massage x2 on arm / PT exercises for back
    7. Take a bike ride or a spend some time near water.
    8. Podcasts - Half Size Me from Monday and try one new one
    9. Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / Spiritual daily reading
    10. Catch up on my other MFP thread

    Thought of the Day:
    t24p084epmzn.png


    Aww! Love! I want to wrap you up in a big hug! I'm glad that at least you have an answer now! I'm sure that the surgery will got as awesome as planned and that you will be back up in no time. I bet that before the snow starts to fall you'll get a few walks in! I tend to spend a few minutes with my thoughts in the morning. I'll just sit back and let my mind go. Sometimes it goes totally random places but sometimes I get some really good ideas and insights into things going on in my life. I hope that is how it is for you. Feel better and have a great time at the flea market.


    @Snowflake1968 How is the race going? Is your DH having a blast?

    Awe thanks for asking! We are sitting in the car right now with AC on! It is between practice and qualifying so no sense sitting in the hot direct sun right now.

    Race time is 730 MST tonight! Will be a track burger and fries for supper, I’m looking forward to the unhealthy goodness it is!

    Definitely! So it's about 3 pm there? I would look forward to the unhealthy goodness as well! I have no idea what I'm having for dinner! Lol. Is your DH happy to be there?

    Yes it’s 3 here. Yes he is! He gets to see a race and scantily clad women lol

    I hope you guys are having fun!
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Loud, noisy and hot hot hot!!!! So much fun!
  • HEGoddard0928
    HEGoddard0928 Posts: 824 Member
    @Snowflake1968 I'm glad you had fun!
  • jeschepp
    jeschepp Posts: 307 Member
    Just got home/settled so this will be quick. Weigh in tomorrow to see how travel impacted my process.

    For today (day 5 of trip):
    Unpack same day ✅
    30 minutes exercise-no time
    Track food and exercise ✅
    Eat all servings of 5 food groups :( family brought me takeout
    Meet 1200-1400 net calories, counting exercise-over, again with the takeout
    Water challenge-80 oz. ✅
    Post here for accountability ✅

    For tomorrow:
    Weigh in
    Set weekly goals
    Grocery shop
    30 minutes exercise
    Track food and exercise
    Eat all servings of 5 food groups
    Meet 1200-1400 net calories, counting exercise
    Water challenge-80 oz.
    Post here for accountability
  • bookmeister86
    bookmeister86 Posts: 1,165 Member
    Such a busy group! I love it! I've been MIA for a few reasons...one is that is just hard to hop on in the morning or at work, and at night I come on and read posts but then feel like it's too late to post. I have been working on getting up earlier...like when the alarm goes off and not 8 Snoozes later!!! If I ever accomplish that goal, I'll post before work! I find if I post the night before, I can't remember what goals I gave myself and when I look back to see, I find that what sounded like a great idea the night before doesn't sound so great that day! :dizzy: Go figure, right?

    I got the results of the MRI's back. I have a torn/detached labrum in my left hip and have to have surgery on 8/23. I'm not happy about this, obviously, but it is what it is. I'm trying not to focus on the pain of hip surgery and focus more on the fact that if all goes well, I might be pain free to actually start taking walks (which was my goal this year!!!). Having surgery that date is really messing me up at work. I want to put it off and have talked to my husband, my boss and my team about it, but they are all urging me to get it done and do it right. If the surgeon wasn't leaving our clinic in October, I would put it off. But I really want him to do the surgery, so I guess the 23rd it is. I don't think I have gone a whole year without at least one surgery in about 7 years now. I should have my own exam room at that clinic! LOL!

    Anyway, to be honest, I have been emotional eating all week. Nothing horrible, but my calories on here say I should stay under 1200 and I've been more like 1500. I'm going to pull myself out of my pity pot today, put on my big girl panties and get back to it.

    Not going to do a whole lot today. Putz around the house and maybe run a few errands. Tomorrow, we are heading to a flea market about an hour from here. I don't know how long I'll make it since my hip is so sore. (Actually, I was told I shouldn't be weight-bearing on it at all right now and should be using a cane...pfft! Like THAT is going to happen! I'm the world's worst patient...just ask my DH)

    I miss you all when I'm not on here! I've never personally met you, but you have become part of my daily world. Hugs to everyone! Welcome to any newcomers! This is such a great group!

    Just For Saturday:
    1. Stay in the green
    2. Spend at least 15 minutes with my own thoughts.
    3. Think before I speak. Try to get my point across with a certain person in a matter-of-fact calm way no matter what kind of drama this person tries to turn it into.
    4. Snack on 1 lb of veggies & 2 svgs fruit
    5. Go to library to check out book one of our clinic docs recommended regarding diet/nutrition/health.
    6. Lymphedema massage x2 on arm / PT exercises for back
    7. Take a bike ride or a spend some time near water.
    8. Podcasts - Half Size Me from Monday and try one new one
    9. Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / Spiritual daily reading
    10. Catch up on my other MFP thread

    Thought of the Day:
    t24p084epmzn.png


    Sorry to hear you have to have surgery but at least that way it's a "simple fix" (simple in quote marks as clearly nothing simple about it..) which hopefully will mean you are all sorted within a few months?

    I went through something similar last year with my surgery - for ages they weren't sure what my condition was and thought it was either something that could be fixed by surgery or something where I'd potentially need to take drugs for quite a few years. It turned out to be the surgery option and I was glad because whilst surgery is no picnic, at least when it's done it's done. Hopefully the same is true for you :smile:

    (Plus, time off for surgery is great - obviously there's pain involved, but at the same time you get to sit on your butt and get other people to run around after you whilst you laze around and watch box sets...)

    Just on your calories - I think you should be pretty pleased at yourself for eating 1500 calories. That must be maintenance, or even losing weight but at a slower pace? Given everything you're going through I think you should be very pleased with that!
  • nickssweetheart
    nickssweetheart Posts: 874 Member
    Such a busy group! I love it! I've been MIA for a few reasons...one is that is just hard to hop on in the morning or at work, and at night I come on and read posts but then feel like it's too late to post. I have been working on getting up earlier...like when the alarm goes off and not 8 Snoozes later!!! If I ever accomplish that goal, I'll post before work! I find if I post the night before, I can't remember what goals I gave myself and when I look back to see, I find that what sounded like a great idea the night before doesn't sound so great that day! :dizzy: Go figure, right?

    I got the results of the MRI's back. I have a torn/detached labrum in my left hip and have to have surgery on 8/23. I'm not happy about this, obviously, but it is what it is. I'm trying not to focus on the pain of hip surgery and focus more on the fact that if all goes well, I might be pain free to actually start taking walks (which was my goal this year!!!). Having surgery that date is really messing me up at work. I want to put it off and have talked to my husband, my boss and my team about it, but they are all urging me to get it done and do it right. If the surgeon wasn't leaving our clinic in October, I would put it off. But I really want him to do the surgery, so I guess the 23rd it is. I don't think I have gone a whole year without at least one surgery in about 7 years now. I should have my own exam room at that clinic! LOL!

    Anyway, to be honest, I have been emotional eating all week. Nothing horrible, but my calories on here say I should stay under 1200 and I've been more like 1500. I'm going to pull myself out of my pity pot today, put on my big girl panties and get back to it.

    Not going to do a whole lot today. Putz around the house and maybe run a few errands. Tomorrow, we are heading to a flea market about an hour from here. I don't know how long I'll make it since my hip is so sore. (Actually, I was told I shouldn't be weight-bearing on it at all right now and should be using a cane...pfft! Like THAT is going to happen! I'm the world's worst patient...just ask my DH)

    I miss you all when I'm not on here! I've never personally met you, but you have become part of my daily world. Hugs to everyone! Welcome to any newcomers! This is such a great group!

    Just For Saturday:
    1. Stay in the green
    2. Spend at least 15 minutes with my own thoughts.
    3. Think before I speak. Try to get my point across with a certain person in a matter-of-fact calm way no matter what kind of drama this person tries to turn it into.
    4. Snack on 1 lb of veggies & 2 svgs fruit
    5. Go to library to check out book one of our clinic docs recommended regarding diet/nutrition/health.
    6. Lymphedema massage x2 on arm / PT exercises for back
    7. Take a bike ride or a spend some time near water.
    8. Podcasts - Half Size Me from Monday and try one new one
    9. Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / Spiritual daily reading
    10. Catch up on my other MFP thread

    Thought of the Day:
    t24p084epmzn.png


    Sorry to hear about the surgery, but at least there's something they can do to help. Chronic pain is such a drag on every part of life. Sending you good vibes.

    To wrap up my last set of goals:

    stick to food plan: didn't do this
    drink water: did so well on this that I had many restroom breaks at work!
    clean kitchen: started but didn't finish
    kitchen closed and in bed by 1 am: didn't happen

    le sigh

    But I refuse to quit:

    Today's goals:

    1) Stick to my eating plan (tofu scramble, ethiopian food for lunch, tofurky sandwich for dinner)
    2) Drink water: at least 8 cups before having a soda
    3) Clean kitchen and run dishwasher
    4) Try strength training again
    5) Kitchen closed, brush teeth, and in bed by 1 am
  • PackerFanInGB
    PackerFanInGB Posts: 3,424 Member
    Sorry to hear you have to have surgery but at least that way it's a "simple fix" (simple in quote marks as clearly nothing simple about it..) which hopefully will mean you are all sorted within a few months?

    I went through something similar last year with my surgery - for ages they weren't sure what my condition was and thought it was either something that could be fixed by surgery or something where I'd potentially need to take drugs for quite a few years. It turned out to be the surgery option and I was glad because whilst surgery is no picnic, at least when it's done it's done. Hopefully the same is true for you :smile:

    (Plus, time off for surgery is great - obviously there's pain involved, but at the same time you get to sit on your butt and get other people to run around after you whilst you laze around and watch box sets...)

    Just on your calories - I think you should be pretty pleased at yourself for eating 1500 calories. That must be maintenance, or even losing weight but at a slower pace? Given everything you're going through I think you should be very pleased with that!

    You're so right about the 'simple fix'. It could have been so much worse! I will bounce back from this and be better than I have been in years and I will get some walks in before the end of the year. My goal for 2018 was to have a regular activity routine (taking walks mostly) and this should help me meet that goal. I have to say, after 7 years, it does feel good to have a diagnosis. I was beginning to think it was all in my head!

    I remember you having surgery. I'm so glad you were able to have surgery and be done with it! Is everything good now? Did the surgery take care of the problem? I am not sure how long I will be off work yet, but since I have no vacation time in my new job yet, this will be the closest I get this summer. Maybe I can at least sit on the deck outside and read on nice days and get caught up on some of my favorite shows on Netflix. :wink:

    I hadn't thought of 1500 being maintenance! I haven't gained...just haven't lost. But then, I'm not losing on 1200 either! I really don't want to eat less than 1200 calories a day though. I'd be gnawing on cardboard, I'd be so hungry! The Pain & Spine surgeon I saw last week told me she also specializes in nutrition and hormones. She used to coach people in weight loss. She gave me the name of a couple of books to read on losing weight... She said much of being overweight is hormone-based and encouraged me to read the books with my past history of breast cancer and all the meds I'm on for it.
  • PackerFanInGB
    PackerFanInGB Posts: 3,424 Member
    Hannah, Snowflake1968 and Nickssweetheart - thank you for thinking of me and the positive thoughts! xoxo
  • PackerFanInGB
    PackerFanInGB Posts: 3,424 Member
    Yesterday's plans changed totally at the last minute because my husband and I decided to take off for the afternoon and go thrift store bumming... So, I'll just post goals for today rather than put a bunch of frowns by yesterdays! We are planning to go to Door County today cherry picking instead of to the flea market. I don't think I could walk around a flea market easily without ending up in pain, so change in plan.

    Just for Sunday:
    1. Journal every bite
    2. 1 lb freggies
    3. prep food into serving size baggies for easy grabbing this week
    4. WATER
    5. Self-Care. 30 minutes of something...
    6. Watch my self-talk. Turn negatives to positives. Pick my words carefully.
    7. Be kind.
    8. Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / unplug 1 hour before bed.
    9. UP tomorrow without hitting snooze!
  • bookmeister86
    bookmeister86 Posts: 1,165 Member
    edited July 2018
    Sorry to hear you have to have surgery but at least that way it's a "simple fix" (simple in quote marks as clearly nothing simple about it..) which hopefully will mean you are all sorted within a few months?

    I went through something similar last year with my surgery - for ages they weren't sure what my condition was and thought it was either something that could be fixed by surgery or something where I'd potentially need to take drugs for quite a few years. It turned out to be the surgery option and I was glad because whilst surgery is no picnic, at least when it's done it's done. Hopefully the same is true for you :smile:

    (Plus, time off for surgery is great - obviously there's pain involved, but at the same time you get to sit on your butt and get other people to run around after you whilst you laze around and watch box sets...)

    Just on your calories - I think you should be pretty pleased at yourself for eating 1500 calories. That must be maintenance, or even losing weight but at a slower pace? Given everything you're going through I think you should be very pleased with that!

    You're so right about the 'simple fix'. It could have been so much worse! I will bounce back from this and be better than I have been in years and I will get some walks in before the end of the year. My goal for 2018 was to have a regular activity routine (taking walks mostly) and this should help me meet that goal. I have to say, after 7 years, it does feel good to have a diagnosis. I was beginning to think it was all in my head!

    I remember you having surgery. I'm so glad you were able to have surgery and be done with it! Is everything good now? Did the surgery take care of the problem? I am not sure how long I will be off work yet, but since I have no vacation time in my new job yet, this will be the closest I get this summer. Maybe I can at least sit on the deck outside and read on nice days and get caught up on some of my favorite shows on Netflix. :wink:

    I hadn't thought of 1500 being maintenance! I haven't gained...just haven't lost. But then, I'm not losing on 1200 either! I really don't want to eat less than 1200 calories a day though. I'd be gnawing on cardboard, I'd be so hungry! The Pain & Spine surgeon I saw last week told me she also specializes in nutrition and hormones. She used to coach people in weight loss. She gave me the name of a couple of books to read on losing weight... She said much of being overweight is hormone-based and encouraged me to read the books with my past history of breast cancer and all the meds I'm on for it.

    All fixed now! I had a very large fibroid which needed removing. It is now gone so problem solved :-) Though, I have lots of internal scar tissue which is apparently not going to go away and which causes some small annoyances. It is better when I eat better.... More reasons to eat well!

    Fibroids do reoccur so it's not of the question that I'll have them again... But hopefully not for a few years. And you never know, by that time I might be past the age where I'm considering children and can just have the stupid organ taken out! (I tell you what, if I never have children than I will be cursing ever having had a uterus... What with periods and operations...)

    It's strange that you're not losing on 1200. Are you sure you're definitely eating 1200 - are you measuring food so you know exactly how much you've eaten? If so, it might be that your low activity levels make it harder to lose weight. Your metabolism may have slowed a bit. Or it might well be the drugs. The body is a complicated thing.

    Not sure what I can suggest there apart from maybe try to eat foods that are bulky with few calories that fill you up? Such as LOTS of veg, for example. Those books you've been given might have more helpful suggestions.

    But anyway... The most important thing for you right now is to rest and take care of yourself to get ready for your surgery! (And week/fortnight/month of Netflix!) Losing weight can wait :smile:
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member

    JFT- Saturday July 28
    2L of Water - :)
    Eat in Maintenance - :)

    JFT- Sunday July 29
    2L of water
    Eat in Maintenance
    Laundry

    We had such a great day yesterday! We realized it’s the first time since June 2015 we have actually done anything together that was a bit special. We’ve gone out for a meal 3 or 4 times that’s about it. Also realized when I bought a cooler last night it’s the first drink I’ve had since last July!

    We built a picnic table for our yard yesterday. Michaela and I bought a tablecloth for it so we’ll have a BBQ and eat at it tonight.

    I see stuff I want to comment on but I find it hard on my phone so I’ll do that tomorrow
  • Bex953172
    Bex953172 Posts: 4,157 Member
    @PackerFanInGB Sorry to hear about you needing an op. But atleast it's a step forward, you know there's a point where you won't have to worry about it anymore. And that could be by the end of this year! You know we'll all be here for you too!
  • PackerFanInGB
    PackerFanInGB Posts: 3,424 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    Sorry been MIA last couple days.

    Basically hit boiling point and when mum and dad had the kids I lost my *kitten* big time.
    Think I need to up or change my antidepressants.
    Eugh feel like I'm going to be on them forever. Knowing I have to take them makes me feel depressed.

    Anyway, as of 10 mins ago I cracked the 2 year sleep regression.
    She's been crying for the last 3 hours. We brought both girls back downstairs for juice and blueberries. They had a play, we all had a laugh together, we had quiet time, then as soon as its bedtime again she started acting up again.
    My 4 year old told her to go to sleep, she threw a fit, and then she was saying Marley I'm sorry don't go to sleep I'm sorry!
    We thought it was so unfair on her, we brought Sask back down so she could sleep on the sofa.

    Racking my brains on what I did with Sask at that age.
    And then I remembered.
    I let her cry, scream, whatever. I stay in the room though. Sat on a seat. Back turned.

    That's what she wants, she wants me in the room. That's fine but I'm not going to interact or pander to her every desire. So basically she's got what she wanted (me in the room) but not HOW she wanted it (me playing) so she's figured she's getting nothing outta me and guess who's asleep. 10 goddamn minutes it took.
    Wish I remembered this 3 hours ago...

    This is exactly what I had to do to get mine to sleep through night Let them cry. Tore my heart out but they (my twins) were 2 and enough was enough!!!.
  • sarah74_vt
    sarah74_vt Posts: 368 Member
    JFY (Saturday)
    1) Stay "in the green" with my calorie intake :/
    2) Stay "in the green" with my sodium intake :/
    3) Drink all my water before allowing myself to have a Diet Coke :/
    4) Go kayaking with my husband :)
    5) Groceries :)
    6) Log all my food for the day :)

    JFT (Sunday)
    1) Stay "in the green" with my calorie intake
    2) Stay "in the green" with my sodium intake
    3) Drink all my water before allowing myself to have a Diet Coke
    4) Go "nature walking" (Because I hate the H-word LOL) with my husband
    5) Laundry
    6) Log all my food for the day
  • Lindsaykathryn
    Lindsaykathryn Posts: 27 Member
    This is your reminder that there is a new week ahead! Monday's are for fresh starts. If you fell off last week it's ok, pick back up where you left off and push forward! Becoming healthy and losing weight isn't about being perfect, it's about NOT GIVING UP❗❕❗❕
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    If you want to see change, you have to make the necessary changes! There is no magic pill - but - hardwork, consistency, and patience will get you results! Trust me, this is what I have used and have been seeing results!🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️
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    Today was my rest day but I still got in my 13k steps! I hope you did something for yourself today to arrive that much closer to your goals!🤗🤗🤗🤗
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    I hope everyone has an awesome #Sundayfunday let's take on #Monday strong!!! You got this! 💪💪💪
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  • jeschepp
    jeschepp Posts: 307 Member
    Ended up sleeping half the day in recovery of all my travel yesterday, and low sleep during my trip. Was very happy to find I still lost weight on vacation! I was pretty careful, but still ended up going over a few days, although usually only 2-300 cals. Nice to know that overall hard work pays off! Not a great day today, but I'm writing it off to travel recovery. Tomorrow is a new day :)

    For today:
    Weigh in ✅
    Set weekly goals ✅
    Grocery shop ✅
    30 minutes exercise :(
    Track food and exercise ✅
    Eat all servings of 5 food groups :(
    Meet 1200-1400 net calories, counting exercise :( went over a bit, didn't have groceries.
    Water challenge-80 oz. ✅
    Post here for accountability ✅

    For tomorrow (simple due to my long day):
    House chores
    30 minutes exercise
    Maximum pushups
    Track food and exercise
    Eat all servings of 5 food groups
    Meet 1200-1400 net calories, counting exercise
    Water challenge-80 oz.
    Post here for accountability

    Weigh in:
    Week 0: 190
    Week 1: 187.6
    Week 2: 187.8
    Week 3: 185.6
    Week 4: 182.2
    Week 5: 179.5
    Week 6: 178.4-on vacation! Super happy with this. 3 pounds until halfway mark!
  • Bex953172
    Bex953172 Posts: 4,157 Member
    I've reset all my weight settings on MFP.

    23/07 - 184.5
    30/07 - 184

    Tbh, 0.5 of a loss has annoyed me.
    This is the heaviest I've ever been now.
    Feel like I'm getting no where, I can't consistently stick at it, I can't stop eating the things I shouldn't.

    Sigh.
  • PackerFanInGB
    PackerFanInGB Posts: 3,424 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    I've reset all my weight settings on MFP.

    23/07 - 184.5
    30/07 - 184

    Tbh, 0.5 of a loss has annoyed me.
    This is the heaviest I've ever been now.
    Feel like I'm getting no where, I can't consistently stick at it, I can't stop eating the things I shouldn't.

    Sigh.

    I'm right there with you, Bex. I got on the scale this morning and I'm up a pound. I'm 181 and I've never been in the 180's before except when I was pregnant with my twins.

    One thing I would say to you though, is to remember you just had a baby. It's only been months! Your body goes through so many changes that it makes it difficult to lose. Hormones and all that good stuff!! Be kind to yourself. It'll happen. You have a ton going on in your life every single day! (((HUGS)))
  • auntmosmail
    auntmosmail Posts: 70 Member
    Still pretty wiped out over here and I didn't even post yesterday!! Ahh!! I'm feeling a bit more energetic and with it today, so hopefully I can start getting back in gear. The last two weeks I have gained about a pound total and that has been pretty discouraging, but I'm trying to keep my head high and stay motivated. I really haven't accomplished my goals for the past couple of days. So, today we reboot and try again!

    Goals for today:
    Make chili for work lunches
    Water plants
    Go for a walk
    Read Bible
    Stay within 1409 calorie goal
    Drink two 24 oz bottles of water at work
    No extra snacking at work
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    edited July 2018
    JFT- Sunday July 29
    2L of water - :)
    Eat in Maintenance - :)
    Laundry - :)

    JFT - Monday July 30
    2L of Water
    Calories in Green by 150
    Outside 15 Minutes
    Work on Applications
    Write in Journal

    Had a crappy day yesterday with hubby, I don't know if it was the heat, if he was tired or is I just ticked him off. I seemed to get the silent treatment all afternoon and evening. I bit my tongue and let him have his mood, usually I push and push until we end up in an argument. I hope when I see him tonight his mood has changed.

    I ended up not exercising at all Saturday and Sunday. Saturday I got a lot of steps in at the race and building a picnic table in the morning with hubby. Yesterday I didn't do anything but laundry and clean out one dresser drawer. It was just too hot and then when it cooled off I wasn't in the mood for it.

    I am in a lot of pain pretty much everywhere, my feet hurt (on the tops), my calves hurt, my back and hips hurt. It feels muscular everywhere. I have had a lot of issues with posture for years causing me pain in different areas and I think that is what is happening now. I need to research some different exercises for core strengthening and some stretching I think.

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  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    Sorry been MIA last couple days.

    Basically hit boiling point and when mum and dad had the kids I lost my *kitten* big time.
    Think I need to up or change my antidepressants.
    Eugh feel like I'm going to be on them forever. Knowing I have to take them makes me feel depressed.

    Anyway, as of 10 mins ago I cracked the 2 year sleep regression.
    She's been crying for the last 3 hours. We brought both girls back downstairs for juice and blueberries. They had a play, we all had a laugh together, we had quiet time, then as soon as its bedtime again she started acting up again.
    My 4 year old told her to go to sleep, she threw a fit, and then she was saying Marley I'm sorry don't go to sleep I'm sorry!
    We thought it was so unfair on her, we brought Sask back down so she could sleep on the sofa.

    Racking my brains on what I did with Sask at that age.
    And then I remembered.
    I let her cry, scream, whatever. I stay in the room though. Sat on a seat. Back turned.

    That's what she wants, she wants me in the room. That's fine but I'm not going to interact or pander to her every desire. So basically she's got what she wanted (me in the room) but not HOW she wanted it (me playing) so she's figured she's getting nothing outta me and guess who's asleep. 10 goddamn minutes it took.
    Wish I remembered this 3 hours ago...

    Sorry to hear you are struggling. I was depressed about the fact that I had to be on anti-depressants as long as I was. I was talking to my future son in law's mother about it, she is a professor of psychology at a university here in Canada. I told her that I felt like I was failing life because I needed to be on anti-depressants and couldn't just fix myself with self discipline and determination. She told me that mental health problems including depression are nothing to be ashamed of. Why should we feel we can fix it ourselves when we wouldn't think that about a cancer or any physical ailment. She then went on to tell me that she has been on a mild anti-depressant for over 30 years. She had tried several times to stop and go off it, and she just gets worse each time. She said she quit fighting it because she would take high blood pressure medication daily without a second thought so what was wrong with the anti-depressants? She said once she resigned herself to that she started feeling much better and was able to cope better with everything that life throws at her.
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    I've reset all my weight settings on MFP.

    23/07 - 184.5
    30/07 - 184

    Tbh, 0.5 of a loss has annoyed me.
    This is the heaviest I've ever been now.
    Feel like I'm getting no where, I can't consistently stick at it, I can't stop eating the things I shouldn't.

    Sigh.

    I'm right there with you, Bex. I got on the scale this morning and I'm up a pound. I'm 181 and I've never been in the 180's before except when I was pregnant with my twins.

    One thing I would say to you though, is to remember you just had a baby. It's only been months! Your body goes through so many changes that it makes it difficult to lose. Hormones and all that good stuff!! Be kind to yourself. It'll happen. You have a ton going on in your life every single day! (((HUGS)))

    What is the old saying, "Two's company, three's a crowd" I guess we are a crowd struggling now. I have been wanting everything that is high in calories and high in carbs. I need to figure out a way not to crave these things and find a better way of avoiding them when I do.
  • AJB1014
    AJB1014 Posts: 1,380 Member
    A quick accountability check in for me and I'll be back later!

    JFT Monday
    1. One thing at a time
    2. Be kind and patient
    3. Log all food
    4. Eat when hungry - stop when full
    5. Meds AM and PM
  • mytime6630
    mytime6630 Posts: 4,274 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    I've reset all my weight settings on MFP.

    23/07 - 184.5
    30/07 - 184

    Tbh, 0.5 of a loss has annoyed me.
    This is the heaviest I've ever been now.
    Feel like I'm getting no where, I can't consistently stick at it, I can't stop eating the things I shouldn't.

    Sigh.

    Bex, I am right there with you! My weight is UP to 196 this morning!! Last October I was 187 -- only 9 pounds away from my goal weight of 178. I even find an excuse to run to the grocery store, just so I can buy something"good" to eat.

  • sarah74_vt
    sarah74_vt Posts: 368 Member
    JFY (Sunday)
    1) Stay "in the green" with my calorie intake :)
    2) Stay "in the green" with my sodium intake :/
    3) Drink all my water before allowing myself to have a Diet Coke :/
    4) Go "nature walking" (Because I hate the H-word LOL) with my husband :)
    5) Laundry :)
    6) Log all my food for the day :)

    JFT (Monday)
    1) Stay "in the green" with my calorie intake
    2) Stay "in the green" with my sodium intake
    3) Drink all my water before allowing myself to have a Diet Coke
    4) Go to the gym
    5) Weed my gardens
    6) Log all my food for the day
    7) Complete 3 orders from my shop