JUST FOR TODAY ....... One day at a time ..... Daily Commitment Thread for 2018

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  • bookmeister86
    bookmeister86 Posts: 1,165 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    Very sad at the moment.

    Our car got broken into last night. Well I say "broken into" the car was actually unlocked. (you occasionally hear people trying car doors but they walk off) anyway me and my partner are pretty sure we lock the car every time. We're both pretty on the ball with it. But I must of left the key in the lock of my front door and one of the girls could have easily pressed the unlock button.
    Anyway, the car had obviously been rummaged through, glove box open, centre compartment, bits thrown everywhere. We opened the boot and there was just rubbish in there. So we though maybe they've left it and got nothing!
    It's hard, to know whats missing really. I suddenly can't find a bank card so I've cancelled it to be sure.
    So other than being a bit miffed we were okay.
    Until me and my partner were chatting about it and he said “I don't think they touched the boot because nothing was moved, they must have opened it, seen the bags of rubbish and thought F it." to which I said.. Did they not even look in your gym bag?
    Uh oh, that's what's missing. They've nicked his gym bag, so now he's lost his pre-workout supplement, 2 sets of expensive headphones, protein shaker (£10!) his swimming shorts and probably whatver top he was wearing, along with his hair stuff £12 a pot and deodorants.
    He totalled it up to £115.

    It proper *kitten*.
    He then came down and asked me where my make up bag is "my small one" to which my response was "well it was in the boot., with my big one."
    ALL my make up has gone.
    Which I've totalled to £110 up to now, I don't even know what was in the small one anymore!
    I have 2 discontinued products in there so I'll never get them again. And half of it was gifted so I can't even afford some of the more expensive products like £17.50 for a lipstick!?

    Were both devastated. We know it's only things but the gym is like "his thing" and it's really good for his health. And then the makeup is just a nightmare for any girl to have NON.
    I may be able to find some random spares or nearly empty stuff in my drawers but we're basically both starting from scratch now.
    Although I'm thankful there's no car damage.

    Really sorry to hear about that, it's really rubbish particularly given all the other stuff you've got going on right now!

    I had my gym bag stolen in a pub a couple of years ago, it was super annoying having to replace everything (that had my gym kit and my makeup in it!).

    I couldn't afford to replace everything at once but luckily my friend had a pair of old trainers going spare that I bought off her for not very much. Maybe your partner could do something similar, for the time being?

    The makeup is annoying and I guess you may not want to recycle other people's.... But I would agree with @mytime6630 that you don't need it! I reckon if you asked your partner, he would say the same.

    Sending lots of positive thoughts and vibes your way - it's a tough thing to have to deal with. But you are tough, and will deal with it just fine!
  • AJB1014
    AJB1014 Posts: 1,380 Member
    @bex95123 Accckk! I'm so sorry!

    @PackerFanInGB Yay for answers. Positive and healing thoughts sent your way for your surgery.

  • AJB1014
    AJB1014 Posts: 1,380 Member
    JFT Monday Recap
    1. One thing at a time :)
    2. Be kind and patient :)
    3. Log all food :)
    4. Eat when hungry - stop when full :| Well I started eating a graham cracker after I closed my diary, realized I was not actually hungry, so I stopped. :)
    5. Meds AM and PM :)

    FINALLY picked up my refill RX! Hooray! Landlady called yesterday and said they already have two showings set up, Thursday at 4 and Saturday at 12. I naturally freaked out as I thought they were waiting until we vacated - the house is a mess, there are things we wanted to pack before we let strangers in, STRANGERS IN MY HOUSE. I'm just a natural worrier. Need to manage this stress in a healthy way, my head is already bumping with a headache this morning. Soooo...

    JFT Tuesday
    1. Lots of water
    2. Eat when hungry - stop when full
    3. Be patient and kind
    4. Log all food
    5. Meds AM and PM
    6. One thing at a time - tonights focus; bedroom and bathroom - back hall next up - then kitchen/pantry on Weds.
    7. Pick up half and half at farm
    8. Empty car
    9. Shred box of mail
  • cschmitz110515
    cschmitz110515 Posts: 3,629 Member
    Weekly Weigh-In = When I'm active I eat back calories. My weaknesses: I love food... my sweet tooth, especially chocolate... portion control... FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). I weigh myself daily and log weekly / posting my Saturday a.m. weigh-in here. [My digital scale only shows half pound increments & I'm too cheap to buy a fancier scale.] No goal dates set ~ as long as my trend is downward, I get there when I get there!

    Age 60, 5'4.5"
    GW #1: 150 in a livable way = It's. Not. A. Diet.
    GW #2: 145 normal BMI
    UG maintain: 140 - 145 [anything less will be unsustainable]

    11/5/15 = 195.0 joined MFP with no real plan except It's. Not. A. Diet.
    1/10/17 = 185.5 clearly not a regular on MFP / joined JFT, best group ever! :smiley:
    5/31/17 = 180.5 two end of month celebrations / committed to posting weekly weigh-in
    06/03 = 177.5
    06/10 = 179.5 pre-10K spaghetti supper night before
    06/17 = 179.5 numerous meals away from home, several occasions w/ alcohol, happy no gain
    06/24 = 178.0 fluctuated during week, but ended ok
    07/01 = 176.0 Yay!!! Achieved June goal to stay <180
    07/08 = 177.5 oops
    07/15 = 176.5
    07/22 = 175.0
    07/29 = 174.0 saw at least one daily w-i below 174
    08/05 = 174.5 dined out for Girls Day Out & ate Dad's cooking & baking
    08/12 = 173.5 scale flirted with even lower numbers on daily weigh-ins
    08/19 = 173.5 had couple of high calorie days
    08/26 = 172.0 kind of a surprise
    09/02/17 = 170.0 Woohoo! Officially overweight, not obese :smiley:
    09/09 = 171.5 backsliding, ack!
    09/16 = 169.5 yay, the middle number is a six!
    09/23 = 168.5 have lots challenges in upcoming week
    09/30 = 167.0 met Sept goal to stay under 170
    10/07 = 166.0
    10/14 = 166.5 dined out 2 days with adult beverages plus wine & cheesecake at spa
    10/21/17 = 166.5 dined out 2 days plus food day in office / no gain is good [joined Just Give Me 10 Days challenge (daily w/i)]
    10/28 = 164.5 very active week & watched CICO / reached October goal of 165
    11/04 = 163.0 wow, really surprised at this, daily fluctuations very up and down this week
    11/11 = 164.5 this is temporary b/c very high sodium yesterday
    11/18 = 162.0 big surprise, especially b/c I weigh myself daily and didn't see this all week
    11/25 = 163.0 no surprise after 2 no-logging-food days (parade day and Thanksgiving), just glad not worse
    12/02 = 161.0 Jingle Bell 5K day / 44:37 chip time & ave. pace 14:22 & very happy!
    12/09/17 = 158.5 surprised to say the least / first time in 10 years my weight is 1-5-anything! :love:
    12/16 = 158.0 no work parties or food days & stuck with CICO
    12/23 = 157.5 no "workouts" but shoveled snow & snowshoed, busy with Christmas preparations
    12/30 = 159.0 Christmas Day no food/beverages logged
    01/06/18 = 159.0 New Year's Eve hubby & I splurged on treats & beverages (at home), and I did not log...totally worth it!
    01/13 = 157.0 big surprise! Yesterday evening, walked in Frenzy on the Fox 5K in 47:26 & pace 15:19. Very happy with my time, wore layers of clothes in 10 degrees & NNW 12 mph wind, fun event.
    01/20 = 156.5
    01/27 = 156.5 maintaining / not a bad thing
    02/03 = sick / no weigh in
    02/10 = 152.5 unhealthy loss due to illness / I know weight will go back up & I'm totally fine with that
    02/17 = 153.0 thrilled with annual physical on 2/15/18: BP 110/68, pulse 64 and BMI 26.14 :star:
    02/24 = 154.0 little out of control last week, but at goal for the month
    03/03 = 155.5 oops / still lower than before I was sick
    03/10 = 153.5 back on track
    03/17 = 152.5
    03/24 = 153.0 evening snacks & two days straight of 8 hr seminars (+ lots of sitting)
    03/31 = 153.5 pre-10K spaghetti supper night before / Badger State Brewing 10K 1:30:28.82 and average pace 14:35 :smiley:
    04/07 = 154.5 ack ~ ate Easter candy most evenings
    04/14 = 153.5 Day 1 of record-setting blizzard ~ yuck! Followed by day 2 of blizzard, then snow day (no work / still shoveling & plowing) on Monday ~ in APRIL ~ yikes! :p
    04/21 = 153.5 after such weird week & daily weight fluctuations, happy to maintain
    04/28 = 152.0
    05/05 = 153.5 kinda stalled three months + feeling hungry more often ~ since w/i 10# of goal, changed MFP setting to lose 1/2 lb. per week & see how it goes
    05/12 = 153.5 ok with this ~ think changing my MFP setting, and having more net calories to play with, is agreeing with me ~ I'm not so hungry all the time
    05/19 = 154.0 drinks (2 margaritas) & dinner w/ BFF night before + enjoyed everything!
    05/26 = 153.0 Health Risk Assessment 5/15/18 ~ BMI 25.6 :star:
    06/02 = 153.0 basically in maintenance for now ~ I'll take it!
    06/09 = 152.5 Bellin Run 10K 1:28:12 split time 45:03 ave. pace 14:12 ~ beat goal of < 1:30 :star:
    06/16 = 152.0
    06/23 = 156.0 end of vacation week & lots of eating out
    06/30 = 155.5
    07/07 = 156.0 post-vacation w/i net calories not. so. much. Ack!
    07/14 = 154.5 prelogging & sticking w/ plan helps
    07/21 = 154.5 Packers 5K 44:50 ave pace 14:26 min/mile ~ beat goal < 45:00 :star:
    07/28 = 157.5 peanut M&M attacks (eek) + dinner out w/ SIL/niece (yum!) + staff luncheon (ick)

    “Start by doing what’s necessary, then what’s possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” Francis of Assisi
  • cschmitz110515
    cschmitz110515 Posts: 3,629 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    Very sad at the moment.

    Our car got broken into last night. Well I say "broken into" the car was actually unlocked. (you occasionally hear people trying car doors but they walk off) anyway me and my partner are pretty sure we lock the car every time. We're both pretty on the ball with it. But I must of left the key in the lock of my front door and one of the girls could have easily pressed the unlock button.
    Anyway, the car had obviously been rummaged through, glove box open, centre compartment, bits thrown everywhere. We opened the boot and there was just rubbish in there. So we though maybe they've left it and got nothing!
    It's hard, to know whats missing really. I suddenly can't find a bank card so I've cancelled it to be sure.
    So other than being a bit miffed we were okay.
    Until me and my partner were chatting about it and he said “I don't think they touched the boot because nothing was moved, they must have opened it, seen the bags of rubbish and thought F it." to which I said.. Did they not even look in your gym bag?
    Uh oh, that's what's missing. They've nicked his gym bag, so now he's lost his pre-workout supplement, 2 sets of expensive headphones, protein shaker (£10!) his swimming shorts and probably whatver top he was wearing, along with his hair stuff £12 a pot and deodorants.
    He totalled it up to £115.

    It proper *kitten*.
    He then came down and asked me where my make up bag is "my small one" to which my response was "well it was in the boot., with my big one."
    ALL my make up has gone.
    Which I've totalled to £110 up to now, I don't even know what was in the small one anymore!
    I have 2 discontinued products in there so I'll never get them again. And half of it was gifted so I can't even afford some of the more expensive products like £17.50 for a lipstick!?

    Were both devastated. We know it's only things but the gym is like "his thing" and it's really good for his health. And then the makeup is just a nightmare for any girl to have NON.
    I may be able to find some random spares or nearly empty stuff in my drawers but we're basically both starting from scratch now.
    Although I'm thankful there's no car damage.

    So sorry you are dealing with this! When our neighborhood had a rash of garage & house break-ins (our garage was only an "attempt" as they couldn't force their way in ~ thank God for security-conscious hubby), and after police were notified, we installed dusk to dawn lights on the street-side. When we had hooligans enter our fenced in back yard a year later, during evening when we were still up & hubby chased them off, I felt so violated that I couldn't go to sleep until I went online and ordered security lights for the side and back of house. Fact of life that we had to adjust to prevent stuff like this from happening sucks. Hugs to you, my friend!
  • cschmitz110515
    cschmitz110515 Posts: 3,629 Member
    I got the results of the MRI's back. I have a torn/detached labrum in my left hip and have to have surgery on 8/23. I'm not happy about this, obviously, but it is what it is. I'm trying not to focus on the pain of hip surgery and focus more on the fact that if all goes well, I might be pain free to actually start taking walks (which was my goal this year!!!). Having surgery that date is really messing me up at work. I want to put it off and have talked to my husband, my boss and my team about it, but they are all urging me to get it done and do it right. If the surgeon wasn't leaving our clinic in October, I would put it off. But I really want him to do the surgery, so I guess the 23rd it is. I don't think I have gone a whole year without at least one surgery in about 7 years now. I should have my own exam room at that clinic! LOL!

    Not going to do a whole lot today. Putz around the house and maybe run a few errands. Tomorrow, we are heading to a flea market about an hour from here. I don't know how long I'll make it since my hip is so sore. (Actually, I was told I shouldn't be weight-bearing on it at all right now and should be using a cane...pfft! Like THAT is going to happen! I'm the world's worst patient...just ask my DH)

    Thought of the Day:
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    Very glad you at least have an answer, and a resolution in sight! Focus on the end result and it will be over before you know it. I felt that way with my adult braces on my teeth ~ that I couldn't wait before they were off, and lo and behold, sooner than predicted, they were. Love the stern warning to stomach ~ I never thought of "it" being bored, but I think that's what happens to me!
  • cschmitz110515
    cschmitz110515 Posts: 3,629 Member
    For the first time in five days, posting some JFT goals to keep myself in check...

    JFT T 7/31
    1) Walked dog before work + saw two low-flying cranes go over road / 3.69 mi 1:01:12 / stretched (forced myself to take the time) = happy dog B) & happy me B)
    2) Meals & snacks prelogged / stick w/ plan / net calories green
    3) At least 2-3 to-do's in evening
    4) Unplug 9:00 / floss / retainers / bed & TV off 10:15 (walk dog before work W)
  • auntmosmail
    auntmosmail Posts: 70 Member
    Goals for yesterday:
    Make chili for work lunches ✔
    Water plants ✔
    Go for a walk ✔
    Read Bible ✔
    Stay within 1409 calorie goal ✔
    Drink two 24 oz bottles of water at work: nope, in fact I did not have even one sip of water all shift!! Yikes!
    No extra snacking at work ✔

    Goals for today:
    Read Bible
    Stay within 1409 calorie goal
    Drink two 24 oz bottles of water at work
    No extra snacking at work
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    Oh and also @mytime6630 I have also thought about taking a break but I would miss you all too much!
    You're all like, my only friends haha, ❤️

    Happy that you value us :)

    This made me wonder though, are there friends /other mums in the area that you could get some support from?

    It might help you to be able to talk to people in person who are going through similar things right now. My friend is really close to fellow mums she got to know through all her pregnancy/new mum activities and I know she's found being able to chat through things with them really valuable... Is there anyone near you that you could meet up with, potentially with the children?

    Failing that, we're all here supporting you :smile:
    Don't put yourself under too much pressure... 5 months is not a long time when you have as much to cope with as you do!

    (Celebrities are totally unrealistic with their bouncing back and losing pregnancy weight. This is not possible for normal people who don't have armies of staff)

    I'm struggling a little too to be honest... Haven't put a lot on, just a couple of pounds, but have lost a lot of focus and keep on eating pizza and drinking wine.

    I'm blaming the heat and 'summer' vibes...

    I just don't really like people irl.
    I always make friends with complete idiots.
    From school I had two best friends which were my friends for 10 years and then they just completely Fked me over! So never really trusted anyone after that.

    I do have 1 friend. But she's a friend I rarely see but I know if I call her I can chat to her like it's hardly been any time at all.
    My old friends used to moan because I drove past her house from work and never popped in.
    As if I have no life outside them.

    This made me laugh because you sound just like my daughter. She has one friend that she has had since grade 7 (she will be 30 in Feb), she lost closeness with her for a while due to marriage and babies at different times, but they are slowly getting it back since her friend had a baby the same time as she had Michaela. She is much more comfortable with her online friends.

    I am a friend person, I am very loyal to the friends I make but I need to have them in my life. Some of my longest life friends live provinces and cities away, but we manage to remain close through phone calls, fb and chats.

    I understand your concern about real life friends, but you are older now and so are the people that you would meet. It might be different if you met someone and gave them and yourself a chance.
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    The dog just ate my cake. *angry eye twitch*

    Whoever is "up there", certainly is pooping on me today :lol:

    What a day! We had our car broken into once as well. It's a pain in the butt. I am very careful about not keeping anything in my vehicles, but I did lose a brand new CD that I had just received as a gift. (Yes, I am aging myself).

    I'm sorry, but I had to laugh at the dog eating your cake. I can imagine the frustration but maybe "whoever is up there" was trying to save you calories so you weren't upset with yourself for eating the emotions of the break in.
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    mytime6630 wrote: »
    So I "thought" I was having a good day today, then tonite after dinner, I was just craving something sweet. Last nite I bought some chocolate covered almonds from Trader Joes ... so I grabbed a handful. I thought OK, here is a little more protein (you know ... almonds have protein!) I even counted them out ... I ate 12 of them.
    So as I am logging my food ..... 1/4 cup of these darn almonds are 210 calories! Do you know how many fit into 1/4 cup .... only about 5 of them!! So, I logged 420 calories for something I scarfed down in about 5 minutes... and certainly did not even need.
    So my calorie count for today is 1648 :'(
    I am really tired since I worked outside in the yard all day and was on my feet, so hopefully with that I will be ok .... but I think I'll force myself for a 4 mile walk to salvage the day. At least I'll be super tired when I get home .... and no more food! Note to self: Next time ... look up things before you eat!

    MMMMM chocolate covered almonds, they are one of my favourite chocolate treats when I want chocolate. Crazy how high in calories they are. It reminds me of a joke I read the other day, an old lady on the bus kept giving the bus driver peanuts. He finally said to her why aren't you eating them yourself, she says. I can't chew the peanuts, I just lick the chocolate off. I bet she saved some calories LOL
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Just caught up with JFT posts ~ so many of us are struggling, me included. I haven't posted JFT since last Thurs. 7/26. Started Th. with dinner out with sister-in-law & niece that started with good intentions, pre-selected my dinner, and ordered appetizer of shrimp cocktail b/c that was an option I gave myself. Then also ordered cup of French onion soup b/c niece did ~ so yummy! Plus wine (mmm). Fri. was staff lunch & meeting, with food from local grocer's deli section, and not the healthiest options either. Sat. too. many. sweets. At least the giant cookie is gone. Should've turned down hubby when he got out ice cream after supper. Oh yeah, peanut M&Ms have had a hold on me lately too. Sun. hubby suggested fast food so I wouldn't have to cook ~ although tbh it was the first time in weeks, maybe a month, that we ate fast food. At least I ordered small fries and little burger, and no chocolate shake. I didn't close my MFP diary some of those days... just didn't want to see the numbers. Today was crazy busy, with dentist appt. before work, prof. org. board meeting in afternoon, and really need to get work project going full blast. Eating under control more today, so maybe I just needed a break. Tomorrow I will update my weekly weigh-in (from Sat.) a/k/a the truth. And I will take time to post JFT goals, even if they are the usual... it's helps me keep on track & be accountable. Night all!

    I feel that I need that break once in a while too. I think that is part of the balance. You can't deny yourself all the time or, for me anyway, it just gets to be too much and I give up.
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    edited July 2018
    jeschepp wrote: »
    My heart is so heavy for everyone struggling today. What I love most about this group is the realness. We share the successes, the many struggles along the way, the cravings, the times we give-in, our insecurities. I didn't expect to connect so much to an online group, but I couldn't ask for a better crew. Was feeling pretty insecure and inadequate today, and every post about someone struggling helped me see I am not alone. I'm human, and this healthy living stuff is tough. Sending out hugs and positive vibes to everyone. We'll get there, one step at a time (with a few backwards and then sideways before a few more get us back on track :smile: )

    Love this, so true. I have found this group to be the best support there is. I never understood online groups before. My daughter is part of a couple of Mom groups online. One of them she quit because of bullying but the second one she really enjoys. She says the support and knowing you're not alone has helped her a lot. I get it now, it makes sense. I tried for years to get her away from them especially the first one because I didn't think they were healthy for her. I think I should apologize to her now.
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    AJB1014 wrote: »
    JFT Monday Recap
    1. One thing at a time :)
    2. Be kind and patient :)
    3. Log all food :)
    4. Eat when hungry - stop when full :| Well I started eating a graham cracker after I closed my diary, realized I was not actually hungry, so I stopped. :)
    5. Meds AM and PM :)

    FINALLY picked up my refill RX! Hooray! Landlady called yesterday and said they already have two showings set up, Thursday at 4 and Saturday at 12. I naturally freaked out as I thought they were waiting until we vacated - the house is a mess, there are things we wanted to pack before we let strangers in, STRANGERS IN MY HOUSE. I'm just a natural worrier. Need to manage this stress in a healthy way, my head is already bumping with a headache this morning. Soooo...

    JFT Tuesday
    1. Lots of water
    2. Eat when hungry - stop when full
    3. Be patient and kind
    4. Log all food
    5. Meds AM and PM
    6. One thing at a time - tonights focus; bedroom and bathroom - back hall next up - then kitchen/pantry on Weds.
    7. Pick up half and half at farm
    8. Empty car
    9. Shred box of mail

    I had this conversation with a friend of mine last night. I learned years ago when my youngest was diagnosed with panic attacks at age 9 that worrying, anxiety, etc is all hereditary. It is how the brain is wired. I thought it must have skipped me because I didn't feel I worried too much but I knew my Mom, Grandfather and Brother all suffered from it horribly.

    Last year when I thought my life was falling apart I started having panic attacks, I thought I was having a heart attack. I needed to do something, I started praying and reading a devotional. I honestly did it because I promised a friend I would, not because I really felt it would work. I have found though after a year of doing this I don't really worry much anymore.
    How will this bill get paid? What if it doesn't? - It happened, we lost a house and a truck. We survived.
    What if I lose my job? - It happened, I was fired. I survived
    What if there is an illness in the family? - It happened, my Dad passed. I survived.
    What if my husband doesn't love me anymore? - I asked, he did love me, he didn't like me much anymore and didn't think I liked him. He was right, we needed to work on a lot. It was worth it, we are surviving
    What is unicorns start falling out of the sky? - Well you get my point.....

    I had been a worrier, but I was so used to the feeling of being worried and anxious that I didn't know what the feeling of peace was. I believe now I know what peace is. I still worry once in a while about things, it's human I think. I just don't let it control me. Things are going to happen and I'm going to survive them. I will learn from them and I will grow from them. I write in journal mostly every night now to show myself what is positive in my life. I have so much to be grateful for and when I acknowledge those things the rest seems to fall into place easier. I hope you get your worrying under control before it controls you. Trust me, you will be forever thankful that you did.

    As for strangers in your house, you are preparing for a move, they are too if they are looking. They are looking for where the furniture will go and what colour the flooring is not if you are a tidy housekeeper. :) Deep breaths you have this!
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Goals for yesterday:
    Make chili for work lunches ✔
    Water plants ✔
    Go for a walk ✔
    Read Bible ✔
    Stay within 1409 calorie goal ✔
    Drink two 24 oz bottles of water at work: nope, in fact I did not have even one sip of water all shift!! Yikes!
    No extra snacking at work ✔

    Goals for today:
    Read Bible
    Stay within 1409 calorie goal
    Drink two 24 oz bottles of water at work
    No extra snacking at work

    I find it so hard to get caught up on my water intake if I miss some. I understand your frustration.
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    JFT - Monday July 30
    2L of Water - :)
    Calories in Green by 150 - 176
    Outside 15 Minutes - :)
    Work on Applications - :)
    Write in Journal - :)
    I just noticed I didn't even put a goal for any exercise in. I did walk 5.76 kms at a 12:03 pace. Much slower, but my back and feet are hurting terribly.
    I also did some stretching exercises that are supposed to help the back. It's not feeling like it helped this morning, but it will probably take time.

    JFT - Tuesday July 31
    2L of Water
    Calories in Green by 150
    Outside 15 Minutes
    Work on Applications
    Set up some meetings
    Swim
    Stretch
    Write in Journal

    I have swim lessons again tonight. Working on my breathing some more. I think I panic a little bit that if I pause long enough to take a deep breath I will sink. I learned last week how to glide on my side, if I can master that I think I might get this breathing down yet!

    I am picking up my youngest from the airport this afternoon. She has been in Vegas since Saturday for the National Association of Hairdresser Awards. She was a little concerned she would end up being "trip Mama" because most of her classmates are 18-19 and she is 27. I think she must have had to play that role a bit, she said she has lots of drama stories to tell me. Should be a fun drive.

    My back is in a lot of pain, so is the top of my left foot. I went for a walk last night because I really needed to do something for exercise and I feel that my back feels better the more I move. My foot hurt to stand on this morning though. Sitting is the worse thing I can do for my back, and sitting for almost 9 hours at the race on Saturday without proper support (bleachers) really didn't help anything. I'm hoping it starts to feel better in the next couple of days because I have an 8 hour drive ahead of me on Friday and then back home on Sunday.

    I am going to Popeye's today for lunch to meet my former co-worker that always insists on KFC. I have to look at the menu and see what I can find that is healthier on it. I have never eaten there, so hopefully I find something.
  • Bex953172
    Bex953172 Posts: 4,157 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    The dog just ate my cake. *angry eye twitch*

    Whoever is "up there", certainly is pooping on me today :lol:

    What a day! We had our car broken into once as well. It's a pain in the butt. I am very careful about not keeping anything in my vehicles, but I did lose a brand new CD that I had just received as a gift. (Yes, I am aging myself).

    I'm sorry, but I had to laugh at the dog eating your cake. I can imagine the frustration but maybe "whoever is up there" was trying to save you calories so you weren't upset with yourself for eating the emotions of the break in.

    LOL oh so getting another slice wasn't what I was supposed to do? :lol:
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    The dog just ate my cake. *angry eye twitch*

    Whoever is "up there", certainly is pooping on me today :lol:

    What a day! We had our car broken into once as well. It's a pain in the butt. I am very careful about not keeping anything in my vehicles, but I did lose a brand new CD that I had just received as a gift. (Yes, I am aging myself).

    I'm sorry, but I had to laugh at the dog eating your cake. I can imagine the frustration but maybe "whoever is up there" was trying to save you calories so you weren't upset with yourself for eating the emotions of the break in.

    LOL oh so getting another slice wasn't what I was supposed to do? :lol:

    LOL Well, in your shoes I probably would have too!
  • mytime6630
    mytime6630 Posts: 4,274 Member
    So here goes my JFT
    Monday, July 30
    1. log ALL food :) --- Yes, allmost 1700 calories :/ But the positive was that I was outside on my feet all day long, and then went for a walk to try and offset those darn almonds!
    2. Water challenge -- 8 cups of water :/ Need to work on this better
    3. mindful eating :) I was doing mindful eating ... even counted out 12 choc covered almonds. Just didn't realize how many calories there was in them!
    4. work in garden ... transplant periannals..... fertilize all plants :)
    5. organize one more closet .... make donation pile even bigger.... time to declutter! :/ Way too tired
    6. get back on here. Be accountable :)

    Busy day again. I find I need to get on here in the evenings because my mornings are so hectic. A late start, so I didn't get to the gym till 30 minutes past when I normally do. But ... at least I started my day out that way.

    JFT, Tues July 31
    1. log all food
    2. concentrate on water
    3. go to gym --- already done!
    4. work on pc boards. Doing some sit down work mostly today, as my legs still hurt from being on my feet almost all day yesterday
    5. clean out the garage ... lots of boxes to cut up for recycling
    6. get back on here tonite and post how I did ... be accountable
    7. read 1 success story


  • PackerFanInGB
    PackerFanInGB Posts: 3,424 Member
    Today is going to be a good day!

    I have four days until my birthday BBQ followed by holiday in France. Both of those will involve plenty of overeating (cheese!) So I have four days before then, in which I AM going to make healthy choices. I refuse to repeat what I did in Oct-Dec, where I continually ate and ballooned.

    Today's commitments:

    - Log everything I eat
    - Stick to food plan
    - Be in the green
    - No Alcohol
    - 3 bottles water

    - 30+ minute lunch break
    - French podcast, article, Duolingo, book
    - Meditate
    - Read chapter of book
    - Email about birthday BBQ
    - Lights out by 10.45

    I'm excited for you! I cannot imagine ever getting to take a trip to France! Of course, I cannot imagine ever getting to take a trip to the UK, Scotland, Ireland, Italy or anywhere else outside the US either! :smile:
  • PackerFanInGB
    PackerFanInGB Posts: 3,424 Member
    Just for Monday:
    1. Journal every bite :)
    2. No excuses. None. There is no excuse good enough for junk food today. >:)
    3. Finish at least 5 tasks today that I've been putting off because they are unpleasant. :)
    4. Check out library book recommended by one of my doctors regarding diet and hormones :)ongoing...didn't find it.
    5. Podcast: Half Size Me :)Well, I listened to podcasts but not this one yet. But since it is for motivation and the ones I listen to were motivating, I'm giving myself a smile on this one!
    6. Stand up every 30 minutes at my desk to get my blood moving :)
    7. Be patient and kind to everyone I interact with today. :)Actually had a really good heart-to-heart with DH and cleared the air on many things. Was a good talk and went really well!
    8. WATER, WATER, WATER. ;)Almost? Definitely more than Sunday...
    9. Journal / Gratitude Journal / Simple Abundance daily reading / Unplug 9:00 p.m., lights out at 10:00 :)

    It was just announced at our dept meeting that they are moving our department under a different service line and different director. Kind of anxiety provoking but I'm trying to stay calm. It will all be fine. I will still just do my job the way I do unless told otherwise, right?

    Just for Tuesday:
    Journal every bite
    WATER, WATER, WATER
    Try not to yawn impolitely through the 2 1/2 hours of training this afternoon <ugh>
    Be patient and kind. Walk away from water cooler gossip.
    Be grateful for the good things in my life and try not to focus on negative
    Gratitude journal / Simple Abundance / Podcast / Unplug and lights out at 10.


    Goal for August: Weigh <175 lbs
    7/30/2018: 181.0 lbs

    Words to live by: Persistence and Determination

  • bookmeister86
    bookmeister86 Posts: 1,165 Member
    Bex953172 wrote: »
    The dog just ate my cake. *angry eye twitch*

    Whoever is "up there", certainly is pooping on me today :lol:

    What a day! We had our car broken into once as well. It's a pain in the butt. I am very careful about not keeping anything in my vehicles, but I did lose a brand new CD that I had just received as a gift. (Yes, I am aging myself).

    I'm sorry, but I had to laugh at the dog eating your cake. I can imagine the frustration but maybe "whoever is up there" was trying to save you calories so you weren't upset with yourself for eating the emotions of the break in.

    On my fourth? Date with my boyfriend he baked a quiche for us to have on a picnic. I was super impressed by the cooking effort.

    We're then sitting down in the park preparing to eat it and this dog runs up and literally grabs a quarter of it and eats it in like one bite. I was appalled!

    Shouted at it so it ran away, thankfully leaving some of it for us to eat (I was slightly concerned about the dog drool I assumed was on it but decided to eat it anyway)...

    Its owner didn't even apologize. I was so mad!!! Might have yelled at them a bit...

    It's a good story now though :smiley:
  • bookmeister86
    bookmeister86 Posts: 1,165 Member
    Today is going to be a good day!

    I have four days until my birthday BBQ followed by holiday in France. Both of those will involve plenty of overeating (cheese!) So I have four days before then, in which I AM going to make healthy choices. I refuse to repeat what I did in Oct-Dec, where I continually ate and ballooned.

    Today's commitments:

    - Log everything I eat
    - Stick to food plan
    - Be in the green
    - No Alcohol
    - 3 bottles water

    - 30+ minute lunch break
    - French podcast, article, Duolingo, book
    - Meditate
    - Read chapter of book
    - Email about birthday BBQ
    - Lights out by 10.45

    I'm excited for you! I cannot imagine ever getting to take a trip to France! Of course, I cannot imagine ever getting to take a trip to the UK, Scotland, Ireland, Italy or anywhere else outside the US either! :smile:

    Thank you! It is our yearly trip to stay with the boyfriend's parents. We don't do much sightseeing, but it is rather lovely - we just relax, spend time outside, and take trips to visit wine manufacturers (and have tastings, obviously). We obviously eat lots of cheese. His family have a cheese course with lunch AND dinner! It's amazing they aren't fat. I think they just have the 'eating in moderation' skill. Ba&taeds :wink:

    You should plan a trip somewhere for after your op! Maybe a nice trip to Canada?
  • cschmitz110515
    cschmitz110515 Posts: 3,629 Member
    AJB1014 wrote: »
    J Landlady called yesterday and said they already have two showings set up, Thursday at 4 and Saturday at 12. I naturally freaked out as I thought they were waiting until we vacated - the house is a mess, there are things we wanted to pack before we let strangers in, STRANGERS IN MY HOUSE. I'm just a natural worrier. Need to manage this stress in a healthy way, my head is already bumping with a headache this morning. Soooo...

    When my first house went up for sale (I was single then), I boxed up as much as I could in advance of house showings and stored the boxes at my fiance's house. Anything of personal value, monetarily or sentimental, I either locked up & hid (in briefcase in back of closet, in small lockbox similarly hidden, etc.), temporarily stored at my work office, or stored in boxes out of sight of any househunters. No problems!
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    Today is going to be a good day!

    I have four days until my birthday BBQ followed by holiday in France. Both of those will involve plenty of overeating (cheese!) So I have four days before then, in which I AM going to make healthy choices. I refuse to repeat what I did in Oct-Dec, where I continually ate and ballooned.

    Today's commitments:

    - Log everything I eat
    - Stick to food plan
    - Be in the green
    - No Alcohol
    - 3 bottles water

    - 30+ minute lunch break
    - French podcast, article, Duolingo, book
    - Meditate
    - Read chapter of book
    - Email about birthday BBQ
    - Lights out by 10.45

    I'm excited for you! I cannot imagine ever getting to take a trip to France! Of course, I cannot imagine ever getting to take a trip to the UK, Scotland, Ireland, Italy or anywhere else outside the US either! :smile:

    Thank you! It is our yearly trip to stay with the boyfriend's parents. We don't do much sightseeing, but it is rather lovely - we just relax, spend time outside, and take trips to visit wine manufacturers (and have tastings, obviously). We obviously eat lots of cheese. His family have a cheese course with lunch AND dinner! It's amazing they aren't fat. I think they just have the 'eating in moderation' skill. Ba&taeds :wink:

    You should plan a trip somewhere for after your op! Maybe a nice trip to Canada?

    Canada is awesome, I may me biased though. Lol
  • AJB1014
    AJB1014 Posts: 1,380 Member
    AJB1014 wrote: »
    J Landlady called yesterday and said they already have two showings set up, Thursday at 4 and Saturday at 12. I naturally freaked out as I thought they were waiting until we vacated - the house is a mess, there are things we wanted to pack before we let strangers in, STRANGERS IN MY HOUSE. I'm just a natural worrier. Need to manage this stress in a healthy way, my head is already bumping with a headache this morning. Soooo...

    When my first house went up for sale (I was single then), I boxed up as much as I could in advance of house showings and stored the boxes at my fiance's house. Anything of personal value, monetarily or sentimental, I either locked up & hid (in briefcase in back of closet, in small lockbox similarly hidden, etc.), temporarily stored at my work office, or stored in boxes out of sight of any househunters. No problems!

    Thanks :smile: the reassurances help. That's exactly what ive been doing. Actually taking a break now at the laundromat - never thought id say that haha! At least I've got the energy for it these days! Moving is going to whip me into shape!
  • AJB1014
    AJB1014 Posts: 1,380 Member
    I got a new phone, well its refurbished, and the app is all wonky now. Food diary is not showing up at all but exercise calories are...

    And the retyping gets really laggy sometimes. Not sure if its my phone or the app. Hmmmm
  • nickssweetheart
    nickssweetheart Posts: 874 Member
    So, okay, my eating has been a straight out mess. I basically did the "well I've blown it now, so may as well..." for TWO DAYS. Blech. Got it back under control today though, but it was really unpretty there for a bit. I think I felt deprived at work because there is always all this free, fattening, non-vegan food there and I can't eat any of it, so I took it out on my eating at home.

    But today is under control. I woke up late and skipped breakfast, had a big lunch of stir fry broccoli with sesame oil and ginger over rice, and had a tofurky sandwich with mustard for dinner along with carrot sticks, cucumber, and an orange. All super healthy and really easy delicious food.

    I had today off so I went to a new book club this evening. I'm really excited. Its focus is reading classic books from the 100 greatest of all time (according to a composite list pulled from various places online.) We're starting off nice and light with Crime and Punishment. LOL. But it was really fun and the people were nice and it pulled me out of the eating funk I fell into. Now I just have to find a really good vegan cupcake recipe to bring for the next meeting.

    @Bex, I've had my car broken into as well, and it was not pretty. They left a mess of everything and stole the GPS (this was before everyone had GPS on their phones) that my boyfriend needed for work at a time when we could ill afford to replace it. Hugs and sympathy!
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,942 Member
    So, okay, my eating has been a straight out mess. I basically did the "well I've blown it now, so may as well..." for TWO DAYS. Blech. Got it back under control today though, but it was really unpretty there for a bit. I think I felt deprived at work because there is always all this free, fattening, non-vegan food there and I can't eat any of it, so I took it out on my eating at home.

    But today is under control. I woke up late and skipped breakfast, had a big lunch of stir fry broccoli with sesame oil and ginger over rice, and had a tofurky sandwich with mustard for dinner along with carrot sticks, cucumber, and an orange. All super healthy and really easy delicious food.

    I had today off so I went to a new book club this evening. I'm really excited. Its focus is reading classic books from the 100 greatest of all time (according to a composite list pulled from various places online.) We're starting off nice and light with Crime and Punishment. LOL. But it was really fun and the people were nice and it pulled me out of the eating funk I fell into. Now I just have to find a really good vegan cupcake recipe to bring for the next meeting.

    @Bex, I've had my car broken into as well, and it was not pretty. They left a mess of everything and stole the GPS (this was before everyone had GPS on their phones) that my boyfriend needed for work at a time when we could ill afford to replace it. Hugs and sympathy!

    Look at you getting back at quickly instead of a month, or two, or six, or....