How do I get a women to find me attractive

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  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    KevHex wrote: »
    You don't need to be attractive to everyone though, just that one special person. Have you identified that person yet and do they know you like them? Them knowing you like them is a good start, even if you crash and burn. Life is short, and happiness might be right around the corner.

    Awww. Move over, Patrick Duffy.
  • KevHex
    KevHex Posts: 256 Member
    WorkerDrone83 wrote: »
    KevHex wrote: »
    You don't need to be attractive to everyone though, just that one special person. Have you identified that person yet and do they know you like them? Them knowing you like them is a good start, even if you crash and burn. Life is short, and happiness might be right around the corner.

    Awww. Move over, Patrick Duffy.

    Patrick Duffy, Dallas Legend. Thank you!!

  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    faulknerdaniel21 wrote: »
    I’m nice and athletic and have a good job what else do I need?

    All the women like to get unsolicited D pics on SnapChat, KIK, IG, FB, and here when messaging worked. It sets the precedence and builds the foundation of a solid online relationship. It is especially effective if it is a sizeable endeavor. That said...if you are average or not into that, you can try to just be you, showing your personality, humor, intelligence, and sharing your world views. Being helpful is good too, but that really get's you friend-zoned more often than not so I think the former, more than the latter, is your best bet.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    be exactly what she wants in the moment, every moment

    Good luck!
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    be exactly what she wants in the moment, every moment

    Good luck!

    Yeah, no pressure.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    be exactly what she wants in the moment, every moment

    Good luck!

    This would be perfect in an ideal world but most women don’t know what they even want to begin with!

    But if he was serious he would do that.
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    jgnatca wrote: »
    I see a trend with questions like this. Some guys, if they've been single for a while, tend to see women as a clump; all the same. If he could just find the mysterious formula to get the clump to notice him, all would be copacetic.

    Nothing is as off-putting as to be perceived as any old woman. A clump. A mosquito in a swarm. Just one sheep in a fluffy heap.

    Just like men, all women are unique with different interests, passions and dreams. I would suggest showing interest in one woman at a time and find out what interests her. If she's not on your wavelength, be a gentleman and move on. Eventually you will find an individual who clicks with you.

    Crazy talk
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    be exactly what she wants in the moment, every moment

    Good luck!

    True story
  • BishopWankapin
    BishopWankapin Posts: 276 Member
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

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    OP Have you tried smoking to look cool? Teenagers do it and they all seem like they're with it.
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    Yeah...

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  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.
  • runforthefunofitUK
    runforthefunofitUK Posts: 40 Member
    I don't think I am particularly good-looking, which is why I work out B)
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    Caporegiem

    In The Godfather, Don Vito Corleone and Consigliori Tom Hagen is the highest, and after them comes the family's two caporegimes, Clemenza and Tessio.
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    BeardedStudWarriorFTW wrote: »
    Be yourself, be confident, be friendly, be funny. A woman worth having looks deeper than looks.

    Listen to this guy.

    Don't listen to her
  • boehle
    boehle Posts: 5,062 Member
    a women or a woman?
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    I don't know if there's one single thing that helps get women more than premium.


    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    You have no idea how proud I am.


    cee134 wrote: »
    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    Caporegiem

    In The Godfather, Don Vito Corleone and Consigliori Tom Hagen is the highest, and after them comes the family's two caporegimes, Clemenza and Tessio.

    And now everyone knows I typo'd my name. @4legsRbetterthan2 can you abuse your power and fix that for me?
  • Ck103084
    Ck103084 Posts: 139 Member
    itwentthere wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    Be a good guy. Period.

    That never works.

    It does work! My bf is a total sweetheart, nice guy and he's a lot older. He still got himself a woman 13 years younger because he is a NICE GUY!

    Good luck :)
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    LiftingRiot wrote: »
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    BeardedStudWarriorFTW wrote: »
    Be yourself, be confident, be friendly, be funny. A woman worth having looks deeper than looks.

    Listen to this guy.

    Don't listen to her

    Don’t EVER listen to him. He’s the worst advice giver in the history of advice givers.

    I'm not sure if I want to hug you, woo you, like you, or insightful you. I'm going to woo you because I woo you.
  • Franacious
    Franacious Posts: 54 Member
    Respect. Confidence without arrogance. Humor.
  • mrdowell2017
    mrdowell2017 Posts: 53 Member
    edited June 2018
    diffrent women look for diffrent things in men just remember good hygiene good manners and a nice suit /shirt is to women what good lingerie is to men
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    Generally people who are friendly, have a good attitude, have engaging conversation, listen to others, have varied hobbies and interests, take care with their dress and grooming tend to be more attractive.


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