How do I get a women to find me attractive

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  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    Research says that women have higher standards, because DANG we work hard these days. Not just in the gym. We're going to therapy, we're reading, we're pursuing jobs and breaking glass ceilings. We're buying our own homes, cars, and dogs. We don't need a man, we need a partner.

    I can give you a list, in fact, I'll dump one on the bottom, but in the end, just work at being a good person and people will notice. Women will notice. Go to therapy. Read a book. Ask other people what interests them. Listen.

    You can't fix your eggplant size, you can't always have a new car, you can't get taller or be more attractive.

    But you CAN change how you engage the world, and that's something the modern woman is looking for.

    men i find attractive:
    • are genuinely and authentically interested in people other than themselves;
    • listen to other people before giving their opinion (especially to people in what are considered socially lower economic statuses, skin colors, or genders);
    • work hard and are eager to learn and lead;
    • take full responsibility for themselves/actions and don't hesitate to admit fault when they've erred;
    • encourage other people to become their best selves, without being a jerk.

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  • legsnbacon
    legsnbacon Posts: 122 Member
    LMNOP55 wrote: »
    I’m nice and athletic and have a good job what else do I need?

    What's in your pants?

    There. I fixed it for you.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    edited June 2018
    cee134 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    Caporegiem

    In The Godfather, Don Vito Corleone and Consigliori Tom Hagen is the highest, and after them comes the family's two caporegimes, Clemenza and Tessio.

    still not gonna be able to spell it :shrug:
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    edited June 2018
    cee134 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    Caporegiem

    In The Godfather, Don Vito Corleone and Consigliori Tom Hagen is the highest, and after them comes the family's two caporegimes, Clemenza and Tessio.

    still not gonna be able to spell it :shrug:

    If you can nuke the account capo from MFP existence I'll change my name and make it easier on you.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    I don't know if there's one single thing that helps get women more than premium.


    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    You have no idea how proud I am.


    cee134 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    Caporegiem

    In The Godfather, Don Vito Corleone and Consigliori Tom Hagen is the highest, and after them comes the family's two caporegimes, Clemenza and Tessio.

    And now everyone knows I typo'd my name. @4legsRbetterthan2 can you abuse your power and fix that for me?

    you will have to appeal to a staff member, thats beyond my paygrade
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Not every woman will find you attractive. Staying in shape, good hygiene, and grooming are important along with a good personality. Also, some women may find you attractive but you may not find them attractive
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    I don't know if there's one single thing that helps get women more than premium.


    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    You have no idea how proud I am.


    cee134 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    Caporegiem

    In The Godfather, Don Vito Corleone and Consigliori Tom Hagen is the highest, and after them comes the family's two caporegimes, Clemenza and Tessio.

    And now everyone knows I typo'd my name. @4legsRbetterthan2 can you abuse your power and fix that for me?

    you will have to appeal to a staff member, thats beyond my paygrade

    Can't use that excuse on me, you let the cat out of the bag that you're paid with premium so I know you have some serious power.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    I don't know if there's one single thing that helps get women more than premium.


    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    You have no idea how proud I am.


    cee134 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

    Having premium helps too.

    cap-whateverhisnameis would be so proud

    Caporegiem

    In The Godfather, Don Vito Corleone and Consigliori Tom Hagen is the highest, and after them comes the family's two caporegimes, Clemenza and Tessio.

    And now everyone knows I typo'd my name. @4legsRbetterthan2 can you abuse your power and fix that for me?

    you will have to appeal to a staff member, thats beyond my paygrade

    Can't use that excuse on me, you let the cat out of the bag that you're paid with premium so I know you have some serious power.

    if I had a godfather, he would have gotten killed long ago
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Not every woman will find you attractive. Staying in shape, good hygiene, and grooming are important along with a good personality. Also, some women may find you attractive but you may not find them attractive

    Now you tell me

    Don't listen, its all lies :smiley:
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Ignore women and they'll perk right up. They'll clamor to crack your code.

    This could not be more perfectly written :sweat_smile:
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Ignore women and they'll perk right up. They'll clamor to crack your code.

    Huh? Did you say something? I wasn't paying attention.

    Get ready for the Spanish Inquisition
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Ignore women and they'll perk right up. They'll clamor to crack your code.

    Huh? Did you say something? I wasn't paying attention.

    Oh my, I will have to learn to spell his name now!

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  • ArmyMedic23PFA
    ArmyMedic23PFA Posts: 726 Member
    Have a nice British accent !!
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Ignore women and they'll perk right up. They'll clamor to crack your code.

    This could not be more perfectly written :sweat_smile:

    He does know exactly what's going on

    You’re terrible :lol:
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Ignore women and they'll perk right up. They'll clamor to crack your code.

    Huh? Did you say something? I wasn't paying attention.

    Oh my, I will have to learn to spell his name now!

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    I'd get it tattooed on your arm if I were you, you can post it in the ink thread for bonus points!
  • RunStart34
    RunStart34 Posts: 164 Member
    jgnatca wrote: »
    I see a trend with questions like this. Some guys, if they've been single for a while, tend to see women as a clump; all the same. If he could just find the mysterious formula to get the clump to notice him, all would be copacetic.

    Nothing is as off-putting as to be perceived as any old woman. A clump. A mosquito in a swarm. Just one sheep in a fluffy heap.

    Just like men, all women are unique with different interests, passions and dreams. I would suggest showing interest in one woman at a time and find out what interests her. If she's not on your wavelength, be a gentleman and move on. Eventually you will find an individual who clicks with you.

    Agree with this. The good thing about my two best friends is that we have never liked the same guy (even movie actors). Which means we look for totally different things in guys. But you have to know what kind of girl your going for. All three of us are independent women which means we want a confident and stable man not some weak punk or one with emotional issues (well 2 out of the 3 of us). However, if we want a short fling and one we wont take seriously then yes... sadly to say we go for the bad boys (which won't last long). but again different women want different things and can't be determined as one for all. Which is why guy's say we are complicated ;) .
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    The absolute most sure-fire way to get women to be attractive to you is to KNOW deep in your soul that you are attractive to women..It's like moths to a flame. It can't be faked. It's a type of magic...they can sense when its not for real and if you try to fake it, it has the opposite effect. (So, don't even try)...The vibe reverberates through the dark matter and even works over great distances......but here's the rub..If you have even the tiniest bit of self-doubt . Then it doesnt work..In that case, you have to fall back on other methods...like tattoos and harleys and "conversation"..
  • Diatonic12
    Diatonic12 Posts: 32,344 Member
    edited June 2018
    The perfect mix of common sense and brains. The ability to mill around, shoot the breeze and connect with others about something that doesn't have to do with muscles or mass or protein powder. Whatever you do, don't send any potential a belly selfie with only your belly button. There's body chemistry and that's the most powerful thing of all. Perfect your eye contact. Not creepy or staring or intense. There's some on here who have it mastered, I mean if flat out comes out in their small photo. It hits you like a brick right through the screen. They have just got that 'it' factor and you instantly know that they're not going to blather and foam at the mouth about their muscles. Connection is everything.