Mfp crushes...
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Motorsheen wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »MistressSara wrote: »If I like a man enough to cultivate a friendship, I also make a point of getting to know his woman. If he’s that cool, she usually is too.
Regarding crushes, mfp and otherwise, There’s something about the annoying way I express myself that seems to inhibit the kind of friendship that leads to crushes.
Just do what I do: Friendzone them immediately. :laugh:
Damn!
Hey now... It eliminates any kind of confusion of "Are they flirting with me, or are they always this nice to people?"
I wonder if people would be floored knowing that single people of the opposite sex can sit and enjoy a meal together and talk for hours without hitting up the hotel next door
Ah yes.....over simplistic logic. You vote for Trump?
Not over simplistic at all. We all have different experiences in life. My experiences show me that men can be amazing friends. It's too bad that other people have experienced other things with members of the opposite sex.
I agree. What I mean is, yes of course people understand that some people of the opposite sex can spend time together without having sex......just like it's as easy to believe some people cant. To think it's far reaching to think more will experience romantic or sexual feelings than not, would be ignoring more than just ones anecdotal experience.
This may differ depending on a million different things: age, where you were raised, how you were raised, where you live, what you do for a living, your own personality, your own morals, etc. Maybe the people I know (including myself) set the stage in a way that the other person knows not to make an attempt.
You all can do and believe whatever you want. I am going to be friends with whoever I want. If a man makes an unwanted advance I will let you all say "I told you so".
Totally missing my point from what I wrote on the first page. Unspoken feelings are still feelings. Most men are capable of being friends with women.....you don't have to hit on a woman, if you know it's not what they want, but still doesn't change what would happen if they said they did.
How do you know they are there if they are unspoken?
You don't. That's why you think it's possible to just be friends. A lot of men won't act on their feelings unless the woman makes it clear they should. I say men and women can be friends, just know the majority of them will sleep with you if you wanted.....
Well hell... I haven't had sex in a while. Who's game?
Haha i actually do agree with @bojack5 on this one. Theres always exceptions but i bet if you initiated with any of your guy friends 9 times out of 10 they woud.
9 times out of 10 a stranger on the side of the road would have sex with a willing woman too.
...... can you provide directions to this willing sex woman road?
I'll send you my coordinates
@Istrat115
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SpartanRunner1978 wrote: »covetthycarbs wrote: »
More like 25 minutesAvocado_AS5 wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »covetthycarbs wrote: »From what I see it appears that mfp crushes are good as long as the person with the crush is being crushed back by the right people and being given enough public attention and also as long as the people giving the crushee the possibly personal and public attention are also not giving other people too much public attention. Although when that happens it oftentimes leads to public attention of the private attentions between all parties and much public drama which should not be entertaining to the masses because some parties may or may not be single, and we all know it, but let’s face it, we still get our popcorn and watch the drama unfold.
Oh you must have been here before. 🤣 to be fair you only have to be here about 2 days to catch on to some of this
30 minutes in Fun and Games
Chit chat has been fun...I’m heading to fun and games!!!! ✌️
Joking!
You'll get ALL the crushes and blind dates there! Don't forget to fill that penicillin script beforehand! 😉2 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »In my personal experience, men and women cannot have a CLOSE platonic relationship. I've personally lost every single one of my good guy friends because they have wanted more, where I did not, they were all single btw. I would not maintain a super close friendship with a married man where we are spending time alone together if his wife was not present... there are lines of respect I would not cross... tee hee. I still find MOST women difficult to befriend, with their jealous, catty, judgy, gossipy attitudes... I just don't get that from most guys. I have met a few wonderful ladies this past year, however they are married with children and have busy lives and do more "couple things" with other couples... As a single woman, I just don't fit into that. Im totally cool with having friends to hang out with casually.
As far as MFP crushes go... Whatcha up to for the next 6 weeks?
Is my 6 weeks up already?!
Also, I agree with this. I don't think it's possible (under most circumstances) to maintain a platonic friendship without, in some way, wanting more. You may never ever give in to those desires, or even let on that they exist, but typically the attraction is there.
Your 6 weeks was up years ago... very few get a second round... besides, you havent send me nudes in weeks! I ain't gonna beg you know 1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »MistressSara wrote: »If I like a man enough to cultivate a friendship, I also make a point of getting to know his woman. If he’s that cool, she usually is too.
Regarding crushes, mfp and otherwise, There’s something about the annoying way I express myself that seems to inhibit the kind of friendship that leads to crushes.
Just do what I do: Friendzone them immediately. :laugh:
Damn!
Hey now... It eliminates any kind of confusion of "Are they flirting with me, or are they always this nice to people?"
I wonder if people would be floored knowing that single people of the opposite sex can sit and enjoy a meal together and talk for hours without hitting up the hotel next door
Ah yes.....over simplistic logic. You vote for Trump?
Not over simplistic at all. We all have different experiences in life. My experiences show me that men can be amazing friends. It's too bad that other people have experienced other things with members of the opposite sex.
I agree. What I mean is, yes of course people understand that some people of the opposite sex can spend time together without having sex......just like it's as easy to believe some people cant. To think it's far reaching to think more will experience romantic or sexual feelings than not, would be ignoring more than just ones anecdotal experience.
This may differ depending on a million different things: age, where you were raised, how you were raised, where you live, what you do for a living, your own personality, your own morals, etc. Maybe the people I know (including myself) set the stage in a way that the other person knows not to make an attempt.
You all can do and believe whatever you want. I am going to be friends with whoever I want. If a man makes an unwanted advance I will let you all say "I told you so".
Totally missing my point from what I wrote on the first page. Unspoken feelings are still feelings. Most men are capable of being friends with women.....you don't have to hit on a woman, if you know it's not what they want, but still doesn't change what would happen if they said they did.
How do you know they are there if they are unspoken?
You don't. That's why you think it's possible to just be friends. A lot of men won't act on their feelings unless the woman makes it clear they should. I say men and women can be friends, just know the majority of them will sleep with you if you wanted.....
Well hell... I haven't had sex in a while. Who's game?
Haha i actually do agree with @bojack5 on this one. Theres always exceptions but i bet if you initiated with any of your guy friends 9 times out of 10 they woud.
9 times out of 10 a stranger on the side of the road would have sex with a willing woman too.
...... can you provide directions to this willing sex woman road?
Hiiii 😘1 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »xFunctionalStrengthx wrote: »MistressSara wrote: »If I like a man enough to cultivate a friendship, I also make a point of getting to know his woman. If he’s that cool, she usually is too.
Regarding crushes, mfp and otherwise, There’s something about the annoying way I express myself that seems to inhibit the kind of friendship that leads to crushes.
Just do what I do: Friendzone them immediately. :laugh:
Damn!
Hey now... It eliminates any kind of confusion of "Are they flirting with me, or are they always this nice to people?"
I wonder if people would be floored knowing that single people of the opposite sex can sit and enjoy a meal together and talk for hours without hitting up the hotel next door
Ah yes.....over simplistic logic. You vote for Trump?
Not over simplistic at all. We all have different experiences in life. My experiences show me that men can be amazing friends. It's too bad that other people have experienced other things with members of the opposite sex.
I agree. What I mean is, yes of course people understand that some people of the opposite sex can spend time together without having sex......just like it's as easy to believe some people cant. To think it's far reaching to think more will experience romantic or sexual feelings than not, would be ignoring more than just ones anecdotal experience.
This may differ depending on a million different things: age, where you were raised, how you were raised, where you live, what you do for a living, your own personality, your own morals, etc. Maybe the people I know (including myself) set the stage in a way that the other person knows not to make an attempt.
You all can do and believe whatever you want. I am going to be friends with whoever I want. If a man makes an unwanted advance I will let you all say "I told you so".
Totally missing my point from what I wrote on the first page. Unspoken feelings are still feelings. Most men are capable of being friends with women.....you don't have to hit on a woman, if you know it's not what they want, but still doesn't change what would happen if they said they did.
How do you know they are there if they are unspoken?
You don't. That's why you think it's possible to just be friends. A lot of men won't act on their feelings unless the woman makes it clear they should. I say men and women can be friends, just know the majority of them will sleep with you if you wanted.....
Well hell... I haven't had sex in a while. Who's game?
Haha i actually do agree with @bojack5 on this one. Theres always exceptions but i bet if you initiated with any of your guy friends 9 times out of 10 they woud.
9 times out of 10 a stranger on the side of the road would have sex with a willing woman too.
...... can you provide directions to this willing sex woman road?
Hiiii 😘
Hahaha.... I knew I could count on you.
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Does it count if I crush on myself?4
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BEASTFIELD314 wrote: »Does it count if I crush on myself?
Sure does1 -
Excellent!0
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BEASTFIELD314 wrote: »Does it count if I crush on myself?
Yeah I think that's important. It's also contagious, the more you love you some you, the more others will too
I'm lovin me some Bojack....hope that catches on 6 -
Er’body come follow me so we can start crushing on each other! 🤣😂4
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JasonDee1989 wrote: »Er’body come follow me so we can start crushing on each other! 🤣😂
Where are we going?0 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »In my personal experience, men and women cannot have a CLOSE platonic relationship. I've personally lost every single one of my good guy friends because they have wanted more, where I did not, they were all single btw. I would not maintain a super close friendship with a married man where we are spending time alone together if his wife was not present... there are lines of respect I would not cross... tee hee. I still find MOST women difficult to befriend, with their jealous, catty, judgy, gossipy attitudes... I just don't get that from most guys. I have met a few wonderful ladies this past year, however they are married with children and have busy lives and do more "couple things" with other couples... As a single woman, I just don't fit into that. Im totally cool with having friends to hang out with casually.
As far as MFP crushes go... Whatcha up to for the next 6 weeks?
Is my 6 weeks up already?!
Also, I agree with this. I don't think it's possible (under most circumstances) to maintain a platonic friendship without, in some way, wanting more. You may never ever give in to those desires, or even let on that they exist, but typically the attraction is there.
Your 6 weeks was up years ago... very few get a second round... besides, you havent send me nudes in weeks! I ain't gonna beg you know
You always beg 0 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »deweese7717 wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Another question...are these crushes really more just validation? And then shouldnt we find it in ourselves?
Yaaaaassssss!!!!!!!!! Indeed
Haha, heeey you. Where you been? I validate you
You're the best. Thank you.0 -
I call it a squish (ace here) got a few people on my friends who are nailing this fitness/weightloss stuff and god do I admire them! 0
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Sure, it might/could happen.
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BEASTFIELD314 wrote: »Does it count if I crush on myself?
Absolutely! The safest and most valuable crush you'll ever have
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Well, that is the longest finger when talking about self-love, so.....wise choice.2 -
I crush doh. A few. Here’n thar. I don’t never mentionz dem doh.5
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So many off mfp dating back to 2015/2016/2017 that I still crush on 😍 they know who they are ❤❤❤1
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This thread seems ANCIENT now!2
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RhiAnLewis17 wrote: »
Please. I fall in LURVE on here daily. Sent my junk out so many times I ought to work for Waste Management.4 -
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OmwJasonDee1989 wrote: »Er’body come follow me so we can start crushing on each other! 🤣😂Zoejohnse91 wrote: »I call it a squish (ace here) got a few people on my friends who are nailing this fitness/weightloss stuff and god do I admire them!
@kinetixtrainer2 hey aren’t you ace?0 -
RhiAnLewis17 wrote: »
Please. I fall in LURVE on here daily. Sent my junk out so many times I ought to work for Waste Management.
Somebody'd woo'd the very idea of my junk. Whoever you are? I like your style.0 -
RhiAnLewis17 wrote: »
Please. I fall in LURVE on here daily. Sent my junk out so many times I ought to work for Waste Management.
Somebody'd woo'd the very idea of my junk. Whoever you are? I like your style.
They woo’d your wood.1 -
kindalikevelma wrote: »RhiAnLewis17 wrote: »
Please. I fall in LURVE on here daily. Sent my junk out so many times I ought to work for Waste Management.
Somebody'd woo'd the very idea of my junk. Whoever you are? I like your style.
They woo’d your wood.
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