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The Sober Squad- Alcohol Free Living
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Kimberleyb81 wrote: »Loved that i found this post... been alcohol free for 150 days today ! Found it so hard as drunk (heavy) every single day ... ive been seeing a counsellor and im actually seeing life without alcohol more clearer ... my brain still has its mishaps thinking i can handle just one drink... but im a all or nothing .. so all my energy is going into my calorie counting and controlling life in another direction !
Me, too. One leads to ten...3 -
Hi Guys, I hope everyone is well. I have decided to make an appointment with a dietitian to come up with a plan to get rid of my extra weight and bring down my cholesterol. In preparation for our meeting, she asked me to keep a food diary. Well that alone is motivating me to eat well and not drink. However, I DID have wine yesterday on Valentine's Day...was not worth it as usual....crazy pounding heart in the middle of the night, dry mouth etc. It's such a terrible habit and addiction really. I'm so proud and envious of those of you that have really kicked alcohol's butt for good. I'm still struggling with it but I really hope having to be accountable to someone else (the dietitian) will help.
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RubyRed427 wrote: »Hi Friends, I am checking in to say hello. I love reading your honest posts. I bought a house on Valentine's Day. It's a cute little ranch, and I am excited. I will be living next door to one of my cousins. That's a big coincidence. I saw the house on Zillow but didn't know it was next door to him. Anyway, you probably remember many of my cousins are good people but alcoholics like me.
My sister called to congratulate me. She did offer a piece of advice, because she lives on the next street. She said when she moved into her home, my cousin would walk over and want to chat and have some beer. She said to be aware of that. I said well since my house rules will be and are currently "no alcohol stored in my home", he won't be having a beer at my house.
I also reflected how I used to do the same thing. I knew my friend, a fellow wino, would drink in the evenings. And I would go for a walk and on my way back, I would stop by to say hello. All with the intentions of having some wine and yes, conversation. But people like me do that. Always have alcohol on the brain- searching for a fix.
Congratulations!!3 -
Congratulations on all the hard work here! Me, too!3
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Good morning friends! @whitpauly starts and stops seem more difficult than just cutting the *kitten* out of your life. I'm proud of you!!!3
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It's sunny but cold today. I woke up feeling pretty good. It's funny how an evening after a stressful day can be so dark and despairing but when the morning comes, things look much better.
I also watched a pretty good movie on Hulu called Ma Ma with Penelope Cruz; it was a reminder to me that I have been seeing the glass half empty instead of counting my blessings. Today I will be sure to stop that "stinkin thinkin" and change my attitude. Love you all! @salleewins You are doing so well!! @JenT304 Very scary article about liver disease.5 -
2 deaths in the past week. Then a backstabbing person who was labeled "friend". - I was hoping to wake after my 3 hours of sleep more positive.
Not today but still sober. So counting the blessings.
Congrats @whitpauly. Im happy for you as well. We all know how hard it can be.
@RubyRed427 maybe I should watch that movie.7 -
@NArunner Welcome and congrats on Day 6!! Just noticed the disagree on your post and am fairly certain someone meant to hit "hug" and accidently hit "disagree" ... in case you care LOL3
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Hi Guys! I’m doing well and following posts every day. Just hard to post with the limited access in juvie lockup but LOVE my job and hanging in there with sobriety with just a few minor lapses. Ruby, I’m so happy for your house purchase. I’ve only purchased houses with husbands but have always thought it must be a good feeling to buy a big girl house on your own. Love to all in here. Xo.5
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Good morning all. I'm trying to persuade myself to post more on forums and make some connection with others who understand (connection being the antidote to addiction apparently!) Had a small drink at bedtime on Friday night, which was harmless but utterly useless... As in, it did nothing other than break my sober streak. So I'm now day #2. I really have to stop these little lapses. Hope all are staying encouraged 🤗5
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Good morning all. I'm trying to persuade myself to post more on forums and make some connection with others who understand (connection being the antidote to addiction apparently!) Had a small drink at bedtime on Friday night, which was harmless but utterly useless... As in, it did nothing other than break my sober streak. So I'm now day #2. I really have to stop these little lapses. Hope all are staying encouraged 🤗
Heck I've gone on full blown drunken nights that were absolutely NOT worth it,not fun and only made me sick and broke my streak 😭 at least yours was just a tiny drink which I'm sure you only took to try and sleep,Ruby congrats on the house! That's really cool 👍 6:23 am in Vegas another 24, everyone have a fabulous AF day 💗5 -
Good night friends, boy did I slip up last night. It was the perfect storm leading up to a binge.
One thing I have to get into my head is pick your friends wisely. I now can see how it will be a hard climb towards sobriety, if I still hang out with heavy drinkers. I always knew that but wanted to write it down here. So, I got on my phone this morning and canceled dinner dates with two friends who drink a lot! I Told them white lies and canceled. I have to protect my deepest desire to be sober. I found a very good article tonight. Thought I'd share it. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/jun/24/alcoholism-continues-after-stop-drinking-15-years-sober-tanya-gold
@aroze0928 Sending you a big hug. Tough times.
@whitpauly not worth it at all
@donimfp I'm happy you are enjoying your job despite its difficulty. You are saving these children in so many ways.
@lorrainequiche59 You are a great motivator. xo
@NArunner Absolutely, addiction is too tricky and cunning to solve alone. We need each other. On this thread, we totally understand how you are feeling.9 -
Ruby, thanks for your honesty. I read the article you linked. Interesting. I could relate to “the voice” that told me since I was little “Everyone thinks you’re so special but it will never be enough “. I wonder how many of us have had that “You should just drink” voice since before we even knew what drinking was.
We now have 4 juveniles with us in for capital murder. They seem like the nicest boys ever. They don’t even remember what they did. They will be tried as adults and likely never leave prison yet they work on their math and English daily and are polite and eager to please and drink up praise like we all do.
One thing I can be grateful for about my own struggle is that I am able to have compassion for such misguided but ultimately good souls.
On a much lighter note, for me one of the greatest things about sobriety is waking up clear-headed and ready for a new day. I’ve been loving that lately. And this sounds so corny but when she was tiny and I asked my granddaughter what she did that day she’d say “snuggle with Mommy “. Now when I happen to wake up in the night not feeling panicked or dry-mouthed I just smile to myself and think I’m snuggling with God. I go right back to sleep.
Sorry for the long post. I’m just grateful. Can’t claim long and continuous sobriety yet but enough to understand the benefits. Best wishes to all.10 -
My last drink was rum an egg nog on Christmas, of 2019, but before that i wasn't drinking. Until my brother in laws birthday party. I had one I.P.A. on sept 25 2019 MMMM. I LOVE IPA. The hardest thing. Is that dating factor. Most of these single women enjoy whiskey an beer. An you cant forget the wine. I used to finish 6 packs, because i was thirsty, not knowing that i was putting on 5 to 15 pounds, from drinking, so much. Ok more like 20 pounds.2
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6:37 am in Vegas another 24 💖 @RubyRed we used to have Soooooo many friends, I mean our house was hopping with people coming over, now none! 0 "friends" after the drinking stopped so did our social lives but I really don't care I see people all day cutting hair and chatting so I'm pretty much chatted out when I'm off anyways 😆 hope everyone has a wonderful AF day!6
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Hi Everyone! So at long last I met with the dietitian. I was so excited to finally get started on my eating and wellness goals. She wrote "NO alcohol"! across the top of my paper and it is on the fridge along with the healthy snack ideas and other tips she shared. She also wrote, "get excited about the changes that will come. This will be a joyful time for yourself!" I almost burst into tears of gratitude. She gave me a plan I can live with and I liked her so much I just want to please her like a puppy does her master. She weighed me but I go back in 2 weeks to see the progress I have made. I've decided I am going to be brutally honest and accountable to her so that means sticking to what she has told me to do. Another important part of wellness is, as we all know, exercise. She said, "put exercise on your calendar just as you would a dentist appointment and do it. You would not cancel the dentist or dr or whomever. Make it as important as that." That really resonated with me. So I dutifully wrote down the times that I have chosen to exercise..and by that I mean walking, nothing crazy yet, for 30 minutes, 4 days a week, to start. That means if someone calls me to go out to breakfast I will say, "Oh I have an appointment from 830 to 915 but can meet you at 10." I must make it as much as a habit as brushing my teeth. It is vital to our health.
Sorry this so long, I guess I am just excited. Love ya''ll! Jen11 -
Good afternoon everyone! I am back on MFP after a hiatus but what's new this time is I am getting sober. I am 7 days sober today and 7 days into my new lifestyle of healthy choices.
A little about me. I am 38 years old, no children except a fur baby kitty. I live in Cleveland Ohio. I am a big sports fan, reality TV junkie and aspiring runner. I need to find my identity a little without alcohol. I was off work for 6 months and started drinking earlier and earlier in the day to the point I was drinking 4 or more bottles of wine a day. After 7 days I can say I feel wonderful but I know the cravings will come. I hope I can find ways to cope and get through successfully. Hopefully you will welcome me to your lovely group12 -
@KristenNagle1 Welcome! We are happy to have you. 7 days sober is excellent! We are a supportive, non judgmental group. Some have better luck with complete sobriety than others, but we never stop trying. Many of us have tried for years to be moderate drinkers but most of us realize we can't. We will support you in anyway we can.6
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