WOMEN AGES 50 + FOR JANUARY 2019
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Rori, Happy Anniversary. At least you can acknowledge the years of your marriage even if your husband can't. You daily care of him is a tribute to your marriage.Michele, congrats on finding a car you like at a price you like.
Barbie 2 -
We’re in Minnesota. This is Shep after we left him with my daughter and two playmates!!
Mary from Arizona is11 -
My day with no appointments feels weird. I feel like I'm missing something and whatever will I do with my lunch hour?
Oh well, I make up for it next week.
Machka in Oz
So ... left to my own devices at lunch today ... I went out and bought shoes.
I was looking for a shelf.
Well shoes and shelf start with the same letters.
Machka in Oz
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Hi Gals,
Cari – these were interesting …
What tiny object is most precious to you? The opal ring my Dad gave me the only gift he picked out by himself for me.
When you've had a tough day, what makes you feel better? A cuddle with Levi; a conversation with a friend
What would you like to celebrate? 10 more pounds off
What's your biggest wish in life? A significant other
Barbie – great news for Jake!!!
So the weather outside is frightful…. But it’s California so it is all relative! It’s raining and very windy, gusts to 40 mph, and it has been raining steadily since noon (it’s 8:30pm now) we had the power go out for about 2 minutes, but that’s all. Glad to be inside. Days like these make me think of the homeless population and feel sad for them, and so grateful that I have a roof over my head and clothes to change to when mine are wet.
Day 2 of back logging every bite ! baby steps.
Kim from N. California
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Children!!! Now I know my thyroid and mast cell problems keep me cooler than the rest of the bunch, (unless I’m reacting to something) but I was freezing a bit ago so I go to check the thermostat and what do I find? My daughter has the air conditioner on at 65°F and it’s pretty cold outside. Just the last straw in a bunch of nonsense tonight. Argghh! Guess I’ll just watch something and settle down so I can go to bed. And my husband just woke up, and he’s gathering up the garbage cans for the trash in the morning—it’s midnight! It’s not what we had for dinner, we had different things. 😜3
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Kelly - I loved your poem.
Machka - I think buying shoes was a great way to spend your lunch! I also wish for you that you win the lottery. What a life that would be!
Rori - My heart breaks thinking of your husband having Dementia. My Mom has Alzheimer's, last year was the first time in my life my Mom didn't wish me a Happy Birthday. It was hard to handle.
Michele - we don't have an AC Moore here in Canada. I have heard about them though and truly wish we did. The problem is Michael's has very little competition here so they don't go out of their way to help anyone.
I am going out with my daughter and granddaughter in the morning so am checking in tonight. Our car is not starting 100% of the time. I have a lot of running around to do tomorrow so am going to be driven around rather than risk getting stranded somewhere.
Ok, I'm out have a good night everyone.
Tracey in a snowy Edmonton2 -
Wasn't feeling too well yesterday, so had a lazyish day. I had to go out to get my dad his papers but left my fitbit charging at home,
It didn't matter too much though because my step count was very low anyway.
Feeling a little better today, but as I didn't eat much yesterday, I'm hoping it will reflect on the scales today - I can but hope.
Michele I'm the same, as soon as I get rid of anything, the space is soon filled with something else
Pip lovely photo.
Barbara, I must admit it was easier to help mum declutter her house than doing it to mine. I was quite hard on her, when she said she wanted to keep something I asked her if she was going to use it or did she really really want it, if not I put it in either the trash or donate bag. (Now if only I could apply the same rules to myself
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Loved all the photo's of the dogs they are so cute, as for the story about the person that left their collie dog to die, because they couldn't get to it, I don't think I could have done that, glad the dog managed to get itself home though, some dogs are very resourceful. Viv UK
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My day with no appointments feels weird. I feel like I'm missing something and whatever will I do with my lunch hour?
Oh well, I make up for it next week.
Machka in Oz
So ... left to my own devices at lunch today ... I went out and bought shoes.
I was looking for a shelf.
Well shoes and shelf start with the same letters.
Machka in Oz
I bought these ... I've had my eye on them for a while, but they're now on sale.
I'm fussy about my summer work footwear. I don't like open-toed shoes -- I'll wear them for casual use, but I don't like them for work. The toe area has to cover the joint that attaches my big toe to my foot because that joint has arthritis and the least bit of pressure is really painful. And if the shoe has a back to it, rather than a strap, it has to have a heel to ensure the back doesn't put any pressure on the back of my foot, or the back of the shoe needs to be really soft and flexible.
My feet are "triangular" (I just recently found out that's a description for feet -- I thought all feet were triangular!!) so that my heels are super narrow and the fronts are slightly narrow, but widening because of the arthritis. They're also bony and vein-y, with no fat on them for any protection. And I have teensy-tiny ankles. So about 90% of shoe styles will ... well, basically ... rub me the wrong way. I end up with all sorts of sores and blisters.
So most sandals and all ballet flats, all of which are hugely popular here, are out. So are high heels. So are any that are excessively strappy. So are any that are too wide or have a band around the ankle that can't be adjusted tightly.
It is extremely rare that I can find a pair of shoes that meets my criteria.
So, long story short ..... I was excited when I saw these!! And especially when they went on sale.
They also come in red, and I might go back and get them.
https://www.rivers.com.au/shop/riversoft-mary-jane/p/109699_BLACK
Machka in Oz8 -
What tiny object is most precious to me?
I have a crochet hook given to me by my grandmother when she taught me to crochet when I was a small child. She crocheted lace, and I used to watch her for hours. I thought I had lost it a few years ago and was surprised at how devastated I felt, and how relieved I was when it turned up. My daughter bought me loads of beautiful fine cotton threads a couple of Christmases ago, and I have been putting it to good use.
When I've had a tough day? I walk it off, or put on loud rock music and dance my socks off! 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
What would I like to celebrate? A long happy, fit and healthy life, and a telegram from King William when I pass 100.
What's my biggest wish in life? That the fatheads in this world will see sense and finally start running things for the good of all people, instead of for their own aggrandisement. (Not holding my breathe for that one!)
This morning we're off to our dance class, so must dash and get ready. It's run by the lifelong charity that I volunteer for. We learn a mixture of ballroom, latin, and modern dance.3 -
Rebecca WOW that is some beautiful embroidery!
pip love the pics of pooch, you and kirby, but mostly of you and your family.
Sue in WA how long do you have to wait for the MRI and its results?
Irish Terry, Katla and Barbie
your advice to Iamauntbeth
Pip "boot" and Beth "so far away: :bigsmile: :laugh:
Cari Brava for finishing those projects, but most especially for deciding to wear your bike helmet EVERY time you ride.
Barbie "the woman who reinvented her life" Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us! Hooray for Jake's good news!
KJ "dragons love tacos"? Wow, who'd've thunk it? your poem.
Carol in my dreams I can sometimes "swim through the air" but it's usually an escape from danger rather than a liberating feeling.
Betsy "paragliding" W O W !
Rori belated best birthday wishes and happy anniversary. (((hugs)))
Mary Shep!
Machka absolutely run back and get the red pair too!
Viv had the same thoughts about the dog. It must have been a truly inaccessible spot but what a heartbreaker.
Me, I'd beg the search and rescue people, even tell them it was my child down there.
Kim we're getting some of your wind and rain. Cancelled dog group today and would stay in tomorrow if not for annual physical. Hope it calms before line dance time.
Welcome iamauntbeth in Bardstown, SweetPie!
Missing janetr, Terri and of course Rye and Wendy and Joyce.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD.
walk one more step 16/31, 60 g protein 15/31, rx/vits 15/31, meditate 15/31, knee exercises 15/31, SWSY UP 4/9, SWSY LOW 4/9, core 4/9, play with Tumble 5/31, hang up or purge art 0/4 AF 11/31.
01/15 LT:https://www.livelongerfeelbetter.com/ or RealSkinnyonFat-N MT:Transfer birthdates, appointments and rx to new calendar B: Woodland Mgt notebook/declutter keyboard-N ST: guest prep (vac'n'veggies)-Y
01/16 LT: RealSkinnyonFat-Y MT:Transfer birthdates, appointments and rx to new calendar B: Woodland Mgt notebook/declutter keyboard-N ST: plants to Denise-Y
Word for 2019: "GOOD" good attitude, good food, good times, good choices, good enough, feel good, GOOD!
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Had an awful night. Think I'm coming down with DH's cold. He is poleaxed by it.
I managed to do 400 calories on the machines and I am going to my dance class, even if I have to sit some of it out. Don't want to lose my place.
Speak later, Heather UK xxxxxxx6 -
KYLIA,Wonderfic pic,thanks for sharing. I would be scared of all the attachments,but your DD prob felt she is right where she needs to be! Thrilled for the good news.Hi Ladies, I am only on page 27 reading but
Aubrey got exubated today!!!! She is breathing on her own for the first time since an hour after her birth! This is the first time Paige has gotten to hold her.
Had to share! Paige says they still have a long way to go, but it was awesome to hear little baby cries. Eric was there too. Prayers still going, but what a glorious day!
Kylia OH
Pat in Oh
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Morning, afternoon and evening, all...
Back from my two-day retreat - it was kind of amazing. Such a different atmosphere from my last council. Hope and joy and plans for the future instead of people in small groups talking about other people in small groups. Some emotional outbursts during the discussions on diversity and inclusion, but handled with much love and many hugs. One of the best definitions of diversity vs. inclusion I've heard - diversity is being invited to the party, inclusion is being asked to dance.
Also got a LOT of doors flung wide open for me by the CEO, and quite a bit of information I've been needing but haven't had a spare moment to breathe and look for. It feels like when the starship Enterprise is putt-putting along at impulse power, and somebody hits the warp drive button, for my Trekkies.
I feel like somebody hit my warp button, so lots to do.
Weight stayed the same, and considering it was a lot of sitting, with lots of stairs in between, am aching, but not gaining weight is a good thing.
Love the questions;
What tiny object is most precious to you? Found my wedding earrings, now ten years old, rough-cut emerald drop earrings in silver settings, and was so pleased to finally find them again, so that will do. Don't place much emphasis on things anymore.
When you've had a tough day, what makes you feel better? Time with Corey, and just time at home.
What would you like to celebrate? Every day that those I love remain on this earth.
What's your biggest wish in life? More time, I guess. Time to make the things I love to make, as well as to do the job that I love, as right now, I can only do one of them well, and the job comes first.
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
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HOLY MELTDOWNS BATMAN!
Last night went...well. For the most part. The two new boys arrived at 4:45 and got busy playing (loudly) with Trentin in the living room. At 4:45, I usually have two dayshift daycare families still with me. So those boys got into that frenetic energy and were really wired when their moms arrived to pick them up. They didn't want to leave. lol I made the kids hotdogs, steak fries, and apples for dinner and the youngest one went absolutely insane. Full on screaming, running, hitting himself meltdown when I ASKED him if he wanted some dinner. He wouldn't even come and see what was on his plate. He calmed down after we ignored him (but the meltdown lasted about 20 minutes). After dinner the boys did their homework (about 30 minutes worth) then we went out for a flashlight hike to the beach. The lake hasn't frozen at all, so far this winter, so we could still hear and see the waves coming in. The boys had a great time playing and walking; even little meltdown man. Then we got back to my house and I announced that it was time to pick up toys and watch a movie. The youngest asked if he could pick the movie and I said "Yes, but you need to help pick up toys, first." Cue second enormous meltdown. Needless to say he did not help pick up toys, Trentin got picked up right as clean up time began, so the older brother ended up picking everything up with a little help from me. By this time the meltdown was calming down (of course). So, I turned to older brother and said "Julian, thank you for cleaning up. What movie would you like to watch?" Guess who lost his mind?! lol
I was not sure if this is just a little boy that has been home with his mama too much or a 'special needs" situation. I was thinking maybe a little of both. Older brother said it happens at home, too; so at least then I knew it wasn't just me. That child cried, screamed and carried on for about half of the movie his brother picked. I was able to get him calmed down each time as I held him in my lap, rocked him and rubbed his arm. (calmed down means the crying and muttering continues, but the decibel level is much lower). SO...when their mom arrived at 10:30 to pick them up, I told her everything went well, but that we had a couple of meltdowns. And I said, "Tell me what is going on with Jonah." So she briefly filled me in that he is being tested for autism. He has been to four different preschools. She told me that Julian (older brother) is the only one that can calm Jonah down and Julian chimed in "Not anymore, mom. Miss Kelly got him calm." Well, all I can say is THANK GOD for all of my special needs and autism spectrum trainings! I will have them again Friday and Saturday (the restaurant she works in is closed on Sundays, so for now, I will have every other Sunday off). This kid is going to drive Tim crazy and I am sure he will retreat to his office when the meltdowns start. AND as bratty as the boy sounds, when he is not melting down he is really a very smart, articulate and sweet little five year old. I will admit I had to take deep breaths as I held him and rocked him while he was screeching and (literally) trying to pull his hair out. BUT it is truly heartbreaking to hear a five year old say, "My mom hates me! You hate me! I'm bad!" I can just imagine that his brain is telling him these lies and he is in a place where he believes them. As much as I think that this is not the job for me, I think everything and every one is put where they are for a reason. Maybe these little ADD/ADHD/Autistic/Special Needs kids that are crossing my path are meant to be here, and I am meant to be here for them. The rest of the kids (the easy ones) are the frosting. *sigh Just as long as I have plenty of frosting, I am good. Here is a picture of the boys as we began our hike.
And my venting has left me out of time to respond to others. Sorry! I will catch up with everyone later today. ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)
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Morning!
Lisa It's exciting to hear about your retreat...and refreshing that it was so valuable. One of my pet peeves is get-togethers that are useless. This one sounds just the opposite.
Heather Sorry you're under the weather. (((gentle hug and cup of tea)))
IrishTerri You would make a good lawmaker. If you ran for office, you might replace one of those fatheads...
Kim Your biggest wish in life breaks my heart a little.
Kelly OMG. Yes. Little Meltdown Man sounds as if he is autistic. Do you have a weighted blanket by any chance? Bless you for even considering taking him on. And I'm sorry, but shame on Mom for not giving you a heads up! If he was diabetic she wouldn't have left you uninformed. And don't blame yourself if you decide you can't take care of him...he sounds like a full time job all by himself.
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Yesterday grandson was very resistant and unfocused during Math live class. When we got to the exit ticket he was one of the last students to figure out the exit problem, and I had to help him...because he didn't attend to the teacher during class...so guess what? Today we will spend the entire morning reviewing percent increase, percent decrease, discounts, tax & tip, simple interest, auto loans, monthly payments, down payments, and the concepts of compound interest & amortization (though not the complicated math - just the concept). Mean Grammy. He says I abuse his mind.
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Karen in Virginia doing her imitation of a Mean Grammy this morning7 -
Ladies need a bit of advice, thinking of trying veg juicing but don't want to buy special equipment in case I don't like it. I do have a food processor with some sort of juicing attachment but not sure if that's suitable. Any advice would be great.
Kate UK 1 -
Kate Never have done juicing but will be interested to follow this as it unfolds.0
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Last night went...well. For the most part. The two new boys arrived at 4:45 and got busy playing (loudly) with Trentin in the living room. At 4:45, I usually have two dayshift daycare families still with me. ... SO...when their mom arrived at 10:30 to pick them up
How long do you have kids there each day?
If it is more than 8 hours, you're amazing!!
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Kelly ... OMG! You are a saint! I was a nanny for several years to 3 brothers who joined my two sons. I would get frustrated with just normal testosterone behavior. You are amazing. And forgive me, I laughed out loud at your telling of the evening. Yes, I believe that there's a reason these tough ones are crossing your path. But if you can't take on one who disrupts the rest, there's no failure in that.
VAKaren... "You abuse his mind!" LOLOL!! I do understand why the mom didn't share that her son might be autistic. By now, she has probably been getting boatloads of rejection when it comes to her son. I'm guessing she was hoping (probably from hearing Kelly's reputation as a fantastic caregiver) that Kelly would handle it.
Busy day today and need to run. Multiple meetings taking place as we finally get ready to move my older son back into his place that has now been "certified" by the State. Nothing much will really change except he doesn't quite have the same amount of autonomy that he had before. That's probably a good thing in my opinion.
Have a good day!
Beth near Buffalo5 -
Karen in VA ~ I think I need to attend your GS's class on percentages, interest, etc. It's beyond me...
Kelly ~ I don't know how you keep your sanity with so many long hours. Praying for a miracle for you and your family so you can cut down on all the work you are doing. You deserve some "me" time and I know you are not getting much if any.
(((Kim)))
Tiniest Thing: New born babes....whether they be human or from the animal family.
Biggest Wish: The ability to move/walk without pain and being out of breath. And, a resurgence of the energy I once had to get things done.
Carol in GA
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