WOMEN AGES 50 + FOR JANUARY 2019
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Machka, I hope you find that you have not fractured your hip. I’m hoping you will be able to move comfortably without pain and heal quickly. ❤️😘2
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Machka~Oh dear I sure hope it is not a broken hip.. you are such a busy and healthy person that something like this that would sideline you would be difficult..I slept real well last night and think it was the lavender chamomile tea.. will have to do that more often..
working today from 10-5 and will do my usual routine this morning..2 -
Machka, dear heart, I hope she is wrong! I had a collar bone that was broken dismissed as merely bruised, and dealt with that aftermath, because no X-ray was done. Hopefully she is overblowing the issue. You could use a break (and I don't mean a bone, but a respite) from bad news.
Good news on my side--next week Tuesday, I'll be first surgery of the day, at 7 a.m., which is always a good thing, fewer delays and a rested surgeon (one hopes). My husband, the workaholic, has decided to take the two days off with me and be there for me in the hospital--I'm mildly stunned about that. He's not really that guy, he shows his love in different ways than personal care, and it's nice to see him do this with no pressure from me, not even subtle pressure. And... the driving restriction is only for two weeks, when I expected it to be more like four to six weeks.
Unfortunately, my nickname for the physical therapist is in charge is "Old Yeller." She was four feet from me and yelling throughout the pre-op education class. Fairly sure she's not the in-home PT person, which is a good thing. Not fond of people who yell at me.
Corey built a fire for me before he left, as today is our most bitter cold day, and it's lovely. Going to go do my pre-op exercises in front of it.
Love y'all!
Lisa in AR4 -
Today and tomorrow bitterly cold have to make sure the pipes dont freeze I dont have any on outside walls so I'm safe but darn it will have to turn up the heat...I can see the dollar signs whirling..oh well...
Lisa will keep you in my prayers for a safe and successful surgery... going to go heat up the car.
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Hello ladies!
Machka- I hope it isn't fractured! Prayers! I agree that you need some good news! Take care in the fires. Hugs!
Rebecca- Great job! I am down 2.9 lbs for January! I weigh in on Wednesdays. Considering I ate out last night, I was really excited that scale only moved .1 this morning!
Lisa- Great news on surgery. I always like to be close to first also! The exercises are important in recovery, but you already know that!
Walking around house this morning to get jump start on day. Have had to stop three times to pull hair from under my sweatshirt! It was tickling my belly!
Had a hard time getting my pyrenees to come back inside this morning! Can't get shepherd to even go outside! 0*
Feels like -21. Brrrr!
Whether it is fire, heat, ice, or cold, please stay safe today and hydrate!
Oh, several ladies have stated that they feel people don't notice posts or stats....I want to say. ....that I read them all and give thoughts to everyone. I may not comment on everyone as I am usually walking, but know you are read and loved!
Hugs! Congratulations! Prayers! Keep chatting away! Your insights, challenges, Laughter, and ideas continue to encourage and inspire me!
Kylia in polar vortex Ohio
Ps-Penny is probably laughing at me whining about the cold!3 -
Brrrr....It is c-c-c-cold outside! I got the driveway shoveled in two parts. I was out for 20 minutes (extra extra layers) and still had to come in and warm up before I headed back out for another 20 minutes. Alas...my a** is still there. BUT according the weather it is a frigid -8 here and the wind is blowing at a steady 30mph, putting the windchill right around -38/-41. A lot of the local businesses and municipalities have closed for the day. Alas, I do have a couple of kids that have to be here, because their parents HAVE to be at work. I wish Michigan would pass a law that businesses that are non-essential HAVE to close when a state of emergency is declared (Mi declared SOE yesterday around 10am through midnight tonight). Silly to risk your life driving because you might lose your job if you don't go in. Makes me angry.
Let's see...about my MIL. Yes, we finally got her safely moved into a beautiful assisted living center. She is in the "memory unit" of the center. She has her own "apartment" that is basically a 20x20 room with bed, room for dresser and a couple of recliners, tv, closet, sink, mini fridge, cupboards and bathroom. She is able to bring in her own furniture, artwork, etc. We had it all set up for her by the time she moved in. She picked out what she wanted to bring with her. As of right now, she is happy and content to be there and seems at peace with the idea. The center is set up like a little "village" and within one building there are seven restaurants, a grocery store, a gift shop, a clothing shop, a movie theater, an art room, mechanical shop room, exercise room, chapel... She is wears a tracker for the memory unit, and is allowed to move about the entire place. Their bracelet "tracker" helps the staff keep track of them and they can also be scanned if they want to purchase anything.
Machka- I am glad you are getting an MRI to get your hip checked out. Did you fall? Curious as to why she thinks you have fractured it. I would have bet any amount of money it was a nerve/muscle issue. Either way, rest up! Sending hugs!
Heather- So sorry you are still battling the ick! Hope you feel better soon.
Kylia, Lisa, and Rori- I know I have given my take on Girl Scouts v Boy Scouts before, BUT; I think a child's experience in either organization will depend on the leader that they have and the work/interest the child puts into it. I think Girl Scouts offers the same experiences as the Boy Scouts, but each troop does things according to their leader's comfort zone. If you want more than your troop is offering; check with your council, region, and GSUSA. Lots and lots of opportunities to take advantage of. Both my son and my daughter were in scouts. Because I was my daughter's girl scout leader, my youngest son was with me at all of our meetings and a majority of our events. When it was time for him to be able to join Boy Scouts as a Tiger Cub, he was not happy with the way the meetings went and the activities. He lasted a year with them and told me, "I like Girl Scouts better." lol The entire time I was a GS leader it was "inclusive". It was made known to us that it was okay for a boy to join our troop. We never had any boys ask to join our troop, though. AND there is much to be said for the separation of the sexes. By the time the girls in my troop were in high school (our troop went from 24 girls in elementary, down to five in high school), our meetings were biweekly and then a monthly sleep over at our local GS house. The girls belonged to different social/peer groups in school; but they came together once a month and they knew they were in a place where they wouldn't be judged. A safe place where they could talk about anything. Even their peer groups at school and the pressures they felt. I am not sure they could have had that "safe" place with a boy in our troop. Boys need that, too. Oh well, sorry so long. Although I am no longer involved in scouting, it remains to be something I am passionate about.
Mary- Hello friend! So nice to see you posting!
NYKaren Happy Birthiversary to you and your DH! That is very cool that you have "bundled" our important days!
Sharon- Meant to tell you that I have enjoyed reading about your Allen and your stories of your kids and grandkids. Please post pictures of your weight loss/healthy journey! 20#! That is awesome!
Allie- Wow! YOu can really see the 12#loss in your face! You look lovely! But you can really see the sparkle and joy in your eyes in the after pic! So happy for you!
Well, my kiddos are slowly drifting in. I guess I better get busy. I have the washable markers out and am going to let them make pictures on the windows today. That should keep them busy for a while. ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)2 -
Machka- I am glad you are getting an MRI to get your hip checked out. Did you fall? Curious as to why she thinks you have fractured it. I would have bet any amount of money it was a nerve/muscle issue. Either way, rest up! Sending hugs!
ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)
She got me to do a whole bunch of things. One of the things I could not do was to hop with my right leg. I could with my left, but couldn't even get one hop out with my right ... no strength and lots of pain. I would have thrown up if she had insisted.
She ran me through a bunch of other tests and said that my muscle strength is not bad and my range of motion isn't bad, but when it comes to any kind of pressure that involves the hip area, I can't do it. I guess I'm showing all the signs of a hip fracture.
Also for two weeks now, I've barely been able to walk, and things like climbing stairs has been a massive, and painful challenge.
She thinks it is a stress fracture which may have started up in November, but the half-marathon moved it into something more serious.
M in Oz
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NYKaren ... I couldn't make sense out of all the celebrations there as I was quickly reading ... so happy, happy to you and your hubs!
Rebecca ... congratulations on 5 pounds released!!
Barbara ... so sorry I resurrected a bad memory for you ... but why is it all camps have long winding roads??
Machka ... praying that your hip is not fractured ... dear Lord you don't need that!!
I have to head out to my son's this morning (aide difficulties) and I'm not looking forward to it. While the bulk of the lake effect hit north of me yesterday and last night, it is shifting down into its traditional band (which is where I live). Rate of snow expected 1-3" per hour and anywhere between 1 to 2 feet expected ... and today the cold and wind turns it nasty. No more fat fluffy flakes. Taking extra heavy clothing with me in case I get off the road.
Beth near Buffalo5 -
Oh dear, poor Beth! Hope your journey is not too difficult.
NYKAREN - Happy Birthyversary ! We also celebrate the day we met. I like any chance to celebrate, so that way we get one at a better time of year than our wedding anniversary. Never feel like doing much in November, but more fun in May.
What a pain, Machka!
I've cancelled my dance class - again. As I had to pay up front it is annoying. I've also cancelled the dental hygienist on Friday. Don't want to have a coughing fit while she has her hands in my mouth!
Last night I sat up all night, propped up on three pillows. I couldn't lie down. I did doze off from time to time, but it was a long and painful night. Today the coughing has subsided a bit and my ribcage is slightly less painful. I observe a gradual improvement. Following behind DH. He seems a lot better.
Lisa - excited for you! My DH is like yours , but he did come to my breast cancer op. I actually prefer to do most medical things on my own. I don't want to be worrying about the other person.
Your cold weather has been on our news. Sounds awful. We had a sprinkle of snow on the grass this morning, but they are predicting a bit more tomorrow night. Here on the south coast the weather is generally milder, so it's hovering around freezing at night. Much of the country has snow.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx4 -
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well I just booked a massage, facial and a nice lunch wiit for something to eat. with a glass of wine for my daughter and I for tuesday her 30th birthday... will be nice to have the time with her on her special day.. I will let her have my wine and will bring some sparkling water.. and they said a deli meal so I am hoping I can pick through it, if not will bring some nuts and cheese sticks lol
. so looking forward to spending time with her, she is busy with hubby and family so when she says she has a day off the same day as I do I jump at the chance..5 -
Brrrr stay toasty peeps 30 degrees out so why am I still riding. Cuz the weather hasn’t stopped me yet5
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Minus 22 here. They even cancelled mail service today. We will be in the thirties by Saturday. It will feel like a heat wave.
Margaret5 -
Lisa, you will do great with the knee replacement, they have you up and walking as soon as the block has worn off and you regain feeling in your leg. I'm going to try to attach a link to the CPM (continuous passive motion) machine. I woke from surgery with this moving my knee. I'm not sure they are as popular now as they used to be. My right knee was replaced four years ago, left knee 3 1/2 years. You will be so glad you did it. It's not as bad as it sounds .
Big hugs.
https://www.verywellhealth.com/cpm-continuous-passive-motion-2549555
Janetr OKC
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Lisa: Our neighbor just had his hip replaced. He was in the hospital for only 2 days for the surgery and is now at home. He is using a walker and able to walk again without excruciating pain. I hope that your upcoming knee surgery is every bit as successful. It is likely to be more successful. You are younger and more fit. Our neighbor has previously had knee replacement surgeries. He is also way too heavy for his frame. :flowerforyou:
Machka: Sending good thoughts your way.
Beth: I hope you layer up so that you can stay warm no matter what. :flowerforyou:
Heather: I’m guessing your dental hygienist will be okay with the cancellation. No doubt they would prefer not to be exposed to any virus. Feel better soon!
Allie: I’m glad to hear that you’re having lunch with your daughter. It is great to have something positive to look forward to.
Pip: You are amazing. Bike riding in 30 degree weather is not something to take lightly. Be safe!
My knee has been bothering me, and I know that I relaxed my vigilance and gained more weight than it can handle—without ever going over the weight level that MFP considers healthy for me. I’ve had to go under their weight recommendations to keep the knee functioning and pain free and I’m in the process of taking weight back down enough to elimenate the pain. :ohwell:
Worrying about all of you in the freezing zones, as well as my own adult children and their families. Please do your best to stay safe and warm!
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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I just heard from my daughter in IL. She is staying home from work today. I am thankful.3
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Stay toasty everyone, and safe!
Had a 2 hour delayed opening and cleaned up around the house as well as got in my exercise for the day, I'm feeling empowered!
NYKAREN3 -
Well, going out to my son's was a very poor decision. I was there for 2 hours before we could get things settled and was only able to leave just as the storm shifted south and it turned into a blizzard. I confess I was shaking through parts of the drive home which is not highway driving but hills and curves. Cars were off the roads everywhere. I am very thankful to be home and now watching it from inside. Emergency messages on my phones ...police are shutting down everything.
Pip ... of course the cold wouldn't stop you ... but was there wind??
Beth near Buffalo who continues to believe that h*ll is white!8 -
Allie - you are looking wonderful. Good job on changing out the lock. I tackle a lot of projects like that myself too. It’s fun to learn how to do new things. My youngest daughter’s birthday is Tuesday as well she will be 28, my oldest is turning 30 on Sunday. We are celebrating Sunday evening.
Sharon - those battery warnings are serious business sometimes. Good job on the weight loss, how are you feeling?
Barbie - I fear my husband would have no friends show up. He doesn’t maintain friendships very well and has mostly acquaintances. He mentioned the other day that he has no friends because they come with more people. He likes the friend but not their people.... he would happily be one of those men living in Alaska on a homestead. I am afraid if anything happened to me our girls would need to step up.
Girl/boy Scouts - I was never part of any of it. We did go to Awana and later Pioneer Girls and Ranger Boys with our church. I think I heard that Canada just had Scouts Canada now and it is for both genders. I personally feel that having gender specific things is s good thing but I’ve been accused of being old fashioned a lot!
Rebecca - 5 lbs in a month is great! Hard work pays off.
Barbara - I have a note in my phone to start SWSY I really must get at it. I so envy you your line dancing, I always wanted to dance but I have two left feet.
Lisa - good luck on the surgery it will be nice to have it done I bet.
Kylia - I am with you, I don’t comment on all but read every post. I have been trying to limit my social media time and this group and one other I follow on here is hard to keep up with when I do.
Kelly - I agree with you about mandating businesses being closed under certain circumstances. Too many people don’t get paid time off or have understanding employers but those same employers will send a nice arrangement to the funeral.
Your MIL’s living quarters sound lovely! I wish Canada would get with the times and start building places like that. My mother is in a nursing home, with all of the 80-90 year olds that sit in chairs or are bedridden. Last year for a few months my Mom was the only resident that could get up and walk around by herself. She is a young Alzheimer’s patient.
Beth - have a safe drive.
Machka - I have no words. You and your husband just need a break from all of the injuries.
I am going to work on birthday presents for my girls today, I am having them both over on Sunday for a dinner. We are keeping the Grands Saturday night so I will have them make something for their mother and Aunt. Next week is my son in laws birthday. February is our busy month of birthdays although we have 2 in January and 2 in September now too.
I am still sending out resumes and praying I get a call soon on something. EI just is not enough to pay the bills.
Tracey in a snowy, but warmer Edmonton6 -
Beth ~ So glad you made it safely home.1
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Well, going out to my son's was a very poor decision. I was there for 2 hours before we could get things settled and was only able to leave just as the storm shifted south and it turned into a blizzard. I confess I was shaking through parts of the drive home which is not highway driving but hills and curves. Cars were off the roads everywhere. I am very thankful to be home and now watching it from inside. Emergency messages on my phones ...police are shutting down everything.
Pip ... of course the cold wouldn't stop you ... but was there wind??
Beth near Buffalo who continues to believe that h*ll is white!
As much as I hate the wind, that doesn’t even stop me. I remember riding and it was 23 out....2 -
Lisa: I hope “Old Yeller” isn’t rabid, but simply rude. I’m glad your sweetie will be at the hospital with you for your surgery.
Snowflake: I can see Canada’s point in having Scouts of both genders together. I wonder whether it will improve child safety. I hope so. Predators mask themselves all too well. :mad:
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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HEllo all! Yes! I am reading and posting again! And at the lunch hour! I have a snow day! All of my parents decided to stay home and keep their kids with them this morning/afternoon! Yea! I do have one or two coming at 4:30 for the evening; but it is nice to have the day to myself. Now I don't have to worry about keeping the driveway shoveled. I got my dishes cleaned, a load of towels, my couch covers, and my son's bedding washed and dried, bathrooms cleaned, floors swept and mopped and am sitting down to lunch. I am debating doing paperwork or watching a movie. I might just leave the paperwork for the weekend and give myself a couple hours of "what I want" before I have to go out and shovel again before my night shift kids arrive.
Beth- Sounds like you are getting what passed over my area yesterday. Glad you were able to make it there and back safely! It is nasty out! Schools are already cancelling for tomorrow. The Grand Rapids Public School district already cancelled for tomorrow and Friday. They are the ones that usually set the tone for the rest of the schools. I imagine our area will follow suit. Whoa! A week of snow days. I am sure as soon as the wind and bitter cold lets up, I will have all of my kiddos again; snow day or not. I seem to have a higher tolerance for craziness than the kid's parents do.5 -
Thanks, all, for both comments and reassurances... I am not terribly worried, just trying to make sure that I've covered all my bases. That said, apparently my subconscious is a horrible worrywart, because I could tell I had been grinding my teeth during the night from the way my face and jaw felt this morning. Ah well, she'll get over it, too.
KJ - Glad you got a snow day, as well as the kids. And glad you got your MiL all settled into her new place. Sounds lovely, and even more important, like a caring and safe environment.
Tracey - hope your resumes get a response soon - if it's anything like my recent experience, as soon as one calls, a whole bunch will! As soon as I accepted this job, I had no less than five companies call me for interviews - one called FIVE MONTHS after I sent the application. My sister's comment was, when they asked if I was available for the interview, I should have said, "Nope, I starved to death yesterday waiting for you to call!" She's my favorite sister.
Beth - so glad you're OK!
JanetR - thank you for the personal experience with knee replacement. Very reassuring.
Katla - thank you, too, for your neighbor's story. I've loaded the deck in my own favor as much as I can, with being 34 pounds lighter than I was last year this time, and I know every pound is a help.
Allie - good on you for installing the lock yourself! And your picture was AMAZING, so happy to hear you really in the groove, and happy with yourself. You deserve that so much.
Heather - I've said more than once that I prefer to be the one in the bed, rather than the one waiting to hear what's going on when it comes to surgeries and the like. At least there's medication for me! Glad you're seeing some improvement...
NYKaren - hope the birthiversary was amazing. My husband's birthday, our anniversary and Father's Day are all the same week, so he only gets one present. I would say I planned it that way, but Father's Day was just an added bonus!
Rebecca - great job on the January weight loss!
Stopped in during my lunch hour to talk to y'all, still working on the massive requirements for a federal grant. Lord, they want to know EVERYTHING. Which is fine when you know everything, but when you're still new, finding it all takes hours. Of course, once this one's done, the rest will look easy!
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR5 -
Well, going out to my son's was a very poor decision. I was there for 2 hours before we could get things settled and was only able to leave just as the storm shifted south and it turned into a blizzard. I confess I was shaking through parts of the drive home which is not highway driving but hills and curves. Cars were off the roads everywhere. I am very thankful to be home and now watching it from inside. Emergency messages on my phones ...police are shutting down everything.
Pip ... of course the cold wouldn't stop you ... but was there wind??
Beth near Buffalo who continues to believe that h*ll is white!
Oh, Beth so sorry you had to drive through that to get home. I'm thankful you made it. When I still lived in Denver a horrible blizzard started late afternoon, by the time our company said we could leave it was horrible. It took me 2 hours to get home. When I got in the door, I burst into tears. It's no fun.
Big hugs
Janetr OKC4 -
Help me not eat! I’m home all day cleaning as our realtor is coming out to list our house. In addition, things are tense between the husband and I because of the pending move. We’re moving to take care of my parents. We will be buying a place with an in-law apartment. Only moving an hour east but we just finished a kitchen addition on our home which he did 75% of. So he’s struggling with that and not wanting to move in general. There are other reasons we’ve decided to leave this area that make a lot of sense but it’s still hard. So I’m frustrated and when I get this way I can throw my eating out the window quickly. So I’m here to vent I guess and garner support. Thanks, Grace5
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Thinking of you all in the snow.
I had a lovely phone call from my friend who is going on a cruise, starting Saturday, on our old ship, Saga Pearl ll. It is nearly its final voyage . She is feeling anxious as she has not done it before. They are going to the Canaries.
Her main problem is that her 93 yr old dad is flying down from Newcastle to Southampton just before the car comes to pick them up. There has been a lot of snow cancellations at airports recently, so we are crossing our fingers for Saturday. As far as I can tell they are expecting light snow showers up there. Don't know what they will do if they miss the ship sailing! It was great to talk to her. I told her to take her own coffee filter cups. Haven't used them for years, but you can still buy them.
She has had a virus, but is recovered. I'm looking forward to reading the blog she's going to write.
DH cooked me a very nice dinner.
Lots of love, Heather UK xxxxxxx6 -
Unfortunately, my nickname for the physical therapist is in charge is "Old Yeller." She was four feet from me and yelling throughout the pre-op education class. Fairly sure she's not the in-home PT person, which is a good thing. Not fond of people who yell at me.
Lisa in AR
Oh, Lisa. I was reading too quickly and I thought the PT's nickname for you was "Old Yeller," and that she was calling you that in front of you, yelling to others. I am thankful that the truth was otherwise.
I hope your surgery goes well and am thankful your husband will be there for you and your immediate recovery.
Felicia
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Kylia, Lisa, and Rori- I know I have given my take on Girl Scouts v Boy Scouts before, BUT; I think a child's experience in either organization will depend on the leader that they have and the work/interest the child puts into it. I think Girl Scouts offers the same experiences as the Boy Scouts, but each troop does things according to their leader's comfort zone. If you want more than your troop is offering; check with your council, region, and GSUSA. Lots and lots of opportunities to take advantage of. Both my son and my daughter were in scouts. Because I was my daughter's girl scout leader, my youngest son was with me at all of our meetings and a majority of our events. When it was time for him to be able to join Boy Scouts as a Tiger Cub, he was not happy with the way the meetings went and the activities. He lasted a year with them and told me, "I like Girl Scouts better." lol The entire time I was a GS leader it was "inclusive". It was made known to us that it was okay for a boy to join our troop. We never had any boys ask to join our troop, though. AND there is much to be said for the separation of the sexes. By the time the girls in my troop were in high school (our troop went from 24 girls in elementary, down to five in high school), our meetings were biweekly and then a monthly sleep over at our local GS house. The girls belonged to different social/peer groups in school; but they came together once a month and they knew they were in a place where they wouldn't be judged. A safe place where they could talk about anything. Even their peer groups at school and the pressures they felt. I am not sure they could have had that "safe" place with a boy in our troop. Boys need that, too. Oh well, sorry so long. Although I am no longer involved in scouting, it remains to be something I am passionate about.
I'm glad you mentioned this, KJ. I was in scouts, back in the 70s, and while we didn't have guys in my age group, the high school group (at the time) did have a couple boys. I was surprised when Lisa said that GS had always been single sex and never allowed boys. Now, maybe the boys weren't officially, on the record, members of girl scouting, but they were sure there and participating in everything and were considered part of the group.
I do see the benefits of single sex groups (and even education). The thing is, the research I've seen says that it benefits girls, but it is not much of a benefit to boys. I taught for a semester at a men's only college, and I do remember one time in class the conversation got a little rough, and somebody yelled out, "It's okay. We're all guys here!" I was like, "Excuse me???" Their response: "Oh, you don't count! You're just one of us." I'm not sure what that had to do with scouting, exactly, but boys don't always behave politely when girls aren't around, so I was in favor of boy scouts opening up to girls.
Felicia
Willamette Valley, Oregon4
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