What’s a red flag for you?
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I wish there’s a laughing 😆 button to press cuz y’all are so funny!!! 3 -
Narcissism!!! You know the kind you can’t get 2 words in because the entire conversation ends up being about them....6
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If they constantly interrupt me when I am talking. I don't mean like 30 minutes in cuz I am blabbering nonstop.... I mean 20 seconds into a story or an answer to something they asked. And then they interrupt with something completely off topic and has nothing to do with me. And then change the subject after.
This happens to me all the time..... 😕4 -
If they constantly interrupt me when I am talking. I don't mean like 30 minutes in cuz I am blabbering nonstop.... I mean 20 seconds into a story or an answer to something they asked. And then they interrupt with something completely off topic and has nothing to do with me. And then change the subject after.
This happens to me all the time..... 😕
I thought we had a nice give and take. 😁2 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
I thought we had a nice give and take. 😁
We definitely did!! 😊😊😊2 -
when are you supposed to tell a new gf/bf your phone password?
Well married and been together for 4 years and still don’t know the password so let me know when you figure it out 😂2 -
If he doesn’t like Mexican food.
Well then he’s obviously bat *kitten* crazy.6 -
When he wears mixed match socks or wear socks on other parts of his body that isn't his feet.4
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When she doesn’t believe that it coulda been a shark who ate the killer whale but the name of the movie is JAWS 21
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if he's a “motivator”1
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1. They’re overly controlling and aggressive.
2. They have a quick temper and are angered at trivial things.
3. They don’t keep an open mind.4 -
If she sleeps in clothes or naked7
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sessayr3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »When he wears mixed match socks or wear socks on other parts of his body that isn't his feet.
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If they flirt with other women.4
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Reckoner68 wrote: »If she sleeps in clothes or naked
What if she sleeps in a parka?1 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
What if she sleeps in a parka?
...we’re gonna need a new thread7 -
When I catch people in lies, or even exaggerations
I have an excellent memory, (for random stuff that doesn't benefit me in life) I never call people out on their lies or exaggerations...but I remember, and it is a red flag for me10 -
If he lies about anything.
If he’s mean to animals or other people.7 -
Lets see since it’s been a long time.
Not honest if they have std/sti’s
No ambition or faux ambition
Lacks confidence and drive
Very loose
Speaks of their sexual experiences too openly
Has had sex with men poked or poker
Racist or into fetish unless its for my profits
No follow through
Has children unless he has been married or committed not intrigued by those seeding up the earth5 -
The inability to possess accurate bus fare.
The inability to change a bicycle tire by the side of the road.
A strong opinion ( one way or the other ) about adding beans to chili.
If she wears the color mauve.
A lack of appreciation for Acid Jazz.6 -
When they never fart in front of me.
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777Gemma888 wrote: »Dishonesty.When I catch people in lies, or even exaggerations
I have an excellent memory, (for random stuff that doesn't benefit me in life) I never call people out on their lies or exaggerations...but I remember, and it is a red flag for meIf he lies about anything.
If he’s mean to animals or other people.TheChristianSimone wrote: »Lets see since it’s been a long time.
Not honest if they have std/sti’s
No ambition or faux ambition
Lacks confidence and drive
Very loose
Speaks of their sexual experiences too openly
Has had sex with men poked or poker
Racist or into fetish unless its for my profits
No follow through
Has children unless he has been married or committed not intrigued by those seeding up the earth
I fear false flags' more than any red flag, 'cause where there's room for recovery with one post impact, the other, not so much.3 -
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He disappears on the weekends.8
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- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.7 -
I thought a red flag was an early warning of bad things to come. A lot of these examples don’t seem like red flags to me, but rather that kitten has already crashed and burned.8
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »I thought a red flag was an early warning of bad things to come. A lot of these examples don’t seem like red flags to me, but rather that kitten has already crashed and burned.
Honestly shouldn't the red flag and the weakness thread basically be overlapping?7
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