What’s a red flag for you?

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  • wshill7
    wshill7 Posts: 25 Member
    :D I wish there’s a laughing 😆 button to press cuz y’all are so funny!!!
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    sr2587 wrote: »
    Narcissism!!! You know the kind you can’t get 2 words in because the entire conversation ends up being about them....

    Yeeesssss........ I work with someone like this.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    If they constantly interrupt me when I am talking. I don't mean like 30 minutes in cuz I am blabbering nonstop.... I mean 20 seconds into a story or an answer to something they asked. And then they interrupt with something completely off topic and has nothing to do with me. And then change the subject after.

    This happens to me all the time..... 😕
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    If they constantly interrupt me when I am talking. I don't mean like 30 minutes in cuz I am blabbering nonstop.... I mean 20 seconds into a story or an answer to something they asked. And then they interrupt with something completely off topic and has nothing to do with me. And then change the subject after.

    This happens to me all the time..... 😕

    I thought we had a nice give and take. 😁
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    If they constantly interrupt me when I am talking. I don't mean like 30 minutes in cuz I am blabbering nonstop.... I mean 20 seconds into a story or an answer to something they asked. And then they interrupt with something completely off topic and has nothing to do with me. And then change the subject after.

    This happens to me all the time..... 😕

    I thought we had a nice give and take. 😁

    We definitely did!! 😊😊😊
  • rickigageby
    rickigageby Posts: 149 Member
    dodea48 wrote: »
    rickigageby wrote: »
    Mine is:
    Talks about his ex
    Very distant
    Doesn’t tell me I look good or anything when I dress up for his attention
    Very secretive
    I hate that they have a password on their phone that I don’t know about
    Takes their phone with them everywhere
    Texts and plays on the phone but has it pointed away from you so you can’t see what they’re doing

    when are you supposed to tell a new gf/bf your phone password?

    Well married and been together for 4 years and still don’t know the password so let me know when you figure it out 😂
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    When he wears mixed match socks or wear socks on other parts of his body that isn't his feet.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    When she doesn’t believe that it coulda been a shark who ate the killer whale but the name of the movie is JAWS 2
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    if he's a “motivator”
  • DelicatelyDrifting
    DelicatelyDrifting Posts: 7 Member
    1. They’re overly controlling and aggressive.
    2. They have a quick temper and are angered at trivial things.
    3. They don’t keep an open mind.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    When he wears mixed match socks or wear socks on other parts of his body that isn't his feet.
    sessay
  • rickigageby
    rickigageby Posts: 149 Member
    If they flirt with other women.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,068 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    If she sleeps in clothes or naked

    What if she sleeps in a parka?
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
    777Gemma888 wrote: »
    Dishonesty.
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    When I catch people in lies, or even exaggerations
    I have an excellent memory, (for random stuff that doesn't benefit me in life) I never call people out on their lies or exaggerations...but I remember, and it is a red flag for me
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    If he lies about anything.

    If he’s mean to animals or other people.
    TheChristianSimone wrote: »
    Lets see since it’s been a long time.

    Not honest if they have std/sti’s
    No ambition or faux ambition
    Lacks confidence and drive
    Very loose
    Speaks of their sexual experiences too openly
    Has had sex with men poked or poker
    Racist or into fetish unless its for my profits
    No follow through
    Has children unless he has been married or committed not intrigued by those seeding up the earth

    I fear false flags' more than any red flag, 'cause where there's room for recovery with one post impact, the other, not so much.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    TheChristianSimone wrote: »
    Has had sex with men poked or poker

    Good one

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