What’s a red flag for you?
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If he lies about anything.
If he’s mean to animals or other people.7 -
Lets see since it’s been a long time.
Not honest if they have std/sti’s
No ambition or faux ambition
Lacks confidence and drive
Very loose
Speaks of their sexual experiences too openly
Has had sex with men poked or poker
Racist or into fetish unless its for my profits
No follow through
Has children unless he has been married or committed not intrigued by those seeding up the earth5 -
The inability to possess accurate bus fare.
The inability to change a bicycle tire by the side of the road.
A strong opinion ( one way or the other ) about adding beans to chili.
If she wears the color mauve.
A lack of appreciation for Acid Jazz.6 -
When they never fart in front of me.
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777Gemma888 wrote: »Dishonesty.When I catch people in lies, or even exaggerations
I have an excellent memory, (for random stuff that doesn't benefit me in life) I never call people out on their lies or exaggerations...but I remember, and it is a red flag for meIf he lies about anything.
If he’s mean to animals or other people.TheChristianSimone wrote: »Lets see since it’s been a long time.
Not honest if they have std/sti’s
No ambition or faux ambition
Lacks confidence and drive
Very loose
Speaks of their sexual experiences too openly
Has had sex with men poked or poker
Racist or into fetish unless its for my profits
No follow through
Has children unless he has been married or committed not intrigued by those seeding up the earth
I fear false flags' more than any red flag, 'cause where there's room for recovery with one post impact, the other, not so much.3 -
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He disappears on the weekends.8
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- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.7 -
I thought a red flag was an early warning of bad things to come. A lot of these examples don’t seem like red flags to me, but rather that kitten has already crashed and burned.8
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »I thought a red flag was an early warning of bad things to come. A lot of these examples don’t seem like red flags to me, but rather that kitten has already crashed and burned.
Honestly shouldn't the red flag and the weakness thread basically be overlapping?7 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »I thought a red flag was an early warning of bad things to come. A lot of these examples don’t seem like red flags to me, but rather that kitten has already crashed and burned.
Honestly shouldn't the red flag and the weakness thread basically be overlapping?
see you get it7 -
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"Our kids are gonna be named (whatever)"4
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777Gemma888 wrote: »Dishonesty.When I catch people in lies, or even exaggerations
I have an excellent memory, (for random stuff that doesn't benefit me in life) I never call people out on their lies or exaggerations...but I remember, and it is a red flag for meIf he lies about anything.
If he’s mean to animals or other people.TheChristianSimone wrote: »Lets see since it’s been a long time.
Not honest if they have std/sti’s
No ambition or faux ambition
Lacks confidence and drive
Very loose
Speaks of their sexual experiences too openly
Has had sex with men poked or poker
Racist or into fetish unless its for my profits
No follow through
Has children unless he has been married or committed not intrigued by those seeding up the earth
I fear false flags' more than any red flag, 'cause where there's room for recovery with one post impact, the other, not so much.
I feel the same
Being open and honest is a start in something positive.4 -
caco_ethes wrote: »When he asks to borrow my credit card cuz his mama ain’t home
When she only responds to my questions by sending selfies of her wearing different shirts with different sayings on them.
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caco_ethes wrote: »When he asks to borrow my credit card cuz his mama ain’t home
When she only responds to my questions by sending selfies of her wearing different shirts with different sayings on them.
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Only texting and not talking LOL6
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rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.14 -
rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.
Or, instead of carrying a phone at all, you could just carry a large whiteboard that you could keep all of your personal information on!6
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