What’s a red flag for you?
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Reckoner68 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »I thought a red flag was an early warning of bad things to come. A lot of these examples don’t seem like red flags to me, but rather that kitten has already crashed and burned.
Honestly shouldn't the red flag and the weakness thread basically be overlapping?
see you get it7 -
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"Our kids are gonna be named (whatever)"4
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777Gemma888 wrote: »Dishonesty.When I catch people in lies, or even exaggerations
I have an excellent memory, (for random stuff that doesn't benefit me in life) I never call people out on their lies or exaggerations...but I remember, and it is a red flag for meIf he lies about anything.
If he’s mean to animals or other people.TheChristianSimone wrote: »Lets see since it’s been a long time.
Not honest if they have std/sti’s
No ambition or faux ambition
Lacks confidence and drive
Very loose
Speaks of their sexual experiences too openly
Has had sex with men poked or poker
Racist or into fetish unless its for my profits
No follow through
Has children unless he has been married or committed not intrigued by those seeding up the earth
I fear false flags' more than any red flag, 'cause where there's room for recovery with one post impact, the other, not so much.
I feel the same
Being open and honest is a start in something positive.4 -
caco_ethes wrote: »When he asks to borrow my credit card cuz his mama ain’t home
When she only responds to my questions by sending selfies of her wearing different shirts with different sayings on them.
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caco_ethes wrote: »When he asks to borrow my credit card cuz his mama ain’t home
When she only responds to my questions by sending selfies of her wearing different shirts with different sayings on them.
😂2 -
Only texting and not talking LOL6
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rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.14 -
rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.
Or, instead of carrying a phone at all, you could just carry a large whiteboard that you could keep all of your personal information on!6 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.
Or, instead of carrying a phone at all, you could just carry a large whiteboard that you could keep all of your personal information on!
Sorry, I don't text. Please write your message on my sandwich board here and that way everyone can see who I am communicating with at all times. I'm not shady! See?!?6 -
SEVERAL people blocked on her social media
vacations "alone"
excessive selfie-ing
teaching/grad assistant in college
"so i did a thing"
can't cook- not because of gender roles or anything, but because she obvi doesn't care about her diet/discipline
when you take out the jimmy hats and shes like "why do you need those"8 -
rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.
Pre-qualifier so you don't waste cards
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ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.
Pre-qualifier so you don't waste cards
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ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.
Pre-qualifier so you don't waste cards
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Between this t-shirt and the whiteboard I'm confident I won't be raising red flags for anyone.5
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ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »rebeccamorgan58152 wrote: »- Self- distressing damsels/dudes with *kitten* problem-solving skills, a solid victim narrative and a fetish for being rescued from the consequences of their decisions.
- People who are all up in my face 24/7 because they don’t have anything better to do.
- People who post a slew of self-congratulatory social media posts every time they do anything more impressive than roll out of bed before 1pm. Adulting is like so hard heehee.
Do people really hand out phone passcodes when they’re dating, rather than married/cohabiting? Weird. I’d probably let my current guy use my phone if he promised not to mess up the unsolicited dick pic collection, I’m doing a collage for my mum’s Facebook profile photo.
As someone who has recently put herself back on the market I believe I'm going to have cards made up that I can handout with my phone passcode on them just so people know I'm redflagless and completely dateable.
I'm so oblivious to guys interest in me so I'm TOTALLY gonna need to buy this shirt!
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Reckoner68 wrote: »
Wait, nobody said these shirts were transparent and i already paid for 7 🤨5 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »A piece of cloth with a wavelength of approximately 620-740 nm on the electromagnetic spectrum
It took me entirely too long to figure this out
I'm always thinking one step ahead
Like a carpenter
That makes stairs
That's so close to a haiku.
The *kitten* is a haiku?
Japanese K-Pop.
You both hurt me right in my heart
Haiku is poetry for people who like math and syllables at the same time
Is that where algebra came from?2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »
Wait, nobody said these shirts were transparent and i already paid for 7 🤨
You must have accidentally clicked on the "Stare If You Want Me" version3 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »
Wait, nobody said these shirts were transparent and i already paid for 7 🤨
One for each day, you're gonna have a LOT of flags1 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »A piece of cloth with a wavelength of approximately 620-740 nm on the electromagnetic spectrum
It took me entirely too long to figure this out
I'm always thinking one step ahead
Like a carpenter
That makes stairs
That's so close to a haiku.
The *kitten* is a haiku?
Japanese K-Pop.
You both hurt me right in my heart
Haiku is poetry for people who like math and syllables at the same time
Is that where algebra came from?
Alegbra is the...yes, actually. I think you're right.2 -
rickigageby wrote: »Mine is:
Talks about his ex
Very distant
Doesn’t tell me I look good or anything when I dress up for his attention
Very secretive
I hate that they have a password on their phone that I don’t know about
Takes their phone with them everywhere
Texts and plays on the phone but has it pointed away from you so you can’t see what they’re doing
when are you supposed to tell a new gf/bf your phone password?
Right before you change it 😂8 -
Accuses me of cheating - it means they are cheating
Secretive about their phone
Goes more than 24 hours without contact
Has been broken up less than 6 months
When they claim they don’t do social media or when they have a bunch of half naked women as their friends on there
Can’t keep a job
Always plays the victim and has a long list of sob stories about what women have done to them
Goes more than 24 hours without contact -- reminder to self, set phone to call her at 3 am everyday
This is 100% real. If he can go that long without talking to me, then he doesn’t really care.
So not true3 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Accuses me of cheating - it means they are cheating
Secretive about their phone
Goes more than 24 hours without contact
Has been broken up less than 6 months
When they claim they don’t do social media or when they have a bunch of half naked women as their friends on there
Can’t keep a job
Always plays the victim and has a long list of sob stories about what women have done to them
Goes more than 24 hours without contact -- reminder to self, set phone to call her at 3 am everyday
This is 100% real. If he can go that long without talking to me, then he doesn’t really care.
So not true
the queen is correct1 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »
Ok this made me choke a little.1 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Accuses me of cheating - it means they are cheating
Secretive about their phone
Goes more than 24 hours without contact
Has been broken up less than 6 months
When they claim they don’t do social media or when they have a bunch of half naked women as their friends on there
Can’t keep a job
Always plays the victim and has a long list of sob stories about what women have done to them
Goes more than 24 hours without contact -- reminder to self, set phone to call her at 3 am everyday
This is 100% real. If he can go that long without talking to me, then he doesn’t really care.
So not true
the queen is correct
For instance, I used to work out of town semi regularly. They were always pretty big jobs and let's say I'd be given a week to complete it. I'd rather arrive onsite and work around the clock to have the job finished early so I could get back home with a whole extra day or two to spend than slow everything down with lots of phone calls and personal time.5 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Accuses me of cheating - it means they are cheating
Secretive about their phone
Goes more than 24 hours without contact
Has been broken up less than 6 months
When they claim they don’t do social media or when they have a bunch of half naked women as their friends on there
Can’t keep a job
Always plays the victim and has a long list of sob stories about what women have done to them
Goes more than 24 hours without contact -- reminder to self, set phone to call her at 3 am everyday
This is 100% real. If he can go that long without talking to me, then he doesn’t really care.
So not true
the queen is correct
For instance, I used to work out of town semi regularly. They were always pretty big jobs and let's say I'd be given a week to complete it. I'd rather arrive onsite and work around the clock to have the job finished early so I could get back home with a whole extra day or two to spend than slow everything down with lots of phone calls and personal time.
I’m assuming your partner would know about that ahead of time. It’s different IMO. Idk how queen feels about it though3 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Accuses me of cheating - it means they are cheating
Secretive about their phone
Goes more than 24 hours without contact
Has been broken up less than 6 months
When they claim they don’t do social media or when they have a bunch of half naked women as their friends on there
Can’t keep a job
Always plays the victim and has a long list of sob stories about what women have done to them
Goes more than 24 hours without contact -- reminder to self, set phone to call her at 3 am everyday
This is 100% real. If he can go that long without talking to me, then he doesn’t really care.
So not true
the queen is correct
For instance, I used to work out of town semi regularly. They were always pretty big jobs and let's say I'd be given a week to complete it. I'd rather arrive onsite and work around the clock to have the job finished early so I could get back home with a whole extra day or two to spend than slow everything down with lots of phone calls and personal time.
Makes sense. But if I dated someone who did that, he would need to text me at LEAST 4 times a day so I know he is alive and still interested..... 🤷♀️
I don't need extensive phone calls though. It can wait till the work is done.4
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