Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of it. If the wait staff is friendly and engaging, I crack jokes with them and stuff. If he is all stiff and whatever, I can't stand it. Also, is it so hard to say "thank you" when they refill your water glass? I mean, that's common courtesy, right? I notice that stuff immediately. If he can't be polite, courteous, and friendly, I'm not going out with him again.6 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Do you like it when he picks on you?
I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose
If we are ripping on each other, then yes. Absolutely.
Sometimes I will even volunteer a little bit of info just to see if he will run with it.
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Do you like it when he picks on you?
I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose
Honestly.. its a dealbreaker if he doesn’t2 -
Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of it. If the wait staff is friendly and engaging, I crack jokes with them and stuff. If he is all stiff and whatever, I can't stand it. Also, is it so hard to say "thank you" when they refill your water glass? I mean, that's common courtesy, right? I notice that stuff immediately. If he can't be polite, courteous, and friendly, I'm not going out with him again.
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CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.
I like being ordered for 😬4 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »
So you wouldn’t ask ?? Or maybe I should rephrase - how bout If you ask - how do I look ... what if you just ain’t looking that good - do you want honest feed back or reassurance of ‘baby you look beautiful in anything’0 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.
I like being ordered for 😬
Like without discussion? Like he just picks and you eat or you’ve discussed, told him what you want and he orders ?1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »
So you wouldn’t ask ?? Or maybe I should rephrase - how bout If you ask - how do I look ... what if you just ain’t looking that good - do you want honest feed back or reassurance of ‘baby you look beautiful in anything’
I never ask a question seeking a pat answer. If i ask, it’s because i want to know. But I’ve had friends complain to me about their SO’s honesty so I can’t speak for other women.2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.
I like being ordered for 😬
Perfect... I like to order 😏1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Do you like it when he picks on you?
I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose
Honestly.. its a dealbreaker if he doesn’tCupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Do you like it when he picks on you?
I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose
I do, as long as it's established as being in fun. One of those vibe things I guess.Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Do you like it when he picks on you?
I know everyone is different but just polling I suppose
If we are ripping on each other, then yes. Absolutely.
Sometimes I will even volunteer a little bit of info just to see if he will run with it.
I'm not sure why this is but teasing is just something that kind of bonds... Maybe it's a way of saying, I find your annoyances adorable 🤷🏽♂️...
There's just something about people who can laugh things off I guess...2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »
So you wouldn’t ask ?? Or maybe I should rephrase - how bout If you ask - how do I look ... what if you just ain’t looking that good - do you want honest feed back or reassurance of ‘baby you look beautiful in anything’
If I ask, I want the honest answer. Not the "you look beautiful in anything". Regardless of how many times he says that IS his honest answer.... lol
Be specific, too.1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.
I like being ordered for 😬
Like without discussion? Like he just picks and you eat or you’ve discussed, told him what you want and he orders ?
I think its sexy to see what he does with that kind of freedom. I’ve had a guy order me raw oysters and then he made an absurd amount of eye contact while he told me to swallow them down whole. Hope I’m not setting back feminism a thousand years but i was so there for it5 -
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some of the ways you'll test a guy to see if he's interested?
I haven't actually needed to test a guy to gauge interest. A man is either interested and tells me or he isn't and doesn't.1 -
AGettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.
I like being ordered for 😬
Like without discussion? Like he just picks and you eat or you’ve discussed, told him what you want and he orders ?
I think its sexy to see what he does with that kind of freedom. I’ve had a guy order me raw oysters and then he made an absurd amount of eye contact while he told me to swallow them down whole. Hope I’m not setting back feminism a thousand years but i was so there for it
That being said - to the ladies who don’t like it - if the dude overall seems like a good dude but makes this mistake once. Does he get a mulligan (golf term for do over ) or is it a complete deal breaker if he does it once - cause i kinda want to pull this trick out just for funnsies to see what happens ?? 🤔0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »
My two cents....
Women spend a lot of money on clothes, cosmetics, haircare etc.
The cost of a night out should be the guys responsibility & the expenses of dating kind of even out in the end.
What a sweetheart you are Motorsheen, behind your prankster exterior.
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Why can't you ever get ready ON TIME?
😂
SOME women DON'T.0 -
CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Regular socks with shorts, okay... Or do they have to be the low kind that you can't see?
Knee socks with everything. Especially short shorts.
Socks with slides? Yes or no?
I was going to say rainbow toe socks, but I can't make myself do it... no socks with slides. Or sandals.
Ladies: Would you love men to get pedicures more often/at all?
I would give my man a mani-pedi vs bugging him about it.0 -
AGettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »CupcakeCrusoe wrote: »Ladies
How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?
I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.
I like being ordered for 😬
Like without discussion? Like he just picks and you eat or you’ve discussed, told him what you want and he orders ?
I think its sexy to see what he does with that kind of freedom. I’ve had a guy order me raw oysters and then he made an absurd amount of eye contact while he told me to swallow them down whole. Hope I’m not setting back feminism a thousand years but i was so there for it
That being said - to the ladies who don’t like it - if the dude overall seems like a good dude but makes this mistake once. Does he get a mulligan (golf term for do over ) or is it a complete deal breaker if he does it once - cause i kinda want to pull this trick out just for funnsies to see what happens ?? 🤔
He gets a Mulligan once. And if he puts up with the *kitten* I'll give him afterward with good grace, then we're good.1 -
TorqueMonster1972 wrote: »Okay - as a male cyclist (i.e. road riding in a pack at 35mph) I do wear spandex shorts and the jersey - sometimes of my favorite team (T-Mobile, Rabbobank et al) and sometimes just blank stuff. The wife hates it and would rather me wear regular shorts. Honestly I cannot wear regular shorts as chafing occurs and the boys don't do well after 15 min of riding.
what are others thoughts? I see women in kit and think nothing of it. I see men in kit and think nothing of it,,, what do you think of it?
Practical. Then again as an LA girl, cyclists are normal.0 -
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Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »Ladies, do any of you appreciate a 9-lb trout dinner anymore or is this old fashioned
When I used to eat fish, it would have been heartwarming. Would accompanying you fish for trouts count, sans the meal?1 -
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Ladies
When you ask - ‘does my butt look big in these jeans’ do you really want and honest answer or is it a test ??
I will not be asking. I KNOW what my butt looks like. My swimmers/volleyballer tookus isn't going anywhere. It will look good in some outfits/jeans and not so good in others.
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