Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    Cryptic, appears emotionless, untalkative but friendly....attractive or not

    Mysterious ... Attractive.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    Ladies...

    If she ends her text with...

    "Enjoy your weekend"

    That basically means get lost, right? 😂

    Yes or “I know you don’t want to hear from me while you’re out living your best life but I really hope you’ll make time for me anyway and i hope by being all loose and non-demanding you see how cool I am and long to be with me.”

    Eta: and looking over other women’s answers confirms my suspicion I have no idea what I’m doing
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    Yes. I hate cheap tippers
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I notice all of it. If the wait staff is friendly and engaging, I crack jokes with them and stuff. If he is all stiff and whatever, I can't stand it. Also, is it so hard to say "thank you" when they refill your water glass? I mean, that's common courtesy, right? I notice that stuff immediately. If he can't be polite, courteous, and friendly, I'm not going out with him again.

    Yes
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    Ladies...

    If she ends her text with...

    "Enjoy your weekend"

    That basically means get lost, right? 😂

    Yes or “I know you don’t want to hear from me while you’re out living your best life but I really hope you’ll make time for me anyway and i hope by being all loose and non-demanding you see how cool I am and long to be with me.”

    Eta: and looking over other women’s answers confirms my suspicion I have no idea what I’m doing

    haha! I almost said “unless they’re trying to play it cool and not seem overly interested” but decided to play it close to the ol sweater vest
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    If she ends her text with...

    "Enjoy your weekend"

    That basically means get lost, right? 😂

    Yes or “I know you don’t want to hear from me while you’re out living your best life but I really hope you’ll make time for me anyway and i hope by being all loose and non-demanding you see how cool I am and long to be with me.”

    Eta: and looking over other women’s answers confirms my suspicion I have no idea what I’m doing
    Ladies...

    If she ends her text with...

    "Enjoy your weekend"

    That basically means get lost, right? 😂

    Yes or “I know you don’t want to hear from me while you’re out living your best life but I really hope you’ll make time for me anyway and i hope by being all loose and non-demanding you see how cool I am and long to be with me.”

    Eta: and looking over other women’s answers confirms my suspicion I have no idea what I’m doing

    haha! I almost said “unless they’re trying to play it cool and not seem overly interested” but decided to play it close to the ol sweater vest

    Save your false hope and pity... 🙄😂
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,440 Member
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer

    Reusable bags?

    If I left mine at home, I would say paper as well.
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer

    Team toxic doormat
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,176 Member
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer

    Team toxic doormat

    You’re so toxic - blatantly not following the rules ... such a gangsta you is
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer

    Team toxic doormat

    You’re so toxic - blatantly not following the rules ... such a gangsta you is

    You think I’m gangsta now, you should see me fall backwards in my chair trying to get the last of the chip crumbs
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,176 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer

    Team toxic doormat

    You’re so toxic - blatantly not following the rules ... such a gangsta you is

    You think I’m gangsta now, you should see me fall backwards in my chair trying to get the last of the chip crumbs

    What kinda chips ?
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer

    Oilcloth
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Guys, if you drink alcohol does it matter if your woman of interest does not?

    If you do not drink alcohol does it matter if she does?
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Guys, if you drink alcohol does it matter if your woman of interest does not?

    If you do not drink alcohol does it matter if she does?

    doesn’t matter either way long as they ain’t a drunk
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guys, if you drink alcohol does it matter if your woman of interest does not?

    If you do not drink alcohol does it matter if she does?

    I drink but I'm not a big drinker...

    So if she drinks heavily... I'm probably going to see you as a righteous cause... And try to help

    If she doesn't drink at all, I completely understand if she is like recovering... But if it's just a health thing, idk...
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Guys, if you drink alcohol does it matter if your woman of interest does not?

    If you do not drink alcohol does it matter if she does?

    That's a good question.
    I know a woman (my "work bff" 🙄) who dumped a guy cuz he didn't drink.
    She drank quite a bit at the time, and regularly...
    I think its now mostly reserved for the weekends...

    I don't mind someone who doesn't drink, but I think I would feel weird drinking in front of him. 🤷‍♀️ I don't really drink much though.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I notice all of this, as a former server. Rude people/Karens/bad tippers are people I won't date. Oh, and goes without saying, but I saw it more than once as a server: don't order for me, unless we're both having exactly the same thing. Allow me to speak for myself, ffs.

    I like being ordered for 😬

    Like without discussion? Like he just picks and you eat or you’ve discussed, told him what you want and he orders ?

    I think its sexy to see what he does with that kind of freedom. I’ve had a guy order me raw oysters and then he made an absurd amount of eye contact while he told me to swallow them down whole. Hope I’m not setting back feminism a thousand years but i was so there for it

    That being said - to the ladies who don’t like it - if the dude overall seems like a good dude but makes this mistake once. Does he get a mulligan (golf term for do over ) or is it a complete deal breaker if he does it once - cause i kinda want to pull this trick out just for funnsies to see what happens ?? 🤔


    Probably will get a mulligan the first time. (Maybe....) But I am a picky eater, and if he didn't know that in advance, chances are high I won't like what he orders... 🤷‍♀️

    It would bug me if he did that early on in the relationship though. Enough that I would reconsider a second date.
    If he did it later after knowing what I like and don't like, I might consider it more of a thoughtful kind of annoying. 😂 And then give him a hard time about it, but its not a deal breaker or anything.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Ladies: paper or plastic? Paper is the right answer

    Plastic.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Guys:

    What are you really thinking if a girl flirts with you? Do you assume its on if you flirt back or do you consider the possibility that she’s just a flirt?

    If a guy flirts with me, I don’t even bat an eye because i assume I’m one of a thousand girls he flirts with, but on the flip side, I’m really reluctant to flirt with guys just for the fun of it. I’m worried it’ll be misconstrued as more than it is

    doesn't matter. i say go for it either way. gotta swing if you want the home run etc etc. and no harm no foul if she's not interested, or if she's just a natural flirt- just say good day and move on once you realize it

    So rejection doesn’t bother you? I think that’s unusual.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Guys:

    What are you really thinking if a girl flirts with you? Do you assume its on if you flirt back or do you consider the possibility that she’s just a flirt?

    If a guy flirts with me, I don’t even bat an eye because i assume I’m one of a thousand girls he flirts with, but on the flip side, I’m really reluctant to flirt with guys just for the fun of it. I’m worried it’ll be misconstrued as more than it is

    doesn't matter. i say go for it either way. gotta swing if you want the home run etc etc. and no harm no foul if she's not interested, or if she's just a natural flirt- just say good day and move on once you realize it

    So rejection doesn’t bother you? I think that’s unusual.

    no way i’m very insecure can’t you tell?!
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Guys:

    What are you really thinking if a girl flirts with you? Do you assume its on if you flirt back or do you consider the possibility that she’s just a flirt?

    If a guy flirts with me, I don’t even bat an eye because i assume I’m one of a thousand girls he flirts with, but on the flip side, I’m really reluctant to flirt with guys just for the fun of it. I’m worried it’ll be misconstrued as more than it is

    doesn't matter. i say go for it either way. gotta swing if you want the home run etc etc. and no harm no foul if she's not interested, or if she's just a natural flirt- just say good day and move on once you realize it

    So rejection doesn’t bother you? I think that’s unusual.

    no way i’m very insecure can’t you tell?!

    Yes, the compensating was a dead giveaway.
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ladies

    How do you feel about how a man treats wait staff? Do you take notice of how he tips - if he’s rude or acts like a Karen ?

    I attempted to date a guy who was a Karen and ultimately I hated him. I decided that I give people too much of the benefit of doubt.
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    Gals: would you rather watch Friday the 13th The Final Chapter with Joe Bob or would you rather do something else
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Gals: would you rather watch Friday the 13th The Final Chapter with Joe Bob or would you rather do something else

    Did Joe Bob bring pizza?
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Gals: would you rather watch Friday the 13th The Final Chapter with Joe Bob or would you rather do something else

    Darcy 24/7
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Gals: would you rather watch Friday the 13th The Final Chapter with Joe Bob or would you rather do something else

    Darcy 24/7

    No argument, she’s awesome
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    Gals: would you rather watch Friday the 13th The Final Chapter with Joe Bob or would you rather do something else

    what are the choices for *something else* - more specifics
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,176 Member
    Guys, if you drink alcohol does it matter if your woman of interest does not?

    If you do not drink alcohol does it matter if she does?

    I prefer a woman who drinks - as I like to drink and have a good time - as long as shes not a drunk I’m down to clown