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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    I'm usually flattered that I come up in anyone's dreams at all in which murder isn't involved, so.... :sweat_smile:
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    would high five dream me probably
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    Well I mean it depends...
    Was I good? 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    It depends.

    Does this same dream include Teddy Roosevelt, a woman's synchronized swimming team and black bears riding unicycles?
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    It depends.

    Does this same dream include Teddy Roosevelt, a woman's synchronized swimming team and black bears riding unicycles?

    I’d love just five minutes inside your head. What a trip that’d be
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,626 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    It depends.

    Does this same dream include Teddy Roosevelt, a woman's synchronized swimming team and black bears riding unicycles?

    I feel like you're leaving a detail out😏
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    I'm quite certain no one has ever had such a dream (about me)
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
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    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    I'm quite certain no one has ever had such a dream (about me)

    But if they did!

    Would it make you uncomfortable?
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    edited December 2020
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    CacoEther wrote: »
    Guys/girls: if someone has a sex dream about you and tells you, how does it make you feel? Remember this could be (and likely is) someone you’re not remotely attracted to

    I'm quite certain no one has ever had such a dream (about me)

    But if they did!

    Would it make you uncomfortable?

    I don't think so. I'm a pretty vivid dreamer and I know how random they can be.

    If it's someone I don't want to talk to in the first place, I don't think their dream content would have any impact either way. If it was someone i was friendly with, I don't think it would make things awkward.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    I ask this question because I have a lot of incredibly vivid dreams that I don’t put any stock in, so i have, in sundry times, been known to tell people when they’ve made an appearance. I always saw it as more of a conversation piece, but now I see i’m just a filterless goat out here bothering people and making them uncomfy 😆

    I think if a female told me I wouldn't be bothered at all. I will even probably ask for details 🤷‍♀️🤣
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,626 Member
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    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...

    hesitantly curious with the knowledge it's probably gonna be something negative or angry on their part.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...

    Depends on the ex, but honestly? Most of it is trouble and I'd avoid.
  • Yoshiboobs
    Yoshiboobs Posts: 1,090 Member
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...

    1?
    Depends I guess. I have two guys from around 8+ years ago who pop up in my inboxes or friend requests every now and then. One was my big time relationship and we usually just have some catch up conversation and that’s that until the next check up. The first few months after the breakup though I had to ignore him because the wound was too fresh.
    The other was my rebound that I lost my mind over and we just keep adding and deleting each other.....
    I think most of my exs contact me at some point but the first one I mentioned was the only one who wanted to meet up and I did. We were good friends for a few years even.
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...

    5. I'm sorry, do I know you?
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...

    Oh, how I love, @GymGoddessGoals answer 😭🤣. Yet, in reality, I'm the type of person who can get along eith their ex.

    Not sure I can go all out and say we're friends but I'm able to friendly with all of them. We shared time together and I can honour that, cheer on their successes and be of some support during hard times.

    At the same time, there's no going back into a emotionally deep or physical relationship so boundaries are made clear from the time of the break up (and reinforced/reiterated, if needed).
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...

    Assuming it's not my ex that I have kids with...

    #2. Exes are exes for a reason - keep the ex in exit.
  • will_it_go_round_in_circles
    will_it_go_round_in_circles Posts: 985 Member
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    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys/girls:

    Whats your reaction to ex reaching out to you months to year or longer after break up?

    1. Curious and wanna catch up
    2. Don't ever contact me again
    3. Curious and may wanna grab drinks or more
    4. Restraining order
    5. Name your own ...

    5. I'm sorry, do I know you?

    I need to learn this method 😂

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