Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • woollenmonarch
    woollenmonarch Posts: 152 Member
    edited January 2021
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    Ladies -

    Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?

    How would you feel if you only found out through him?
    May I have your phone number so we can talk about this

    You can have her number
    Is she pretty

    Not my type
    What is your type

    Unavailable men!
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    I can wear suits again
  • 5ofseven
    5ofseven Posts: 791 Member
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    Ladies -

    Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?

    How would you feel if you only found out through him?
    May I have your phone number so we can talk about this

    You can have her number
    Is she pretty

    Not my type
    What is your type

    Unavailable men!
    Sliding into your inbox

    I can wear suits again

    Opportunistic suit wearing is predatorial.
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,365 Member
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    Ladies -

    Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?

    How would you feel if you only found out through him?

    Strange (why wouldn't she just ask me for his number if she wanted to communicate with him?) but okay. Maybe she wants to plan a surprise party for you with his help?

    I think I'd be more freaked out about the potential surprise party than anything else.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    ythannah wrote: »
    Ladies -

    Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?

    How would you feel if you only found out through him?

    Strange (why wouldn't she just ask me for his number if she wanted to communicate with him?) but okay. Maybe she wants to plan a surprise party for you with his help?

    I think I'd be more freaked out about the potential surprise party than anything else.

    You read my mind. I was thinking of a secret birthday party when I wrote my response. :joy:

    I'm gonna hope for happy surprise instead of ulterior motive that isn't so kind. Although.. I guess it depends on whether you like surprise parties or not.
  • KickassAmazon76
    KickassAmazon76 Posts: 4,560 Member
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    ythannah wrote: »
    Ladies -

    Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?

    How would you feel if you only found out through him?

    Strange (why wouldn't she just ask me for his number if she wanted to communicate with him?) but okay. Maybe she wants to plan a surprise party for you with his help?

    I think I'd be more freaked out about the potential surprise party than anything else.

    You read my mind. I was thinking of a secret birthday party when I wrote my response. :joy:

    I'm gonna hope for happy surprise instead of ulterior motive that isn't so kind. Although.. I guess it depends on whether you like surprise parties or not.

    Honestly, if he told me she asked him, I think I'd be impressed and thinking more along the lines of something good, as opposed to thinking something nefarious.

    I hope it's a good surprise!
  • acrylicfox
    acrylicfox Posts: 295 Member
    edited January 2021
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    Ladies -

    Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?

    How would you feel if you only found out through him?

    Honestly, I'm probably guilty of the same offense multiple times over, it's never occurred to me before now that there was an issue with it - the idea that my friend's partner would see me in that kind of light is not something I've ever considered
    ...But I am utterly clueless when it comes to this stuff. My sincere regrets to all my friends. :joy:
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    Ladies -

    Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?

    How would you feel if you only found out through him?

    Courtesy would have warranted "your friend" letting you know that she needed to ask your bf for his number. Then again, common courtesy had disappeared a long time ago when I was in high school and bffs swapped boyfriends openly.

    Kudos to the boyfriend for disclosing.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Finishing work. Commuting home. Then unpacking/laundry from our 5 day work holiday last week.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Finishing work. Commuting home. Then unpacking/laundry from our 5 day work holiday last week.
    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Drinking wine, eating cheese, heading to bed ...work tomorrow

    OMG I feel so nosey now 😂...
  • 5ofseven
    5ofseven Posts: 791 Member
    edited January 2021
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    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
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    Why isn't the picture moving? Any hand snack in bed must be a gif, this is known.

    Edit: +1 for the lays entendre
  • twitchandshout
    twitchandshout Posts: 1,591 Member
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    5ofseven wrote: »
    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
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    Why isn't the picture moving? Any hand snack in bed must be a gif, this is known.

    I can’t do anything right 😞
  • 5ofseven
    5ofseven Posts: 791 Member
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    5ofseven wrote: »
    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
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    Why isn't the picture moving? Any hand snack in bed must be a gif, this is known.

    I can’t do anything right 😞

    I bet that's not true, I bet there's lots of stuff you could do right in bed


    with a bag of chips



    while emotionally vulnerable
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
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    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️
    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
    s183xb3tgizy.jpeg

    What beautiful eyeballs! They shouldn't be crying. So who are we rolling up on? 👊🏿
  • twitchandshout
    twitchandshout Posts: 1,591 Member
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    MaltedTea wrote: »
    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️
    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
    s183xb3tgizy.jpeg

    What beautiful eyeballs! They shouldn't be crying. So who are we rolling up on? 👊🏿

    Ugh. Sorry for the public pity party. I’m better now ❤️
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited January 2021
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    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️
    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
    s183xb3tgizy.jpeg

    💁🏽‍♂️🎤🎶 Wait on me girl, and crryyy in the night if it helps 💕...

    Oh and 🔥🔥🔥
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
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    MaltedTea wrote: »
    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️
    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
    s183xb3tgizy.jpeg

    What beautiful eyeballs! They shouldn't be crying. So who are we rolling up on? 👊🏿

    Ugh. Sorry for the public pity party. I’m better now ❤️

    Pity parties are needed sometimes. But really? Not with Ben and Jerry's peanut butter cup ice cream?
  • twitchandshout
    twitchandshout Posts: 1,591 Member
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    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽‍♂️
    Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
    s183xb3tgizy.jpeg

    What beautiful eyeballs! They shouldn't be crying. So who are we rolling up on? 👊🏿

    Ugh. Sorry for the public pity party. I’m better now ❤️

    Pity parties are needed sometimes. But really? Not with Ben and Jerry's peanut butter cup ice cream?

    Oh Reenie, you’re right! I will plan better next time 🤗
  • elmusho1989
    elmusho1989 Posts: 321 Member
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    Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?

    This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.

    What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.

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    YES!