Girls do you like a nice guy? You just friendzoned him

BillyMays0

It's true right?

BillyMays0

Very true indeed

43932452

Explain this meaning?

choijanro

let me comment on ur thread sir with respect even im not a girl but im a nice guy,straight,etc,, well for me,, it depends,, because some girls like jerk guys and some like nice guys,,, like me ,, im not bragging,, mostly all of the girls here in my place has a crush on me,, they did not friendzoned me,, they confess and commit there feelings to me,, but i didn't mean to hurt them but i have a crush on a girl too that pass my standards and my dream girl,, and now he is my girlfriend now,, but even we are in relationship they are still a lot of girls who dont understand and respect me and my girl,, like flirting me even i am taken,, or make fun of my girl that is really make me mad,, well thats all

alisonlynn1976

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

ltgarrow

I'm not sure where I fall on this issue. What I do know is that even though this is a chat forum and no one really cares, you should still use proper grammer. I mean seriously, if you're going to claim to have all of the girls on MFP confess their love to you, don't do it in one giant run on sentence.

Maybe I'm just not that sensitive. Sorry.

BillyMays0

@alsionlynn197 Sorry Im taken

43932452

Oic 'Friendzoned'. sorry. I was being invaded by
food adds, my brain shut down and belly grumbled ..




Okay .. my answer in short, if a female feels energy
between herself and a guy, she reserves him for +more ...
all that she has no spark for, she 'friend zones'. Simply
put, sorry. It's a primal thing I'm sure.

BillyMays0

I'm trying to fit every word on a line

lindustum

I don't even understand where this "chicks love jerks" myth comes from. Is it that American stereotype of college girls falling for the quarterback or something?

Faery_Dust

I don't even understand where this "chicks love jerks" myth comes from. Is it that American stereotype of college girls falling for the quarterback or something?

Yeah this. My husband is the nicest guy I know.

choijanro

I'm not sure where I fall on this issue. What I do know is that even though this is a chat forum and no one really cares, you should still use proper grammer. I mean seriously, if you're going to claim to have all of the girls on MFP confess their love to you, don't do it in one giant run on sentence.

Maybe I'm just not that sensitive. Sorry.

well u didnt read what i say on my other thread or biography in my profile? ,,, im Asian and im still learning english and trying my best to speak english,, well atleast i know how to speak english even sometimes my grammar is wrong and see? also u are typo or not using the correct spelling of english like u said grammer,, haha thats the karma or badluck of being rude or mean to me or being a negative to me,, well anyway because to be honest mostly Asians are not good in English,, to be honest and not trying to offend to my fellow Asians,,
well sorry too if u are offend,hate me,envy me,etc whatever, and i am sensitive or emotional and to believe me,, search the zodiac sign Aquarius and u will know about me and understand me thats why i am this,, this is me,, no one can change that and im happy and proud about it hehe ,,

snazzyjazzy21

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

MrsFowler1069

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choijanro

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

wow,, thats escalated quickly,, but u say poor social skills and owe him sex or its not about sex? well i agree to disagree,, i agree on its not about sex,, and i disagree at owe him sex and poor social skills,, thats not true,, it still depends on the person or attitude etc,,, and about pretending or being? ,, well im a nice guy and for me,, once a nice guy will always be a nice guy and decent human being,,and thats true,, not pretending,, but its up to u,, if u believe me or not,, what am I to u that i will force or convince u to believe me,, because like what i said on my other thread we are the same humans, and i hope all of us are to the positive side and path,,

snazzyjazzy21

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

wow,, thats escalated quickly,, but u say poor social skills and owe him sex or its not about sex? well i agree to disagree,, i agree on its not about sex,, and i disagree at owe him sex and poor social skills,, thats not true,, it still depends on the person or attitude etc,,, and about pretending or being? ,, well im a nice guy and for me,, once a nice guy will always be a nice guy and decent human being,,and thats true,, not pretending,, but its up to u,, if u believe me or not,, what am I to u that i will force or convince u to believe me,, because like what i said on my other thread we are the same humans, and i hope all of us are to the positive side and path,,

You totally missed the point. A 'nice guy' is a guy who is decent, up until the point where a girl refuses/turns down a relationship offer. He then whines about being 'friendzoned' because apparently being a decent human being equates to being rewarded with sex in the mind of a stupidly high number of males. Normal nice guys exist too, except they're rare and elusive.

BeccaBollons

IMO men who have to point out that they are nice guys usually don't seem that nice. A truly nice guy will not have to blow his own trumpet, he just let's his personality show without thinking about it. Then girls will fall in love with him and want to bring out his wicked side (in a good way LOL)
Most women are not attracted to peacock type men. Look at me, look at me! Ah you looked (tail comes up) I just got even better!
Only attractive in actual peacocks.

Gabrielm80

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

Not true I have seen many a guy get friendzoned, because he was too nice. I had a female friend that while in college got tired of dating jerks showed her a picture of a male friend I told her was a nice guy. She thought he was cute set them up on a date and they dated for a few weeks before she dumped him while keeping him as a friend, she told him because she sees him as a brother, but it was because she met some other guy. She told me privately her main turn off was that he was too nice, and this other guy just took what he wanted. Long story short the alpha guy she ended up he knocked her up, than told her it probably wasnt his and than disappeared. My guy friend met someone else during this time and makes most us men look bad he is such a nice and devoted husband. The friend zone isn't a myth, but the nice guy usually wins in the end. That said jerks with low self esteem do tend to delude themselves all their relationship woahs are related to this when it is just that they put people off.

choijanro

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

wow,, thats escalated quickly,, but u say poor social skills and owe him sex or its not about sex? well i agree to disagree,, i agree on its not about sex,, and i disagree at owe him sex and poor social skills,, thats not true,, it still depends on the person or attitude etc,,, and about pretending or being? ,, well im a nice guy and for me,, once a nice guy will always be a nice guy and decent human being,,and thats true,, not pretending,, but its up to u,, if u believe me or not,, what am I to u that i will force or convince u to believe me,, because like what i said on my other thread we are the same humans, and i hope all of us are to the positive side and path,,

You totally missed the point. A 'nice guy' is a guy who is decent, up until the point where a girl refuses/turns down a relationship offer. He then whines about being 'friendzoned' because apparently being a decent human being equates to being rewarded with sex in the mind of a stupidly high number of males. Normal nice guys exist too, except they're rare and elusive.

owww sorrry,,, my bad,,geez,, sigh,, i still need to learn more about how to understand and speak english haha, and anyway thats why most nice guys get ended up in friendzoned?

amy1612

Again,

I think Jenna Marbles said it best......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI

SamanthaClarexo

Again,

I think Jenna Marbles said it best......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI

This.

Gabrielm80

I hardly had this problem because I married my high school sweetheart, but I know the reason it happens is the why can't guys I date be more like you comment. It twists guys up. It sucks they aren't attracted by their love interest and than get compared to every ex boyfriend after every break up. Now to be fair girls get friend zoned just as much. Most guys have had atleast one female friend that you just wouldn't date for multiple reasons. You loved her tons but could not see yourself spending 24/7 with. Even uncool fools like me have friendzoned a female friend or two. Heck most men whining about being friend zoned have done it as well. It is just a fact of life. Some people you love, and some people reinvent what you thought love could be. Sadly sometimes you can not guarantee which the other person feels and they don't always match up

Gabrielm80

I would also like to bring up a point most guys who I watched who are friendzoned don't whine about it. What does happen when they profess their love, which ends badly the female or male that isn't interested gets weirded out and pushes away from the friendship. My cousin did that to her friendzoned guy friend which is funny because her sister married his cousin so they grew apart yet remained in contact. After each failed at their first marriage they both reconnected. And married which kinda surprised us. The friendzoned guy who she would never date is now her husband. Of course friendzone happens to say it doesn't makes no sense. That video I watched above was snobbish. It made it seem every guy who felt the heartache of friendzoned was a geek pining over a cheerleader. The more common issue is that not everybody is going to be attracted to everybody. And for some people they alway seem to fall for the ones that don't.

BonnieandClyde29

My husband was a "nice & cute" guy, I almost friend zoned him, until I decided to give him a chance and ta da!! Married lol

luceegj

Depends! As long as he is a nice girl with some balls! Then I wont friend zone! I have a ffriend who is always trying to see if can be anything more at the same time he will tell me how he cried over his dog dying and a gil leaving him!

sjanejack

I get what the friendzone thing is. But when you're a girl and your only real friend IS a guy, and that guy likes you, and you don't want to ruin the friendship or for it to get awkward. Then you do what you have to. I'm not saying its fun letting people down, but you can't just let them think they have a better chance than they do. Especially when you don't want more than a friend.

neandermagnon

Okay .. my answer in short, if a female feels energy
between herself and a guy, she reserves him for +more ...
all that she has no spark for, she 'friend zones'. Simply
put, sorry. It's a primal thing I'm sure.

^^^ this, and it's nothing primal.... more like blatantly obvious.

most women know quite a few men, not just one. those men will fall into three categories: acquaintences, friends, potential love interests (should the chance arise). Most men she knows will fall into the second category, because they are nice, likeable human beings, who she isn't sexually attracted to. Even many that are in the potential love interests category will be just friends, maybe because they're already taken, or not interested in her. Sometimes, there's mutual attraction with someone in the "potential love interests" category, and they're both single, so it develops into a relationship. All the rest of the guys end up being "just friends". Other times, she's not interested in a relationship with anyone, so all the guys are "just friends". Really, she's not going to bang every guy she's friends with just because he's a guy and relatively nice.

Just a friend = "you're a nice person but I'm not sexually attracted to you" in most cases. It's not that she only likes jerks or that she's turned off by men being nice. That's just something guys tell themselves when a woman isn't sexually attracted to them. Most women prefer to be in a relationship with someone that is a) nice AND b) they find them sexually attractive.

BonnieandClyde29

Depends! As long as he is a nice girl with some balls! Then I wont friend zone! I have a ffriend who is always trying to see if can be anything more at the same time he will tell me how he cried over his dog dying and a gil leaving him!

My husband and I would both cry if our 4 legged child died -_-

VeganLexi

I'm not sure where I fall on this issue. What I do know is that even though this is a chat forum and no one really cares, you should still use proper grammer. I mean seriously, if you're going to claim to have all of the girls on MFP confess their love to you, don't do it in one giant run on sentence.

Maybe I'm just not that sensitive. Sorry.

You should learn how to spell before giving advice to others.

rebeccalee1986

Nice guys are generally boring just my opinion.

PaleoChocolateBear

Nice guys are generally boring just my opinion.

But but I have an excellent stamp collection