Girls do you like a nice guy? You just friendzoned him
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Nice guys are generally boring just my opinion.
But but I have an excellent stamp collection
Haha not that kind of boring, too nice is a yawn fest, too mean is obviously not where it's at either. You can't be dating someone who can't even stand up for themselves. Too nice is a walk over... Seen it too many times.0 -
You have to not be too nice and too friend like. You want them to be sexually attracted to you and not see you as an adorable puppy. There has to be some type of animal attraction there. You cant be thought of as like a brother. They already have friends and are looking for a balance and not just another friend. Also trying too hard, too agreeable, and being too easy is a turn off to many women.
Be confident, assertive, funny, fun, a little dangerous, not always playing it safe, not boring, outgoing, not a pushover, spontaneous, and don't ever be scared to go for it. The end of the day, the guy who goes after what he wants gets the woman. If you are getting the "awwwwe, you are the sweetest, adorable, and cutest nicest guy ever", be careful because you are about to get friend zoned.
By the way, not saying you are any of these things or generalizing men or women.0 -
Nice guys are generally boring just my opinion.
But but I have an excellent stamp collection
Haha not that kind of boring, too nice is a yawn fest, too mean is obviously not where it's at either. You can't be dating someone who can't even stand up for themselves. Too nice is a walk over... Seen it too many times.
Yeah doormats get boring after a while0 -
Nice guys are generally boring just my opinion.
But but I have an excellent stamp collection
Haha not that kind of boring, too nice is a yawn fest, too mean is obviously not where it's at either. You can't be dating someone who can't even stand up for themselves. Too nice is a walk over... Seen it too many times.
Yeah doormats get boring after a while
Haha see, you just got to be not too nice but not nasty.0 -
OP deactivated. Thank goodness0
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Friendzone isn't a bad place to be...you don't have to pay for *kitten* that way..0
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Nice guys are generally boring just my opinion.
I have a pretty epic retro video game collection, other then that I'm pretty boring though...0 -
"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.
DING DING DING, we have a winner!0 -
not me, i like the bad *kitten* ones0
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have a crush on a girl too that pass my standards and my dream girl,, and now he is my girlfriend now,, but even we are in
Quite sure you mean she (not he) is my girlfriend now.
However, in your broken English - I quite understand and commend you for speaking out. This proves that even guys have the same troubles as females when they are somewhat attractive. They get unwanted advances too (the morally good guys) and try to be nice but where does nice stop and you just tell someone leave me alone.
Thanks for posting.0 -
Why do people keep replying to this guy's posts? He's a deactivated troll.0
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Not true - that is the definition of a fake guy."Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.0 -
I'm a nice girl dating a nice guy. I'm over the bad boys, though they are nice to look at...0
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Calories in VS calories out!!!0
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Oh yeah. You're DEFINITELY a nice guy if the only reason you're being nice to a woman is to eventually have sex with her. Actually, you sound nothing more than a shy, pathetic coward.0
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In the end some of us wise up and end up with the nice guy we had friend zoned. True story, 25 years and counting. :bigsmile:0
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This exactly!"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.
As a "recovering nice guy", I was exactly this type of manipulative, self-serving loser...all while saying things like "nice guys finish last" and using terms like "friendzone". Once I shed my expectations on what I felt I was entitled to in my interactions with women, I got way more confident and way more successful. I view "nice guy" as an insult these days...and I'm never going back there.0 -
I don't even understand where this "chicks love jerks" myth comes from. Is it that American stereotype of college girls falling for the quarterback or something?
i think it just comes from guys like me an the OP whining lol0 -
The friendzone does not exist. You do not put "nice" into a girl until sex falls out.0
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This exactly!"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.
As a "recovering nice guy", I was exactly this type of manipulative, self-serving loser...all while saying things like "nice guys finish last" and using terms like "friendzone". Once I shed my expectations on what I felt I was entitled to in my interactions with women, I got way more confident and way more successful. I view "nice guy" as an insult these days...and I'm never going back there.
i have to admit that the first post there did cause me to self examine a bit lol. i think she was saying 'entitled' in general tho, not just feeling entitled with women0 -
Every man is in my friend zone, except my best friend of all, the man I married. :smokin: :drinker:
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I don't even understand where this "chicks love jerks" myth comes from. Is it that American stereotype of college girls falling for the quarterback or something?
Yeah this. My husband is the nicest guy I know.
Right?? I think just like to make *kitten* up0 -
In response to SailorKnightW's
"Why do people keep replying to this guy's posts? He's a deactivated troll."
That is not nice at all. We don't know him nor his story. He might have been really hurt by someone, who knows. He may have a broken heart. I do hope whatever his situation is that he learns from some of the advice given on here. He could have had a better delivery than how he posted it though.0 -
IMO men who have to point out that they are nice guys usually don't seem that nice. A truly nice guy will not have to blow his own trumpet, he just let's his personality show without thinking about it. Then girls will fall in love with him and want to bring out his wicked side (in a good way LOL)
Most women are not attracted to peacock type men. Look at me, look at me! Ah you looked (tail comes up) I just got even better!
Only attractive in actual peacocks.
I Agree! So True! And usually the "nice Guys" Feel like because they are "nice" that Females HAVE to like them! not the case! Usually there are self Esteem issues and the "All I want is a girlfriend" factor shows VERY clearly! The "nice Guy" factor has to be chased with a dose of confidence! JS....0 -
So you got push to the curb and became a jerk/ take what you want and leave them crying at the chapel?
This exactly!"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.
As a "recovering nice guy", I was exactly this type of manipulative, self-serving loser...all while saying things like "nice guys finish last" and using terms like "friendzone". Once I shed my expectations on what I felt I was entitled to in my interactions with women, I got way more confident and way more successful. I view "nice guy" as an insult these days...and I'm never going back there.0 -
Usually there are self Esteem issues and the "All I want is a girlfriend" factor shows VERY clearly!
i think i have that problem lol. what are your really saying tho?0 -
It's not the op that inspires the replies - it is the responders and their interesting view points. And yours is?Why do people keep replying to this guy's posts? He's a deactivated troll.0 -
My husband is a "nice guy" and I never friendzoned him. We were introduced by mutual friends who just thought I needed to go out and have some fun. I had just gotten out of a 9 year abusive marriage and "nice", "patient", and "kind" were just what I was looking for. I fell for him immediately.0
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Your threads have a common theme... Come, sit on my couch and tell me about the woman who crushed you.0
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"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.
*wild applause*0
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